Much respect jackel, appreciate your help. However I will be finished with uni by the 25th, so I do wanna meet up with you and the team if thats cool.

Dragon. I have some feedback for you. I remember Slick opening a set a few weeks back and you were winging him. Slick was pretty pissed off that you had number closed that chick although I pretty much doubt that he himself would have number closed her. But Slick got really pissed and was almost crying. For me it doesn't matter if you number close or not cos you are both virgins anyway.

virgins or not they have better game than you

Hopefully if you read this it'll help you by providing some inspiration. Or you might relate to it

This is more a report of things I have learnt, will learn and should remember to do but I will describe the interesting sets or sets that teach me things.

I have been asked by the Jackal to do a field report because my game has been pretty poor recently. I've thought about it a lot and I've come up with a few reasons as to why this is:


- I have the mind set where if I get some pussy or a little success I can relax. No I fucking can't – why am I here?
- I've been doing game in London and not getting results. London is a very different playing field
- My sex drive has been low/ almost non existent so my drive in general has been low
- Field reports were a good motivator and I don't do field reports any more

What I think got me results in the beginning of this was the energy created by wing men and especially the Jackal and his forcefulness, but as the Jackal said I can not rely on the energy created by someone else to dictate my success – it needs to come from ME, which is why I've been attempting to sarge solo recently in London, which has been difficult, but I'm getting there.

Me and Terrence had a convo the other day about asking yourself the question “why am I here? Why am I doing this?”. It seems an obvious question, but when I thought about it, I realised that when I started this I thought “If I could just get a girlfriend I'll be fine and I'll be happy, I wouldn't need friends or a social life, thank fuck I discovered the game now I can get a gf quicker!”. Now a year or so wiser and I know I'll never be happy by just getting a gf or two gfs or three. I need other things in my life and I think game will help me get it.

The bar keeps getting higher for me as it does when you're in the game. Before I didn't care for sarging solo and I didn't care for sarging indoors (clothing shops etc) now I know it's important (like other things, kino etc) for my self development not only as a “pua” but as a person. Sarging solo, I've realised, helps you to practice making your own decisions in EVERYDAY LIFE. I've noticed how I always seek validation from people in everything I do and say, I rarely make decisions before asking someone “should I get this or should I approach her or should I say this”. Even SAYING to someone what you are going to do is a way of seeking validation for your actions. It needs to change. If you're reading this and not understanding why this is a bad thing – bitches like alpha males, and alpha males don't seek validation from others before making their decisions.

Just before I left the game into a 6 month relationship, I remember having trouble approaching anyone without the jackal telling me to or asking him if I should or shouldn't do something. Now I've actually come a long way in terms of making my own decisions in field.

Another thing that should help me (which Terrence suggested) was focusing on a specific problem area and improving it otherwise improvement could be slower. Eye contact was a problem for me – my eyes darted around in conversation, I'm now making the effort to keep eye contact.

Feeling comfortable in awkward situations is something I need more of so I've been practicing introducing ridiculously long pauses in set. Last week I was having a fucking ball doing this with Zero.

A set would go something like this:
me: excuse me...
they stop and I stare for a few seconds
me: I've an extremely important question for you... **hold eye contact for ridiculously long**
me: it's a matter of life and death...
me: okay... here's the question **long pause** Why... **long pause** women?
Set: what? We don't get it.
Me: just answer the question... **eye contact** okay I'll rephrase it

etc

As you can guess it's a really awkward way to open but I'm used to it now and AS I ALWAYS SAY IF YOU DON'T GOT PAUSE GAME YOU DON'T GOT GAME! Another thing that makes me feel awkward is clothing shop game. Today I did a single set in topshop, a girl that worked there. It went well in that she was smiling (didn't say much) although I didn't even attempt number close. I felt my face go red (which never happens outside) and in set I had to take deep breaths while pausing. It was weird as fuck. Tomorrow I'll do Two indoor sets.

I opened another set today and opened with my long pauses, and they literally ignored me, said nothing at all. I just walked off. I can honestly say that has never happened to me but of course shit like that will happen!

There is something about me in London that I need to change because my birmingham game doesn't work in London. EVEN STOPPING sets in london is hard times.

Okay so things I need to remember to do in set:

Smile
Speak LOUDER
Be happy
Introduce reasonable pauses
Make statements
Display confident alpha body language
kino

The next two things Ill FOCUS on is smiling and talking louder. Things I had down before but have neglected to do recently.

Things I need to do in a sarge:

Gain approach momentum
Be 'the shit'
make independent in field decisions.

I''l end this by saying I don't believe in constricted routines/ methods/ blueprints / a specific style for an interaction or an approach. Material Which might work for one man won't work for another and using and sticking to pieces of material can sometimes be restrictive and makes game one big routine you would repeat over and over again. Routine/ repetitiveness makes game boring!
Yeah using an opener is good, but use different openers! Be an artist about it.
What I need to do is to gain momentum, get in state, adapt to situations not waste time on learning the ins and outs of a method that once worked for some guy.
All this will come with practice and a little focus. It's just a shame I didn’t realise this all a year ago. I think something you learn that is self realised has more impact on you than when you learn it from someone else.

Hi we already have a Brighton lair. There is about 10 of us....if you are interested in coming out with us. Private message me and I will add you on FB and to add you to our Lair group.



Cheers

Jon

Report Thursday 12 april.

Went into london oxford street and met up with a fellow pua and a new guy who had been doing game for just a few days. I approached a set and it was a complete blow out. Another set and the same deal. Wrong street? Maybe they think im trying to sell them something. I don't get more blow outs anywhere else! So I was feeling a bit of a “give a fuck” attitude but without drive, which is the state where you'd be happy to just lie down and sleep, then two fairly unattractive fashion students approached me and explained about their university project they were doing and asked if I would let them take a photo of me for their project. So I felt a bit vengeful given my two previous blowouts:

Girl: *long explanation of project story**
me: **flat pan face* sorry could you repeat that
Girl: *long explanation of project story**
me: sorry I was day dreaming could you say that again...
Girl: *long explanation of project story**
me: sorry I didn't get that..
girl: **repeats story really slowly**
other girl: I don't think he wants to do it, do you want to?
Me: not really
girl: okay have a nice day, youre really well dressed!

Surely after someone says youre well dressed your state should heighten a little, but it didn't as I did no approaches for about 30 minutes.

I did one more set which needed heavy pushing and encouragement from wings. She was a 9 and smoked roll ups and I actually needed a filter. We conversed for about ten mins, we hugged and I got number. YES ONE NUMBER WOOP .

in summary:

2 blow outs
1 number close
1 fake phone call to her “boyfriend”

In total only 4 approaches in two hours. LONDON GAME.

Whats with all this virgin talk lol

Imagine if you guys did this properly. youd be 10 times better by now.

Why dont you get yourself in real life situations and learn to interact like normal people on nights out but with some game. Running after girls in the street getting fake numbers and getting rejected all the time aint gonna get you some pussy.

double post

I've just written this mammoth post, it's just a long ramble of my thoughts, insights into PU and details of my current thinking and life situation, it feels good to release these thoughts, and really it's just for me, but i'll post it on a public forum (as i started writing it here, before i got carried away) and if anyone gets value from it, awesome!


doing another FR, volcano's idea has rubbed off on me

What do i want from pick up? a simple question but its actually not that obvious, well at least for me. I do not actually know the true answer, the motivation to start studying this was simply get good with girls when i first started (maybe some ex girlfriend complex in there) , showing off becoming some pua master shit, all ego based goals, that has really gone away a lot, for now my goals will be these. This is want i want for myself -

a great skillset, confidence (overall) and lots of hot sex.

I am taking a new approach to learning, focus on one broad concept at a time for a few weeks to explore it and improve, setting myself challenges and trying out new things in that area. Starting with outer game stuff (going to leave the deep inner game shit, its too advanced for me at this stage, i have the basics drilled into me now). Staring with opening, back to basics, next will be closing, then escalation....

Jackal has given me a much needed kick up the backside and i largely know most of my problems in outer game having read quite a lot of material:

I need to get comfortable sarging on my own (slowly getting better at this) and stop drawing state from my wings (also improving on this).

Go for the close on almost all sets, escalating towards a kiss close, then fail or success, go for the number.

Stay in set if its going well, i have a tendency in bars/clubs especially to walk off even if its going well, jackal makes me go back and n close at least, but i should really be staying in set and escalating, until i hit heavy resistance. I am just sparing myself rejection at a later stage and walking off like 'that when really well, they were into me and no resistance' = chode behaviour.

Following up on all numbers and push for a meet (i am currently doing this, in the past i have been lazy here).

Going for opportunities, often the heavens will allow me a great chance but i rationalize it away and do not take it (probably doesn't make sense to anyone else).

Frame control sometimes slips, this will get better with time.

I have actually stopped reading new material a while ago, other than the forum, which helps to flush out your ideas and realize you can be wrong. It does annoy me that there is a lot of people on here who have little experience giving out advice and keyboard jockeys reciting theory as if it's a new spin on things or that it comes from experience. Also i suspect a lot of guys on here just use game a bit in their social circle or do some drunk cold approaches, not really pick up (oh well everyone has there own goals). I will say that there is a decent amount of guys who are good themselves, have lots of experience and are intelligent enough to break their game down and give great insights and advice. It would be cool if there was a way to know the posters true 'ability' and grounded knowledge, awwww fantasy, i will continue guessing for now.

I go over the good material i have previously read, as i have not mastered it or tried it all out. Whats the point in reading loads if you are not implementing it.

My game is improving and sometimes it can be really top notch, when im on and in the zone. (also trying not to be so concerned with state anymore, actually thinking about it, i have not been focusing on this aspect of my game and i haven't had 'bad' state for a while). Im getting good at just joking around and getting a good vibe going, my opening in bars is pretty cool (i just talk until something hits). Still, i need to improve conversational skills, as it can go dry at points, i may just try talking about topics i love and sharing them (i've read this countless times) and also saying normal stuff in a cool fun way. My flake rate of numbers is way down, they will at all text me, i will soon see how many will meet again, i am optimistic.

As a general guide, i will just continue with going out and meeting girls and find solutions to sticking points when they arise, i have a lot to work on already.

As a side note health and fitness is great (probably the healthiest person i know, and i used to be so bad at points in my past). Style and fashion is good, i try to buy fewer items but better quality, so they last and look awesome, rock n roll look going on. My social circle has decreased a lot since starting pick up, not too concerned with this, it is a good thing, that is how i frame it, the friends i spend the most time with are into game at some level: at home and at uni. At uni i do have lots of non game friends i still see but at home i tend to not see my old friends. I still enjoy their company but im normally off out in town sarging, exercising, or doing work and research, my social time is spent in town meeting new people,. My friends at home remind me of my old lifestyle 'just chilling' this was good while in school but it time to get successful in life, and they are just doing exactly the same thing i did a couple of years back, i want to grow and change. My plan is to move to London after i graduate get a job in advertising/marketing, and continue PU down there.

Note this, my views in pick up are always changing, i used to think MM was fool proof lol, thus i might look back on this and scream BS, but its my state of thinking now.

I make the 'mistake' of telling friends that i was getting into PU, most people laugh, ask why, they told other people i knew, this used to bother me, and i would defend PU.
Now i can say i honestly don't give a fuck, i don't care if people know i do PU, i don't care if they think its rubbish/ useless/ fake/ creepy, it doesn't bother me, i don't even react even it comes up.

I am passionate about improving myself, the rest of the world can remain as chodes.

Please look at the Lay Reports section.

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Meet and Wing.

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The Jackal an Introduction.
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The Field Reports.
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The Lay Reports.
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Subzero. I heard you were once questioned by the police while u were doing street game in Sheffield. I have also seen Dragon once being questioned by a street warden in Victoria square while he was running around like a duckling(also wearing a stupid bag) behind several girls. When the police have to ask you to stop sarging it means you have a creepy stalker vibe about you.

Where are your lay reports Jackal, I could'nt find them?

INTERESTING INCIDENT WHILE STREET SARGING
Once SLICK opened a 2 set (hb7.5's Indian and blonde) at New Street. They were quite drunk and Slick immediately was walking along with them and getting a lot of kino from them. JACKAL asked me to wing SLICK. The Indian chick immediately started giving me IOI's and started hugging me and stuff . SLICK said "No, she is mine" and grabbed her from me. So I put my hand around the blonde. She felt a bit uncomfy and moved away. They asked us to join them at SNOBS. I said we will join them. JACKAL said we should not join them because they should comply to us and not we complying to them. It could be true. But isnt it compliance when the girl was already hugging me ? The actual reason was that JACKAL didn't want to be left alone while we went to the club with the hot chicks. This is not a good attitude. It is like cockblocking by your own wings which happens way too often in the JACKAL crew or any other group for that matter. Cockblocking is human nature. It takes a guy of great character to be a good wing. Helping a fellow PUA to get laid is something which can only come from someone who has risen above the reptilian level of thinking with the primitive part of our human brain which harbours jealousy and ill will.

DON JUAN J012 is the GREATEST ..........fictional writer ever. Look the reality is that don juan is quasimoto look-a-like with an even worse spine ,who is too chicken shit to do an simple approach. Last time when the crew went out to do some approaches DON JAUN was as usual staring at us from a corner( that was i call a creep). DON JUAN i wish you were your internet persona, confident, articulate and most importantly less CRITICAL of yourself.


PROVE TO EVERYONE IN FORUM YOUR NOT ALL TALK

RECORD ONE APPROACH AND POST IT HERE. this means an actual approach... not another fictional story please.

if you try to change the subject......you have already lost ....

DRAGON - We need a new term to describe you. Someone who is one rank below AFC level. I don't even know. Maybe retarded works just fine but that would be an insult to retarded people.