This weekend was horrible. I did no approaches. None.

The only interactions I got into were sets that one of the other guys opened already.

At Wetherspoons on Broad St, Jackal opened a seated 3 set. 1 minute into it, he called me over. I sat down and started talking to the girl across from me (reluctantly). It turned out to be a good conversation though. I ejected after 10 minutes. Jackal said that before I go, I had to go back and ask for her number. I went back to her table and said "Before I go, can I have your number?". She immediately said yes and then put her number in my phone. That made me really happy.

The next night, I went out with Subzero, Volcano, and Jackal. Jackal tried to push me, but I wouldn't approach any sets. After he left, the rest of us went to Snobs. Subzero is fucking awesome in the club. He just pulls girls in and they go along with it. Volcano was on a roll last night. He kissed two girls. He was making out with one of them right in front of me.

Slick, don't be disheartened.

Some people need to approach more.

Some people need to approach less.

There is a natural balance created by nature.

If I approached like the others, I would have been having a serious problem managing my dates.

Your score= number of approaches X attractiveness.

So people who are not attractive have to approach more and create attraction through routines to compensate for their mediocre attractiveness.

Approach machines are going to get only HB6's or lower. If I start approaching, I can go for HB8's and above.

this is totally wrong, approaches are practice, which develops your game (and arguably your attractiveness or ability to create attraction). There is no natural balance, wtf is that!?

But yes some people do have to approach less, like brad pitt, but those who are learning pick up tend not to be a celebrity.

Hi all,

I haven't posted on here in AGES because of work and life so I thought I would now. It's really cool seeing you guys out and about in town whenever I catch you. I must say though I haven't been sarging in a good while now. I've been with a wonderful girlfriend for almost 6 months now who has completely taken away my desire to sarge...

Just been reading the thread and it's great to see you all active. Well, I'm just here to say a hello really, and to thank Jackal again for helping me grow in so many ways.

It's crazy to think that it is almost a year ago that I met Jackal. I've changed so much since then, thanks man. I used to be so shy, timid and frustrated. Now I feel happy and liberated. This has been the best year of my life, it's truly been a year of growth. Sometimes I think back and I really miss going out with you all and feeling the rush, fear and excitement of successes and disappointments!

Anyway. I will have a lot more free time now, so I would love to start meeting up with you all again. I still hold you all as great friends.

Keep all this up guys it's always so much fun, trust me. And Jackal, you gave me the confidence and skills to snatch the girl of my dreams, thank you!!!

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Meet-up and Wings:
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subzero. I can approach 100 sets in a night if i have had 4 double vodkas. Some people get drunk, start fighting with their wings, shout in restaurants and annoy people. Drunk game is not real game. Thats what chavs have been doing for the last millenium. You also need to go to the gym and bulk up. There are more fundamentals which are harder to fix than you think. Approaching can be learnt easier than some other fundamental issues. Approaching and not knowing what to do next is also another issue. For example - shit tests, negging, and DHVing and Qualifying are also difficult things to deal with. Getting a kiss close is of no use. Girls with boyfriends will kiss in clubs. It is no big deal. If you really are good at game, try posting lay reports on a regular basis. Atleast one lay report a month. And not with a UG. Atleast a HB6.

SARGING DURING THE WEEK:

Hey Guys, I'm starting to sarge regularly during the week, my preference is Day/Street Game (basically anywhere/ any-time as long as it is not in a night club). If you are committed to hitting the streets during the week , I am looking to do 2 - 3 hour sessions in the city centre between 17:00 - 20:00 roughly Monday to Friday after work. If this kind of intensity resonates with you drop me a pm, if not please don’t reply will only be wasting each other’s time.

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Change and growth take place when a person has risked himself and dares to become involved with experimenting with his own life.

Herbert Otto

I am interested in women, however I am invested in learning the skill set.

DRAGON Field report 6

JACKEL,VOLCANO
Saturday was one of the worst daygame I had. I went in that day with mind-set of try to be being this spontaneous funny guy I portrayed last week but I soon learned realised you can’t control the mood you’re in. One example was when I went into this two set that were standing near this tree having smoke.

Me- hey guys I thought you were really cute so had to come over and say hi
Short hair- ok (looks away)
Me- I hope you guys get cancer.

That was really childish and did not accomplish anything. I was told by JACKAL that showing your frustration to these women your approaching will only result in you looking ass. I understood that but I was just too tired.

20 Tuesday Mar

Today I met up with JIMEBEAN from PUA forum. My first impression of JIMEBEAN is that is a calm and very determined individual who works hard at improving himself. I can relate to this because I am also trying to get out of my comfort zone and try to be more outgoing. As we came out from the coffee shop JIMEBEAN already was starting approach. I on the other hand took my time and approach this girl with fur coat. The conversation I had with her was ok but I need improve the way approach these women because my method looks very intimidating. The way that I approach is that I see attractive female then in my mind I start to negotiate with myself on whether I can do it or not. I after that walk up to her but I constantly hesitant and this is shows in my body language.
While we were approaching today I and JIMEBEAN gave each other feedback on what we should do differently. What I improve on was just taking my distance and also looking more relax by putting one hand in my pocket to avoid too much hand movement.

Field report 7

This week I have team up with TERRENCE to do some daygame. The way that TERRENCE sarges is quite different to how I do it. That made easier for use to learn from each other. In my last FR I talked about how I sometimes negotiate with myself before I do an approach. When I do finally do an approach I tend to scare the women a bit.Watching TERRENCE approach I notice that he signals the set before approaches them. This might seems obvious but that was missing from my approach. That day I did not get any number closes but I was able to stop more sets .

Saturday

The JACKEL, VOLCANO, TERRENCE, NEW GUY
Today I wasn’t outcome motivated I was trying to improve my approaching abilities. One thing I need to avoid is getting to convertible talking to wingman because than you start enables each other from doing more approaches.When the JACKEL showed up I remembered the reason why am doing this. I notice this cute redhead walking past and the JACKEL told my approach immediately. I was able to stop her using the method I picked up from TERRENCE. After like 5 min of conversation I number closed. The mistake I made in the set JACKEL pointed out was that didn’t walk and talk her to work. If I did walk with her I think I would have a more of solid number close.

Hey fellas,

I'm working on a field report on a daygame approach I did last week, a more detailed report as requested by Jackal himself, still in the middle and I'm sure when it's up, you guys would be pleased for I seldom do such a detail report, not that I don't, just that I don't remember much most of the time but with this, I could because it was by far the best one. So keep an eye for the FR.

On the other hand, I need you guys help on where is a good place for DAy 2 outing. Is there anything happening on a tuesday in Birmingham City Centre, eg, carnival, festival or some sort. Or any fresh ideas, happy to take that as well

Cheers

Out with Jackal, Dragon and Volcano

21th - 24th March 2011 :

Wednesday 21st

Out with Dragon and Jackal in BCC first night doing evening street game. Did a lot less sets than I usually do, as I was staying in set longer because of better transitioning from the opener and just better relaxation in set. I did this by not going into interviewer mode once I had stopped the set. Example I make an assumption like ‘You are a student ain’t you’ rather than going off on one and asking what course, uni, year area you into. I focused on engaging the set emotionally. ‘You stuck me as procrastinator; the like of student that always does things late minute’. The importance of pausing and strong eye contact after an assumption, to allow the set to feel the pressure on them to fill the silence.

Started to wing more stopping and entering sets with jackal. Very quickly appreciated that winging is a set in its own right and takes time to gel with a wing. Appreciating their style and energy in set, Jackal taught me how to isolate the different targets in the set, by moving away from each other in each thus meaning the girls split and two conversations take place. The use of aggressive kino if need be to engage a girl if she still listening in to the other conversation. I had 1 number close.

Thursday 22nd

Awesome evening out with Jackal and Dragon. Had 6 number closes.

Key Learning Points:

Like any other disciple the warm is an such an understated but critical part of a good day in field. It is really important to warm up being chatty to people in general not just girls, just getting yourself into a sociable chatty state.
Getting the first approach of the day as soon as possible is Key. Fucking it up its only to get the juices flowing.

It’s important to have clear sexual intent in set, of course calibrated to the set. However there should never be ambiguity as to why you are there. This can be direct verbally or through strong non verbal’s strong eye contact, voice tonality e.t.c.

A number close is just the minimum from an interaction, one should always be thinking of pushing themselves in set for a K-Close, F Close if it’s on in the set. Do not get caught up in just collecting numbers.

Your vibe and energy is everything when you are out there enjoying yourself people just naturally feel it and are more ready to engage with you in conversation.

The importance of isolating girls if they are in a two set, so both of you can have more intimate conversations with the girls.

Social Intelligence: as day gamer unlike a club or bar environment were people have come to a particular venue to drink and socialise with girls expecting to be hit on. Day game is different in that people are getting on with their day rushing for work .e.t.c. The intelligent day game needs to adapt walk with girls but always leading her not following her.

Being a good wings is a skillset in and of its self, appreciating your different styles and making sure you do not clash in set. Isolation after opening and the set has hooked is very important for this.

Friday 23rd

Another Fantastic evening out with Dragon first and then Later Jackal. The evening’s sarging started of slow doing a number of warm up sets that felt clunky and awkward, because I was not fully in a social chatty state. Open an HB7 Italian girl number closed and that was the set that tipped me in that ‘I just out here enjoying my self-kind of vibe’. Did about two hours with Dragon who as enthusiastic as ever and that kind of energy is essential when you have just begun sarging and need to loosen up. Thanks to Jackal for constantly opening my perspective about the possibly of a situation ‘Kiss Her Man’ he prompted he to kiss this girl I had opened there was a strong sexual vibe and it was on, when I might have been content with a number .e.t.c. Had 5 number closes.

Key Learning points:

Getting a girls number should not signify the end of the set, but rather the interaction should be as solid as possible to avoid the likelihood of flaking.

The importance of rinsing a set, there were a number of set were we had really good interactions that had initially blown one of us out.

The importance of re-engaging a set and going in for the number close if you had not gone for it.

The importance of always pushing yourself to get out of your comfort zone. Did a bit of bar game, mixed sets and guy sets. Developing a rounded skill is important not just locational confidence i.e. on the streets; girls are everywhere so a rounded skill set should mean you are effective in all locations. It is key to have an appreciation of the particular social dynamics of the different locations.

The importance of wings to give each other feedback on sets we winged, because we see different things in set. Giving your wing a verbal/Non verbal nug in set if need be example to take things further.

Saturday 22th

This was my third consistent day all down to the understanding that I need to start quickly, but I like me about 2 hours to totally be in a chatty social state. So I do not panic when I have not approached sets for a couple of minutes. As the sarge wears on I know I will get in a good vibe where I am enjoying myself. I trust and don’t use words AA, the brain is a muscle that needs warming up like any other muscle. Thus it’s all natural after that at.

I opened my set of the day just leaving my place HB7.5 number closed with my first approach of the day, not my smoothest ever. Opened an HB 8 near victoria square, I had strong sexual intent throughout the whole conversation number closed second set of the day. Finished the day with 5 number closes.

By osmosis and spending four nights with the Jackal winging each other and observing some of his alpha mannerisms in set. I did a lot more aggressive kino pulling girls by the hand, better leading on moving sets, by setting the walking pace (Thus I am not following her), stopping, walking again .e.t.c. A big thank you to Diamonds and Dolphin for massive help with my text game and general advice about the journey.

Key Learning Points:

The importance of adapting to the dynamic situations of day game mother and daughter sets, e.t.c. Opened a mother daughter set, established the relationships really quickly, diffused the mum told her daughter would join her soon she kept walking to their destination. When you are sparking attraction in the mum the as well. I have say that set was really FUCKING ALPHA.

Guy's hope there are not too any typo's and errors, typing this field Report was like writing a mini essay.

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Change and growth take place when a person has risked himself and dares to become involved with experimenting with his own life.

Herbert Otto

I am interested in women, however I am invested in learning the skill set.

As promised, this is a FR which successfully turns into a lay, but for now this is a FR of my initial approach and my subsequent "text game" leading to a day 2 which is a week in between! This is the set which I did approaches with Dragon last Tuesday. This FR was initially written on a different forum at that time and I thought I would share it here as well


"I was doing Day game and I usually go with direct aka Soul style. The result was pretty alright, the ratio of blow outs and sets hooking is getting smaller now but by this point I was really tired, couldn’t be bothered to do anything else and then I saw this blonde girl with blue eyes dress in black top and black trousers and without thinking and I just went straight in and deliver my opener and keeping in mind to have slight pause in my opener. It hooked, I could tell from her expression that this is going to be a fun conversation. (Just a side note, I was so tired at this point, my speech starts to slow down as well which actually help me like…A LOT!)

I ran Emotional Progression Model but concentration on Day game so I know qualify her more but along the course of the interaction I throw in some Attraction –something I’ve learnt from Mr.M, basically feeling the cup- All this while I never done Storytelling before but recently I’ve been reading over Magic Bullets again and I decided to do short Attraction Storytelling as well. Ok, these are story that are not entirely true, and to be honest I’m not proud of it, but its based on my life and I just alter the way the storyline goes. Here’s a rough interaction between me and her. Can’t remember most of it because I mostly say gibberish and made things along the way

Me: Excuse me, I was just on my way to meet my friend and I saw you… I had to come over and say hi…. I think you look absolutely adorable, I had to find out more about you.

She: Haha Thank you

Me: Let me guess, you’re on your way to do some shopping *just doing cold read to see what she was doing at that time and I got more info

She: Yes I’m getting present for my friends new home

*some fluff talk later*

*I qualify her a lot, I cannot remember most of it but is mostly fluff talk but along the line I qualify her with “Are you adventurous? Are you a good friend?”

Me: What do you do for fun? You give me the vibe that you like to party.

I did a bit of story telling about my life and try to hit as many attraction switches as possible

I told her what I did for fun and Im competing in a tournament this Sunday and have a meeting with girl on Tuesday

I eventually made up a story of an ex girlfriend which obviously I do not have and because it’s not true I didn’t dwell into that story much, I just throw it out there and move to a real and more meaningful story

*Cannot remember her response*

Eventually I found out that she is from Denmark for work placement and she’s only going to be here for another 2 weeks and I basically had some commonality and we talk a bit more, she told me she got no friends here and didn’t go out a lot and this is where I suggest we go out and have coffee –she said she never been to starbucks?!! Got an actual day planned, I first suggested Sunday, she said she was going London on that day and I told her Tuesday evening and I number close her

Me: We definitely need to go out and have coffee together

She: Sure, why not

Me: Ok, whats your number?

She: Oh, I don’t know my number

*At this point I thought, this looks familiar, she’s not going to give me her number and that was it, the interaction is ending at any moment now.

She: give me your number so I can text you my number

*THANK GOD*

We stayed and chat for while more, more fluff talk. And eventually we say goodbye and I told her I will call her this weekend.

20 minutes later I sent her a quick text

Me: “hey, another good present idea, bean bag couch your friend will love it

15 mins later

She: hey. Yes good idea

30 minutes later she text me again

She: sorry, it’s a little embarrassing, but what was your name?:)

Me: It’s Jeremy. You’re in so much trouble:) how’s the present hunting?

She: Ok, thanks:D No, I gave up hope to find it another day

*and I left at that for that day

Yesterday I text her again in the morning, did call back humour, I made a little joke on her about Swedish.

“Good morning Swedish:) on the way to training and saw good place to buy your present. IKEA! How’s your day? Don’t give up

I sent the text at 10am and no reply till 3PM

She: Hey I had not seen your message until now. Hehe this is actually Denmark;) Ikea was a good idea, where is it gone? I have a nice day, im just on my way home from work. What about your day?

*a few back and forth but basically a bit humour and call back just thought she would not forget me, don’t want her to flake on day 2. We send more text and I was actually trying to push the text a little sexualise but she wasn’t good in her English so she didn’t understand, but I might be wrong in the wording itself

She: Yep I have no wild plans for today.

Me: I’ll make sure when we meet, were gonna have a wild one, unleash the animal in you, can you handle that? I like girls who knows how to have fun*ok I know, I cringe as well reading this

She: Haha Im not sure I know what you mean, but it sounds fun but I had actually thought of taking a cup of coffee together?

Me: I was talking about coffee. What were you thinking you naughty girl. I know an awesome starbucks, best couch ever

She: I think you misunderstand me, my English skill is not very good! well, its sounds just great when we do it

*so I arrange to meet next Tuesday

Now here’s my question.

What can I do from now till then to make sure the Day 2 doesn’t flake?

How can I push it further? I have a feeling if I can lead, I can push further, and she seems to be up for anything, the problem is I don’t know how, should I sexualise the text, should I call her in the weekend.

I have logistic problem as well, I live in another city and she lives in Birmingham at the moment, I'm meeting her in Birmingham.

All advice and critique is appreciated, hope to hear from you guys

Thanks in advance. "

So there you go guys, hope this helps:)
To be fair, we were both very attracted to each other so the lay came naturally which is shocking even to me given the fact logistics were not on my side. Leave a comment or critique, would love to read about it and keep an eye for that LR, should take couple of days LOL

JimBeam

im so jealous

Ohhh that FR was so much fun to read! Argghhh I miss all the sarging ! Well done mr Jimbean you have a great story to tell now. ´

That was so inspirational!

All your hard work is obviously paying off! You will find that things start to get easier now because your confidence will grow like a snowball tumbling down a hill

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My second night with Jackal: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sPdJzLw9 ... re=related

Meet-up and Wings:
why-would-jackal-want-you-phone-test-th ... 85260.html

Jim Beam. Impressive field report. But you have not done any kino while qualifying her. Hope you like Kelloggs corn flakes cos this is going to be one big flake. Go to ikea and suck on some sausages.

Thanks buddy.
I did kino her, just didn't mention on FR but thanks for the heads up