Here we go after a lot of thinking I will now make:



The Main Goals Of 2014

>Firstly to see this year to my best ability. Get a A+ (I got a B+ last semester soooo close)

>Get a Job, needa get that cash and experience

>Happiness, Positivity is a asset!! So keep the chin up

>Balance, work+happiness>workouts>socializing>girls

>Improve, not even going to think about staying in one place, keep learning ALWAYS

>Girls, fun + a skill to be improved on! (Going to be something I could possibly master this year!!) However they are not the focus. Execpt in the holidays when I have free time LOL

>Move closer to my vision (Keep this a part of my mindset everyday)


+YEE VERY GOoodd. Satisfied with this list I will look to this list often and make sure my life aligns to path and use the vision for motivation!!

I refuse to be someone who gives up and lets life control them, I will carve my path with hard work and dedication

As always I love life, Love people and Love the man who Im becoming

2013 Was amazing by the way, Lets hope for the best to 2014 LEETSS GOOOO YEE

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Also another goal of meeting deadlines Had dream about this one, important

Back to basics! Teehee
Lets rework all of the game back to back

Approached 5 girls: Using only indirect

3 Things I did great
-openers were sick
-transitions very well done
-basic social comfort established
-Great rewards (touch wise) For qualifiers
-Good vibe

3 Things to improve
-flirt more progressively
-Use more vague time constraints
-Go for the instant date
-Go through a variety of topics (But still great up keep with a lot of the girls!)
-Don't be direct till quite a bit of time passes

Woohooo now we really getting down to it!! :]

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Holy. Shit LOL

Decided you know what fuck this on-line recruiting deal Ima take charge today and go out with my cv (Which I custom made in a designer theme) And wow very awesome experience!!

Made me feel it, to really take control of my life and go for success. Im proud of the man Im becoming. I want to look back this as the start of something great

"If you don't make the time to work on creating the life you want, you're eventually going to be forced to spend a LOT of time dealing with a life you don't want."

"There is only one way to avoid criticism. Do nothing, say nothing and be nothing" - Aristotle SO DO IT LOL

Taking that leap of faith, exhilarating. Cheers I can tell 2014 is going to rock hehehe

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Well I read back on some of my older entries, really made me lol.

I enjoyed girls and the fun of it so much then I do the same things now but they are less relevant. Me and this dude holding hands hitting girls up, telling girls I love you(this was recently). It was a great experience then, definitely. Now I feel I've grown and I need to move on to more experiences in life maybe in night game after as a hobby but for now I want to actually master this stuff so the skill can become a part of other experiences!!

Steps to mastering this mofo.

Approach a 100 girls
Goal: Improve along the way, making sure to fix up small parts of my game and get results!

How to do this:
-Approach 10 girls a week, more if possible. (Need to sort out days Im thinking Friday is good)
-Yea I plan to do this nice and slowly make sure every girl counts and the interactions have a point
-Feedback(Go over 3 things I did well and 3 I can improve on)


Now for the first 5 girls which I plan to do today(maybe more) I plan to go for ddrrruumm roolll:
-Hand hold
-Instant date

So if unable to complete, use the next 5 girls with the feedback and think back on the interactions to
improve.

With any goal that requires quite a bit of effort a smart strategy and hard work are key ingredients

I haven't changed, only improved.
Still love life, love people and myself YEEE LETS DO IT

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Whoa hell of a day LOL, did the deed and wow I have gotten a lot better "Seek and you shall find" rings really true

Im not going to go through every girl but I did 5/5 approaches! Surprisingly 1 girl could take up quite a bit of time and energy. The romantic connection does seem to be very skilful and is needed to be patient to be executed often

3 Things I did great
-Basic social comfort
-calculated approaches
-Great rewards for qualifiers
-polite touches
-vibe
-My warmup was awesome


3 Things I need to improve on
-Flirt more progressively(Some of the touches i did further on were great plausible deniablity is key)
-Even if your nervous keep gaming/touching
-Think about the time constraints


Results: Every girl was an opportunity I did great I have to say!
I did schedule a date for Wednesday but we'll see, either way I'll go out on Wednesday

I'll include my warm up method which I think quite a few people could benefit from next doing daygame heheh

It was awesome meeting all those people, I really got to know them and made strong connections. I can tell this skill is going to go further then just women

As always love life and the person who Im becoming!

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This method is probably well known but Im going to put it up anyway because of how simple it is and works, also so I can remember it when I forget lol




Warming up
-Start with easy targets, people in shops will be really helpful here. So ask a question like where can I find x, then transition to a bit of small talk!

-People sitting down, standing still and relaxed will be great starting targets

-Notice I say people! Conversations, transitions and even polite touches can be done on everyone for investment

-When a girl is hooked and staying there for you (crossed body language, purposely making a effort etc) progress smoothly at this point your friendly vibes should be shining but you can also touch which will smoothly transition confidence to sexual undertone as well

-In this way your warmup can be calculated and time can be spent efficiently. This is especially important when gaming solo. Also to note don't get stuck on one interaction. If you make a mistake carry on

-Doing approaches on the street can be tough and put a lot of pressure on the girl, try to smoothly open her by asking relevant indirect openers: get close then say something like "Ah I just wanted to tell I loved your shit" etc(I use this all the time LOL). Or if not many people are around or shes in close proximity ask for directions. Just be natural about it



And there you have it! Works great if your doing daygame and because most of these things have a logical reasoning it's very natural.

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Intermediate level and flakes
Now I've learned an important lesson probably for the 100th time LOL but it's time to learn from it and apply new ideas.

So the date for Wednesday flaked (and flakes are god damn painful lol seriously :O)

-This girl was above average in looks, I was direct after I shot her the "I love your shirt" as I could see she was quite warm.
-There were various signs of her liking me, including me saying I like you and then her saying I like you too
-There was a connection, she was warm
-She agreed to a date, time and even a activity
-There were touches

-the interaction was quite short 5-10 mins

The lesson learnt is that regular game and just connecting is not enough. Girls emotional spikes need to be solidified.

How to do this:?
Aim for the Romantic connection shes not going to be able to forget it.

So the goal that would be best and I was aiming for it but not doing it is to get the romantic connection!

The touches I would sum up the romantic connection in would be hand hold, instant date and makeout. In other words solid Romantic investment.

The girl should be making a concious effort to pursue me otherwise it will die out especially in case of cold approach with the stranger aspect

"Success is buried in the garden of faliure" Zyzz

You can be damn sure I will overcome this teehee
Time to bridge the gap from intermidiate to advanced

Aim for the Romantic connection and next sarging session focus on getting the handhold and perhaps instant date

NO EXCUSES JUST DOOO IT

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Alright Ima be as positive as I can,


I not only got the hand hold I got the entire romantic connection from basic social comfort to hand hold to samepageology.

We went for coffee and I guess had a good time, all seemed well we touched everywhere besides privates and kisses which I said :"wait till Friday".. The only thing I didnt do was make out and the logistics were perfect for a SNL but I decided to do the romantic connection properly!

In the case of the romantic connection being properly done its said the kiss may actually cause buyers remorse or so I understand. It made sense to me that when I was going for gold(For the actual lay) That the kiss could be used to create momentum as she would get turned on

Now your probably wondering why I talk about being positive LOL

Text convo:

Me:Hey *** was 'lovely' to have met u! Get home safe. ***

Her:Haha it was a pleasure meeting you! So do you reckon you would get bored if we went and saw walking with dinosaurs??

Me:Not telling haha. it's a surprise remember!
Me: But that doesn't sound too bad

Her:Haha did you watch it when you were a kid?? It was the cartoon with the little kid dinosaurs

Me:Hmm sounds familiar..yep think I did haha

Her:Perfect! your gona love it then! Haha

Me:Nek minnit lol (NZ joke)

Her:Have faith my dear boy!

Me:Nah should be cool aslong as u tell me that mushroom jk again haha

Her:Haha:) i will tell you that mushroom joke whenever you want!!

Me:So next to me, holding hands...next to a sunset lol?

Her:Haha:) you really enjoy the romance don't you!

Me:Haha I sure do, especially with mushroom jokes

Her:Haha:) your not like any guy i have met before.
Her:its a good thing

Me:Haha aww thx, I have to go finish up development for my poster Im looking forward to our movie night though! Sleep tight *** x

Her:Haha good luck! I'm sure it will be amazing! sweet dreams xo

***Next day***

Hello lovely! so I'm really sorry to do this but i have a work function on friday so I'm going to have to postpone our movie date. Im really sorry!! I swear I'm not backing out!!:)

**I call and no answer, leaving a message**

Her:Hey sorry i missed your call!! I'm still at work so cant really talk on the phone right now

Me:Oh ok, feeling alittle sad about our movie date would u be free for a call after?

Her:I know I'm so sorry i was pretty gutted when i found out today. I'll see when I get home. Having a bit of a girls night tonight
Her::)*

Me:Is ok haha I guess the warm cuddles and mushroom jokes will have to wait. Lucky it was Friday and not another night! Have fun


Yeap she flaked, Im not gona lie it tested me emotionally...Im an incredibly positive person and this hurt. it seems the romantic connection got more of me seduced then her lol

There are some valuable lessons to be learnt on that now I can think being do not put all your eggs in one basket

I did a back day (Lats) to get the emotion of my system, or atleast some of it as Im writing this I feel pain but Im NOT a loser. I do NOT give up. I will NOT change my attitude because of one girl


It seems the jump from intermediate to advanced may be a little harder than expected

On the bright side I got a whole romantic connection seriously!! lol not too bad

10/100 girls and I will reflect on the 3 good and bad things tomorrow

Love life, still Love people and Im not giving up

-Days like these give me a chance to appreciate my attitude

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I have recovered seriously what doesn't kill me only makes me stronger and what doesn't challenge me doesn't change me so Im ready to bounce back YEEEEE LOL

3 Things I did great
-Got all 3 checkpoints (BasicSocialComfort, Handhold, Samepageology)
-Got instant date
-Held her hand after shaking it to check interest
-kept the conversation light and skimmed through a variety of topics
-Great qualifiers and rewards for qualifiers/investment
-Progressive flirting/touching
-I did everything besides the kiss!(I was beast, didn't shy away from nervousness, fear)
-Good Vibe friendly vibe(sexual undertone)
-Got the entire romantic connections seriously lol

3 Things I didn't do well
-I spoke to Justin Wayne and he told me the kiss on the lips is great its the full aggressive makeout that causes flakes so I should of gone for it(She practically went out of her way to look,lick,talk,triangular gaze and I said "wait till Friday")
-I let her lead for a portion, I don't think this is a big problem but I could be wrong(Keep in mind)
-I didn't take full action for SNL, lets keep the idea of fucking her because as shown if I don't go for gold Im going to get fucked LOL

Scheduled next sarge for Sat, hoping to atleast get another Domino Effect, we'll see. Keep in mind the vibe needed to become first friendly>flirty>romantic>sexual

IM ready hehee This holiday is THE holiday I get good, expect a lay real soon

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This is were things become interesting :]


Smart Goals

Specific
Measureable
Appropriate
Realistic
Time bound

Something that I will learn and like my warmup approaches will use over time consistently



The idea of our game, or main goal made by the grace of the SMART goals: is that of taking a girl to meet a friend each on a certain date a month from now

I have teamed up with a mate to conquer the skill of meeting people, particularly hot girls!

We have established rules, structures and the method we have chosen is Justin Waynes Domino Effect with a complement of Daygame.com which are best suited for our cause

There are plans to have even audio, video tapes and the like.

The first scheduled session(We've scheduled 2-3 days a week max) is tomorrow and we plan to write reports and reflect on our own and each others game

There is also fitness goals which I need to address and update in this journal, consistency will be the main theme as I won't have as much free time in the future and I need the virtue of consistency!

Winning is not about how hard you can hit, its about how hard you can get hit and keep on going because nobodies going to hit harder than life

As Always love life, love people and Im going to keep it up.

Goals for tomorrow

-Handhold
-Instant date
-Lip kiss(Main Goal)

Lets doooo eeeett YEEE

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Consistency and Balance

Definitely huge factors in living life successfully and achieving the most.
New goal for this week get all workouts consecutively

This is important that I can hit all the workouts and build on that level of discipline because there is going to come a time very soon where it is not the amount that I can give in one moment it's the amount I give out consistently to different areas to improve them consistently.

-So all workouts will be done to legs this week, no skipping
-Aim for consistency no endless sets either
-60-80 mins MAX

SMART Lets do it!

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I got 4/5 Days of working out aiming to do the same for next week and get all 5
The good thing is that every workout didn't exceed over an hour and my arms are getting nice and big

Cheers

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Now recently I realized my sub communications are all going to the shit because of various factors in my life(IE Lack of attention, busy with other things).
So I realized this post would be needed to in case I ever feel like my approaches are going sour and I can't understand why this would be very important to consider as a contributing factor.

Sub Communication
-Voice Projection
Speak loudly with authority and conviction be sure of what your saying
-Eye Contact
Probably one of THE most important sub communication. Especially important in the first few seconds
-Body Language
Relax and sooth yourself. Focus on your feet to pull the nervous energy downwards. Also Swag out
-Masculine Vibe
Don't be worried about offending her, be sceptical when listening. Let her impress you


All basic stuff but I remember when I tried that one small shift of changing the volume of your voice and approaches were so much better.

Goal
-Find a speech Therapist

Always improving (Words are only 7% of communication)

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There is always something to learn and Im grateful to be able to keep learning and progressing.

Things I have learned lately:
-In order to really master any type skill you have to put an effort into it(something like 10000 hours)

Goals
-Read the UPD 2 times a day
-Don't miss any classes
-Get 5 consecutive workouts (missed back this week try again next week)
-Get 1 day of approaching girls done every week ATLEAST(2 times would be good)

It's important to keep myself in check and progress forward always

Get up. One. More. Time

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Here goes,

There has been lots going in my life recently.

Infact it's probably one of those times were life seems to be alittle too much even with all the good things happening which I always seem to take for granted. Im going to make this entry quite serious and give as honest of an entry as I can to really document the feelings in this space of time


Im on a grind I feel, Im working out to get a better body, Going out regularly to get better or more consistent with the girls I want, Going to uni never missing a class but experiencing hardships in all of them! I now also have a job which was one of my goals so fucking YEEE great stuff there

I feel a sense of emotional angst, there is a unrest in me because of the experiences and emotions Im exposed to. I feel a lot of people in this age group going through this phase tend to take drugs or things to distract them, perhaps I did that before with video games and even game to an extent.

There have been girls in my life There has been a shift in the direction that I take with them and I have gotten 1 kind of date and interesting forms of results which all go in different directions and allow me to learn. Nonetheless it's painful emotionally detaching yourself from someone who your supposed to be connecting/investing in and is sometimes horribly unrewarding and creates a very strong emotional resentment or heavyness. There are good moments ofcourse but it seems a validation rather then a genuine point of positivity

In uni I feel a bit of an outcast at the moment there are whispers and people not so easy to get along with. I feel a bit detached from my job as Im faced with a social aspect rather than design fundamentals.

I also feel like Im complaining but truthfully I needed a place to go to for my thoughts to be documented because at the moment my emotional range is up to my eyebrows and there is going to be a very unhealthy release/form of avoidance if I don't recognize/dump the excess and learn how to fix, move forward and keep improving

I still love life, love people and love so much but emotionally Im going places that are challenging me and making life very difficult to live at the moment

There are some text convos/interactions that I need to post up here soon and points that I have already learned from and need to cement so I don't constantly make the same mistakes and Im able to come back to and re learn if necessary


I don't give up, I won't give up and I will keep going till I achieve my goals

I feel very close to achieving something very big or a place of mind that will be x10 better than where Im at for the time being

I feel a lot better, "what doesn't challenge you, doesn't change you"

I can do this, I have faith!!

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