I had just written an FR when my laptop logged out randomly!!!!! lost erthing!

Last night I felt slightly more confident, I felt a bit more successful compared to other nights. There were a few bad sets but I feel, generally, things went okay as I concentrated to look more relaxed and maybe felt more relaxed as a result.

Had 5 number closes but should have been 6. I, for some reason, went back on my phone without saving the last girls number in a 3 set. Its all good.

Something I tried on the streets was to keep my legs further apart, hold out my hands and command them to stop. This actually worked. Obviously if it were just one girl she would feel intimidated but for larger groups this works. I think the larger the group the more powerful your implication for them to stop should be. Commanding using STOP for ME works because I dont have a commanding presence in the first place, for others it might scare people off.

Something else I noticed is that most of these girls are VERY alike. They respond the same to things I do (with slight variations) which obviously makes it easier. Something else I've noticed is, especially, inside bars, sets want you to stay for longer before giving their number away. They ALWAYS ask “why?”. It seems too soon for them to just give their numbers away. Jackal gave me a good reason/ comeback to this which seems to just turn things around and makes them magically comply

I had a really unsuccessful two set in spoons and I left the place thinking “if only this HB8 would have chosen her friends more wisely”, but now looking back on it, it was really the way I came across and the things I did wrong. I walked in and introduced myself the the attractive one first and then did the “milking the intro” thing by 60, where you hold onto her hand until SHE pulls away first. I ended up pulling away first but it did last ages. I then asked her friend if I could sit down and she snapped at me and said soemthign like “NO WERE EATING SOON! Should I just tell you she has a boyfriend so we can stop this interaction now?!”. So I stayed for a bit longer sensing that the 8 was more firendly. I ended up leaving.

If you read that properly youd notice I didnt even introduce myself to her friend. This was probably my mistake. I really dont know how I ended up breaking this simple rule of basic fucking social etiquette. But I did. Well done me!

Other than that things went okay. At one point on the street a set ended up running off with my phone when I gave it to them for my number. I ended up chasing after them lol then number closed one of them.

Wow Volcano, really nice 6 number closes in one night is (i think) a new record for the crew. I told you you would get great at this didn´t I! I noticed on Friday you whole energy had changed, your voice was deeper (i know it was probly from a cold but keep it like that!), you were louder too and your body language looked much more confident. What is more you had a certain element of excitement about you which I´m sure helped when you approached sets.

You have changed alot since your first night. The real you is starting to show more and more. It is a pleasure to be out training with you!

28/05/11

Well, tonight was my first night with Jackal, I've been trying to find time to meet him and tonight was the night. I had my phone interview with Jackals top man, Diamond, and I was happy and relieved that i got through because I was scared, i couldn't make it the first time i was invited but I made it tonight. Well, now follows the field report:

I was running a bit late tonight, so I had to push my meeting with Jackal to just over 9pm, i had spoken to Diamonds on the phone before leaving home and he told me to meet him and Jackal at the Slug and Lettuce. I rushed there as fast as i could. Once i got there i tried to scope out Jackal and Diamonds, i had seen their YouTube videos so i hoped to recognize them, i found Jackal as i saw him walking with a drink in his hand, to a table where Diamond was sitting and there behold, he was already engaged with a set of 3 HB910s, i wanted to see where things were going with them, so i stood outside for a bit i tried to call diamonds but he didn't pick up, so i called Jackal, told him i was outside.

He met up with me and we began my induction, he told me tell a bit about myself, of which i did, immediately he started to coach me, that i should project my voice. he then made me engage a two set sitting on the table behind me, and just introduce myself, what i do, which was "Hi, my name is Kunal, I'm an accountant and i own my own little business". It was running good, I spoke with the 2set and then i told them that it was nice to meet them and I hope they have a nice night.

He then took me into the Slug and Lettuce, S+L for short, and went to meet Diamonds and introduce myself to the 3set that Diamonds was engaged with, it was to DHV Diamonds and to in feel DHV me in return slightly. Jackal then called me back outside, where he took me towards Broad street, during the walk there, he told me to now add and opinion opener, which was the Who lies more, men or women? he explained to me how the opener is and how it works, and straight while we were on broad street, he made me approach a 3 set walking in front of us and walked off, i felt lost for the first millisecond, but i took a quick breath and dove into the 3 set, i didn't get a number close and I was hesitating a bit, as I've never spoken to strangers on the street before, never the less women, i felt a bit lost afterwards, and told the ladies that it was nice talking with them and i hope you have a nice night. On the way back to the S+L he made me approach another set, and again i didn't have much success, as they were walking and i couldn't make them stop. Jackal then noticed the i touch me head or fidget with my hands while I'm talking with people, he said that i shouldn't do it as it makes me look nervous and off putting, i took that coaching into account, and kept it in mind not to do that. We went back inside when I bought Jackal and I a drink and Jackal told me to engage myself back into the 3 set that Diamond was with, I tried to let loose, project my voice, not slouch, and try to be confident in what I spoke, and DHV Diamond at the same time, in return Diamond would DHV me back to improve my credibility with the girls. Jackal would pulled me out on the 3set to approach and try to engage random sets out side of S+L, I approached I think around 5 different sets of where Jackal had told me to this time ask for their names, what they did, and how they knew each other, and in the end try to number close. I honestly have to say that I failed at number closing as all of the sets I approached, I couldn’t number close on them, in one set I ended up giving my number as she wouldn’t give me hers, but I didn’t want to give up, I know that it is possible and I should listen to Jackal. We went back into the S+L and he told me made me reengage the diamond 3set and to tell Diamond that we have to leave in 20 minutes as the place was getting too loud to speak, When I sat down, I re introduced me self and well shook their hands, I thought it would be a good way to establish a bit of physical contact, handshakes huh, on one of the girls I shook her hand leaned in a d put my other hand on her shoulder, well I was trying to do some of the Kino I read about on PUA forum, and the other girl wasn’t paying much attention for a second, and I when into to shake her hand which was on her chest, she had a slight delay reaction, but after we shook hands I joked that I looked like I was going to grab one of her boobs, I thought it would be a good thing to do, the joke thing, not the almost groping, I joked with one of the girls a bit and she said that she liked my hair said that I looked nice, so I asked her if she’d like to touch it and so she played with it a bit.

Jackal then pulled me out of the set so that I can approach random sets in S+L, I tried to do so with a little hesitation as possible, and I felt that I was growing as I didn’t feel that awkward to speak with random strangers. But I still couldn’t get a number close. So I went out with Jackal and he told me to tell Diamonds that we're leaving, but not to look at the 3 set at all, while Jackal and I were waiting outside, diamond came a few minutes later, and one of the three set was with him, he had to tell her that we were leaving, of which she gave a kiss and on the cheeks and one on the lips, damn I wish to be that good, and she gave me and Jackal a kiss on the cheek. While we left, diamonds told me that I could have number closed on the girl who touched my hair as she. Was giving me IOIs while I was there, I didn't know this, I need to Learn to see IOIs, Diamonds took me back to S+L, but once we got there the girl who was giving me IOIs wasn't with her friends so we left.

We left for weatherspoons where Jackal bought me a drink, and we sat outside. We talked a bit about ourselves and how important it is not to only have a team dynamic but a friendship one as well, that without it the team dynamic wouldn't work, and I understood it, and how important it is. There he saw a 3set in the far corner with a g with them as well, he told me not to worry and approach the guy first and then the 3 set with him, it worked really well, I introduced me self and they introduced themselves as well, I asked them if they knew where the good places are to go to on broad street, but they were new to Birmingham as well, but I still tried to push the conversation on, by asking where they were from, and the conversation went on from there, Diamonds came in to DHV me which was great and helped, once the guy had moved out of his seat and when inside, asked if I could sit in his place and they said it was fine. I and diamond chatted with the 3 set and to me it was great as it was the longest conversation I had at that point with strangers, once the guy came back we chatted a bit, and it was great. We then said our good byes and that it was nice to meet them.

Jackal took me inside with Diamond, I felt that I could have number closed on the group as a friend thing, but I was too chicken before I realized it. Once inside Jackal made me approach a 3 set who were wearing sexy outfits, I had a feeling this was going to be a challenge but I didn’t care I went in and introduced myself and did the opinion opener, the conversation was good, as I got them to introduce themselves and tell me why they were wear such nice outfits, celebrating a birthday, but the longer I talked with them the more I hesitated I to number close, at one point one of the guys who were next to the girls celebrated from what I could see the was a stag night for one of their friend just interrupted me and I just didn't know how to get back in to conversation, so I walked away with shame, but Jaclyn the man he is told me to go back and get back in there and come out with a number close, I tried to, it looked ok, but when I tried to go for the number close, I was denied, but I didn't care, I mean I was upset, but the 3 set gave me a near perfect score for trying, and then it didn't bother me that I failed because I knew that I can still try again. I still had energy in me,

We had to call it a night as Diamonds had to leave and Jackal needed to as well, on our way to Brinley car park, Jackal spots a 2 set walking tells me to engage, i tried to too but didn’t have much success, my fatal flat is making them stop and take attention to me as i have to keep on walking with them, which is a no no, i will work on this Jackal and just as well decided to split our ways, Jackal spots a HB and tell me to engage her, I tried to, I ran up to overtake her, but again I fell in to the same problem, and then a guy she knew pulled her away well he called her and she went up to him after this Diamonds parted ways with us.

Jackal and I went back towards the S+L, there he spots two HB910 and tells me to engage them, So I went in for the attack, I did the same introducing myself and then the opinion opener, just as I coming to the end of the opener Jackal joins in the conversation, this to me was the highlight of the night, I finally get to see what Jackal can, do to me it was like the Starship Enterprise hitting warp speed, I stood there closely watching Jackal trying to deduce what he was doing, and he did everything, he Negged them, he did Kino, he flirted with them, the girls were so much comfortable with him, he did it so well like as though it was breathing, the sight of him PUAing in still in my mind like a video clip, I finally understood what it was, he made number close them, but they said that they had boyfriends with very vague description, we then hugged the girls and let them be on their way. On our way to the parking lot Jackal told to engage in a set of 5 to 6 girls, I tried to but all I could go was hug one of the girls as it was her birthday, and our final encounter was when I was paying for my parking ticket and a girl needed change, I don’t know why but I froze and was being stupid that orient try to properly engage with the girl, But made me engage with her, and try to get her phone number, i didn't succeed but I'll use what I've learn this night to push myself harder. And that was it, I gave Jackal a lift back home, and now I'm here, telling you my 3 hr. night with Jackal.

I know that i didn't succeed in getting number close, and that I could have done better, but as Jackal said that if you want to get fit you go to the gym, if you want to get results, you have to put in the effort. I can vouch for Jackal that this man knows how to push you out our your comfort zone and where you need to be, he has great leadership skills and shows it on the field, you won't regret give the phone test a go, and if you pass, it will be rewarding.

Jackal I promise you that the next time we meet I will get a number close.

It was great to meet you Diamonds and I hope meet both you and Jackal again

I know that this FR may be confusing, I'm not that good at writing essay, it never was my strong point, but didn't want to miss out any details that i could remember.

Hey Man, thanks for coming out

I t was really great to meet you at last. Also I think you need to give yourself a huge pat on the shoulder, when you were in set with me and the 3 girls i was talking to you did a great job of making them feel comfortable. And well that girl who wanted to feel your hair, she was into you big time... I know; she told me. That´s why we went back in looking for her!

I noticed as you approached, you seemed to naturally make people feel at ease. After Jackal is finished getting your attractiveness up, you will be great I am sure.

Field Report Friday 27th May 2011:

Ok sorry for errors, it’s literally 4:30am now as I write this, I guess ill check it tomorrow, but I can’t promise…

Who we are now is not what we are currently, who we are in the present is the outcome of what we were in the past. Each action we take determines our path and how we develop along that path. We are residual products of our past actions and decisions; all we as people need do is set our balls rolling and guide them along the path we choose for them, but therein lies the aetiology of most peoples´ problems; most do not realise a ball they can control exists, others do not realise their ball needs to be guided, and there are others still who once setting a ball in motion, are unable to control the great momentum they set loose. There are only a few who can guide their balls with precision and grace. I aim to be one of this few but I am not there yet.

I have completed the first stage, I have acknowledged my path needs to be changed and I have executed the change in necessary to achieve my aims and objectives, indeed my ball has changed direction and is speeding towards success, but as I pick-up pace guidance becomes harder. I have made a crucial u-turn but the inertia of my old direction of travel still affects me. Like a plane that banks too hard I’m still in the process of flying in my original direction. My whole life I’ve been unconsciously fortifying my course in one direction and exponentially accelerating down a false path, therefore it seems only inevitable that I must bear through a period of inertial stabilisation. Possibly this is why I am still facing difficulty from week to week. I need to keep the engines in full throttle and soon I will completely blast into my new course and accelerate to into the skies.

I will know when my bearing is completely changed because writing these field reports will feel more like a historical account of nights spent chasing women instead of a narration of a short story or comic play. To be sure, as I write this I still sense that I am now detached somewhat from the man in the field of whom I write. I think to myself “Wow, did I say that?” or “OMG, I can´t believe that I actually do this…” Sometimes I find it hard to sleep at night, my body and mind is charged with excitement and emotion over issues and achievements my logical mind cannot begin to imagine, comprehend, or even make sense of. I am learning so much so fast that a million ideas fly and spark inside my head, each one like a burning firefly desperately competing to be seen apart from the others. I can only assume (or hope) that things will return to normal once my course is stabilised and steady and that I will no longer lie awake with a million questions and ideas.

Anyway tonight I didn’t spend too much time with Jackal. After only 45 minutes my phone began to ring. I answered. It was Laura.

“Where are you?” She asked.

“Erm in the centre why?”

“Are you coming?” Oh shit! I had a date! I´ve had so many lately that I completely forgot about the one with her. This is the second time I fucked up. First time I arranged a date with the wrong girl, only to be disappointed when I turned up. Now this!

“Yea, I´m on my way, held up in traffic.” I lied. Shit I need to make like a bird and get the flock out of here!

With haste I gave my apologies to Jackal who said that I should bring her to The Slug and Lettuce so that Jackal and Volcano could DHV me for a few minutes. That said, I rushed back to my car to go and pick her up and bring her to the centre.

After our fifteen minute journey from her house to the centre we made our way to the Slug and Lettuce and had a few drinks. I noticed a distinct change in our relationship dynamic. We were holding hands and looking and acting a lot like girlfriend and boyfriend. I was teasing her and whispering things to her. My mode had changed from being confident, cocky and funny, to being a gentleman and sweet. I was whispering to her of how proud I felt to be walking with her and how she looked beautiful. She responded very shyly to this but I knew she liked it; each time I said something nice she would argue that she was not beautiful and that I was lying to her, I wasn’t.

On the previous date I learnt that she is really into music, I explained that music is not a big part of my life and that I don’t really know any bands. She would tease me and say that I’ve been living under a rock, purely because I hadn’t heard of the Foo-Fighters (I thought that was the nomenclature attached to unidentified alien-like aircraft spotted over the skies of Germany during WWII but what do I know?) or The Airborne Toxic Event. Either way my new brain decided to capitalise on this so I had told her to make a list of bands and music for me to listen to, she would, I told her, be my music guru. My plan was that if she did produce a list, this would be her investing in me and strengthen the attraction she had of me, for which I would reward her grandly. She did produce this list and we talked about it and I rewarded her with some compliments and French kissing. She is so sweet. She has a 10+ attitude that I love. Will she become my girlfriend? I think she may. I find her special.

Anyway we waited for Jackal and Volcano for a while at The Slug and Lettuce. We ended up kissing a lot, she complied every time I told her to give me a kiss and as she would eat the slice of lemon that came with her drink she would kiss me asking me “Can you taste the lemon on my tongue?” I could. It was the best lemon I ever tasted. After finishing her first drink she needed the toilet so I was left to speak to the doormen. I asked how they were doing but they seemed more interested on getting advice off me.

“Whenever we see you, you are with a girl or getting a number! What is your secret?”

When they finally came I was greeted by social proof and DHVs. Thanks to you both, I appreciate it! You were both top quality friends!

After a few more minutes I decided we should go to another location. I wanted to build up more comfort by changing locations and making it seem like we have known each other for much longer. We hopped around several bars and pubs before ending up at an O2 Academy night club (I´m not sure what the name was, but it was affiliated with the phone company O2). Laura paid for my entrance. Thank you. See she was so sweet and just invested again.

We didn’t have any more drinks after that, instead we danced all night long. I found it the perfect opportunity to work some close kino on her body and widen my boundaries by touching her in more sensitive areas. I felt so proud, she looked gorgeous. After a while I started teasing her by tickling her and poking my finger into the side of her waist (you know, that point that is sensitive and if pressed gives an automatic recoil response). With this things really escalated because she told me. “I´ll bite you if you do it again.” I carried on, and ended up walking out of the night club as our night came to an end with bite marks all over my neck, chest, stomach, biceps and lower arms. What a night.

On our way back to my car, from where I would drive her home, we held hands tightly as I told stories of my past, and what I planned for the future. I asked her about what her dreams were and things became much more personal. I noticed that with each moment, we became more and more like a couple. Suddenly things were getting very romantic. This presents me with a paradox; do I continue with training or will I formalise things with her soon? I am not sure yet. We shall see.

Anyway the night ended with a hug and kiss close, the next day we messaged each other and I am now about to send her a text message to arrange another date with her. Everything I employed this night Jackal, you helped me with. Thanks for the guidance you have given me my friend! You are changing my life; everything seems so perfect right now! Great friends, great girls and great new skills!

Field Report Saturday 28th May 2011:

I have some maths exams coming up on the 6th and 10th of June, I should be doing at least seven hours of revision per day until these dates but I can only muster enough willpower to do 4 to 6 hours. The reason why is simple; all I seem to be doing is thinking about pickup. Today especially I just couldn’t concentrate due mostly to the success of last night which has left my stomach writhing full of fluttering butterflies but these butterflies are not the old ones I used to feel. These are not the kind with sharp teeth that would eat away at me and fill me full of nervous energy at the thought of approaching. These are the good butterflies that fill me full of excitement and anticipation towards my next interaction. Considering the girls I spoke to last night. I am pleased, very pleased for this new feeling.

I can only describe the status of my mood as similar to economic recessions and booms, world economies generally fluctuate; after periods of long prosperity come periods of depression and after long periods of depression the bounce-back is usually strong. This is how it is for me emotionally and imaginatively. After the past two weeks filled with negative energy my mood has shot back to its old, original high. Last night I approached sets with purpose and intent. Like a stock broker who invests in companies during periods of slump. I reaped the rewards of my past investments; I continued training during my low points, it gave me mettle, now with this added mettle I reaped the rewards of the investment I made in myself and in learning.

At the moment (I don’t know if this is a permanent change) but I feel less pressure. Like I had hoped last week, tonight was only a game and it was so much fun. The reason for this change comes partly from the fact I have three girls who are really into me, I am mainly talking about Laura when I say this…I have hit it off so well with her; for the first time I am starting to go out with someone on dates not for practice but because I genuinely want to see her and escalate things. I find her a beautiful girl with a 10+ attitude to life and fun, I am starting to feel the kind of enrichment that only women can bring into my life. Jackal, I really owe you a lot, the boy I was is dead, in his place stands a man.

So enough, of the rambling, to the night!

To be honest I approached few sets this night but these sets ran perfectly well, what is more I was very selective. Jackal has added a new directive to my modus operandi… “You are getting good now Diamonds, you must now be much more selective, you may only approach the hottest sets…” A compliment to be sure! With this new parameter in place I wanted really to show him what I could achieve.

The first set I approached was at our usual first meeting point of Wetherspoons, after doing a quick warm up lasting literally five minutes Jackal told me to approach two cute girls sitting alone at a table. I took one last sip of my soda-water and ice. After what Jackal had told me, I was ready to move in with confidence and finesse.

“Hey guys!” They looked at me as I approached them and circled around their table. I couldn’t make out if they were receptive to me in a positive way even though I felt alpha, but my energy and my great smile was beaming through to them so I played it safe and threw in an FTC as I sat down. “Don’t worry; I gotta get back to my friend soon.” I sat down.

“Anyway” I continued as I smiled and leaned backwards. I would make this set work! They were hot and I wanted numbers tonight! “Me and my friend have been arguing over an issue all day and we really need some advice from two females. Now, listen, I came here because you looked sort of friendly and cool, is this true?” I wanted them to qualify themselves to me first before we continued.

“Nope, we´re not friendly at all!” The slightly hotter one said, jokingly. She would be my target; she was playing my game instantly. If you have read my FRs before you would know I get this response a lot so instantly my automatic response kicked in. It was time to neg.

“OMG” I said as I leaned over to her friend as though I was slightly offended in a joke like way. “Is she always this rude?” I kinoed her friend by putting my hand on her back whilst remembering to not be looking at her whilst I kino her (to not look creepy). I pride myself on my kino and it ran perfectly.

“Yea she is always this rude!” Said the obstacle, she was already charmed and on my side.

“Omg no I’m not!” My target retorted. Negs must always be accompanied by a compliment.

“Don’t worry, it’s kind of cute, so I’ll forgive you.” I responded leaning forward slightly placing my hand on my targets upper arm. The two girls looked at each other, I knew what they were thinking, I read their minds, and what I read went something like this:

They were shocked that a guy should randomly come and talk to them, come into their private reality and treat their reality as though it is now his reality by negging them and then have the audacity of reassuring them that he will forgive them for trying to tease him for being brazen enough to enter into their reality in the first place.

Wow, I was in the zone and feeling alpha. The first stages were complete all I needed to do was social proof myself.

“Well yea like I said, my friend is over there and we were arguing about who lies more, men or women…” I ran the basic opener and told a few jokes associated with it. I knew that I was doing well because I have now reached a stage where things are so automatic my mind is free to look out for IOIs. That, and the fact they were both laughing at all of my jokes with the biggest smiles.

As I was coming to the end of my opener, God, if he exists, granted me a miracle which turned out to be an amazing DHV. Just as I was about to move onto the next stage Alice (my first number close) called me asking to go out tonight. In front of these girls Alice delivered me a bomb-shell of a DHV as they both heard me reply to her with:

“Yea, I had fun with you too Alice, but I am out with friends now so I can’t come out tonight. I’ll tell you what, I will call you tomorrow and we will arrange something ok?”

The pre-selection attraction switch was now activated and I could feel the sweet tension in the air as my target said to me.

“Oh there is an example of a man’s lie!” Touché.

“What do you mean?” I asked as I projected again that I was jokingly offended.

“You won’t call her will you? That’s what they alway say!”

“No, I will she is a very pretty girl. Of course I will talk to her tomorrow.” I changed the subject quickly; it was time to strike now while the iron was hot. I had the attraction but if I was going to get the number I would have to be more than the random attractive guy. I knew what I had to do; I had to create comfort and rapport.

“You know what?” I paused for a second; make them hang on your every word Jackal had told me, make everything exciting. “You are the coolest people I have met in the last five minutes; I think it is time for us to introduce ourselves.” They laughed with shock, how does he have the impudence to throw out such back-handed compliments? They wondered.

“Oh, the last five minutes huh?!”

“Yea, it’s ok…take it as a compliment.” I smiled.

“Haha ok, if you say so.” She smiled prompting me to introduce myself.

“Hi, my name is Diamonds, I come from Nottingham, and I study German.”

As we introduced ourselves and I shook each of their hands. I learnt that my target’s name was Ellen and she was studying design and photography. I made sure I high-fived her for this as a bit of fun but also mentioned that my sister did photography at university. I wanted her to feel more of a connection to me.

“See we have something in common already.” I stated as I made sure to look directly into her eyes. Now it was time to ignore her, she needed to invest in me. So I turned away from her and faced her friend and asked about what she does. As I was talking I noticed that they both wore whistles around their necks so I decided to use these as a gauge to see how comfortable they were with me and my kino. I also wanted to take an opportunity to make my target jealous of me and her friend.

“Hey what are those whistles about?” I asked as I leaned forward and grabbed the whistle that was resting on my obstacles tummy. Deliberately, I touched her tummy with the back of my hand; I knew from reading that if she didn’t react negatively it was a great sign because girl’s tummies are, for them, a very sensitive area. She did not pull away or give any sign of discomfort.

“They’re gay pride whistles.” Piped up Ellen. “But we’re not gay, just so you know!”

I turned back to Ellen; I felt it was time to give her some attention again. I decided to run the “does this shirt make me look gay routine” by pretending to be reminded of a time when some gay guy pinched my arse and said I looked gay in my shirt. They reassured me that I didn’t. We conversed a few more minutes before Jackal DHVed me and lay in an FTC. I now had most attraction switches flipped and enough comfort to number close so I turned once more to Ellen. I felt so cool and excited, she was easily a 10.

“You know what? This interaction has been so good...” I paused a second as I looked directly into her eyes, I could feel the sparks flying. “…that I will say, give me your number, ok.”

“Ok.” She said as I handed her my phone so she could type in her number. When she had completed this I made my usual comment.
“Ok, I will call you tomorrow at 4pm, if you do not answer I do not have time to call you again and you will miss out.”

“Oh, don’t worry, I will answer.” She reassured in a way that leaves me pretty positive that this was a solid number close.

“Ok, before I go, I want both of you to give me a hug! Make me look cool in front of my friend.” They complied. As I turned to leave them I noticed two AFCs who had watched me the whole time, they looked at me in the eye with expressions asking me how the hell I had managed that! It’s easy (when you know how).

It was hard, walking back, to contain the excitement that welled up inside me; it was made harder still when Jackal turned to me displaying his bright-eyed, wide smile, the sort of smile that accompanies the observation of a smooth number close. It was at this moment that I decided to make the next number close of the night more solid by making sure I get a kiss on the lips after my interaction.

The next set would be the most well-run set I think I have ever done. Whilst Jackal and I were waiting for kivviyla (our newest member) at Café Rouge I decided to find another hot set that I could practice on. Luckily one came quickly to hand…all I can say was “wow!” at a distance walking up towards us as we were sitting at Café Rouge in Brindly Place were three, really, and I do mean really hot girls. All three wore tight revealing dresses; I would definitely approach these girls! I told Jackal I was going in but before I could take a step he told me to stop a second and take the tea cup from which I had been drinking moments earlier to make myself look extra cool. Jackal’s idea was that this would make me look like a cool guy that “just happened” to notice these girls and decide to open them. I looked cool and I felt cool as I casually strolled up to the three set, two were blonde and one was a brunette. Generally I don’t go for blondes so I decided to make the brunette my target, besides, she was the hottest!

“Hey guys, stop a second ok.” I commanded as we both walked into each other. At first I thought this set was going to be difficult because they were all 10s and they carried on walking for a few steps. I had to stick to what I learnt so I stood my ground whilst saying:

“You need to help me a second, I’m just over there with my friend and…”

“Hey! Will you take a photo of us three by the water feature here?” My mind was racing, I’d never done a set this hot before so I had to adapt and play the game very carefully if I wanted to get a number close.

“Ok.” I said. Normally I don’t do photos for groups of girls because it usually means the guy is being tooled but I decided to flip things around a bit.

“If I do you this favour you need to do me a favour and help me out ok?”

“Um ok.” They all agreed. I took their photo. Instantly I ran into the who lies opener explaining Jackal and I had been arguing over the issue.

“Can we walk and talk actually, because Im actually freezing.” Said one of the shivering blondes who appeared to be the leader.

“Ok, let’s go.” I agreed as I continued the opener. We argued about the issue and they all laughed at the jokes I would throw in. As I was about to come to the end of my first opener, the brunette who was closest to my side grabbed my wrist and whilst shaking my arm said:

“Hey you have to recommend a place, we’re not from Birmingham.” This was a chance to DHV myself as a cool guy who knows the places around here. We were now in the centre of Brindley Place near a small band-stand. People milled all around us as we all stood in the middle shivering in the cold weather. The bars by now were all teeming with, people, activity and laughter as ambient music from The Slug and Lettuce reached out through an open door jam. I chose my words carefully…

“Ok, well here we have the Slug and Lettuce, that is my personal favourite and just down there is the Pitcher and Piano and Bar Room Bar.”

“Ok…”

“I would strongly recommend The Slug and Lettuce, I know the guys there and I can make sure they look after you.”

Every week out we always say hello to the doormen and make sure we share a few words; they know my face and always give me a bit of friendly discourse when I enter or leave.

“Ok, well let’s go there then.”

“Ok guys follow me.” I said still holding my tea cup half filled with tea. LOL I felt so cool it’s unbelievable. So, with me slightly ahead I chaperoned my new friends to the entrance of The Slug and Lettuce.

“Do you want to join us?” Asked the brunette as we were about six metres from the entrance. She touched the upper part of my arm to stop me walking.

“I will soon, right now I gotta get back to my friends but I’ll join you soon ok?”

“Ah ok.” We carried on walking and we got to the door where the two regular doormen were standing.

“Ok guys, like I said this place is great and I’ll join you soon.” I turned away from them and faced the door men; it was time to social proof myself.

“Guys” I spoke proudly. “I just recommended this place to these guys but I promised you would look after them until I got back, will you make sure they are safe and have a good time in here?” The girls and doormen were all looking at me, I was so damn confident.

“Yea man, don´t worry, we will.” I just looked like the most socially caring guy ever.

“Ok cheers guys, I´ll be back soon I just need to finish my tea.” I said before turning back to the girls. Push and pull…

“Ok, they’ll look after you, I’ll come and see you soon and make sure you are ok and having fun ok?.” They all said their good-byes and went into the bar. At the same time the doormen both looked at me.

“How do you do it man? Every time we see you here you bring a different woman, this time you bring three!”

“I guess I’m a friendly guy.” I shrugged. It was time to get back to Jackal where I would tell him of what just happened. After a few minutes we moved back to the Slug and Lettuce where I re-entered set.

“Hey it’s you again!” They all cheered as I strolled confidently towards them inside the bar, the other girls in adjacent sets looked at me. Thanks for the DHV girls!

“What´s your name? One asked. “Wait no let’s try and guess!” They were doing all the work for me; I didn’t even need to run game on them. It was at this point where I started getting major IOIs from the Brunette who turned to face me. I saw lots of hair touching, eye contact, and her body and legs were facing my way but for a few minutes I concentrated on my obstacles. I would charm them and make them my allies. This worked a treat; I let them all guess my real name. Afterwards I told them to introduce themselves and we talked at length about what they did. Basically it was all friendly chit-chat with the aim of neutralising them. Once this mission was complete it was time to focus on my target whose name turned out to be Vikki. We both talked at length, and before long my two obstacles were happily talking amongst themselves whilst Vikki and I conversed intently. As I was talking I made sure that I told stories filled with all the DHVs needed to generate attraction, I told also of my problems with girls wanting me to take them out all the time and asked for advice on how I could let a girl who fancied me down lightly. She ate it up. Pretty soon our faces were close to each other, I was looking into her eyes as we chatted and our noses nearly touched, I could tell that I was doing well. She was really hot so I asked her how she kept her body in such great shape. She told me she likes to compete in pole-dancing competitions and does a lot of sky-diving. The sparks of electricity were beginning to fly; our faces were drawn to each other.

After a few more minutes Jackal came to DHV me and told me that Kivviyla had arrived and he was going to meet him outside. He then came back with Kivviyla who introduced himself to me whilst giving me social proof. I seem to remember one of the blonde girls taking a liking to him and asking to feel his hair. Kivviyla seemed completely comfortable and had a natural way of making these girls feel at ease. They shone to him (really well done man). As quickly as he entered he left; Jackal had plans for him.

I carried on talking to Vikki for about 10 minutes. She was really into me but I decided I had to make myself look willing to walk away from the conversation; it would make me appear much more attractive to her. As she carried on talking about what she loves to do in her spare time I interjected.

“Hey I hate to do this but, I really need to go talk to my friend, he’s new to our group and I will look so rude if I don’t welcome him properly. You understand right?”

“Yea, yea sure, it’s fine see you soon ok.”

I left her and went outside to where I thought Jackal and our newest member were, I would later find out that they had left Brindley Place to quickly get some gum and do some street sets. So as not to look foolish and to go back instantly to Vikki I decided to talk to the doormen.

“Hey guys, have you seen the Asian guy that I am always with? Did he come out here?” I asked.

“Yea he did but he went up that way, he said he’ll be back in ten minutes.”

“Ah ok cheers.”

“Why don’t you just go back to those girls? I would.” One of the doormen asked profusely.

“No, not yet, I need to make them miss me before I go back.” I talked for about five more minutes with the bouncers before re-engaging my set.

“Hey I’m back again.”

“Hi!” Vikki shouted over the music. “I was about to go get a drink, you want one?”

“Well if you’re offering, I’ll take a Corona!” This was running perfectly. After leaving a few minutes to get her and me a drink she came back and we continued our conversation. Jackal and Kivviyla social proofed me a few times more before putting in a two minute time constraint. Again mine and Vikki’s faces were close and I knew that before leaving I could kiss close her. Time was running out and I needed to move…

“Hey guys.” I shouted to the two blondes. “Can I just borrow Vikki for two minutes?”

“Yea, sure.”

“Borrow me?!” She laughed.

“Come with me.” I put my hand out to her, she took it and I pulled her to the front door jam, although we felt the chilly wind blow against us the SPAM was hot. I could feel the flow of energy. I had a feeling in my gut; you know that feeling that tells you, you cannot fail and that you will get the number and the kiss close?

“This interaction has been so good that I will say, give me your number.” She complied and I took it.

“Ok come and say goodbye to my friends.” I pulled her outside to where Jackal and Kivviyla were standing.

“But first, make me look cool, kiss me.” I gestured to my cheek by turning my head. She complied.

“Now, my lips…” I put my arms around her waist and pulled her close. She complied again and gave me another kiss this time on the lips. I could see the bouncers chuckling. This was the second girl in two nights that they had seen me kiss. Admittedly Friday’s demonstration was better because that involved French kissing, but still, I felt cool.

“Now, go and say good-bye to my friends while I go back and say bye to yours, oh yea give them a kiss too ok.” Again she complied.

After this the three of us went to Wetherspoons on Broad Street where our newest member made us proud by approaching more and more sets. He really did well this first night. Well done man. And thanks again to Jackal to the many pieces of invaluable advice he gave me this night!

20/5/11

Its friday night, its the weekend and one thing comes to mind......sarging!!

So its around 7pm lookin to park in central brum is not a good idea especially for free.
Anyway i know I'm late, so I power walk to the jam house. The crew has started so I figured its only fair to warm up, i get some ioi's so I open a couple of passers by.
I feel good, im the man I finally get with the crew and meet a new member.
Volcano is hes name, intresting and defo impressed me I'm pleased to say.
The Jackals phone test is workin and the men from the mice are showing.
It feels like a scene from fight club, choosing the crew correctly to be succesfull in the meer future.

So we end up in central library and when Jackal sais choose a target go!!!!
We are like spitfires flying through the crowed, talkin to any groups or individuals on our own, it really is intresting to learn about someone elses life.

We make way to weatherspoons and J comes up with some fun gaming ideas to make things intresting, so Diamonds and volcano gota go into set with Diamonds speaking German and Volcano translating for him.
It was fun to watch and then I had to go into a different set speaking Greek and Jackal was my translator, it was hilarious them trying to figure out what I'm saying wether I'm a big shot and Jackal makin fun of them and being real Alfa.
Next we opened a set "blind" now that was fun lol the were students and from Germany and France, their friends come later and ended a number close with a double date lol for the next week.

We moved on to pitcher and piano were i got my second number close for another double date lol Jackals mission for the night was accomplished, lookin forward to see the crew soon.

_________________
Its now or never

I'm a pua
Living just outside brum been sarginig solo for a while would be good to meet up with you guys and go sarging sum time got work commitments next couple off weeks but when I'm free will post on here my contact details.

_________________
Da Vinci

Field Report 1st June 2011:

Disaster has struck me so I thought I would write a field report to bring all my initial thoughts and reactions together into one logical sequence so I can make sense of this situation. Last night marked the end of a great interaction I have been having with Laura, the girl I have mentioned in previous field reports. I am also writing this in the knowledge that field reports need to be un-biased and give balanced accounts of my progression from AFC to PUA. Given that most of my reports of late have been very good I find it necessary to add balance to my chronicles.

Last night I met Laura for the third time for a date. My first date was “Field Report Saturday 21th May 2011” and my second was “Field Report Friday 27th May 2011”. I would also like to note that both of these dates were really successful with lots of kissing, hand-holding and fun. I really do think that everything crashed and burned mainly as a result of only this final date. This time we decided to meet again and just go for drinks, I think this may have been one flaw since we had already been for drinks. I was lazy, very lazy in fact and didn’t bother to think of anything altogether exciting to do, all I was thinking about was getting into Birmingham to see her again and maybe solidifying things a bit more. Basically my major errors were

1) Not going in with a game plan.
2) Not making an original/fun date. It was all too reliant on conversation flow but I had completed all my DHVing.
3) I did not engage stimulating conversation and there were more silences.
4) I did not manage to sustain the attraction I had built.

We agreed to meet at the Paradise Forum, near a water feature. Instantly I could tell that tonight wasn’t going to run so well as when I approached her she was slumped on the water feature leaning against a wall looking literally dead to the world.

“Hi, Laura.”

“Hi” she mumbled as she slowly lifted her head to acknowledge me as the wind blew her blonde hair across her face. “Sorry, I’m like really tired omg…” she murmured apathetically.

Alarm bells rang in me, I knew that I’d driven all this way for a night that was going to be boring and unproductive. I decided that I would soldier on, perhaps this tiredness was genuine and perhaps if I could get her moving she would wake up a bit and we would end up having fun. For a few moments I decided that I should probably be polite and ask her about her day.

“So what have you been up to in town?” I asked as I slumped myself next to her. I could really feel the negative energy. Tonight would be awkward.

“I just went to get a CD and a desk-lamp, look…” She showed me what she bought, but as you can see it was a boring topic. I was clutching at straws, I had no routines, no plans and absolutely nothing to fall back on, I was in trouble. Up until tonight I had become complacent, the riddle that is girls seemed to be unravelling itself, but if I learnt anything in this one short moment it was that girls, like riddles, are often multi-dimensional. I had completed the first and second stage, now was the time to move into more serious dating and I didn’t have a clue about this terra nova; for this reason everything was falling apart before my eyes. The solid foundation upon which I thought I had built my attraction and comfort turned out to be nothing more than a house of cards blowing precariously in a breeze that now threatened everything I had invested.

An awkward silence followed, what was I going to talk about or do? I know, I must get some physical contact going, if I can get her to move I can take her hand and we can walk together hand in hand.

“Hey, you know what, I am desperate for a drink; let’s go to Wetherspoons quickly…”

“Ugh but that means I have to get up, I’m so tired…” Yea, things were really bad. I felt like an animal trainer trying to teach an elephant to fly. Strangely, I actually thought that despite this major sign of disinterest that would be ok, that one night wouldn’t ruin everything, and that based on everything so far I was in pretty solidly with this girl. I was still even deliberating whether or not I would want her as a girlfriend. For this reason, as I write this, I am sincerely sad that she decided not to continue.

Eventually I managed to drag her to Wetherspoons in the Paradise Forum where the conversation dried up just as quickly as the patrons on this quiet Wednesday evening, I was completely AFC. I was in new territory and didn’t know what I could do to change the situation around but like a dog that doesn’t want to give up it’s bone I clung on to the hope that after two dates I had built enough attraction and comfort to ensure that my ship would remain water-tight through this storm.

Awkward silence followed awkward silence. Perhaps despite both being excited about meeting each other and hitting it off so well in the beginning we didn’t actually have too much in common. She was really into music for example, I was not. Perhaps for me she was like a desert oasis, a beautiful sight and life saver to be sure but now the water was drying up and I would be forced to continue my search. We sat opposite each other, both straining to think of something to talk about.

Maybe another bounce to a location would wake her up again? Maybe if I made it seem like we were going somewhere and had purpose I could produce a miracle. God, it was hard work, I was starting to wish I hadn’t bothered coming. I should have stepped back and made plans to arrange something more exciting and original. All of a sudden a famous military adage crept into my mind and seemed to be ringing in my ear: “Proper planning and preparation prevents piss poor performance.” This was piss poor performance…

As we moved to another bar we held hands, I even told her to give me a kiss, I wanted to test the water, see if she would still comply, she did but the kiss did not ring true like the others, I could sense I was losing control and I would soon be in a tailspin down to earth. As we entered our second venue I got another indicator of disinterest which I ignored (never underestimate the command of denial upon a person’s judgement). I found a table arranged next to a wall one side of the table had sofa-like line of seats which were attached to the wall. On the other side of the table were normal chairs. Instead of coming to sit next to me on the comfy sofa-like seat as she had done previously, she decided to sit opposite me. Again things ran gauche as we struggled to talk. Technique was out of the window. I had no clue what I was doing and we were just talking like polite friends. Thinking back it was horrible.
Later on during the night I did manage to get some more kisses, but I could tell something wasn’t right. When we moved to different locations we would sit quite apart and her body was not facing mine as it did the other nights. Still I clung on to the hope that the previous encounters had given me enough space to afford some leeway. Eventually we walked to my car where I would take her home. I kissed her one more time before I opened the door before driving her home. When I reached her house we looked at each other one more time to say our goodbyes, I saw her look into my eyes, smile and let me kiss her. It was this moment that lulled me into false reassurance that regardless of the performance tonight things would still be ok.

I went to sleep in comfort that night, despite the disasters of the night; I felt that I was still able to rectify things. I knew that I would need to actually take her somewhere else and do something different. I was already making plans. As usual the next morning I got up early to go to university to do some maths revision. It was at university that my day was ruined with these words in text message form:

“Hey. I’m really sorry but I don’t think it’s working out with us. I never wanted to do it by text but I don’t have the courage to say it to your face, coz you are too much of a nice guy. I have too much going on (in my mind). I still want to meet up and all if that’s what you want too.”

And that was the worst rejection I think I have received since being dumped by my girlfriend of one year who also did it via text message. Why don’t they ever say it to my face?

Clearly I still have a long way to go. With this interaction I managed to get further than what I have before so for that I am pleased, however I would certainly be lying if I said it did not affect me. It did; I liked her. But as Mel Gibson once said, “I owe my success to my failures; the failures in my life are “school fees” that must be paid...”

I will sum up the ideas I have for the reasons this failed as follows:

When I approached her I stood out as an ultra confident and attractive guy. This attraction was carried forward by the anticipation she had of meeting me again for the first date at the night club. This was a point at which I was still running game and fresh in her life as the attractive guy that she just met. I was attractive, it was exciting and I was building comfort. Second date, I was attractive, but we met in bars, I sustained attraction by kissing and running light game on her but the excitement had dissipated and cracks appeared in the fact that we did not have as many commonalities as I would have liked. For the third date, I was unoriginal we met at 6pm and went to bars and the time bridge was quite long. I was unable to re-heat the attraction she had for me as well as this, the excitement was gone and we simply did not have enough in common to engage in normal discourse.

Well those are my ideas. If anyone would like to PM me their ideas, I welcome them. (Don’t write on here this is for field reports).

Finally I would like to thank Laura. She will never know of my mission here, my aims and objectives, or the struggles and set backs I face in my journey from AFC to PUA, nor will she know of the valuable contribution she has provided me. She taught me that I can get a girl interested enough in me to meet for multiple dates; she taught me that I have the courage to go in for a kiss close of my own volition. Most of all she helped me realise with the brightest clarity that I AM changed. Lastly, I had fun with her, and that is what all this learning is about. I will likely never see her again, but I will remember her, she will remain in my memory as the first girl I kissed of my own election. My memory of her will remain synonymous with a new feeling of confidence and transformation. She well never know it but she helped me out on my long path to change.

With this I consider the interaction over. Now to focus on the next number close.

unlucky bud but cool stuff at least you know your errors which is good cause next time that wont happen
.
some thoughts for you

To me having different interests is the key to more exciting dates and the most powerful way of building a connection.

what i personally do
at fist date stage or when first gaming a girl when a womens interest come up
throw in a NEG for example

girl' I like rowing' or i like "rock music" classical' horse riding dancing .

neg

really i think rowing is a bit boring youll have to prove me wrong some time.

rock music people who listen to that stuff are depressing but you seem really cool you'll have to show me why rock is so cool.

2nd date if they haven't organised a intrest relating date you can

im a bit sceptic about the wow factor of rowing but im interested in trying it out so booked us in this friday.

theres a live rock band playing at so and so this friday do you fancy going you can show me what ive been missin


or whatever

they are examples

the point is you are taking her on you adventure of exploring new things even tho its her interests it makes it more exciting.

you'll find she will try and make you appreciate her interests and respect them
and at the same time the attraction level will grow.

the reason i do this is because

i want to try new things its fun and not boring

the pressue is not on me to entertain i can focuss on making a conection and building more attraction

the good thing is if you are having fun its funny if your not its funny.

if no interest try something new. a new experience or adventure for both of you

i once set a date for wine testing at nec but when we got there id got the date wrong there was loads of kids with cards doin yougio battles (like pokemon cards) turned out to be the funniest date ever and a mile better then whine testing.

PUA golden rule no AFC dates.

i think when you met that girl and she sat down with no energy and bored and said she was tired dnt let that lower your energy
+ she may have been looking for a sign of dominance take her bags and her hand and say lets get a coffee and discuss what we are going to do with you sleepy head.
girls like daddy like dominace makes them feel comfortable

or

this could of been a opportunity for a night in. eg take for coffee and if shes still tired you could say im not up for bham town centre either theres a new film i want to watch lets have a night inn you place or mine but dnt get to ahead of yourself this dosnt mean your getting it i just wanna see this new film surpose to be really good

thats just a quick example.

the point is there is always a route to go with any {objections} eg tired/ dnt feel upto drinking or eating/thats boring etc.... ive learned to see these as my friends as i believe these as indicators to calibrate and asses the new direction to take

sorry about the grammar at work on my ipad so had to write it quick.

to be honest i think you are doing really good i would just remeber there is no failures in pick up just learning lessons

_________________
Da Vinci

I AM RECRUITING Students.

CONTACT ME BETWEEN 6PM TO 9pm.

I AM A STRONG LEADER AND I PROMISE TO PROTECT YOU.

I AM A ROMANTIC AT HEART AND BELIEVE IN LOVING EVERYONE AND ALL THAT IS AROUND US.

WARNING
I have a bad reputation for being good. This brings undue attention from online AMOGS and real ones with balls. This is a guarantee, take it as a compliment.

GOATS

There are sheep and then there are shepherds. Goats are the ones that are too stubborn to follow and too lazy too lead.

FILMS TO WATCH
1) TOP GUN
2) CYRANO DE BERGERAC 1950's version (THE WARRIOR POET)

==========================================================================================================Jackals 12 INITIATION RULES

1) COPY AND PASTE AND PM ME
Name -
Brief- background -
What u have to offer as a wing -
Location -
Age -
Mobile -
If you drive and can provide lift to others -

2) Provide a field report WITHIN 24 HOURS LIKE JACK BAUER every time you sarge, the report has to be entertaining, descriptive, and describe how The Amazing Jackal has supported you, and have it posted on FIELD REPORTS, it must be as good as Diamonds, not GOLD as it is chavvy. Must be 500 words (10% leeway). Must have 1 minute version prepared for You Tube.

3) Commit to 6 sessions, the 600 session deal is no longer available, due to something called aging.

4) Text 1 hour before to confirm attendance. If you can't text, use telepathy its been proven to work.

5) Cancellation w/out good reason, then you will lose your booking in future.
PUNCTUALITY, 10 mins late then ur session will be canceled. Otherwise I will be crying like a headless chicken wondering what has happened to you.

6) Also you must invite me to 6 parties. No political parties thank you very much, I hear their full of mingers.

7) TO ORGANISE A FUN NIGHT OUT. I've had crap ones, trust me their over rated.

6) Buy Jackal a drink. His thirsty, trust me you don't want JACKAL walking around like a dried up vagina.

9) COMPULSORY- DRESS LIKE A MILLION DOLLARS, as to not dressing like a tramp IT MAKES THINGS EASIER.

10) 2nd session bring a friend. Make them a proposition, say you will demonstrate your skills, but first introduce them to the forum and You Tube. To wet their appetite. Make it a good looking friend, I wouldn’t want an ugly one stealing all the attention.

11) Jackals are only permitted to SARG with fellow Jackals. This is to build group loyalty, and strengthen the bond for the group. Breaking this rule is like CHEATING on your group members.

12) Jackal will ask you for a favour like the godfather, lots of favour's, he doesn't know what the favour will be, and he will hold you to it, but you can be rest assured that they won't be sexual favour's, well I damn well hope there not Jackal !
==========================================================================================================
Jackals 7 BAD ASS RULES.
1) You will be tested by phone (BY "KARATE" JACKAL'S ASSISTANT). Resilience test, involves testing your sensitivity to criticism, knowledge of Jackals Rules, and Badass Rules, and Sarging Rules, you will contact me in five days, and then I will let you know if you have passed. UNFORTUNATELY THE PREVIOUS TEST WHERE "KARATE" BEAT THE SHIT OUT OF NEW RECRUITS WAS FOUND TO BE UNLAWFUL. GOOD NEWS FOR YOU, BAD NEWS FOR "KARATE"

2) You will be tested in the field, please don't bring a football that's not the kind of field I mean.

3) You will be competing with each other, look at your opponent next to you, he may not be invited back, look at him again he may take your place. Look at him again he maybe lusting after you.

4) You must perform or you will not be invited back. Viagra is not allowed, this is cheating.

5) You can at anytime lose the privilege to Join my crew, however you are allowed to join the So Solid Crew, they have vacancies and are looking for losers to make them look hard.

6) I will be doing U Tube Stuff. U must earn the right to be in it. Acting talent is not required, but it helps. Shakespearean Actors will get lead roles.

7) De brief at the end of night on You Tube. Don't worry, you won’t be walking home brief less.
==========================================================================================================
Jackals 9 Sarging Rules

1) Don’t talk back to the Jackal. He doesn't speak English. People may think your taking the piss out of a foreigner.

2) Don't make Jackal ask you twice. He doesn't know how to count to three.

3) Don’t make Jackal come down there and smack your bottom. His got small hands, trust me it will hurt him more than it hurts you.

4) You salute first. Keep the salute until Jackal has saluted, or said at ease. Just don't poke anyone with your elbow. This is not Mortal Kombat, although it may feel like it at times.

5) Attention - you stand up to salute. A time when saluting is not necessary, is when you are drowning, it won't do any good as Jackal can't swim, but don't worry sharks can.

6) Salute every time u approach the Jackal. Unless you’re pissed off, then you can punch him.

7) U refer to The Jackal as sir, not madam, even if his wearing a dress.
8 If anyone asks why u r saluting. Say you have bad ARMPITS, ask them to smell it.

9) U must at all times let Jackal know of your location, because he doesn’t have a SATVAV to find you.

[link]

[link]

I am taking this shit seriously. Twisted Evil Twisted Evil

Field Report Friday 3rd June 2011:

If I am completely honest I would admit that the failing situation with Laura did affect me and that deep down I was worried that it would affect my performance tonight, however I was not weighing the myriad of positives I have in my life, namely my friends. I also had a very positive night as a result of meeting a friend of Jackal who was a really cool guy with whom I had a lot of fun. I would also like to thank Rainking for his sincere message of support and advice regarding my disastrous date on Wednesday 1st. I really appreciate it. With these factors on my side I found it actually quite easy to forget the horrible feelings of sadness and frustration I still had bubbling around in my stomach.

Until this night I felt like a donkey that had been teased by a carrot dangling in front of my face. Although I thought I was getting closer to the carrot it turned out it was dangling from a stick that was attached to my own back; as I thought I was just about to break through and taste the rewards of my carrot, I was taught that it was still far out of reach. The typical thoughts and feelings of “Would I ever crack this?”, “Would I ever break through and finally begin to understand girls?” resurfaced; my old titans were trying to reclaim their former place on the light side of my world. I could not allow this, I would not allow this!

Most of all, this entire situation reminded me of how sick I am of being an AFC. The disappointment is now, the teasing is now but in the future the joke will no longer be on me. I know I am determined, I know that I have never given up on anything in my life, I know I am steadfast and I know without a shadow of a doubt that I will push on until I reach my end because I understand, as John.F.Kennedy did that, “There are costs and risks to any program of action, but they are far less than the long-range risks and costs of comfortable inaction.”

Anyway, to the night…

We really had a lot of fun together tonight; we focused a lot more on fun to begin with rather than the solid business of getting numbers. I think Jackal also understood that fun was necessary in order to flip my slightly downed mood around. I needed to be back to my old self. This initial focus on fun really turned out to be something positive because I definitely feel that it had a positive affect upon my mood, changing it from a dull, slightly apathetic, defeatist mood into a fun, bouncy and humorous mood which accompanies the “I don’t care about pushing forward even if it means making a fool of myself” attitude that would be required for tonight.

Dolphin, our newest, member decided that he wanted to try something different from normal and told of a marriage routine for a one minute number close that he had seen AFC Adam Lyons perform on youtube. I had seen the same video but I was not keen on the idea. Jackal, understanding that fun was necessary, decided to let him approach sets and get on his knees and ask for their hands in marriage. I was to be the priest at these occasions. To be honest I was actually quite shocked at his success in getting girls to randomly stop in the street. To be fair it was hilariously funny. To take me out of my negative Zone Jackal told me to approach a 4-set by doing the same thing. I could never have imagined that my first number close would arise from such a comical situation. Either way I ran forward towards my set and made eye-contact before kneeling.

“Hey, stop! You are the girl of my dreams will you marry me?!” I felt like such a fool, everyone walking in the busy street stopped and looked at me. (One bystander walking by me even congratulated me when my target said yes! She thought it was a real proposal!)

“What?!” she said as her friends either side of her burst out laughing hysterically.

“Please, I have to marry someone tonight; I even brought an Indian priest!” I said as Dolphin came running up beside me speaking in a strong Indian accent.

“What why? Am I on TV?!” Her friends were still in hysterics. Still kneeling down I took her hand…

“Please, I will die of cancer if I don’t get married tonight!” She giggled and covered her face with one hand in embarrassment.

“Yes, I will marry you!” she let out as her friends began taking pictures and recording video with their phones. A quick marriage ceremony followed courtesy of our Indian priest with our arms locked together as is done at a wedding. With that Dolphin pronounced us husband and wife. After the marriage ceremony I decided to get her to give me her number, since we were now married in our strange little world I decided I may as well ask. Her response shocked me. She game me her number, that being said though, I understand the number close was not very solid at all, we had literally only spoken a few words and it was the high energy of the moment that had put her into a number-giving mood I guess. That was beside the point; I was completely cleansed of all bad feelings.

My second number close of the night was much more solid because I spent a long time with this next set. Whilst at our usual location of The Slug and Lettuce I approached numerous sets to get warmed up but all of these came out with unsuccessful number closes. The reason I am guessing is that I didn’t stay in set quite long enough to generate enough attraction and comfort. I knew with a couple of these early sets that I would not get a number given that the interactions had no been so receptive to me. The reason I did actually go for the numbers was because the sets I approached all consisted of really hot girls who usually are the most challenging, also I wanted to build character by asking for the number regardless of success because I find it helps me to master my anxieties and builds my character. I find that this business is made much easier when I tell myself, that it is ok to fail and that I can allow myself to fail every time. As I mentioned in my previous report, one of my favourite quotes is from Mel Gibson who said he considers failure as “school fees”.

Anyway back to the second number close…

Basically I noticed a five set of older women, who I would say ranged from 27 to 33 with one who looked like she was 40 something. I approached their table which was located in a central location in the bar. Part of the reason why I chose this set was because of its location. If I didn’t get a number close here I wanted to at least build up a bit more social proof in the venue to make my life easier for the next set that I would approach.

“Hey guys!” I shouted with confidence as I walked proudly over to the set. I was really in the mood right now because I had had fun so far this night after talking to adjacent sets and meeting Jackal’s friends. I could feel my smile radiating. The set responded to me very well, they all had smiles on their faces. I elected to practice the gay t-shirt routine opener some more since one thing that I am trying to do is to now expand on my list of openers so that I am not constantly relying on “who lies more?”. Part of getting good responses is having confidence in your opener so what I do is practice one opener until I get it perfect then move onto another, and so on and so on… At the moment I have about four solid openers that I have rehearsed multiple times to perfection.

“Don’t worry I have to go soon, so I wont keep you long but you really need to help me ok !” I said as I jokingly feigned desperation.

“Omg you poor thing you look so worried! What is wrong?” The one who I guessed to be the leader asked. Although she was not the most attractive I would aim to befriend her.

“My friends have been picking on me all night about my shirt so I need a female opinion on it ok.”

“Ok” I needed to sit down and get locked in asap. There was a spare chair but the leader had placed her bag on it.

“You know what; move your bag off the chair a sec so I can sit down with you all.”

“What’s the magic word?” I would not try anything cocky at this point; she was the leader I had to befriend her…

“Please.” I said with a bright smile across my face. She moved the bag and I sat down.

It was at this point that I knew I would get a number close because I had “that” feeling…I now understand that the feeling I get is a result of knowing that I have actually focused on a game plan and strategy. With the earlier sets I don’t really think that I focused on any kind of strategy I just went in with an opinion opener and let the conversation flow without acquiring aims and objectives. The grandfather of modern tank doctrine Heinz Guderien would always talk about the active use of tactics as being essential to the success of any battle plan, I needed to do the same. Until now I just considered that I would go in, get locked in and things would happen. This is not how things work. Until I become congruent and become confident enough for “natural game” I must stick to going in with plans and targets to reach my objectives. When I look back at all my most successful number closes I notice that I focused actively and directly on exercising procedure at each stage of the interaction.

After sitting down I ran straight into my routine but first I needed to select a target so I could aggressively focus on befriending my obstacles. I nominated a woman sitting to my right, she looked to be about 30 to 33 in age and I would say she was about an 8. Immediately after sitting down I continued the gay shirt routine and got positive responses.

Instead of rushing through my routine I decided to slow things down. After I had got group approval and kinoed a couple of the women at the table I decided to stack a few more routines. I wanted to flip the attraction switches that mystery talks about. The first I wanted to flip was the pre-selection switch. I had noticed from previous sets that when Alice calls me I get a DHV so I decided to this time be sneaky and create my own DHV using my phone in a sly way. I activated my fake call.

“So guys, you know what, thanks for your advice, you are the coolest people I have met in the last ten minutes!” Give them some value but be cheeky at the same time.

“Wow, you´re just full of compliments arn´t you!” The leader piped up. I kinoed her arm…

“Hey, don’t get cocky this is the only compliment you will get tonight.” The omg-can´t-believe-he-just-said-that expression covered all of their faces. A good reaction, I was setting myself apart from the crowd, I knew for a fact no other guy in this place would be so brash. I love it when I am on fire! I wanted them to know that I was alpha and that I don’t apologise for being myself.

My fake call timer is set to thirty seconds, I had about fifteen left.

“So what are you all out her for?” Kill some time.

“Oh we’re out here for Jodie’s birthday” My target told me pointing to the woman I had assessed successfully as the leader, it was her night, I had done well to read this situation and to befriend her. Now I needed to amplify the connection between me and the group as well as DHVing Jodie at the same time.

“Omg it´s your birthday?! That is so cool, congratulations birthday girl! Give me a high five!” She complied with a bright smile before I turned away from her and faced her group…

“Wow! You guys came out especially for her?! That is so great you guys must be like such cool friends!” The group loved it I was really coming across as the confident attractive guy. Also, the implicature I wanted to give here was that I was the cool guy judging them. I was giving them credit which would sub communicate authority on my part. I was also giving them value by saying they were cool.

I had about five seconds before my call. I would use the call to DHV myself and to roll-off from the group, I wanted to demonstrate that I had other female options. Also, given that I had given them value and a compliment it was time to pull away and show that I am not afraid to turn away or leave my set; I would make them miss me for a few seconds.

“What are you out her for” My target to the right asked just as my phone began to ring with my fake call.

“Oh, one sec guys!” I automatically leaned back in my chair to distance myself from the group and to create the aura that I was ignoring them for a while. I had freedom in this imaginary call so I would make something up that would really DHV me.

“Hey Zoë! How on earth are you? Good. Yea I am good too thanks, yea I really enjoyed last night too. No, sorry I can’t. No I can’t come out with you tonight again, I’m out with friends right now.”

My set’s eyes were all glued on me while I leaned back in my chair. I was the show master.

“I’m sorry I would love to but I cant, you know Jackal and the others? I am out with them.” To this the women at my table started shouting and screaming trying to make the imaginary girl jealous!

“No, no, I don’t know who these people are; they are just some rude people who are trying to make me look bad!” I feigned a worried look whilst silently mouthing to them to be quiet.

“No Zoë, look I’ll call you tomorrow ok and we’ll sort something out ok. I’ll miss you too! Yea, yea, see you.”

“Omg you are so cruel!” They laughed. My DHV was firmly planted.

“Omg to you too! You made my life very difficult. How dare you?!” I chuckled as I kinoed my target. “You’re all so bad!”

The gods were shining down on me because at this moment Jackal appeared to DHV me.

“Ok, Diamonds, we gotta go in twenty minutes, my sister wants to see you at her party.” The girls looked at each other.

“Ok man I’ll be quick, tell her I’m sorry for being late!” I responded.

“Your name is Diamonds? Wow, so you’re going to his sister’s party?” The leader asked.

“Yea, she’s really mad with me because I was meant to be there an hour ago, for some reason she really wants me to be there.”

I could see they now knew I was in demand. My pre-selection switch was officially planted.

“You know what guys…” I stacked. “You are so cool that I am going to officially introduce myself.”

With this I shook all of their hands and we made our introductions. They all asked why I was called Diamonds so I explained that it is what all my friends call me. I made them guess my real name. The purpose of the introduction was to no longer be the attractive stranger. I would create comfort at the same time as flipping more attraction switches. If I had the time…but time was flying and I may have to leave before using all my main DHV stories. I had made sure to flip the pre-selection one first because this was the most important one.

Next I wanted them to see that I was out with friends and began telling them how it is cool to meet them because they remind me of my friends who are also all really great. It was during this phase that Dolphin came to quickly DHV me with “hey you stole my friend!” before exiting quickly. Second to this Cola came in to DHV me too, he did a really great job and was telling the women at the table “You know what it is actually an honour for you all to be talking to this guy!”. LOL I had never heard this one before! Thanks Cola! What a DHV I was literally trying so hard not to burst out laughing at this truly audacious and bold DHV! Thanks to the aid of these three great guys it was demonstrated that I was a cool, socially savvy guy and my set ate it up.

I had planned to run a few more of my personal DHV stories but time was getting on so I just went straight on with entertaining my set a bit more by focusing on them; besides I didn’t want to appear narcissistic. I went on by assessing each of them trying to guess to see who was the bad one, clever one, cheeky one etc. They loved it.

“OMG he’s actually quite right!” They giggled to each other. During this time I was making sure to not talk to my target as much, she must invest in me so I would only respond to her; I would not initiate conversation with her. The fact that I “worked” them out quite well also worked as a DHV. Pretty soon though it would come time for me to leave set; we would be moving on soon and there would be no way I could work all my attractions switches in. Regardless, I felt I had built enough attraction and comfort thus far.

With the passing of a few more minutes I joked and teased the women in the set and really felt like a PUA and after Dolphin came back to give me the two minute reminder it came time to number close.

“Ok guys, it has been so much fun talking to you, but before I go…” I turned and looked to my target who I’d largely been ignoring and said. “Nat, give me your number ok.”

“What? Me?!” She said aghast at the fact I had asked her. She certainly didn’t see it coming. “Erm, yea, sure why not?”

“Ok but here are the rules, I will send you a text message tomorrow at 4pm, and if you do not answer I will never text you again ok.”

“You will not text me! I know that.”

“I promise I will.”

“Ok, well I don’t believe you but I’ll wait for your text message.” Her friends were pretty quiet. I think they also didn’t see my number close coming at all. What is more I think they were all pretty shocked that she had been asked by someone who was quite a bit younger. I left slowly and proudly, I stood in the middle of the room for a while; I wanted them to see me standing coolly in the centre of the room. This is because I read somewhere that cool, calm guys walk much slower and never rush anywhere. I wanted them to see this in me. The number close was solid. It is now Saturday 4:20 what I sent was:

“Hey Nat, thanks for the opinion on the shirt! Hope you all still managed to have fun after I left. I was late for that party, and the hostess was mad with me. Hard times.”

My response was:

“Hello u-yeh a fun nite ws had by all, a few drinx latr we found ourselves ina reggae bar dancin wiva groupv old letchy men so a sharp xcit ws made+2bed we went!” I think she means…

“Hello yea a fun night was had by all. A few drinks, later we found ourselves in a reggae bar dancing with a group of letchy men so a sharp exit was made and to bed we went!”

Glad I got a response to this. She was an 8 but a little old, I may text back soon and ask her to come out, but then again I am running out of money with all these trips and dates to Birmingham, especially since I haven’t been working for three weeks because of my maths revision.

Finally before I finish, I would like to run through a set with you all which was an unsuccessful number close but regardless I would say the set ran really, really well.

Wait, I’ve already done 3500 words on here so actually, I will post this “failed set” Some other time but it was basically a group of 9s and 10s. I controlled and entertained the group for a long time really well, managed to isolate my target, got major IOIs and good kino in on her. I could really sense that it was “on” we had lots of eye contact and our faces were very close etc, but when I came to ask for the number she showed me an engagement ring. But I know she was really tempted, with all the experience I have I can now tell when a girl is into me or when she isn’t and this girl was really into me.

(Even if she had complied I would not have continued the interaction after discovering she is engaged. I will not pursue taken girls. I know what it is like to lose a girlfriend and I have made a personal rule that if I ever do get really good at this, one thing I will never do is go for a taken girl.)

Either way the story of this set is for another time.

Overall I would like to thank Jackal for his ever useful advice and help as a mentor and as someone who really helped me feel better about myself. I would like to thank Dolphin for his amazing support as a friend and I would like to say to Cola that it was really great to meet you! I had the most fun in a long time and it was down to my three friends for this I sincerely thank you all.

No worries Diamonds, glad you are feeling more positive. x

Sat 4 June

The scotsman at spoons is getting slightly annoyed about our soda waters. Maybe we should all order a beer next time to make him happy haha

Was an okay sarge, most of them ended nicely, but I didnt't get many numbers. I also learnt that 3 of the numbers I got last time were fakes.

What was really good about the number I DID get on Sat was the fact that this was day game, they both had boy friends and the HB8 had actually asked ME if I wanted to go for a drink(made up an excuse not to go at that moment and said I'd call her later on). I got the number from the 7. I ended the interaction with a high five and the 7 said “dont text me as my boyfriend will see, give me a call”. Sounds like she was up for some fun! She looked back and smiled as Jackal and I spoke. The entire night as a whole didn't go as well.

What I've noticed about this is that I get more positive results when the girl knows that we both are compatible in terms of looks, age etc. This is why I don't get too down about rejections from... 27 year old women or orange fake tanned chavs who some would rate a 10. People are attracted their kind of person.

The Jackal has commented on how important voice tonality is in set and in general. I think that my voice tonality is the thing that most needs fixing. I was in a two set inside a loud-ish venue on Sat and talking to them and they both had trouble hearing me but they were fine with hearing what EACH OTHER were saying. My posture still needs improvement too.

Field Report: 3rd June 2011

This day had been a busy one for me, I’d taken some time off work to just relax, but hey behold, when you’re self-employed, there is no such thing as a full day off. I was annoyed as I was looking forward to meeting Jackal and others of the group, so I rushed to finish off what little work that had crept up. (Luckily I did finish it all), I also had time to spare go home change in to some more proper and respectable to go out in, I also got a few new clothes while I was in Birmingham, I wanted to change myself; I needed to look like . . . well, an ace guy if you could say.

I had texted Jackal a bit today to know when and where I was to meet me, I was eager to go as I wanted to be successful at talking with girls. The meet began at 7:15, and instantly Jackal was teaching me, he was showing me how to . . . well if I was to put it simply, he was showing me how to control a situation when faced with an AMOG. He would close his eyes and ask me to push him around and swear at him, in return he would smile and just try and hug it out with me, we switched role so I could try to see how I would act if I was sweared at and I tried to do what Jackal did (I had no idea how useful this would be from me later on), this showed me how to control the situation and how to approach an AMOG if there were ready for fisty cups.

At the park in front of The Jam House, I asked Jackals opinion on whether I should fold my trousers in to ¾ lengths as there were pretty long as it is so I had to fold them from the bottom, he said to me why you don’t use that as an opener?, from there he made me approach random sets on and around the park and use it as an opener?, immediately I failed to introduce myself, ask for the girls numbers and their names, I felt like such a fool, because it’s important to do thing so that the person you’re talking to wont be scared that some random guy has just come up to them, its basic but VERY important. But the night was very young and the fact that I noticed these helped me to focus. Soon after Diamonds came, I remembers that Jackal had promised me a nickname if I were to get a number close, I did get a number close, thought it was a long number close where I gave my number to the girl because she didn’t trust me and in the end she called me and we spoke for over an hour, I still got her number. Jackal kept to his promise and thus my name is now DOLPHIN, I loved it, my very own nickname I more and more as a part of Jackals crew. After this we basically approach random sets here and there, until we started to make our move towards the city Centre.

On our way there, I told Jackal that I saw Adam Lyons video of how he did a 1 minute kiss close and I was amazed and wished to try it, I wish I didn’t say it at the beginning because don’t every tell Jackal something you wish to do, cause he will make you do it, he made me and Diamonds approach random sets on the streets and ask them to marry us, one of use would as the groom and the other the priest. It was really something to ease the tension I had felt earlier, and was amazingly fun, we did it on footpaths and in the Centre of brindle place, we didn’t care that people would be watching, it was one of the most fun things I’ve done. I still laugh when I remember it, and the plus side is that Diamonds got a number so there is some merit to this direct approach, lol.

Well once we were at Brindley Place, we got down to business and Jackal gave me two new openers, which now brings my grand number of openers give to me by Jackal to 3, I tried to talk with some of the sets but the conversations weren’t going to so smoothly, we stopped by the S+L (look at my previous field report for the meaning) and there behold we met another PUA Cola, he was with a woman who know that he is PUAing and it helping not only him but a bunch of other guys, (sorry but I tried to remember her name I just couldn’t, if you’re reading this just remind me, names is something I’m trying to get good at, ) we met them again at a coffee shop at Brindley Place and we chatted for a bit, while approaching random sets, which to no avail did I get a number close, Diamonds had already got one so I had to up my game, until Jackal had us go towards the Mailbox.

There on route via canal, I approached a single set, since I don’t want to give out anyone’s names here, I’ll use a name that rhymes with her name, let’s call her Ribena, I stop her from walking and approached her with my basis opener who lies more, I’ve had more success with this opener than the other two, and she bit the bait, we talked for a while, I found out that she was from Russia, and that she was studying at the University of Birmingham, she sounded really cool, but I wanted to escalate it more, so I remember that on the first night out with Jackal when he showed me how he talked and acted with the two set and the moves that he used, I remembered distinctly the salsa routine, I told her that I had just started salsa lessons and I wanted to show her some moves, which is where I took her hand and started to imitate salsa (I’ve never done salsa in my live I was winging it on my charm, and courageousness), I’d push her away bring her in close to me and spin her around, I thought I did the worst dance ever she looked a little embarrassed but started laughing which was looking promising, I could hear Jackal calling for me from the distance, to which I used it to my advantage, I just came out with it I told her that I though that she was good looking and I wanted her number, I had done it, my first number close on the street I can classify it as my first, I was so proud, even typing this can’t express my happiness.

My second number close was from a random set that were walking away from the Mailbox, I approached them and tried to stop them, but they didn’t respond very well, the walked away after I introduced myself, which was a downer, but Jackal kicked me on my ass and told me to run back and get the girls number since I never asked for it, So I ran back with no high expectation and said the same thing as before, the reason I stop you was because I thought that you were fucking beautiful and I wanted your number, she eyed me up and down and said, alright then . . . I was speechless, and I did not believe that I got her number, again two number closes, woo hoo. Let’s call this girl Éclair.
We went to a bar to do random sets, I found it nice as I had a promising set I was engaged, but I got 10/10 for trying to get their number, lol, they were two nice ladies though, probably scared of my youth, lol. At this bar we met Cola again, I could see him DHVing Diamonds and he was doing a good job, I helped Diamonds out by DHVing him, but left immediately as I did, I didn’t get any number closes at this bar, but I’m sure to go there again, they have some really nice HBs.
My third number close was when we were heading towards the entrance of the Mailbox, I approached a two set that were standing in front the Tesco, I really liked one on them, so I hoped for the best and used my who lies more opener, they responded very well too and the conversation started off from there, I wanted the hotter one, but I focused my energy on her friend, we started to talk more as we move over to the cash point, I would occasionally talk to the hot one, you know what let’s give them names, Kiddy and Beta, I liked Beta and Kiddy was the once I spoke most with, I didn’t know Beta name at that point so I kept on talking with Kiddy, slowly I poked fun at her, but saying I don’t know your name should I call you Kiddy’s friend, he laughed and said that he name is Beta, I found out that they were both from Denmark, and that they studied at the University of Birmingham, I played with Beta a bit, I saw that she was wearing glasses and told her that I liked them and if I could try them on to see how they looked on me, she made fun on my saying I could get them from spec savers (ha . . . ha), but gave them to me in the end, I made her take a picture of me with my phone, I made her take it a few times just to poke fun at her that she couldn’t take picture, and after she did she remarked that I looked a lot like Harry Potter we laughed over this. I saw Jackal calling me and I used the same closing methods that I had been using the my previous number closes, I told her that I really stopped them since I though Beta was beautiful and I wanted to get her number, again SUCCESS, number 3.

The night was coming to a close and I helped Diamonds out with a two set my keeping the other girl busy talking to me I tried to number close her but failed, but Diamonds was successful, nice one mate. As we headed out of the Mailbox, we approached a few random sets and parted ways, on the way to my car, Jackal made me approach a single set, she was Chinese but from what little I could speak with her he was British Born, I was tired, I mumbled and I knew I wasn’t at my best I used the who lies more opener, she didn’t want to stay to long and told me that she was in a hurry, so I came straight clean like I had for my last 3 Number closes, and again I didn’t believe a 2 min conversation and a number close, even though I didn’t feel a connection, Jackal told me to still give her a call later. We will call this girl Emma.

On our way back, a guy had seen me get Emma’s number, and remarked it as a transaction, the guy looked pissed out of his head to me, plus add to that he had the build of a rugby player, it didn’t look so good. But Jackal took care of the situation, he entertained the guy a little bit, he remarked it as give the guy something little and let him be on his way, because we don’t know if he’s gonna mug us, or attacks us, which is a strong point. I don’t think I’ll forget that.

In conclusion I got 4 numbers today, and I’m really surprised and happy that I got them, and there was a lot more from this night, Jackal really has the heart of a leader and he shows it through the way he coaches you, he grows balls in men that only had been sprouts for testicles, that the only way I can describe him.

(update: I’ve written this FR now because after Friday night I’ve been swamped with work, and have a new idea I’m trying to get started on, so I’ve been working almost 10-12hr days, plus going to the gym doesn’t give me much time to spare. I could call only one girl on Saturday, and that was Beta, and she liked the fact that I came up to her and did what I did, she says that I had courage. So I’ve got a date with her this Sat at 1pm, I can’t wait. But I’m gonna call the rest of the girls tomorrow 07/06/2011)

Diamonds it was great sarging with you, I had fun the last time and had fun again , hope to meet you again, good luck with your exams.