Hi Adarmus, my obedient little teddy bear, copying daddy's style aren't we. Cuz you're too stupid to have your own.

Well I have beautiful shiny ass, what kind of ass do u have, one that has poo coming out of it.

You also remind me of guy in high school who use to wipe my ass, why don't u pop over, cuz Ive run out of toilet paper.

Meow pussycat

When u fight a comedian u better damn well be funny.

It's a good job you're not a comedian then, as you are not funny.

I would never copy your style because I would be no good at pick up.

Yes poo does come out of my bum as it does for most people but in your case it seems to come out of your mouth.

Some one from school wiping your ass????? I remember schooling you. Have a hard think of how many other people used to school you too.

Good luck with the stand up, you need it.

not being funny but JACKAL you are making yourself to look like a bit of a fool. you are supposed to set an example to your students prove your theories in field and not on here. asking peopl to post the field reports is good so it shows you are getting some sort of results. so why would you ruin it all by writting really poor taste jokes that arnt very funny and make you look silly. people are entitled to think whatever they want and your are not the only person in the midlands in this community so expect to be critisized. maybe you should try working with other people instead of insulting pweople and you would learn a lot more.

Ilyas

Read the link it sounds daft. Found some videos and couldn't find any pick up just people saluting and faking punches to each other whilst shouting movie scene phrases. I don't understand what sort of gaming this is. Why don't you put videos on when you kiss close properly in staed of videos of you standing around saluting.

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I am loving the attention.

I have never been so popular.

Thank you my little teddy bear Ardamus. I have never had someone suck my dick for so long and with so much passion since rainKING took a nibble. He loved it so much he still hasn't brushed his teeth. His so excited his been sharing my cum with his teddy bear friends.

Go teddy bears. Yeah.

Bring your teddy bear friends. Join the fight, take a bite. Mm I'm tasty. Bloody hell, Ive just eaten myself. I'm xxxxing delicious.

Ive heard Ardamus you have changed your name to PUSSIES R US. Now that you've got a vagina you can get some cock.

Wow Jackal you seem highly intellectual and mature too.

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Some answers.
We are a group of friends, and want to recruit more friends. This is our special thread. I become a leader to gather caring guys, before that PUA's I had met tended to be selfish types who had no interest in making friends but just wanted to sarg.

I am not a kung fu man, nor a intellectual, I am a comedian. My weapon is comedy, so it is this tool that I use to fight back with. If I made everyone laugh I would be millionaire, so sometimes I don't.

I have posted, 22 videos. The recruitment is a means to an end, it is a way of having guys come together and becoming friends, I really don't have the time to be a professional, besides this thing has only been running for a month, everything is amateur, as we are all learning.

I gave an intelligent answer to rainking, and then edited it as he ignored my answer and was making comments to those he was pretending to care for.

Basically I said to him not to judge a person until he had met that person.

He has continued to make negative comments about me and my group, and has not stopped.

Yes this is a public forum, but if someone is going to throw a punch then they should expect for one to be thrown back, maybe even a hundred when they had underestimated their opponent and are too proud to desist.

rainking did not ask questions but made accusations.

It is clear that people who are posting comments are not willing to start at the beginning of the thread, and are just looking at the last one, this is a shame.

Yes I would like to answer questions but only to those who ask respectfully. I will give my answers and not the answers you want, I guess that’s why I am the one being asked otherwise you would have asked yourself.

- When u fight a comedian u better damn well be funny.

my response is - If you are going to fight, make sure you can fight.

It's about time you wrote something worth reading.
If the people you recruit and the people thinking of contacting you see what you are writing I think they will see you in a different light.
Low forms of wit represent low forms of value and that is something you don't want to give off to students.

Fair enough, this is your thread for your reports so maybe we should do this on a different one.

Adarmus,

Don't you read MOD posts? No flaming, trolling or spamming allowed. So quit throwing oil on the flames.

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To anyone who says the jackal does this to "boost his fragile ego". It means nothing to me in terms of my progress whether he is doing it for that reason or not. He helps me. What ever he gets out of it should mean obsoletely nothing to anyone wanting to join.

Field report:

I met up with Jackal at the usual meeting place. He was lying down on the grass, as I got there he told me to relax. I could sense that the Jackal was in the mood to perform tonight.

Started the night off with a bit of fun and games. The Jackal had an idea for this, one person would approach talking german and I would be the translator (Diamonds is a german translator). We did this with one set, but they seemed unresponsive and overly shy but diamonds handled this very well. We ejected. These were, I'd say HB8 and HB6.

Then what me and Leonidas did was, he acted as he he was blind and I was his carer who lead him around the place. We approached a two set and explained that he was blind , and started talking (HB5 and HB7). Cant remember what was said, but I remember asking the who lies more opener, that went on for a while. These girls were very responsive. Me and leo tried this one more time with another two set walking down the street and we had a bit of small talk before I revealed I wasnt blind. These were in their mid twenties. Went okay, we moved on.

After this we went to another place, Diamonds approached a two set sitting on a table while I approached what Jackal had called "that miserable set". I approached with a friendly and AFC "hey guys how it going?" and she looked up at me and said "mate im fucked". She had explained that she had smoked too much weed and they were all leaving, so I said fair enough said my good byes and joined the two set that Diamonds and Leo were now engaging. (HB9 and 7... 7.5). Conversation here was flowing well, the 9 was very responsive to Diamonds and leo the 7 joined in sometimes too. Not sure at what point Jackal had joined the set but tonight I got to see him perform. They were both very responsive to him and laughed at all his jokes, I was impressed. They then all left me alone with these two and the 7 said something like "was this your plan? for them to leave you alone us two?" (implying the plan was for me to start hitting on them at this point) so I said "no no, Ive only known these guys for a short while we had no plan, I didnt know they just approached random girls". anyway conversation was flowing but seemed kinda burned out. I need to write down and memorize some material for conversation, as at the moment im not good at on the fly conversations. There was also a time when I was left alone with the 9, she started asking me questions after the 3 seconds of intense awkwardness had gone by. I asked a few of my own but I was so nervous. Anyway we left this set and went inside. I was asked to approach some older women and asked for all their numbers, the jackal and told me that I will get blown out but that I should do it anyway. I didnt mind doing it. I was then told to approach another set (HB6 and 9). Walked up to them said some stuff, asked what she was drinking as it seemed an interesting drink, she said somehing I couldnt pronounce or even remember but she offered me a taste (Tasted good). the 9 seemed as if she wanted me to stay but I had run out of things to say and awkwardness would ensue if I didnt eject. So I just said nice meeting you girls have a good night and that was that. I then opened another set, conversation went okay, I didnt get the number but things seemed light, I remember one had said to me " youre quite confident coming all around this table to sit here and talk to us" I just smiled and shrugged and asked if they were there often, they said and and I said I might see them again sometime, Then walked off. Then before we left They were saying goodbyes to the first set we approached outside, so jackal told me to go up and hug them, I did, then we left.

After this I needed to get a train back home so we were on our way back and Diamonds approached a two set (HB6..6.5 and . This group stopped and the Diamonds had attempted to lock them in by leaning against the wall but they didnt turn. So he just moved to stand in front of them. The 8 was very quick on her feet and witty and wasnt intimidated in the slightest. Conversation flowed for a while, Diamonds attempted to number close but the girls refused. Never the less, it was a good interaction though I didnt say very much at all except... when the jackal told the 8 to touch my hair - she did, and I had said, "thanks it happened to itch right where you were scratching", she laughed historically, yes HILAAAARIOUS.

So Ill skip a bit because there is still quite a lot to go through. I basically missed my 11 o clock train. I was told by Jackal and they were sitting in whetherspoons. I got there and they talking to a two set. Jackal had explained that he had commitments and that Diamonds still lived with his family so I had two options, 1, to sit in the station, or 2 to do some club game till three then go to the station. I was then told to approach a two set sitting in whetherspoons. I was soo tired and I just couldnt be asked. So he convinced me to do it, I did and they were already quite drunk (HB6 and . They were friendly and said to me to get a chair so I did. I explained the train situation and then they said "so your looking for someone to go out with with you tonight", So i was like "is that an invitation" and they said yes. Jackal and Diamonds came over we had a talk, Jackal suggested that They gove me their number so that If I loose them I can phone or text them, they agreed, so did i. So That was my first two number closes of the night obviously helped along by Jackal.
Jackal and diamond left and it was just me and them. We left for some club, and inside I lost them when I went for a drink, I attempted to call them but no one answered, one texted saying "who is this" Then she said at what club they were but I had already decided to go to subway city, since someone in the club had recommended it for dubstep. I was already on my way so I decided just to leave it. They didnt seem too interested in keeping me around anyway.

So on my way down I approached a two set, had an okay flowing boring conversation with them, then moved on. Stopped a three set walking up just finished going out (was about 12 o clock) and asked them for directions to subway city. Conversation flowed, I seemed chilled I asked them all for their numbers and they gave them to me. That would be the last number close of the night as ill briefly explain later.

Then as I was walking further on towards this club I asked another group of people for directions, they gave them to me. They were all high and drunk but they guy seemed still to be able to give me directions. One of the woman said something like "mate. would you like a few drags off of this spliff for your journey". So just did. I should have said no since I know what the stuff does to me sometimes. So Yeah I took a few drags and the guy said "would you like a blowback". I didnt know what this was, so the woman was like "if he doesnt know what it is, dont do it. I left it at that, said my goodbyes and thankyous and moved on.

I walked past a place called subside, saw the bouncer sitting on a wall outside, went up to him and started asking questions about the place. He seemed really friendly but quite busy. He kept having to walk away and stop people from going in. So I approached a guy outside the place having a cig. We had an awesome conversation about anxiety and depression (lol). I basically told him my predicament and he had explained that he had done the same thing numerous times. He invited me to chil with him and his friends inside. So I said okay ill see him inside.

So (Im trying to make this as short as a can) went inside met loads of random people but the place was dead. Wasnt very packed and 95% of the people were males and most girls were surrounded by a group of men. Basically, I ended up going to the wrong place. Its place that stays open till 6 playing alternative music. I liked the music but there werent very many girls.

So I was talking to two guys about something (byt his time everyone were zombies, it was about 3 oclock) Some guy came by asking for some rizzla so I remembered that I needed tobacco. I asked and he said "yes and Ive got a spliff upstairs if you have more rizzla" so I was like... alright. walked upstairs. There were some chavy looking guys up there, spoke to a cool guy, took a few drags of the spliff he played me some of his favourite substep tunes lol. then went down stairs approached more random people. By the end Id approached up to around half of the people in subside. So every time I approached a new group id explain what had happened to me but someone would walk paste and we would greet each other and the people I was with would say something like "thought you were alone" and Id always have to say "yeah I met them tonight...".

So yeah. Strange strange night.

There isn't a lot of pickup attempts involved in the last part of this post but I thought Id include it anyway because of the wierdness of it all.

I apologize for all the grammar and spelling mistakes. I also apologize to the rest of the team/crew about any situation inaccuracies. Im quite tired.

Field Report Friday 20th May 2011:

Like I mentioned before, the only way I can describe this change in me is as an android who has been given new behavioural adjustments. Where is my AA? Where is the quiet unconfident voice in my head telling me that I should rather not say this or that? Where is my emotion? Instead I receive new orders from my various logic functions telling me when to DHV and when to neg, when to kino and when to roll-off. I feel no fear, no emotion... I move in and get the job done. When I am on form I can become a very efficient Telephone-Number-Collection-Robot. But can I sustain it?

The danger for me is that now I may become too much of an automaton. Now is the point where I need to start a second stage of evolution which will lead me back to my starting point as a human. If I want to develop a natural ability I need to look back to my old personality, filter the wheat from the chaff and retake the empathic old-self without bringing the unconfident baggage that used to encumber me. It is perhaps ironic that after trying so hard to change my behaviours in order to become an automated approach machine that I must now re-humanise myself and come full circle to achieve higher and more sustained results to proceed to the next level.

That being said, there is a feeling inside me that concerns me. My performance of late feels rather lukewarm compared to when I was at my peak of getting four numbers in a night and feeling the raw excitement of a true PUA. I don’t know what it is; it is as though desperation is creeping into me. Perhaps I’ve made so much progress in such short time that I have become accustomed to sweeping and profound change. Perhaps it is all in my head. Perhaps I need to understand that like president Obama’s inauguration, expectation cannot be held sky-high forever, and that like Obama´s, my wave has dissipated. Now begins the hard graft, the kind of hard work that takes more effort and more learning. I need to stop feeling like I am failing Jackal and myself if I don’t achieve perfect results all the time. This is a life changing experience that can’t just be tackled with one fell swoop. Still, I wonder though, where this feeling is coming from…

…But…to the night…

I’ve learnt a lot from Jackal in the weeks I have been training with him. Last night re-enforced this affirmation as I entered a set of 2 Asian girls at 10 status with my good friend Leonidas whose resonating positive energy never fails to ensure my energy levels stay at 100%.

As is often so when Leonidas is out, him and I will independently approach sets without prompt from Jackal. Things come together and are much more fun when I am with Leonidas. When he is around I don’t force myself to learn in the draconian style of a university student getting ready for an exam. Instead I feel like I am in field to have fun whilst I learn and to enjoy the process of learning rather than focusing on the means to an end.

Anyway like I said, this Asian set was hot, the girls really looked gorgeous. I know now that I really am starting to filter out the sets, when in bars I don’t feel intimidated by their beauty; I’ve built an elevator to the top of their pedestals so I can interlope on their status-chasing. With this in mind I approached. For some reason I knew that I would be leaving with a number, I could feel something in the air, I knew I wasn’t going to fail this one. Besides, I had Leonidas on my tail, with his good looks and muscles the guy is the personification of the Spartan warrior. If I failed, my friend would easily make sure we left with an eleven digit prize. I strolled confidently forward, I didn’t choreograph my walk, I didn’t need to, I had adapted, and my body was running on autopilot…

“Hey guys!” Pre-opener away, the water would be tested.

Smiles and positive body language welcomed me, this set was going to be another cake-walk and I was going to enjoy myself.

“Hey, I need a female opinion, my friend over there keeps saying that my shirt makes me look gay, what do you guys think?” I pointed to Leonidas whilst speaking with joking disgust.

“No why?” They both answered with their This-is-completely-random faces. At least I was in under the radar. To answer their question I told a story of how a guy had pinched my arse thinking I was gay because of my stylish shirt.

“No way! OMG LOL!” They both exclaimed! The buying temperature was high, their faces lit up in front of me with their eyes beaming on me.

I selected my target and sat down next to her, gosh she was hot. I was really glad that I would soon have her number. Instantly the sparks began to fly as I ran my opener and began stacking. At the same time as sitting down I made sure that I began touching her and giving lots and lots of kino. For this I was rewarded with lots of IOIs and kino in return. She was touching my arms, and shoulders as well as placing her hands in mine momentarily. I was doing a good job. She was hot, and therefore confident. For the first time I feel that I got the balance between negging and complimenting exactly right. The eye contact and kino was incredible. I think the term to describe this is “kino-pinging”? Either way we were all over each other physically and verbally.

It was at this point the great and proud stomping of King Leonidas could be heard as my trusty team mate came into set. Like the professional he is he instantly isolated the other girl for me. The rubber ninjas would bounce together once more!

We lost track of time. Admittedly we spent too long in set but we were both having great fun and the girls were loving the attention and out company. I had lost track of the mission that Jackal had given us, which was to arrange a double date for the next day with a set of girls. This is why I was so glad to have Leonidas on side because the guy got straight into business. From the corner of my ear I heard him say…

“So guys, we have to go soon but, me and Diamonds are going out tomorrow, you should come too. We can have a double date!”

“Erm, what are we doing tomorrow?” They hesitantly asked one an other, we had caught them off guard, they were not expecting such alpha-male behaviour from Leonidas. They would need some prompting I thought.

“Guys you gotta come, it’ll be great, we’re going to Jimmy Spices on Broadstreet. We wont flirt too much I promise.” I interjected as I placed my hands on each girls forearm.

After some moments of eye contact between the friends, Leonidas and I decided to prompt again by getting numbers.

“Hey this conversation has been so good that you should give me your number, ok? Then we’ll arrange something properly for tomorrow ok.” I said to my target.

“Ok” She responded whilst taking out her phone and giving me the number. After giving the number I solidified it by saying.

“Ok, make sure you are free tomorrow after six, I will call you at six tomorrow to arrange a date with you and your friend, ok? I will only call once, and if you do not answer I will never call again and you will miss me.”

“Yea she will miss you!” Piped up her friend in response, meanwhile my target giggled, I doubted that she’d ever heard anything so brazen in her life from a guy who was trying to arrange a date with her. I felt alpha, if not for the full night, but for this moment I did. Upon leaving Leonidas gave me some real positive feedback:

"Man your kino was perfect! That was perfectly done!" I was glad he noticed because I too was proud of everything that happened in that set.

As far as I could tell Leonidas used the same modus-operandi. After delivering our pieces we politely excused ourselves and moved out looking for the next set.

Meanwhile Volcano was doing a great job upstairs with a set he went for. I don´t know exactly how it went but I DHVed him for a moment before moving onto another set of my own. As we were about to leave some minutes later I saw Volcano´s set again so I thought I´d say goodbye. As I said goodbye they told me I should tell Volcano to go and talk to them again! Why did you eject man? You were locked in! LOL well done mr Volcano!

To be honest the rest of the night was not so great only 2 numbers in total, like I said, overall my mood seems to have come down, I am finding it harder to get into the zone at times. A strange phenomenon I admit, it feels like I am being hindered from my goals but I will keep battling forward and slowly but surely I will prevail.

Wars are not won by numbers or strength; they are won through willpower, determination and most importantly endurance. The Americans can especially testify to this, George Washington lost nearly every battle he fought with the British (remember Valley Forge and Bunker Hill?) he didn’t win through strength and firepower, he and his small, fledgling, provincial nation won by out-enduring the mightiest empire the world has ever known through willpower and determination! Just as they out-endured their foes, so shall I.

Before I finish, and this is not some lame marketing-type ploy, I just want to say to the people who place comments against Jackal based on his apparent attitude on the forum. Most of what he writes is meant to be taken with a pinch of salt and in good humour. Granted he may sound over-bearing based on his posts. Like I said before I thought the same thing. But before you start making comments on here against him, at least meet the guy and make your judgments based on real life experience. I say this because Jackal has supported me in many ways as a friend. He trains me as a friend and he looks out for me as a friend. For example when a drunken guy began getting aggressive with me for approaching his set Jackal was the first on the scene to aid me. When one of us is getting amogged, he is first on the scene. He is a good guy. I write this because I don’t want people to get the wrong idea about my friend who sincerely wants to help me. A testament to this are random “friendship” calls I receive from him asking me how I am etc. I respect that some of you may find him annoying but please, don’t flame him or us for doing what we do, at least meet us before flaming.

Haha WELL DONE mr Volcano! Loved the field report man.

You are good, you go into every set, you make the night fun and you do, do, do!

I´m so glad you decided to come back Looking forward to learning with you again!

Field Report Saturday 21th May 2011:

Ok sorry for areas which don’t make sense or grammatical errors, I’ve had a busy week and am very tired as I write this…

In the last Field report I mentioned how I feared a lack of progress in my learning and ability, this fear came to a head early on in my night with Jackal. Perhaps I need to relax more and enjoy the process. Either way based on my ability and performance or lack thereof with Jackal, I would never have guessed that major obstacles would come falling down later on in the night. I need to re-engage a fun dynamic to my time with Jackal. I’ve been focusing so much on training, training, training and searching for the next stage of enlightenment that my progress has been hindered. I need to make a chief definite rule. A rule that what I do with Jackal and what I am learning is purely for fun, pickup needs to return to being a hobby, not a desperate competition with myself. I also need to give myself more credit where credit is due since lately I have been considering a failed number close as a failure. It is not a failure it is a learning experience. I am finding that I am only basing my success on the amount of numbers I pull out, when in fact there are other variables and targets which are being met.

My body language is much better, my kino is much better, and I can hold conversations, frankly the only thing holding me back is my lack of concentration in set which leads me to forget to add DHV stories and to forget that certain personal characteristics need to be demonstrated to create attraction. I am beginning to go in without a solid plan, and this process begins a vicious circle which leads me to start asking where am I going wrong? Can I still do this? Where is my mojo? I need to stick to the plans and have fun executing them.

To the night at hand…in essence this was not a good night, due to my recent low feeling I came to the night feeling that this was a do or die session when clearly it is not; there will be other sessions, I can learn for as long as I like, there is no exam date! I need to relax more. With this negative framework in my mind I should have known that I would have a bad night lest I change my thoughts. My karma was being sabotaged by my own worst enemy; my AFC self who raised his ugly head! Either way, with this gnawing in the back of my mind I decided I would soldier on since I would not be alone in my struggle. I know that I can always count on Jackal to give me the push I need and I hate to fail him. I also needed to compose myself and change my mood because I had a date to attend later at 11pm with Laura from last week (Field Report: Friday 13 May 2011). If I were to conquer my anxiety of moving for a kiss close I would need all the positive energy I could muster.

We approached many sets; I was starting to feel better by that time anyway. My head was clearing and although I´d not tasted a number close I had been involved in some good conversations with numerous sets. I was proud for example that in one three set of, I think the terminology is “hired guns”, I went for a number-close which gave me major respect from guys around me since these three girls were the untouchables of the location and only I had the balls to approach and ask for a number. Despite failing all three had bright smiles and told me they were going to be working at the front entrance of a night-club called Gatecrashers selling tickets, and that I should find them and they would let me and a friend in for free.

Anyway, whilst Jackal and I were training outside of a pub we began talking to an old guy who was a regular at the pub. He told us his old stories of life such as being sent to prison for violence as a member of a football firm. AS we were talking to him, one of the bar girls came out to smoke a cigarette. She was hot, she didn’t look too friendly, but she was hot. Either way she and this old guy, Roger began some friendly casual conversation. At this point Jackal prompted me by whispering in my ear to ask Roger for permission before number closing this girl who I´d not even spoken to.

“Hey Roger, do you mind if ask your friend a quick question?” I politely asked as I leaned back slightly.

“No, go ahead.”

“Hey, me and my friend are leaving in a second but give me your number and we can catch up some time.” I didn’t expect it to work, I´d not even spoken to the girl. I took a quick sip of my drink to look cool and composed.

“Ok.” She said without hesitation. I swear I nearly spat the water out of my mouth into her face. I couldn’t believe she said yes.

“Erm…” I wasn’t expecting to actually get my phone out…”Nice one, ok slap your number into my phone…” She added her number and I prank called her. After receiving my call she excused herself and went back inside to work. I turned to Jackal.

“OMG man that was the easiest number-close ever! I didn’t even talk to her.” I said with excitement.

“Yea, but I set up a lot of social proofing and DHVed in the background for you. But you need to go back in there and make her remember you, otherwise the number will flake. Tell her that you asked for her number because Roger seemed to like her.”

“Ok man” I said as I walked back inside still puzzled by the apparent magical success. As I pushed open the large wooden doors to the pub I could see my target working behind the bar.


“Hey again, I just had to say that you are actually quite cute, and if Roger likes you then you must be worth getting to know. That’s why I asked for your number.”

“Aww ok, that’s sweet, you have a good night now.” She smiled as she scurried off to the nearest customer to avoid complaint, she was very in demand; it was a busy Saturday night and the pub was densely patronised.

“Wow Jackal, wtf just happened?”

“Don’t worry I´ll explain…” As we walked on to our next venue Jackal explained in detail what he had done “behind the scenes” and how it had made my number close completely fail safe. LOL nice one man very shrewd.

As the night went on things didn’t really pick up, to be honest the situation actually went downhill, my mood and determination included. I just couldn’t seem to shake off an uneasy feeling bubbling underneath the surface. I wish I could say that I fought the good fight and turned this dire situation around but I can´t, that would be just plain lying. My only consolation was the fact that I was still approaching, and still asking for numbers. The only problem was that with this residual feeling inside me, my inner game was not so bullet proof tonight and I will admit that as the rejections started to pile up, they did begin to affect my emotional state. Emotionally I felt like a boxer who through exhaustion and desperation simply walks up to his opponent with his gloves down and awaits the inevitable beat-down whilst hoping that through some miracle he might pull a rabbit out of a hat. My rabbit would not come, not yet at least…Perhaps though, if I hoped desperately and persisted tenaciously enough I would conjure something special.

The final stages of the night were the hardest, we finished slightly early, but as we were walking down towards The Jam House Jackal asked me to approach a really hot blonde girl, I did this and got about twenty secondes of conversation in before she completely lost interest. I stank of AFC and didn’t bother asking for the number.

“Go and number close that set right now!” Jackal demanded.

“Omg man she´s all the way over there…”

“I don’t care, ask for her number!” Jackal repeated. I really felt totally uncomfortable and unconfident but in response to Jackal I started to follow…

“Faster! Run!” I heard, but with each step closer to this girl the more I felt like some kind of predator, I remember thinking that since it was dark and she was alone that I would look completely like a sexual deviant.

For the first time I completely froze, no matter how much Jackal tried to get me to follow I just couldn’t do it. I felt like an absolute failure. My ego felt like it had gone fifteen rounds with a heavy weight boxer. It was broken and I was exhausted.

To cut a long story short Jackal and I ended up saying our goodbyes, I could tell he was disappointed, I was too but I wasn’t going to show my white flag yet, I still had a date in a night club at 11pm. I really wanted to prove myself, if Jackal were not there to see it, I would at least use his techniques as penance for my failure thus far.


THE DATE:

My shoulders slouched and my chest shrank as I walked back to the centre of town to the location where I would soon meet Laura again. I had to change my state so in a final attempt to salvage some sort of positive mood I recited some NLP lines that Jackal had developed for me. To a certain extent it worked, but my mood was so low that nothing short of a miracle would be enough to raise me to my normal confident levels.

Laura had invited me out last weekend on the Sunday after I had met her via text message:

“Me n my friends are going to Vudu on Saturday, wanna come? Xx”

I had agreed, she was hot and I would not pass up a girl who had just given me such an IOI, or at least I thought I would not pass up such an offer but as events transpired I nearly did.

As I carried on walking down the street I looked at my watch, it was 10:55 I only had five minutes to put myself into the zone and turn on the juice. I was nearing the club as my phone vibrated. It was her!

“I don´t think we are coming now …”

WHAT?! How dare she? This was exactly the kick up the backside I needed! Like some kind of soldier who through training responds automatically to danger with calm, professional composure, I switched back into my Alpha male persona. This was out of order and I would not tolerate this! I called her.

“Hey!” I said with my strong alpha-man voice. “You need to make a decision right now, I will give you one more chance but I need an answer right now because I don’t have time to waste! Ok, either you come out, or I go straight home and you will never hear from me again.”

“I’m sorry but I was thinking about coming on my own though…” she said submissively, I had her where I wanted her, if I could maintain this authority Jackal talked about I can pull this off.

“Where are you?” I probed sternly

“About 20 mins from the centre, I am at a mate’s house.”

“Ok, if you decide to come, I will give you one more chance and I WILL wait for you ok, but I will only wait for one hour. Otherwise tell me right now that you are not coming and we will say our goodbyes…”

“No, no, I’ll come on my own, it’s ok…”

“Ok then, are you sure? I don’t have time to be messed around.”

“Yea, yea I’ll come…” she said apologetically.

“Ok I will see you in one hour, no later.” I made a point of emphasising “no later”.

So I waited, the phone call had really put me into state, like I have said before, I pride myself on being a man who thrives under pressure. She would come, I knew it. Confirmation of this came in a text shortly after…

“Me and my mates are on the way xxx” Good. I would see her soon.

After waiting in a nearby bar I finally got a text from her telling me that she and her friends were all inside the club so I made my way over. Automatically my posture raised, my back straightened and my shoulders swept back. She would see my at my finest! I would maintain the authoritative frame I had built and she would follow my rules. (OMG was this me? Who the hell is this Diamonds guy that Jackal has created?!)

I met her at the entrance after I paid. She had been waiting for me a few minutes. I smiled and walked over to her proudly looking into her eyes. Wow she was hot, but her beauty didn’t intimidate me.

“Well, glad you could make it after all.” I spoke calmly and slowly.

“Yea I´m sorry about that, I was always going to come alone anyway, you didn’t need to call…”

“Well I wanted to make sure, I´m a busy guy. Let´s put this behind us.” “Now…” I said as I transferred my voice back to its friendly self “…where are your friends? Introduce me?” I put my hand on her lower back and guided her forward prompting her to find her friends. She bought two friends with her that night which meant I was about the only guy there with three hot girls accompanying me.

“Where are your friends?” Laura asked.

“I didn’t bring them, I wanted you girls to myself.”

“OMG, you’re so bad!” She kinoed my arm.

Her friends were both really great, they were both friendly and possessed a grace and sexiness of their own. I felt like a PUA, and I was feeling the confidence. But I remembered, I was here to for fill an objective and I needed to get to work! The night was rolling on.

With a laissez faire attitude I went to work on charming my obstacles…Es wird etwas geschehen!

Jackal tells me time and again that as well as an alpha maleness I also have a gentlemanly manor about me that I should use to my advantage. This I did, I told stories and ran my personal routines of life stories I had recited to flip the attraction switches. Bruce Lee said that a good fight should look like a short play, with a beginning, middle and an end, whilst containing the very best plot twists and turns. He was right, but I learnt this night that the metaphor can be extended to pickup.

I ignored Laura a bit, I would make her wait for me, she should invest in me.

“Let´s all go and dance!” One of her friends shouted after we had all bought drinks. Only one, I would not get drunk.

We made our way to the dance floor and all four of us danced, it felt good to be in the centre of these girls, I could see the other girls as they looked my way thinking “who the hell is that guy?” At this point I decided to give Laura some attention, I took her hand and spun her a few times.

She leaned into me, “I´m a really bad dancer!” she shouted. I know what she wanted, I would giver her what she asked.

“No, you look great, don’t worry.” I rolled off and danced with her two friends.

One of her friends, the leader of the group pulled me off the dance floor back to a lounge area where the noise of music was not so loud. Laura´s other friend followed, but told Laura to stay on the dance floor. My spider senses were tingling…something was afoot.

“So, you’re here to meet Laura?” They both asked.

“Yea I am.” I responded.

“How did you meet her?”

“I met her last week at Wetherspoons, I asked for her number and here we are.”

“She never gives her number out…” The leader said. She and her friend leaned in close to me.

“You do realise she really fancies you right?! Because we don’t know what’s going on. She never gives her number; we seriously thought she was a lesbian or something!”

I had received IOIs from the start but I played dumb, “No I didn’t really notice, so she fancies me?”

“You fucking what?! Of course she does, she’s been talking about you all week! You’re fucking gorgeous, if she wasn’t my best friend I’d be after you right now! ”

“What? I had no idea. But how do I know you aren’t saying this for a laugh?” I played really dumb.

“Look, just get in there right now, she’s my best friend I want her to get a good guy! She fancies you, we’ve never heard of her giving out her number! We only came out because she was desperate to see you, we aren’t having a journey wasted because you are playing hard to get!” She began frustratingly shaking me like I was small child. She was being sincere.

“Now…” she said “Get on that dance floor and I want to see some tongue action!”

Ok, Jackal…err…I mean Stacey…

Well, surely I could not get any more confirmation than that. I was planning to work a bit more kino and start touching Laura´s body a bit more before actually going in for the kiss but fuck it; I decided to accelerate my pace.

I calmly walked over to where she was dancing and put my hands gently on her hips. I got into sync with her movements before turning her to face me. I remember her looking into my eyes expectantly; they were right, she really did like me, I could tell she wanted me to kiss her. As we swayed I felt myself slow down, she reciprocated in rapport. We carried on looking into each others eyes. I could hear a voice in my head which sounded an awful lot like Jackal. It was telling me to pull the trigger. I placed my finger on her forehead and slowly wiped her hair from her eyes before sliding my finger down her cheek until it was under her chin. The electricity was explosive as I lifted her chin and leaned in towards her lips. She closed her eyes, a good sign. Our lips touched briefly before I pulled away. Her mouth fell open and I went in again. This time it elevated into a French kiss and finally I felt a major barrier disappear.

Following about five minutes of standing on the dance floor kissing I pulled away and led her, hand in hand, off the dance floor back to her friends who had stood and watched the whole event.

“Next time don’t play hard to get!” Stacey the leader commanded jokingly before rewarding me with a kiss on the lips herself.

The night panned out brilliantly from there on in, we briefly kissed numerous times during the night but the last major kiss came as we said our goodbyes.

“Ok, it was great seeing you again Laura”

“Yea…” Make her remember you before you leave was one of Jackal’s pieces of advice before he left me.

“Give me a kiss…” I felt so confident. She complied.

“We have to do this more often, I’m free nearly every night, will you call me?” She begged.

“I´m am busy, but for you I´ll see what I can do ok.”

“Ok.”

“Well, I´ll see you next time, your ride is waiting…”

“Bye.”


Ah Jackal this was a team effort I couldn’t have done this without you man! Thanks for everything you taught me so far!!

I feel great and I am due to meet her again on Tuesday. OMG that’s tomorrow! Then I am meeting Alice on Thursday!

Diamond I had to read that a few times for it to sink in! she wants you, enjoy it!!!! I am proud of you and respect you for what you have achieved

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