Saturday night out with THE JACKAL, DON JUAN, DOLPHIN and VOLCANO.

I was really tired tonight as I had not had much sleep the weekend, but decided to push myself to try and take every interaction as far as I could.

People keep commenting on how natural I am at this, but personally I think this is bullshit I got six complete blow outs last night where the women just wouldn't talk to me or just walked off, which is more sets than some PUAs do in one night. Two women who told me to go away but I stuck in their and they finally opened up to me. One set that got blowed out because some women I had talked to the other night told the women to not talk to me because I was a weirdo. But I laugh them off, take positive feedback and remember the two numbers I got and the kiss close. I personallly think that I get the worst reactions when I go in a lot of the time, but I just carry on until they leave or I don't want to talk to them anymore. Like THE JACKAL says if their still their they like you they have the option to walk away at any point.

I met the guys in a bar and THE JACKAL was in a set with two women who THE JACKAL introduced me to. I chatted to them for about twenty minutes I teased one of them about being in porn as when I asked what she did for a living she said she worked with computers and I said that a very vague description is that away of saying that you are a porn star. I had a really friendly chat with them and then THE JACKAL pulled me out of the set and said I have a job for you. This made me quiet nervous as THE JACKAL tends to pick on me as he nows I will do what he tells me ( keep i up JACKAL I love it really). He told me too approach a really tall blonde, so I walked over and said "I noticed you were really tall and just had to come and say Hi". We got chatting and then VOLCANO joined me and I introduced him to them, but he left after a while. The guys all now each other from work, the two women were cousins and ran their dads business one of them was a chiropodist and the other was their solicitor. The one of the cousins was telling me some really weird shit about their work and her solicitor was telling her that she shouldn't be telling me this stuff for privacy reasons but she just kept on talking about it. It was a really easy group as they were really friendly, but I was really feeling tired and and hot I was holding my coat as it was that warm and couldn't really kino them. I got one of their numbers before I left and rang it to make sure it was real and told her that I was ringing it so that she had my number as I don't answer unknown numbers. As I rang it she took her phone out of the bag to show me it was real and her cousin siad she never gives her real number away. Later on in the night she rang me but I missed her call. I left went and got a pint of water and went outside for some fresh air.

I approached four sets on the street as we were walking to the next bar and got blown out by three pretty quick and the fourth only lasted a few minutes. I then approached two women sitting down in the bar. They told me to go away I said " I only wanted to talk to them for two minutes" and pulled a chair from another table and sat down. They said "that they were having a discussion" I said "Cool what are we talking about" One said we are slagging of men" I said "cool I love slagging of men" she said " so what do you hate about men" I siad " Ihate it when weird men come up to you and try and chat you up when you are having a private conversation" I then changed the subject after a while one of them said " your two minutes is up actually you have had about four" I said " why are you timing me, then I said just before I go" then I just changed the subject and was back in. I left shortly after although I could of stopped in longer but just didn't see the point. I think this was the set that DON JUAN mentioned in his FR. Personally I don't think it has anything to do with confidence I probably got the same reaction as he did but I pushed it further, if I would of pushed this further myself I could of ended up with a threesome who knows.

Me and Volcano then went to a nightclub.

First set I opened was four women sitting down, I opened the hottest one by asking how tall she was and made her stand up to start kinoing her then I introduced myself to the group and then started talking to the hottest one again. Then VOLCANO entered and introduced him to them all. He started talking to the hottest one so I kept the rest of the group busy. VOLCANO and two of the group left one of them said that they were going next door and left I stayed talking to the one for a while and felt the kiss close was on but their was only one hot one so I didn't go for it. She then said she was going next to her firends I said cool kissed her on the check and she left. I then approached two women and told one of them she was the best dressed women I had seen all night by the bar. One was hot one was not I started talking to them both and then VOLCANO entered I introduced him to both of them and he started talking to the hot one he moved her to the dance floor while I occupied her friend.

I then approached a the hottest women in the club she was surrounded by a group of hot women and a few guys. I just went in and introduced myself I didn't introduce myself to the friends just had a quick convo kinoed her got her name and told her I was coming back to talk to her later and was going to take her home with me. I re-engaged her later kinoing her more but got her name wrong and but just siad that Alec was a much cooler name than Alice so I was going to call her Alec. I went for the kiss but she asked me how old I was I told her I was only 31 and she said I am 20 it would be weird as my brother is 30. I said fuck it and went for the kiss again but she moved her head again. I should of waited a while before going for the kiss again but tiredness and frustration were creeping in. I left empty handed, I should of stopped in longer. I was standing by the dance floor and saw two women and caught one of their eyes and started to walk towards her and she started to walk towards me. I can't remember the convo but just remember picking her up and putting her on the steps and I asked her " How tall are you?" she replied 5'1" I said wouldn't it be weird if we kissed and went in for the kiss and got it. I then moved her and sat her on a ledge by the bar and started making out with her. She said its a shame your not shorter we could go out. I said we can have fun tonight and started making out again she said she had to go to her friend so I kissed her again got her number and pulled her down from the ledge and left hoping to see her later but never saw her again.

I then grabbed one of three women as they were walking past and spinned her then the next and then the next but grabbed the last one and started talking to her holding her really close to me she wasn't pulling away so I just kept talking then her friend come back after ten seconds and started to pull her away by the arm her eyes were fixated on me and she was hot. I told her friend I was talking to her friend and to go away. She was still tugging her I told her to tell her friend to fuck off she didn't reply, so I went for the kiss but she moved her head back, her friend was still pulling her I told her friend to go away as she was really pulling her away by now. I let go of her to see if she would stop but she went with her friend. I then offered to take some womens pics and made them take my pic with the hottest one VOLCANO then started talking to another of the hot friends but when he left they all left.

I then approached two women women one was really hot wearing a pyschodelic dress which I commented on got kino going very quickly and started holding her by the waist. She asked me my name I said " I will give you three guesses and if you get it wrong I am going to walk away from you and never talk to you again". She had one gues and I said wrong then quickly changed the subject by asking were she was from she said I had to guess. I said the seventies and she laughed and said well the sixties really. Then I felt a tap on my shoulder and some women said "did I meet you last night" I said "I don't know" She said " yes we did you told us you were homeless" and then a few of her friends came over and said are you the homeless guy. The one who approached me first the told the sixties women to not talk to me as I was a weirdo and told them I was homeless and boom they were gone. I turned to her and said you haven't guessed my name yet she said two names and I said no and she said I have had three guesses I guess I can't talk to you any more. I can laugh at this now but at the time I was frustrated as Iwas feeling really tired and fed up with people blowing me out of sets. I went outside and talked to the homeless guy girls for a while and told them that they were being horrible to me.

I made a few more approaches towards the end of the night but my energy level had just dropped to low and my brain just wasn't working. I tried dancing to get my self back in a high energy mood but I couldn't even talk to DON JUAN my body needed sleep.

I was really pleased with the night I pushed myself for a lot of kiss closes even when I was tired. It is difficult when you are not drinking to maintain the energy level when things aren't going as you want. Especially as the more people drink the higher energy they get. So at the end of the night everyone is high energy.

Fantastic report ROMEO. You are very close to a ONS now. Next time, make sure you think fast and get an F-close.

Romeo when I get some time. Well do some 1 on 1.

I'll show u 10 street approaches really fast. I need to get warmed up first. U'll see me do the first claw, then the second claw.

It takes practice to get it right.

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This FR was rushed so hopefully it makes sense.

Me and and Jackal walked a round the centre talking and approaching sets now and again. First set was a three set, an 8 and two 5's? I decided to use my "I'm exchanging numbers for cuddles" opener. and the 8 said "what?" and the 5 explained it to her, and she was like "but why" so I said "because your all extremely attractive", then jackal came in to set and complimented two of them but left the 8 out. At this time the 8 acted offended and said something like "oh oh is that how it is, were going". All in a playful way. She then walked off said "I wouldn’t have given you my number but blah blah blah". I think what Jackal said was right when he said sometimes they just need an excuse to leave he interaction. ALTHOUGH, later on that night we met with this set again and it seemed she was actually quite interested.

We then walked down new street and we approached a two set - both of them were quite bewildered by everything as a lot of people are. I did my numbers for cuddles opener and they were kinda speechless so I just decided to take out my phone and she was like "what are you doing?" and I said "im taking your number, oh sorry I need to give you a hug first". So I opened my arms and moved forward and we hugged. I took her number and we left. I knew his would be a flake. It was too quite unresponsive in a sense. I shook her hand and she pulled away immediately which isn't a could sign.

We then went into whetherspoons where Jackal asked me to do a compliance test by going up to a two set( 7-8's ) sitting down and asking them to stand up. It was quite a difficult one, obviously people would want to ask why as they think youre playing a prank on them or something. So I just said the first thing that came to my head and said "hey you guys should probably stand up coz I could be any body, I could have a gun or a knife (not recommended for everyone) " and one of them said "you just don't look like you're that type". Hmmm, I need to get some sort of aura of toughness I think.

Anyway I carried on prompting them to stand up by gesturing and Jackal stepped in to help convince them, they did eventually and I was just like "okay you can sit now". I think it was clear to them that it was about power or they thought it was a bet or something. I went out for a cig then went back in and asked the one I thought I was getting IOI's from to marry me. She declined after I went in. The whole group just seemed a lot colder. Id say if you ever succeed in this compliance test, don't leave set, stay and make regular conversation with them first.

Met up with Dolphin and we went into Slug and approached no sets, we decided to go to a whetherspoons.
We approached two 8's? but they seemed older, outside slug and I asked one of them what tattoo they had. And said it was a bar code of one of Mjacksons cd's, So i looked up and said "m jackson?! thats disgusting!". Well thats my kind of wind up... they didn't think so and just said "fuck you" and walked off.

Walked into spoons, and jackal opened a set and was in set for a while before we met up with Romeo and Don Juan. Romeo seems to be a natural conversationalist. I've seen him in set - he runs the conversation and his wit is impressive.

I then approached a 4 set which turned out to be a 6 mixed set. I opened with a who laughs more, one of the girls turned out to be the 8 me and jackal met in the street - the ones we approached with my numbers for cuddles opener. She recognized me and said "hey ill exchange my number for a cuddle" and I jokingly said "yeah sure why not". We all talked for a while and there was a blonde 9 who showed a lot of interest in me as we spoke for a while and I sensed the eight was getting jealous. I said I would be right back, and as I stood up the 8 grabbed my arm and said "dont goo!" so I assured her I was coming back and left.

Went outside for a cig and spoke with dolphin don and jackal whil they were in a set. Then we Went back inside and I re enganged this 6 mixed set and sat next to this nine and spoke with her for a while but conversation died out so I started talking to a 7-8 right opposite me just before dolphin came in to wing me, he started talking to the eight we met in the street. Me and the 7 spoke and she seemed really interested asking me all sorts of questions about my job. Anywy, from what I can remember we spoke for a bit before Dolphin said to me to n-close the 9. I waited a while before the 8 went and said "YOU TWO COMPLIMENT EACH OTHER SO WELL". So i just said nothing. She then said "YOU SHOULD ASK HER TO EXCHANGE CUDDLES FOR HER NUMBER" so I just thought "well this seemed like her friend approves". So I took out my phone and asked her her number, and she said "ill tell you what ill give you my facebook" and I was like "nooo" and she said "why?" so I just said "because that would mean youd win, gimme you number!", just stared at her when she said "don't give me those puppy dog eyes!" and I said "Im not!" and put my phone on the table and told her id leave it there.

In the end I didnt get the number. I think I should hve posibly worked harder, brought some more "charm" instead of seeming as if i dont give a fuck. Or better yet ask the 8 instead and she was actually interested and was probably just testing me whn she said "you to compliment eachother so well".

Anyway we moved off into club game here.

Me and Romeo went into snobs while dolphin and don went to some other place I cant remember the name of. Walk in and approached a set, she didnt seem interested so I fucked off. Saw Romeo and he suggested we walk around. He approached a two set and started talking to a 5 while I occupied an 8. She was really drunk so I decided to do a routine I saw on a thread on this forum, Where you tell them youre going to give them a present and tell them to close their eyes and hold out their hand. So I asked her to do this and she did. I pecked her on the lips and she pulled away and wiped her lips, and I just laughed. I went to the bar to get a drink, and when I got back she asked if I wanted to dance and I agreed and we went to the dance floor. As we were dancing Romeo came and told me to do kino etc. Then moments later she realised her friend wasnt where she left her and that romeo wasnt talking to her anymore. So she said "I need t locate my friend!", but she asked in a kind of way that implied she was asking my permission. I should have said "fuck no" but I agreed and she left and that was the last I saw of her the whole night.

I kind of felt guilty because I think romeo wanted to go to the club dolphin and don were at. Also, I don't think I was a good wing in that in set I always fucked off too soon and left him. bad times.

Anyway I met the same guys I saw there the weakened before. They were all friendly and one guy said to me that they were all saying how "sound" I was. Which felt good.
When I saw them again they were talkign to three girls outside, so they introduced me to them. A 7, 8 and 9. But they soon went back inside. and so did the guys. I went approaching randoms but I cant remember a lot here.

I went back inside and glided through he dance floor not noticing the group of girls i was introduced to outside. Then the 9 grabbed my ass and arm and pulled me backwards so I turned around and noticed it was her and started dancing with them. I proceeded to feel this 9 up. I don't think I moved quick enough her or wasn't forceful enough as they left after a while of dancing. Maybe I should have followed them? I don't know. I think I should take some style from Romeo and just fucking do it. I mean... reading his FR, so fearless and he wasn't even drunk. I WAS OFF MY FACE.


By this time I was getting impatient and maybe I seemed like I was trying to hard. But I went back in after a having a debate with a sexy 8 irish girl about vegetarianism, genocide and the future of the planet while having a cig - maybe I should have number closed. But I keep thinking I'll see these girls again, but I don't. So I went back inside, walked up to some drunk guy and was like "dude lets go get some bitched" or soemthing similar. And he just said "alright mate" so we got up and I noticed a girl, a 7, standing near the coat room on her own. I walked up to her and did my suprise kiss thing, but this time the girl didnt flinch or move back, she embraced the kiss, and we KIND of made out for like 10 seconds. she pulled back I smiled and looked up and saw this guys was looking at me and clapping. I'm not sure why I decided to eject from this set but I did. Just bad decisions made by my drunk mind.

Anyway. From here on things didn't go well. There were simply no more sets to approach. All girls were surrounded by guys and most people on the dance floor were sucking eachothers faces off. How depressing.

Went subside, was dead in terms of girls but had fun. At the end, another disappointing night BUT I mean there are people in worse situations than me that go out and get no results at all. There are people that get blow outs where I almost NEVER get blow outs. Most of my interactions never start off badly... so looking at the positives, I mean... I have never kiss closed a girl in a club properly! I never used to dance very much. and if I did I would never attempt to dance with a girl. I did a lot of approaches and the quality of girls that show interest in my has rissen. So I'm not giving up.

EDIT: oh and I got a number from a 6.2 ft freak, and an overweight 5. YES!

VOLCANO , I saw the jealous blonde girl HB6 in the group saying something bitchy to you. She said that once she had given her number to a stranger and he used to send strange messages and call her up all the time or something. Please elaborate on that. After she said that, you turned your head away from the girls and started facing the guy with the pipe. What happened ? I sensed that you had got badly burnt. I had a real ego crushing experience on the same night although it wasnt all that I am making it up to be. But for some reason, my ego has started to grow so much that I am feeling hurt by small things. I guess the only option is to get hurt more and get rid of the ego. But it is the ego saying this. So I should just let the bitches do the damage. A PUA should never have an ego. At the same time he should never be apologetic because that is lower value. Always be unapologetic. If bitches make you feel guilty, immediately laugh it off and break free of their shit tests to make you feel guilty.

DON. yeah I remember she was sitting next to a brunette and was from some strange island in south America lol. I remember her saying that but it in no way burnt me i just felt like conversation with them from here on was point and the entire table was going awkward which is why they said they were going to leave even though the 9 said five mins before that they would be there for another hour. Thing is after I tried to close the nine I sensed that both the other girls that were interested went cold. There was no business to be done at this point. OR I could have stuck it out and tried to weaken the awkwardness but I didn't think there was any point. Lol my ego wasn't burnt cos of one n close rejection

Also I'd like to add: the reason I didnt take the Facebook was because literally ANYYONE will you their Facebook to any body. You can go on fb now and add people you've never met before on FB and they would except. Getting someones FB doesn't mean shit. Another thing: girls sometimes want to see your fb to count your fucking friends and see how you are with them. My fb will give no such information away. And if yours doesn't either. Don't settle for facebook


I do agree with what you have said though

Friday Night out with THE JACKAL, DON JUAN and DIAMOND

I walked into the bar with DIAMOND and opened a hot women who was with three guys.
I opened with " Your so cute I just had to introduce myself" it might not of been exactly that. I got chatting to the whole group and found out one of them was her boyfriend. I carried on chatting to them for about ten minutes just about crap. I then joined THE JACKAL and DIAMOND outside. THE JACKAL opened two girls and called me in to join them and then left. They wasn't very hot but I carried on talking to them until THE JACKAL asked me to meet someone inside. I decided not to number close as they wasn't very hot and the conversation was quite boring. THE JACKAL then introduced me to a mother and daughter and then left. I talked to them for about ten minutes and then THE JACKAL said that we were leaving in two minutes so I number closed the daughter and hugged them both.

I then opened a women outside the bar and kinoed her strait away and kissed her on the lips three times which I think might of fucked my earlier mother and daughter set as they were sitting right by the window of the bar. I didn't number close as she wasn't that hot.

I then opened a two women walking along the canal which I got blew out of strait away as she just wouldn't stop for me. I then opened a group of five women and two guys and THE JACKAL joined me after about ten minutes. I later tried to number close one of them but she wouldn't give me her number. The whole group were really cool but I wasn't really attracted to any of them as I have high standards.

I then number closed a brunette who walked past the bar I was talking to her outside the lift as she was going to the car park. I don't think this will go anywhere as she said she had a boyfriend.

I then opened two sets on the street and got both of them to stop and talk but was feeling really tired and couldn't really couldn't get the conversation started.

Tonight was quite short as DON JUAN and DIAMOND both left about half ten and THE JACKAL left at about twelve. I opened two good sets tonight which I was pleased with but felt I had to struggle through with the conversations tonight as I was tired again. Need to get more sleep being up since half four with only a few hours sleep the night before is not good.

BLIND CONVERSATIONS

I decided to cover my eyes with two eye patches.
1) To improve my listening skills.
2) To not be distracted by looks.
3) To do something stupid to get rid of social conditioning.

First set was weird. I did not plan anything. Just wanted to say hello. Diamonds was winging me. It went well, but I saw the set first then put the patches on which lessened the experience.

Did about 20 sets on the night.

Walked on the bridge by St Pauls Square. I was scared of falling which was silly as I was holding onto Diamonds. Daimonds pointed a a single guy set infront. I said "stop, my name is JACKAL what is your name. He gave his name and wished me well, he thought I was really blind.

Did a set by Victoria sqaure. Just telling people I was doing this to improve my listening skills, was enough to get into the flow of things. The two set I was talkingto were a couple who were Doctors. I said I was a shit comedian and will not be able to make them laugh. The conversation was going for over 1.2 hour, I had to prompt them to leave. Usually when a set is this friendly I promt my guys to close.

DId another three sets with DON JUAN, they all went well and for a long time. I had to prompt them all to leave, as I wanted to do more sets. Here is my guess why the sets were all friendly;

1) I came across as non threatening,
2) I was not being dominant,
3) My body landguage showed no neediness,
4) My body language did not show any pain when I was being negged by the set.

I have now got no winging AA, as I make an effort to Wing all the guys, I also get my guys to Wing me, I call them in so that they get warmed up by the sets.

I did get blown out a few times. Not seeing people blowing me out made the rejections less painful

I have come to the conclusion that u must accept that getting blown out 50 percent of the time is healthy. Although I still like SUBZERO's second claw as this has a 10 percent failure rate at stopping people.

Did a final mother and daughter set. DON JUAN went in first, he said he was rejected but I did not notice. I guess fo me If someone is smiling or laughing I see this as having potential, although I do get it wrong at times. They were shit testing non stop. I find that when people are shit testing u and smiling then this is token shit test and can be won over. I said "you are saying all those things because it is your way of having a conversation, cuz ur nervous about talking to a beautiful man". I was happy with this set, so went back outside to get ROMEO who was in a set I had introduced him to, the set outside did not want him to join him when he got the chair, I said " how dare u say that, his my friend, u r being so horrible I am not gonna talk to you again. Anyway ROMEO had won them over. I took him inside ,and said to the mother that I am proud of my friends and like to introduce them to people. I could see the IOI's that ROMEO was getting so kept a distance and saw them man play his charm on them.

Back to the two set oustide the Slug and Lettuce. At one point of the conversation I just put my eye patches on. Seemed funny at first, but I just found the looks too distracting and was more relaxed. I did not want to be put off by less then enthusiasic responses from the set. I guess not reacting to their lack of enthusiasm was a non-verbal neg from me.

One thing I have learnt from ROMEO and SUBZERO is that they plough. Being obsessed with the approach is not healthy, if u can talk to them for two mins, then u have a better chance of winning them over with the nice qualities u have.

I want to go back to doing routines, but I am having fun with this natual style although the sets are not going anywhere. I guess this is because I have no plan and just want to see how long I can have a friendly conversation for without any pressure on me. There are so many different styles, I wanna do them all, it is hard to choose which one to do, as they are all exciting. I guess the best ones are the ones that make u smile and laugh the most.

I was cheerful for the night, as I was doing something silly and was having some mild success with it.

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Saturday, I met JACKAL and DIAMONDS at Victoria square at half seven. Then ROMEO joined in at 9 pm.

At first, I winged JACKAL with his blind conversation sets. He did open a few sets and talked to them with covered eyes and they seemed to enjoy them. I stood with him for about an hour with about 3 or 4 sets. Then we went to the Slug at 9 where ROMEO joined in.

TWO SET I OPENED REJECTED ME BUT WINGMEN GOT NUMBER CLOSE
A HB7 30 plus year old and a HB4 Old lady were sitting in Slug near the entrance.
JACKAL asked me to open the set. I just went in and said" hi my name is don juan...your name is " and extened hand. The HB7 didnt give me her handshake and said "We are ok". I tried to move away from them. JACKAL immediately joined in and started gaming them. They were full of laughter for five straight minutes.Later ROMEO was introduced to the set and he talked to them alone for 5 more minutes and got a number close.

TWO SET SITTING AT A TABLE IN CORNER OF SLUG
Young 20ish HB7 and HB6 fat blonde. I went in and said they looked gorgeous and introduced my name and asked for handshake. The fat blonde said "I don't want to reveal my name" while the brunette seemed to be excited that someone approached them and smiling at me. Then I said "I just want to say hi and will not take much of your time" but she didnt want to talk and i ejected the set.

TWO SET HB4 AND BLONDE HB7
I went to the Indian HB4 and said "you both are looking really gorgeous..what is your name?" Then Indian didn't want to shake my hand and said "We are in the middle of a conversation". JACKAL entered the set and asked for handshake but they didnt give a positive reaction. We finally left the set.

Because of the negative experiences I had opening these sets, I shaved off my beard after almost 45 days. Clearly my beard was not helping me with opening sets.

SATURDAY 21st January

DID 8 BLIND CONVERSATIONS
JACKAL opened the sets and helped me a lot. But I did learn new things.
I was surprised that I talked to them as a normal human being when my eyes closed because when my eyes are open, my conversation tends to move towards pick up rather than conversation itself.

BROAD STREET SHORT HB6
I tried to open this set, she was friendly but she kept on walking but I didnt follow her. She looked back but I stopped following.

I didnt open any set in Slug and Lettuce.

CHAMELEON WITH ROMEO
Later JACKAL left and I went with ROMEO to Chameleon.

TWO SET MILFS FROM LEEDS
ROMEO pointed at two MILFs I opened them and had a decent conversation with them. They were very friendly but as they were here for only that night, I ejected from the set.

TANNED MILF HB6
She was sitting alone and drunk. I opened her and she was extremely drunk and friendly. Maybe I should have number closed.

SNOBS WITH ROMEO
I missed my last train so I joined ROMEO who was in Snobs. ROMEO had a few Kiss closes and his club game is really good. He goes straight into hugs with girls and they are drunk and friendly and tries to kiss them. We took turns pointing sets to each other to open. I winged ROMEO with many sets and got to talk to a lot of nice chicks from his approaches.

2 set SCOTTISH HB8 and HB4 FATTY
Opened this set but HB8 had gone away for a minute. ROMEO came in to talk to the fatty. Then HB8 came back and said it was her bday. I gave her a hug. There was a Chinese Scottish guy with them wearing a kilt. Convo didnt last long as she was in Birmingham to stay with the friend for only one day.

2 SET HB6s
ROMEO asked me to open this two set sitting on a chair in the passageway between two dance floors. I opened the set, then I introduced ROMEO to the set and he carried on the convo pretty long. Then they moved to dance floor. We followed them. They didnt want to dance with us and moved away.

SHORT HB6 WHO WAS WITH BF
I opened this set by myself. She was from London. She was with her BF who had gone to the toilet.
I talked to her for a while until her BF came. I shooked his hand and ejected.

HB7 Brunette SLIM GIRL
She was tall and had beautiful eyes, very slim maybe.ROMEO asked me to open the set.
Opened her but she was probably a bit nervous to talk to me and she walked away.

SINGLE SET NEAR BAR
ROMEO asked me to open this set.
A blonde HB7 I approached was not willing to talk to me so she moved away from me.

HB7 HOT Brunette with HB6 Brunette
ROMEO asked me to open this set. She was too drunk and was with her friend. I opened this set but she didnt want to talk.

LESSONS : Project voice while opening sets. Increase Kino to make the chick comfortable. I also need to open sets on my own rather than open sets which I am asked to.

Don Juan.

U have got Vocal AA, this is when u are afraid to speak loudly due to fear of people hearing u.

Winging AA, this should be worked on.

Home work 2 sets a day. This will build confidence when u r sarging as a group or winging. U can never say u r totally confident if u refuse to solo sarge regularly. Everyone on the team is doing this. Volcano will work on this too. Otherwise the confidence will yo yo, just like someone going on a diet and then going back to being a coach potato.

There are no short cuts to this, if have serious AA. U can do more blind sets next time. U will see if u can transfer the same level of comfort, when u were blind as to when u open your eyes. But this time u will open as well as being blind.

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The Jackal an Introduction.
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The Field Reports.
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The Lay Reports.
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Just wanted to mention that ROMEO got atleast 3 to 5 kiss closes that night. One of them was a blonde HB7. ROMEO kissed her and I was talking to her for a minute while ROMEO went to the bar to buy a bottle of water. I gave her the claw(hand over shoulder) so I was happy with my kinoi escalation. She had met him at Snobs before and said that he was an asshole because he didnt remember her. I asked her if she wanted to date ROMEO and she seemed to be interested. Later ROMEO came back and tried to kiss her but she resisted a bit because I was standing there but finally she snogged him. Later ROMEO said bye to her and we ejected. I asked ROMEO to number close her. But he said he would do it later. But we didn't see her in the club later. ROMEO, remember next time -- if you kiss close, then you number close. If you don't like to shag the girl, atleast ask them to meet you again. I will shag them.

Saturday night out with THE JACKAL and DON JUAN.

I met THE JACKAL and DON JUAN in the first bar and opened six women and talked to them for about a minute with my eyes closed as a challenge then I had to open them as I was finding it difficult to hear them I continued to talk to them for about five minutes until thet left.

We then moved on to the next bar and I opened two women and talked to them for about a minute with my eyes closed and had to open them as they were not talking back to me I sat down and they were telling me to go a way and to fuck off I just sat down and carried on talking then a group of guys came over and one of them started talking to one of them and I carried on talking to the other who was starting to open up to me a bit. I could tell the other women telling the guy that I was annoying them as he was giving me dirty looks, I just ignored this and carried on talking then two more women joined the table and they instantly opened up to me so I started talking to them. Then one of them asked me "which of us do you think is single". I pointed to the two who were originally at the table and the other two laughed. I left after about ten minutes as I was not attracted to any of them.

I then approached two more women outside with my eyes closed, they walked off strait away. I then approached another two and talked to one of them with my eyes closd for a bout five minutes.

On the way to a night club I approached two Finish women and number closed one of them.

THE JACKAL then left and me and DONJUAN went to another bar I started talking to two women in front of us in the cue just being friendly. Inside I approached a hot women and talked to her for about five minutes and tried to number close her but she wouldn't give me her number.

We then went to a night club were I made where me and DON JUAN took it in turns to point out sets to each other to approach. I was having trouble winging DON JUAN as I would either have fatties trying to kiss me if I just chatted to them normally as I do when I am in a night club or they would keep trying to leave if I wasn't showing any interest. DON JUAN pointed out three women for me to approach who I had approach earlier in the night I went over to them and started kinoing one of them and got the kiss close after about two minutes I left to get a drink and told her to talk to DON JUAN and when I came back I started kissing her again, but forgot to number close.

I approached a hot women with " I really want to kiss you but you have red lipstick on" she laughed and said " I have a boyfriend" I said "fuck that" and kissed her she puilled away after about a second and said "my boyfriend is here" I grabbed her and pulled her away to a dark corner and said " no one can see us here" and kissed her again she said " I have got to go" and just darted away from me. I then winged DON JUAN with a hot blonde and her friend DON JUAN was doing really well with the hot blonde so I dragged her friend to the dance floor so DON JUAN could be on his own with the hot blonde but she dragged the hot blonde with her on to the dance floor. I think if DON JUAN would of grabbed the hot blonde and stopped her from going wtih her friend he could of easily got a kiss close.

I then approached the hottest women in the club who I had spotted earlier making out with a guy. I saw her leaning against a ledge and started talking to her and got really close to her and started kinoing her she was smiling all the time. I put my coat on the ledge so I could touch her with both hands and realised the ledge was soaking wet and said " I feel like I have just put my coat over a puddle for you" She said "what" I said " the ledge is soaking wet" she said " I know my bum is wet" I instantly grabbed her bum and said " so it is" she said " my boyfriends here" I said "where" she said " hes just gone to the toilet" I said "cool" and changed the subject. After a while of talking to her still with my arms around her and her body pressed up against me she said " thats my boyfriend" I turned round saw the guy she was making out with earlier high fived him and just carried on talking to her. I left after a few minutes and saw the two together again later and they did look like a couple.

Hi Romeo if a girl is flirting with u, and has a BF. Still try to close. As long as it is done with class and no hostile action.

It is a skill set worth having. Its not something to pursue, but when an opportunity arises one must be ready. U can abandon this in future when u have acquired this skill set. Some people may perceive that amogging means to talk ill of ones opponent, I do not see it this way, I feel that promoting ones own qualities is a nicer way to win people over.

Well done with dealing with the BF. Don Juan dealt with BF too, seems like he is learning too.

AMOGGING.

Some may think amogging is a desperate act from an AMOG, I do not see it this way. I do not need girl to validate me. It is the skill set that validates me. As far as I am concerned I believe the bf here has an opportunity to prove himself to the girl. If he loses the girl then it was because he lacked the skill set. Everyone in the interaction has an opportunity to deal with an exciting situation.

This is my thinking, to steal a guys girl and to make friends with him at the same time, that's a skill set worth having. This may seem like fantasy, will its my thinking. I do not have any intention to hurt anyone, its just that I see things differently. Only social conditioning sees things differently.

I actually have never in person seen a guy steal a girl from another guy, guess I am just curious if it is at possible or is a myth. Just seems like an impossible task. Although I have heard guys do it. The ethics can be debated. Surely no one can argue that it is not a desirable skill set to have.

I actually relish the opportunity to deal with interruptions. Not that I am good at it, but that I want to improve this aspect of my skill.

I must make it clear, my definition of amogging has no intent to insult anyone or talk behind a guys back, just a matter of frame control.

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Meet and Wing.

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The Jackal an Introduction.
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The Field Reports.
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The Lay Reports.
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Went out with jackal on the saturday afternoon. Before any game begun I was at the wrong venue and screamed jackels name outloud in St Pauls square and realised I was at the wrong place haha. good start.

When I met jackel there was a photoshoot going on at the church in which jackel said I wouldnt walk in between the photo shoot and open the girl directly in front of everyone and ask her for an instant date. The girl had a smile on her face but the photographer and the people doing lighting were not impressed to say the least. I asked for 1 minute of her time but they were getting quite angry with me hitting on the girl having pictures taken. It was really funny when I walked away, possibly the stupidest or funniest thing ive done in a while.

I opened 2 sets on the way to the city centre, but i opened like a pussy with a weak voice and they both just walked off, which was understandable but helped me get into the talkative state in a way.

As we got into the city centre, we decided to pretend I was blind and talk to people as jackel said he was my carer. Funnily enough people were actually stopping and talking to me and introducing themselves and having small talk on the street. (its alot harder then you have your eyes closed + it makes you realise what blind people have to deal with cause its really hard).
We ended up speaking to a girl and she convinced her friends to come and see me and we were chatting for about 10minutes on the street. Jackel then said we should go starbucks and they agreed. Jackel made them help me walk to the coffee shop whilst still pretending to be blind. We went into the shop and I opened my eyes and one of the girls was suprised when I wasnt blind haha. They left after 5mins at the coffee shop and me and Jackel had a cup of tea (good times)

I opened a 2 set, and opened one of the girls direct, and made a little joke about them breaking the world record for having loads of shopping bags which they laughed at. Jackel came and winged me and negged the girl which went down well and they were all laughing. They said they were late for a train and had to go.
I reengaged 10seconds later and asked her for her number which she complied to instantly.

2minutes later, I opened another 2 set and opened directly again, but the girls friend was disgusted and looked at me like I was vermin haha, but the girl I opened directly to had a big smile on her face and was clear she wanted to talk. They to were in a rush and as she was walking off she apologised and added that she was taken but I got the feeling if she wasnt with her terrible friend and wasnt in a rush she would of talked for a bit. (all good in the hood)

Opened a mother and daughter set. The daughter was hot and I stopped them, just said is this your mother to the girl, she said yes. I looked at her mother and said your daughters fucking gorgeous. The girl had a big smile on her face and her mother was pulling her away and I could see she was resisting but her mother was having none of it.

Overall was all good and a good day sarging with jackel. I have never done a blind set or a a mother daughter set but good times. The photoshoot set was just wild and something I wont forget ever.