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PostPosted: Wed Sep 23, 2015 12:26 pm 
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Hey guys, I have a shit ton of homework due in class today, so I'll have to be brief.

First things first, it turns out that Linh wanted to talk to me about was that it's okay with her for me to date other people. She said that the way she was raised in Vietnam meant that she had to be committed, but I didn't.

We studied for 4 hours and talked for a bit. After we were done studying, we made out and I took her to a place that has good Mexican food (she likes Mexican). There was no response from Amy. I decided not to text anything given that I'm going to see her today in English.

Well, that's about it. I'll keep you guys posted.

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PostPosted: Wed Sep 23, 2015 11:45 pm 
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Hey guys, I just wanted to give you a quick update. I found a guy to sarge with. He also rides a motorcycle and works out every day. He's watched a few simple pickup videos and sarges but is not "in the game." I N-closed Enrika today (turns out it's Enrika, not Enrica). She was in a rush and asked me to give her my number. She didn't seem all that enthusiastic. I didn't exactly N-close smoothly due to a severe lack of sleep. Hopefully she texts me. If not, so what? I found a guy who isn't weird who I can daygame with.

After Calc I chatted with Linh. She mentioned some stuff about her dating this one guy who she used to have a crush on. When I first met her, she said she never had a boyfriend, then one (that she had for 2 days so it's a load of crap), and now there's the mysterious pharmacist. I honestly didn't care. My AFC self would have asked questions, but I knew better. It's like I've internalized not reacting. She ended up realizing she came off as try hard and eased off a bit. I was rubbing her thigh the whole time and she seemed to be getting turned on.

I chatted with Amy after class just about some random stuff. She's going to be busy this weekend, but seems interested.

I need to daygame now. I've build up my confidence enough to randomly approach. I just need some rest.

I'll keep you guys posted!

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PostPosted: Wed Sep 23, 2015 11:55 pm 
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Cool man it's been good talking with you in the past. I would recommend keeping one thread as you will see a dropoff in followers each time you post a new one. I like what you're saying about nofap. I have found that it can give you a much more natural approach when you are out in the world and speaking with women. They can tell that you genuinely want to get inside their lil knickers; it's the weirdest thing in the world - it's as though they can instantly tell if you've been jacking it to man on woman porn. Nofap works ime.
Ha, it's so true. I knew then that I should have quit fapping, but now I realize how important it is. I want to approach and fuck girls instead of watch porn. I can also read IOI's a lot better. Now I just don't relapse. My previous trap has been "Well, it's only been 3 days or a week." Before I knew it, 2 weeks became 3 and I was making a record!

I can read IOI's a lot better now. My game is also a lot less state dependent.

I'm going to start rereading my posts to see where I started off, what I misunderstood, and know where I am headed. I am at my all time high when it comes to the game ever, but there were times where I was pretty good and then I just revert into an AFC (like this summer). I really need to take the time and analyse what I was doing wrong.

Once again, I'm going to start day-gaming.

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So just an update, I studied a bit with Linh. Then we went out to eat. We made out in the back of my car.

I'll be able to bring her to my place and cook for her next Friday where I plan to F-close her. I'm a bit worried about LMR. I think the key is to make sure that if we have sex, it isn't meaningless. Do you guys have any advice?

I've texted Amy a bit. She's busy with midterms, but she seems interested. Once again, I should hit up some people to daygame with. Enrika hasn't texted me back yet (which isn't really a surprise given that she took my number). I don't really give a shit because I have options right now.

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So guys, I got this text from Amy:

Amy: Hey, I wanted to throw this out on the table, not really sure where you stand, but I'm not ailable (she meant available) at the moment if your purpose was to date, but I am more than than willing to be your friend :)

My AFC self was screaming "friends!". My booksmart PUA self was screaming "Say you want to date her!" I did this:

Vandal: Well, if we're putting everything on the table, I was hoping for a passionate but short fling XD!

It's clear that we were expecting two different things, so I say we meet in the middle and I'll take you out for lunch sometime (yes, on a date).

Amy: I'd like to keep it striclty to friends tho. So there are no underlying expectations that can lead to some misunderstandings.

Vandal: Here's what I'll say Amy, I like you, and I want to get to know you better. It does not mean that I necessarily want to end up in a relationship. I just want to take you out, and see where things go. Does this make sense?

It turns out that she's in a relationship, but I'm glad I didn't get caught in that AFC trap. I handled the situation and managed to be true to myself. If anything, this shows that I need to start daygaming. Social Circle game just does not provide you with enough HB's.

I'll keep you guys posted!

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Hey guys, I have an FR for you guys. As you guys know, I go to the gym every morning. Often, there is a girl at the front who is pretty cute. I always ask her how she's doing, but today I decided I'd talk to her when leaving.

On my way out, I saw her working at her desk (she was no longer working at the front). I sat down and told her "I have a complaint that I'd like to file," with a straight face. She asked me what it was. I told her "You guys have pictures of pretty people all over the walls. They're not even strong! <Name of My Gym> is not even acknowledging that most of it's members aren't pretty. For me, I lost any chance of being beautiful after I broke my nose for the 3rd time!"

She laughed and said that there was nothing she could do about it.

I said, "I know it's considered weird to talk to someone you don't know, but I think it's even weirder to see someone almost every day for over a month and not even know their name. Hi, I'm Paul."

She said, "Hi, I'm Haley. Now you know my name. Now that you mention it, I find it weird that most people who come here don't know that."

I then chatted with her for a bit. I found out she wakes up at 3:30 to work.Overall it went well. It got a bit awkward when she had to pick up the phone. When she hung up I said that I had to go. So yeah, I don't know why I was freaking out so much. Asking out Linh, Enrika, and Amy were all much more awkward, so maybe daygame is more about getting over the social conditioning of "don't talk to strangers."

I'll keep you guys posted. I'm seeing Linh later today. I'll be cooking for her next week, not this week. Sorry for the confusion.

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Hey guys, I got a kinda crazy FR report for you guys (I kinda don't believe what happened myself).

Linh came to my house around 3. I was just watching TV when I saw her standing in front of my house. Apparently I missed 2 calls from her. We did calculus homework. I got done before she did and started playing with my dog. She was laughing and saying that I was being distracting. I was just goofing off. When she finished, we started watching The Interview. We were making out. I eventually started touching her breasts (with her shirt on). I expected resistance but got none. 20 minutes in I said that we needed to take the dog on a hike. She agreed. We talked for a bit. When we came back to my house, I ordered pizza and we started making out again. I put my hands under her shirt and felt her breasts. She didn't straight up say no, but it was clear that she was getting uncomfortable. I decided to continue and try to pull up her bra so I can see her tits. This is where I start encountering resistance.

I take it back one step and I tell her that she's beautiful (some of you guys may call this AFC, but she "should" be out of my league and I normally say whatever I want to). She says that she isn't and we continue making out. I keep on taking it one step forward and rolling it back when there's resistance. She keeps on saying "Please no." I didn't want to push her, but I know the line between pushing the interaction forward and forcing something. She eventually asks me whether I want her to take the bra off. I say yes. She pauses for a moment, then she laughs and says no. I think to myself 'what an AFC move.' We continue making out. Each time I lift up her shirt, I encounter resistance. Eventually, she lifts up her shirt to her shoulders. I realized that she was prompting me to unhook her bra. I struggle a bit but undo the clasp. She does not let me take her shirt off, but she lets me lift it up. Eventually the Pizza guy comes. She does not put her bra on, but leaves her shirt on.

I payed the guy and we picked up where we left off. I ask her whether she wants me to take off my shirt (AFC move, either do it or don't. Guys should lead the interaction). She says that it's my choice because it's my body. I have a scar on my chest from rugby that I feel a bit self conscious about. We continue making out but the interaction does not go forward. Eventually, I take of my shirt. I thought she was going to be grossed out, but she ended up getting turned on by it. All of a sudden, it's easy to take her shirt off. We make out and I start sucking on her nipples. I kiss her down to her belly. I repeat this a few times. She's wearing pants, but they're short and relatively thin. I start kissing right above her pussy. She laughs and giggles but doesn't tell me to stop. I tried to take off her pants but I got the same "please no". Once again, the interaction isn't going forward.

We start kissing again. By now, we have switched The Interview to Cheers because the movie started to get violent. I wasn't completely hard, but I put her hand over my penis. She was pretty curious what it was like. I could tell by the way she used her hands and by the look on her face. She was getting me hard, but it was clear that she didn't know what she was doing. I started rubbing my hand over her pants. I do not encounter any resistance now. She was getting into it. Each time she started to stop I'd put her hand back on my pants. She would enthusiastically resume. I then unzipped my fly. She stuck her thumb in the opening and started rubbing, but was hesitant to do more. I took her hand and placed her fingers inside the opening. She started wrapping her hands around it (through my underwear). I undid my belt and pulled down my pants a bit. She started exploring. She would occasionally squish my balls which was annoying. She would get really embarrassed and start laughing. I'd tell her to continue and she would.

At this point, I took off her pants with no resistance. She would start to talk and had this expression of "What the fuck just happened?", but quickly went back to rubbing my cock without telling me to stop. At this point, I put her hand in my underwear. She starts feeling it. She whips it out and starts rubbing it. I stood up and pulled off her panties. It seemed like she was about to stop me, but decided not to. She is jacking me off and I'm rubbing her clit. Her panties were wet. Just like any other guy would, I really wanted a blowjob. I tell her to suck me. She says "No, I don't blow guys." Each time I try to push her head down to my cock she resists. This was pretty frustrating for me. I was so close, yet so far. She had never gone this far with a guy (I think she kissed one other guy). I ask her whether she's ever been licked before (I mean eaten out, but she doesn't know what that means). She says no. I spread open her legs and lick her pussy, but she freaks out and tells me to stop pretty adamantly.

I thought I was stuck at this moment. I knew that due to years of social conditioning, she wasn't going to blow me, and I thought that she wasn't going to. I start talking about our relationship and how even though we aren't boyfriend and girlfriend, that we are dating and that it wouldn't be meaningless. I told her that I felt something towards her and that I think she feels something for me. She agrees but doesn't do anything. She makes it clear that she isn't easy.. I was thinking "Well that's to bad." I just say that I want her and she's driving me crazy (which I thought was kind of an AFC move). There's a pause. Then she says "Just this once." She leans over, and I feel her lips wrap around my cock. She was pretty good. I repositioned her so I could see her head better. She stopped quite a few times and would apologize profusely. I'd tell her it's okay and tell her to continue. I start to cum and she stops. I tell her it's okay and to keep on sucking. She does.

Now after 45 days of not jacking off, I had a lot of cum. It's clear that she wants to stop and I let her. Some of the cum was in her mouth, but most of it ended up getting shot on the couch and on me. It was kind of awkward seeing her run to the bathroom. I got her a toothbrush and cleaned up. We then started making out again. I told her that she was good and thanked her. I asked her whether she wanted me to eat her out. She said it was up to me, and that if I liked it I could. She was hairy, and was embarrassed when I spread her pussy. It was clear that she would prefer if I waited for her to shave. We made out for a bit longer and I tell her that she made me hard again. It's too bad that she told me that the blowjob was a one time thing, right?

Then out of the blue she asks me "Do you want me to help you again?" I say yes and she starts sucking my cock again. She stopped when there was precum. She told me that she hated the taste of cum and turned away. She was about to walk to the bathroom when I said "Linh?"

She turned around and said "What?"

I showed her my hard cock and said, "I don't mean to be rude, but I'm still hard," holding my erect penis with one hand. I honestly wasn't sure whether she would continue or not. She apologized, got on her knees, and started sucking again. This time when I came, I put a bit of pressure on her head and told her "I know it's weird, but keep on sucking until I'm done cumming so I don't have to clean up." She obliged.

She brushed her teeth again and we made out. I knew from the beginning of the day that we weren't going to have sex. When I started to rub her pussy, she said it hurt. She ended up leaving shortly thereafer.

I thought that a blowjob from her was something that would only exist in my head. I'm grateful for the advice on this forum. I have 2 essays to write now, and I may not be able to wake up at 5 to work out tomorrow morning due to sleep deprivation, but I wanted to write this while it was still fresh in my head.

Thank you for your support guys, and I'll keep you all posted!

EDIT: It just occurred to me that around the time she was rubbing my cock but refusing to blow me, I said "I really don't want to go to bed with this." It doesn't really make a difference, but it's funny as hell.

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PostPosted: Sun Oct 11, 2015 3:48 am 
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Hey guys, sorry for not posting for a while (I've been caught up with school and have 3 FR's with you).

A few things first: I have not relapsed with no-fap, I skimped out on working out this week (Once again, caught up with school), and I have 3 FR's with you. If this post is too long, read the last FR.

I have been very consistent with my goals, so consistent that I feel comfortable to add some new ones. My primary goals are to reintroduce cardio into my workout schedule with a minimum of 2 times a week, read 1 book a month, and do 1 programming assignment per week (if I keep this up, I should have the equivalent knowledge of a Masters degree in Computer Science with a speciality in Artificial Intelligence by the end of the summer and be able to work as a cyber security analyst if I get through my penetration testing books).

My secondary goals are to run 5 times a week (if time permits), read an entire programming book per month, shoot once a week (yes, guns you liberal pussies). I also have 2 PUA related objectives here. One is to simply N-close once a week. This may seem like a low goal and it is, but let me explain my reasoning to you guys. I got plenty of numbers when I was in Colorado, but didn't move in on any of them. It is much easier for me to take it one girl at a time. I'll try to get at least one non-flake number a week and work on that. It may seem silly, but I'm to busy to do this full time. I switched from sarging left and right to focusing on one girl and it got me pretty far without any commitment. The other goals are to run through the Simple 30 challenges.

I also have tertiary objectives. One is to do something social once a week so I don't go crazy (I haven't hung out except with Linh), and to get through 1 level of a video game per week (Yeah, I'm not joking). It may seem silly to you guys, but video games have their own redeeming qualities. They reduce stress and have pretty good plots. I have 3 new games (I sold my 360 and got 3 new games for the PS3). I'd like to get somewhere in them rather than having them collect dust. I don't play a lot of video games and would like to start. I realized that with school, I was becoming someone who I'd used to make fun of. It's important to be social and likeable. Being a leader gets you farther than grades.

Anyways, onto the FR's

Last Thursday (10/1):

I'll keep this brief. I picked up Linh to go see a movie. We got there early. She sucked me off in my car (but I didn't cum). We saw a movie and she played with my cock the whole time. During the movie, there was a part about pubic hair. I made fun of how she didn't shave. She got really upset and shut me out. I made her open up by saying 'If I didn't know what she was upset about, I couldn't do anything.' She later found out that If she didn't tell me what was wrong I would have walked out of the theater right then and there and would have driven her back home. She sucked me off in my car but didn't swallow. We ate and she started to blow me while I drove but stopped. When I dropped her off, we had a long conversation about how she had to do in life what she wanted. She appreciated this.

Last Sunday (10/4):

I picked her up. We took a walk in a park. We then got in the back of my car and started making out. She said she didn't want to blow me and some stuff about being boyfriend and girlfriend. I told her my response about how there are steps to get there and you can't just skip one. I then froze her out and said I wasn't going to play her games (I was planning on becoming official with her when I cooked for her, but wasn't going to tell her unless she re-initiated contact, after all she said I could sleep with other girls). She got on top of me and we started making out again. I realized that there was a dark side to PUA. I could have easily made her feel cheap by letting her continue (I could tell that she really was starting to feel cheap, but felt that she gave up too much already to back off). I told her what I was planning on becoming official. She apologized and sucked me off until I came; she swallowed! She also told me about how she got waxed for me (which I had told her I liked previously) We then ate and I dropped her off back home.

This Thursday (10/8):

I'll write the full report of what happened here so both you AFC's and PUA's can analyse what I did right and wrong here.

First of all, there's an amusing story about me buying KY and astroglide from target, but I'll omit that (I have enough to write). I'll just say that I got them before hand (I heard it makes it much easier and a lot less painful for virgins).

Linh showed up to my house a bit late. I had to start preparing dinner. I opened the door and gave her a bit of grief for showing up late. She apologized and gave me a chess set for my car as a gift (I kept on forgetting to bring it on dates). I had her help me a bit with the chicken. Then we started making out. She informed me that it was the last day of her period and made a snide remark about Murphy's Law. We continued making out. I took off her dress (she wasn't wearing a bra) and made out some more. She sucked me off until I cummed in her mouth. She swallowed.

I wasn't that horny any more so we played chess for 2 hours. I beat her both times. She dismissed herself to the toilet. She came back and said "It's over." I realized she meant her period. I asked her to shower off and she did. She came back and we ate. We started making out on the couch again. I told her I wanted her (I can't remember if she said anything). I wondering if we were going to do it, and if so, where? I was completely undressed and she had her panties on (I thought it would be more comfortable for her to keep them on). I got her to straddle me. I started rubbing my cock against her panties. I then pulled her panties to the side and started to push my penis inside her. She moaned out of pain, not pleasure. That's when I knew that this would be difficult. We started talking about sex. I came clean with her that it was my first time, but I had been blown before. She did not look down on this. I'd repeat the process of making out and pushing my penis in her. I wasn't making much progress. I asked her if she wanted lube. She didn't know what it was. She said that she didn't need it. I said let's move to the bedroom. I carried her and the lube to my room.

We were on my bed and she was straddling me again after she blew me for a bit. Each time I'd try to push she would scream. I told her that she was in control and that she could set the pace. I said that I wouldn't stop if she screamed, but would if she said "stop" so that way I wouldn't have to keep on asking. Each time I'd push my cock in, or she'd lower herself, she'd scream. She got off me and started to cry. She asked me whether we could do it some other time. I said that we could, but that I wouldn't know when that next time would be. She eventually stopped crying and asked me whether I wanted to be on top. I said that I wouldn't mind doing it but said it could hurt. She didn't say anything. We made out again and I asked her whether she wanted me to be on top. She said yes. I put on a condom (she asked me to to prevent a UTI incase there was blood). I lubed the inside a bit and put plenty on the outside. The process of me pushing the tip against her and me stopping went on for a bit.. I put the tip in and she screamed very loudly. I slowed down but didn't stop. I still couldn't get more than the tip in. The process of me taking it out and putting it back in went on for a while.

This time I put in the tip pretty far. I warned her I was going to thrust pretty hard. She said okay. I thrusted and she screamed loudly. I pulled out and she started to cry. She said that she was scared that I wanted her just for her virginity. She cried that she just wanted to go home. I gave her space and thought it was over. We started making out again. I realized that she wanted me to continue. I asked her whether it would help if I fingered her. She said yes. I insterted a finger and started playing with her. She squirmed a bit but there was no blood when I took it out. I rubbed her clit lightly and she moaned. I put my cock in her and thrusted. I got the tip in and was thrusting. It wasn't in all the way but it was pretty far. I told her to relax. She said "I am, it hurts!" To lighten the mood I said "Don't yell at me" in a nerdy voice and she started laughing. My penis eventually slipped out. I told her that this time it was going in all the way and that I was going to thrust hard. She said ok. I thrusted hard and she screamed. I could tell that she was in pain at first. Her pussy was tight. I told her to put her legs higher. She did and it loosened up. It got a lot less painful and she started to enjoy it. I pounded her for about 30 minutes straight. I felt bad for going on for so long but she didn't tell me to stop. After about 20 minutes, she asked me when I was going to cum. I told her soon. Each time she'd move her legs or ask me I'd get farther away from cumming. She asked again. I told her to stop asking because it was killing her mood. I eventually came. At one point I slipped out again and when I put it in it hurt her, but when I shifted her legs it went away.

The following morning I took her out for lunch so that she didn't feel that I said those things just to sleep with her. When we were screwing, she said that she didn't want me to date any girls, but she never made me promise anything. The understanding is that I can date and sleep with other girls, she just doesn't want to know.

So now you guys know! I'd like to thank all of you who have helped me on my journey again, especially Oceanx. You stuck with me when I was low, and kept on pouring your effort into reading my journal and giving me advice when nothing was going on. Thanks bro, this wouldn't be possible without you.

I'll keep you guys posted. I'll be really busy this week with midterms, essays, and homework, so I may be AWOL for a bit.

EDIT:

Hey, this may seem like an AFC question for you guys, but I'm going to ask it anyways. When I was sleeping with Linh, it was very intimate. What is sex with someone you don't know well like? I know it seems silly but what's the difference?

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 12, 2015 1:34 pm 
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Not much to report. Yesterday I was at the video game store. I flirted with that girl that I mentioned earlier and then asked her out. She gave me some BS about how she doesn't date customers. I could have probably responded with something but I didn't. I was dying to say "Really, you're saying no to me?" but that would just be weak. 1 non-flake # a week. That's all I need rather than to spam approach and let my metaphorical phone book collect dust.

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PostPosted: Mon Nov 16, 2015 1:19 am 
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Hey guys, I realized that I haven't posted in over a month. I had midterms and life come up, so I'll update you with the major things.

3 weeks ago:

I went to a mall, approached a girl, and N-closed. I set up a date. When I texted "It's a date" she said, "Slow down, just friends." I ended up flaking on her because I had shit to do (it was a Monday and I didn't want to waste time on a weekday). I was kinda jealous of my friend who got approached by a girl who gave him her number, but when I realized that he blew another approach that looks don't matter.

The Approach:

The girl was working at a kiosk selling these kind of corsets. I opened on that and asked her whether she thought I needed one because I'm fat. She started laughing madly. I introduced myself. I asked whether she targets fat people. She said no and talked about how she'd never do that. I said "Well, I guess that's why you're not doing well, you got to play on peoples insecurities!" She was laughing hard. I got a smooth N-close. She said she could only meet up on Mondays. Through Text, I proposed bowling. She said yes. When she said "Just friends" I said I had to eat and never responded to her. I didn't want to waste my time. I couldn't figure out a witty way to retort and one of my friends noted that it could have easily turned into a date by state control, but I just didn't want to deal with that shit. Any advice for when that happens next time would be appreciated.

2.5 weeks ago:

She got upset over the commitment thing again. She does the same shit test. I tell her that once we're through we're through to break this pattern. It hasn't been an issue since.

Now:

Been busy as fuck with school. I have a 3.6 right now. Things are going well. I've been pretty consistent with working out. I need to work on my reading goal and my programming goals, but grades are the priority.

I'm going to sarge with Russell again. I just thought I should update you guys.

By the way, in the past when I don't post for a while it used to be because of a relapse. That's not the case. Life is treating me well and I haven't PMO'd in 3 months, meeting my goal. I think the key is to N-close and make sure things progress rather than just N-closing (kinda like what I did in college). I was too chicken to act. I almost chickened out on Linh and I ended up taking her virginity within 3 weeks.

That's all for now. I'll (try to) keep you guys posted.

-Vandal

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PostPosted: Sat Nov 21, 2015 10:39 pm 
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Hey guys, I just listened to the simple 30 podcast and have decided I'm going to do it. I'm looking for someone to do it with me in Orange Count. One of the guys who I contacted on this site was all talk. He would talk about how I needed to get a facebook or a snapchat rather than focusing on the game. The other one insisted that I drive 45 minutes away. He wouldn't meet me half way. Plenty of people simply didn't get back when it came up to actually sarging.

I'm looking for someone who isn't a weird fuck to sarge with. I want to run through Simple 30, which is a 30 day in a row challenge. Hit me up if you are interested.

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PostPosted: Sun Nov 22, 2015 10:25 pm 
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Hey Guys, you'll notice that I don't have a field report.

I'm kicking myself today. I discovered that there was a mall 13 minutes from my house. It was devoid of targets. The worst place to sarge is in a small mall on a Sunday (It's mainly families and old couples). The mall seemed bigger when I googled it.

Here's why I'm kicking myself. When I was at the super market today, there were more than 3 perfectly good targets who I neglected to sarge. Why? Fuck if I know. Its like you guys say, don't go out to sarge, just let it happen. There were 2 softball players, a cute girl and her cute friend, and a few others. Vandal wasn't thinking like a vandal. He was thinking about getting King's Hawaiian buns for sausages instead of real buns for his sausage, so fuck me.

The good news is that I went online to look up good places to sarge for daygame. I came up with a few.

-South Coast Plaza
-UC Irvine (A bit Far)
-Irvine Spectrum
-The Brea Mall

All of these are around 20 mins away. I'm just trying to avoid putting serious mileage on my car. I've heard even walmarts and targets are good (is this true?). Anyways, there are plenty of classic options like starbucks.

Anyways, in conclusion fuck me. I'll go out and not fuck up like I did today. Seriously, the OC mall sucks.

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 24, 2015 7:43 pm 
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So I miscalculated. I can't do Simple 30 on Mondays and Wednesdays. I can still sarge obviously. I just don't want to become the "creepy pickup guy" at my school. Honestly I see videos of approaches and know I have such a long way to go.

Linh is driving me fucking insane by the way. When I first started dating her she seemed sweet. She's fucking crazy!

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 27, 2015 2:51 pm 
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So I just had the weirdest text chat with one of the members from the meet and wing section (californiaboy94). If you use terms such as "G", "dude", and "dank dtf college slut pussy" and sound like a 12 year old when your 21 maybe there's a fucking reason why you're a virgin...

Jesus fucking Christ, a shut ton of you people on this site are just weird.

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That's great advice. :D :D


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