I would like to thank DALE IN THE DARK. His idea about taking turns to open sets is fun. It easies the pressure. I am having to move out of my comfort zone.

ROMEO has been great providing me with encouragement. He has no AA and no conversational AA. He is the closest thing I have seen to a natural, he just needs a few pointers.

ZUBZERO has inspired me to do some super cool KINO. He is the only guy I have seen stop every set he approaches in STREET GAME. He is a small guy so It is kind of amazing to see him do it.

DON JUAN - as long as you know why you feel a low state, then that is a step towards learning. One bad set can ruin your state for the whole night. It happens to all of us. As we get better we give people less power over how we feel.

THANK YOU.

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The Jackal an Introduction.
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The Field Reports.
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The Lay Reports.
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On Friday, I met JACKAL and DOLPHIN. We went for an hour to some pubs and tried to open some sets.

We came back to Brindley place when JACKAL and ROMEO went their own way sarging. I went to Pitcher and Piano where I was supposed to meet a HB8 and her friend HB8 for some drinks. I introduced DOLPHIN to them. Later JACKAL and ROMEO joined in and said hi to the chicks. I bought them two drinks, I had two beers which I shared with them and then we got a bit tipsy. I accomplished a lot of kino with my target. Later we went to the Chameleon and danced for a while. The music was great. When the target was alone on the dance floor, I really enjoyed dancing close to her. She is 5'8, has a body of a model but also is well endowed in the mammaries department. She even wanted to kiss close me but I didn't do it on the dance floor. I think it was a big mistake. Later the chicks left at 1:30AM. Right now I am imagining being in love with her and getting married to her which is so AFC. I think I have a oneitis. She really hit me deep this time.


DOLPHIN and I tried opening some sets. I opened a two set of oldies near the bar. Both were good looking but in their late thirties or forties. I got some real big IOI's from them. But I ejected because of my stupidity. Later she gave me a look to come dancing with her, to which I didnt respond and some other guy approached her and danced with her. Later DOLPHIN saw her making out with a big guy who looked like a bouncer. End of story. Too much approach anxiety and rationalisation inside my head really is the problem.

I also opened two other single Indian MILF sets in Chameleon who said they were there with their boyfriends.

On Saturday, I had a date with a HB6 Italian. We went to watch a movie "Hugo". I managed to accomplish zero kino. Then we went to a pub and spent two hours talking. I had two beers. But still no kino. Man, I really need to improve my game.


Note to Self: Fuck "being yourself" and learn to do some kino and compliance ladders for God's sake. And finally, do a fucking kiss close when the girl brings her lips like two millimeters from yours!

Hi guys i want to say MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR.
ive just been catching up on some of your adventures and i can see you guys are doing really well.

SUBZEROS you seem to do better when your not in the company of this group so maybe this is something you should think about

DIAMONDS wow you are looking good but you seem to have less field reports now. All those dates you are gettin it wont be long untill the V plates come off. Well done.

ICECREAM wher are your reports? yours were the best but its ok I have DONJUANS to read now.

DONJUAN you make me laugh so much!!!!!!!!!!! I really like yoyur attitude how you keep going and will not stop untill you get your first kiss. I respect that and respect that you keep trying after all the fake numbers you have. You could make directory of fake numbers LOL well done though.

WOLVEREEN you are just crazy with your mad nights and your crazy wingman tactics. So you have a girlfriend. a PUA with a girlfriend????? well done though..

JIMBEAM they are waiting for your field report.

ROMEO you are a new member. this is great! Its a shame that a lot of the girls you approach have boyfriends. Well done though

BOND well done though

SCORPION how can i ever forget you the size changing man. some days you are 6 foot 5 then another day you are 6foot 7 and then it changes again! do you do this in set? LOL well done though and keep going to college.

HOTDOGS wow you really followed instructions and with such desire. You really fit into the Jackal crew 100%. Well done though

JACKAL I have been reading some of your work baby but where are your field reports? Id really like to see how you are getting on now that your back in the game. Come on tell us about your kiss closes and fuck reports. Its only fair as everyone else is doing it. I hear you have great skills and no fear and can be the loudest in set with your voice projection so it wins the girls. Well done and I can only be sure that next year will be full of excitment.

Merry Christmas and I hope you get laid loads and your skills improve. You guys deserve it and deserve each other.
ONE LOVE!!!!!!!

Wow. Thanks LB Rain. You should join this group now since you seem to know us so surprisingly well. We won't judge you like you did..its a promise.

sorry DONJUAN i have to turn down your offer even though it is the third one. I think we now know yur life story from what you write.
About the judging thing, I don't judge myself so that doesnt make sense so with the promise do you mean promise that i wont judge myslef or that you promise that i wont judge myself?
Well done though.

Friday night out with THE JACKAL

While waiting for the other guys I opened two women both very hot and just talked for a while.

The next is two women walking along the mailbox I get chatting to them and try and get them to join me for a drink but they have to go to. I ask for one of their numbers but she says she has a Boyfriend.

Next is two more women who are standing outside the mailbox talk to them for a while and then they leave.

We enter a bar where I open a older couple and just chat with them for a while.

I open two hot girls outside the bar talk to them outside the bar for a while then take them inside for a drink I take one of their numbers and go and join the other guys.

We stop with a set of girls that Don Juan is with for while and then I open two women walking past the Bar and walk with them for a while but can't get them to stop.

I then open a group of school teachers and talk to them for a while but it doesn't really go anywhere.

Met JACKAL and DOLPHIN last night. Did street sarging.

I opened very few sets because of chilly winds blowing and my voice was totally dead.

One set on the street HB7 didn't stop when I said hi.

A HB7 black girl was standing near bull ring. I opened her. She was very friendly and talked to me for a while. I complimented her hat and asked if she is a model. I didnt have a proper routine so struggled a bit. But my frame was quite confident and she was laughing. She got a phone call and JACKAL entered the set and we ejected.

One set HB7 on the street. I said stop and said you look familiar. She did stop but said no and walked away.

A HB5 old woman didn't stop when I said hi.

DOLPHIN opened a very hot HB9 set on the street. A medical student from Oxford. She was in a hurry so she asked him to walk along with him. She walked with him for almost a hundred metres. Then he number closed her and talked to her for a while. This was really inspiring. Keep up the good work DOLPHIN and hope you can get her to meet for a day 2 sometime. You could use her as a pivot and I could use her for friendship, socializing and lets see where it goes.

Yesterday I met DOLPHIN and JACKAL. I had a lot of approach anxiety. I opened just a 2 set (HB8's). Went with my normal routine - compliment, self-intro, opinion, handshake. Just at the second step, DOLPHIN and JACKAL came to wing which was a bit too early. They started talking to the set which totally distracted them. I should have carried on with my routine instead but I kept quiet and the girls just got confused and left.

WINGS : Please remember. Just stand there quiet and let the PUA finish his routine. If you want to talk, do it when there is a silence or when I stall. You can help fill in the gap.

DOLPHIN and I later went to salsa class and had a really good time. There are plenty of hot babes in this Salsa class on broad street.

Hi DON JUAN J012 I notice that you have quite a lot of bad luck in field. i enjoy reading the field reports and seeing the progression.
I have notice that you alwasys open with a compliment. Personally I don't like this but i thought that i could suggest something to you if you want to carry on with the compliment opener.
Normally if you open with you are sexy/gorgous/wonderfull the girl knows what you are up to straight away.

When I give a compliment I always say it like:-
here is something I'm noticing about you that I'm going to tell you, and I don't care how you react to it. You are very lucky the fact it coming from me.

not as most AFC's compliment like:-
here is something I'm telling you in and I hope you will like it, and I'm looking for approval.

as in fact these compliments help build affection and friendship NOT attraction. So its more in the tone, delivery, and frame of the compliment then the timing, frequency, or content.
Complimenting is ok but you need to wait and then choose the right thing and moment. For example something that you genuinely appreciate or believe is great about her personality. If she's funny, say "you know, you're kinda funny" or "wow I never looked at (the subject) like that before".

I have a friend and everyone knows him, he's such nice guy, but is boring. He is a smart guy and all the girls would go to him to ask him to help them, but some girls treat him very badly, it really frustrates me because im always telling him is such a loser. You don't want to be like this.

Try and do more solo game if your wings are getting in the way or find a female wing maybe use a friend that can help. If she is a friendly girl that gets along with hot girls, a simple introduction and good word can go a long way. Your friend has preselected you as a friend for what are obviously positive qualities that the HB will be interested in finding out about.

Good gaming to you.

Vf690

Thank you for your kind words to Don Juan.

For all of us this is a challenging journey. So any support along the way is always appreciated.

Cheers.

Jackal.

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Meet and Wing.

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The Jackal an Introduction.
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The Field Reports.
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The Lay Reports.
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I met JACKAL and DOLPHIN last night. I opened 10 sets which was the target if I had to get my 10 pounds back from JACKAL.

1) 2 set HB7 Germans near Vic square : Everything went perfectly well. The girls were feeling very comfortable and body language was like they didnt want to leave us. JACKAL took care of the other girl. The girl I opened was only visiting the other girl, so I didnt ask for her number. Maybe we could have taken them to a pub. Please remember this next time.

2) 1 set HB6 with braces near bullring : She stopped to talk to me. But after handshake, JACKAL entered the set and she walked away. JACKAL we should discuss winging. If it is a one-set, I dont need a wing. If it is a 2 set or more, I definitely need a wing.

3)2 set near bull ring HB6 and HB7: They were standing outside a shop. I opened HB6 chubby cute tall girl with my normal compliment-selfintro-opinion-handshake. JACKAL winged. JACKAL overpowered the conversation with too much banter and my girl started getting distracted. She was only 15 so she didnt want to date me. We parted with hugs. Lesson : Better to ask for a drink than a date or "getting to know each other" thing as it sounds vague and AFC-like.

4) HB6 near new street station : Opened, she kept on walking but kept on talking. After handshake I ejected cos she had a boyfriend.

5) Ran up to a HB5 Indian girl from behind and just managed to hook her for a second but it was raining and she walked away.

6) Ran across broad street to open a 2 set HB8 and HB2. Complimented the HB8 she said thanks. But the HB2 got pissed off and said shut up and walked away. Anti-slut defense at its finest. I should have maintained eye contact with HB2 but I couldnt even look at her horrendous face.

7) Ran to a HB5 Indian girl and opened her. She was on her headphones which she took away. My compliment sounded so fake, she gave a sigh and said no thanks and walked away. I need to calibrate my openers according to HB level.

8 ) Went to slug and lettuce. Opened a HB9 MILF 6ft tall blonde at the bar. After handshake she got busy paying the bill and I walked away.

9) Opened a MILF in slug and lettuce. Was giving self intro when husband came in with a drink. I walked away. When I came back into the pub the husband told me "Next time you talk to my missus, do it in front of me ok ?". I said "I didnt know you were there". So he snapped " Then look around first ! ". That felt a bit harsh but I should have talked to him when he walked in. First rule of PUA which I broke - Always make friends with the guy first.

10) Opened a 2 set in Slug and Lettuce after this incident. They were sitting in a table and I was leaning in to talk to them. They acted nice in a fake way. I shook hands. When I asked opinion, they said "we are fine" and I ejected.

Went to Chameleon with DOLPHIN. Dolphin opened a 4 set of MILFS two black and two white. A HB9 MILF started gaming me instead and asked me to take down her number. She was a bit drunk. But she genuinely wanted me really bad and saying she wanted to marry me. Lots of hugging and IOI's. I want this Cougar really bad. Hope this one ends up in Fclose.

This night was really good.

Forgot to mention that DOLPHIN opened a two set on Friday in Chameleon which I was too afraid to open. There was a HB9 and a HB5. Dolphin opened the HB5 and I took care of the HB9. Conversation was not going so well as she didnt seem to be a very talkative person. Then DOLPHIN ejected, so I followed him and lost the set. Later I saw the same girl on the dance floor and she smiled at me. Later she was taking the taxi home and waved good bye.

On Saturday, I got in a bit of approach anxiety. I could not get the nerves to open many sets.

I opened only 4 sets in total although my target was 20.

SUCCESSES

1) A HB7 MILF standing on broad street waiting for a cab. I did my routine compliment- intro-opinion and handshake. Her cab had come by that time. She left.

2) A two-set of HB3 chinese girls near the fountain in Victoria square. They were quite friendly. Most Chinese people can be shy but friendly to foreigners. I wished them happy new year and the conversation was quite situational and it went well.

3) I opened a two set of HB8's dressed in clubbing clothes. The blonde girl seemed quite friendly I shook her hand. Soon her friends joined in and I ejected.


FAILURES

1) I opened a two set of HB9's dressed in clubbing clothes. I said they looked beautiful. They just said Bye! Go away!. I still tried to shake their hands but they didnt want to shake hands. So fuck them.

2) A two set of HB4 Chinese girls got scared when I ran upto them and asked them to stop.

3) A three set of HB6 white women on New Street didnt give a fuck when I asked them to stop.

4) I opened two different single sets trying to cross the road near the signal. One of them was quite pissed off. The other one said thanks to the compliment but said she didnt give her name out on the street.


NUMBER CLOSE FOLLOW UP

Today, I sent a text to HB8 MILF number closed while winging DOLPHIN at Chameleon if she wants to meet up. She said she was busy and would be free on Thursday night. Then she sent another message saying she wanted to meet for lunchtime date on Saturday. I hope this will lead to some AFTERNOON DELIGHT!

@VF690

Thanks for the feedback. But my main problem is that I am selective in opening sets on the street. I cannot open any set you ask me to open. It depends on my mood and the energy level or confidence I have on that day. I feel anxious and nervous all the time.

Regarding compliment openers : Usually a lot of women love compliment openers in my personal experience. I don't look like a nice guy, so I don't have to worry about that. In fact, I think that I am a bit stingy with compliments and I should use more of them.

Well DON JUAN J012 you should be selective. Opening certain sets can lower your value.

My opinion just came from observation. If you think that's what you need to do then continue but are you really happy with the results you are getting now? Be honest with yourself. Maybe it could do you good to change things up.

I understand being a teenager is tough but you have loads of time ahead of you.

I wish you well