Hey guys.
Had a pretty good night yesterday. So much I want to tell you about and have input on! I actually don't have time right now cause I just got back from work and we're going out again tonight.

I thought i past day 11th days challenge, but apparently I forgot the correct rules. See, two of the three sets I opened were two sets, all girls. I'm not sure if I'll bother to redo it, cause I feel like a winner from it. If I had known there needed to be at least three girls I would have done it, no problem yesterday.

All in all I approached 8 sets:
# One 4-set
# Four 2-sets
# Three1-sets

All except two approaches was made in a club. One two set of two really cute girls was a tough ass challenge I tell you. They really tested the shit out of me.

I also broke a way too loooooooong dry spell with an old target. So it was a pretty good night. Can't wait to post the field report!

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Awesome man keep it up, great to read. ive just start and on day 4 SPAM

Challenge:

• Approach three 3 sets which has at least one girl.
  Open
  Give FTC
  Ground the opener
  Body rock (look as though I'm leaving) then ask "by the way, how do you all know each other?"
  Reply to their reply

I got a friend from work to come out with me. On the way there I opened a older woman (mom) on the bus and another girl somewhere(don't recall).
I was a little buzzed and in a great mood.

We got there early, around 8 pm, which is great. I really recommend this cause it's few people there, and it's relaxed. You can really be heard and stand out if you approach. There isn't hard to have a higher energy level. Also people tend to be shy at this stage, giving you a great upper hand and a chance to actually show them a better time!

4 set
When we got there, afterwork was still going on (people were dining) so we sat down with a drink and I told him about the game. After a while I was getting nervous that I would get stuck, not opening anyone. So I told my friend to get us another round and meet up at another place in the bar. I then approached a seated 4 set of moms in a corner! Somehow i instantly got reaaaally comfortable (I handle moms great). I did the jealous gf opener, took my time, listened and being really good. I left with a great mood.

Russian 2 set
I then opened a russian 2 set right sitting right next to us. Even introduced my afc friend. They were not very hot, and he is really giving of a "fidgity" vibe. Even though I didn't care it still got weird since they were sitting against the wall and we were on the outside. So I dropped that project, it was just a spontanious approach anyway..

Two set with HB7
I then, alone opened another two set, one girls was HB7 at least. This went great after a bad start. I thought they were ignoring me when I tried to get their attention, but they were probably not.
They gave me great body language and the target gave me kino and IOI's. I also kino'ed her. I spilled wine between her boobs . This I didn't know how to handle so I pretended like nothing happened. This wasn't ideal but it didn't damage me too much. For some reason I just left this set after a while, before taking it as far as I could. This is not good, I should keep pushing, even If I don't know what to do. I'm probably going to test a bunch of random stuff out and see what happens.

Cute 2set
Now to the Moby Dick of my night (or something else that is epic .
As i was standing with my pal at the black jack table a couple of really cute girls walked past, in to the bathroom. As they came back out I stopped them in their tracks by taking the targets arm. My target was HB8 her friend was HB7.8.
I did the jealous gf opener very good, kept on talking. The obstacle actually left! I interprited it as she being comfortable enough. I was good at this point. She had a cool knitted sweater which I asked her about, she said it was her grandpa's. I said "let me see" took her hand and made her spinn This was awesome for me since I was so strong with it. She then just said "I need to by my beer"

This was because she was to confused. All of this shit just happend to her, I almost raped her reality Nut before she left she started giggling spontaniously and I met her eyes and it was really nice. So I was on +.

Later, me and my friend was upstairs when they came there. After a couple of minutes I reapproached...

I immediatel told HB7.8 to switch hand for her beer. She did. I took her hand twirled her and took her place. Nice.
ME: Tell me three things that would make me want to get to know you guys more.
HB8: Blah blah blah The game!
...(she was suspicious and accused me of running game from the book the game)
ME:What??? No! What are you talking about

Kept gaming. Got in to the styles EV
They were kind of suspicious and testing me all the time. I almost fucking bailed in the middle of styles EV cause they were giving me nothing! My point was getting lost, it didn't make sense and they were sooo suspicious.

Finally we got to a point where HB8 asked something like "Why are you asking all this, what do you want???"
I said "I want to socialize, meet new people, is that so strange???" or something.
Somehow she responded well to this!!!!!?????? She said "Ok!!! Now i understand! Now wer'e finally on the same page! Then they asked my name, we shook hands and introduced our selfs.

After this I ran dry, and didn't know how to continue, I was exhausted from all the tests and what not!!! They started dancing and I left saying to HB8 "Take care of that sweater now, I wouldn't want to see It get lost!"
All in all I was really pleased with that I got out of that situation alive and acctually better then I got in.

Before I left I made a mistake though. I walked up to HB8 with my AFC friend as she was ordering drinks alone. I introduced my friend ( for some insane reason). He did NOT give a good impression, he was low status. Then I also told her that I had to go and that she should put her number in my phone and maybe we could hang out.

She hesitated and started asking what it was in it for her. I said, "I'm charming! And I like you" She smiled but was suspicious and didn't give me her number. Then HB 7.8 and a guy friend came and rescued her!!! That was not good at all and I ejected.

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"Nothing in life that's worth having comes easy"

I keep learning that I don't need to be so serious! I should be much more playful when I open. As I did with the moms, that went great. But with girls that I really game, I get really serious or something. Focusing so much on bodylanguage, strong posture, tonality, status, not telegraphing interest.

It's too a point where people like the 2 cuties feel almost threatned. I need to be way more playful. The thing is, I am in real life! I really am. I'm a bit of a clown. I'm so scared that women will reject me when I'm being playful and open. I so desperately want to keep a upper hand. I think I can really loosen up. Show more interest, smile, be playful and maybe calibrate with negs or take aways or whatever.

I'm getting more and more interested in direct game. Seems like it would be a good lesson for me. What do you think?

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I hope you aren't too disappointed in me for not posting in a while. I have put the challenge on ice for now. I am deciding weather too continue the challenge no matter what, just too finish it. Or focus on other areas.

I've just discovered direct game and I'm very interested in it. It seems too be what I should implement in my game and life in general too, at this stage of my PU journey. Btw take a look at this thread which I posted a few days back: viewtopic.php?p=443640#443640 It's a videopost I did, presenting myself and asking for advice on which path I should take.

Indirect game was really intriguing when I first saw MM some years ago, and it has definitely helped my inner game concerning value and male to female interactions. But for a long time I've gotten stuck at a point where I overplay the whole push thing. I feel stuck up and focus so damn hard on being alpha, showing value, maintaining value that I feel I push women away.

Just by considering direct game, and thinking in those terms, I've already felt a shift in my whole life.I feel I need too give more.

So as I said I'm putting the challenge on Ice for now. Maybe it will be a great way too practice a direct games mindset while doing the challenge.

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Hey souldier, I did the first mission today. I'm keeping a detailed and well structured journal but I'm not posting it on her yet. I know it's been a few day since I said I'd start the challenge but yeah, I did it. It went well, I might post tomorrow

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