Ur field reports are good bro. The situational openers are the best in my opinion. I feel like using observations rather than scripted makes the whole interaction seem more natural. Also harder to get stuck and not be prepared. But the inner game kicks in then

TXkrush great posts. I can see you are feeling it now. The pure energy of game.

5 4 3 2 1 we have ignition.

Well done.

7/21

Night Game:

Okay so I will provide as much detail as I can remember for myself and for others.

I have been super tired for some reason all week and have not been able to just sit down and note all my interactions from Saturday. I had a conversation with another PUA online and he was kind enough to pick me up and be a wing for me. We both had a goal and had a good talk about being a wing, what he knows and what I know on the way there. I was excited as my other wing was not as good as I hoped and didnt really open or do anything at all the last two times we hung out. This guys is real high energy and opened a lot of sets on his own and with me!

To start the night I downed a beer and took a shot of tequila I had at the apt. because I didnt want to spend a lot of money at the bars. I wanted to buy my wing man a drink for being kind enough to pick me up and sarge. I also met up with one of the other guys from earlier in the day but it seemed like he was doing his thing and practicing conversation.

I'll only go over a handfull of my approaches and my one blow out. That was an epic blow out too. I wish the music wasnt so loud so I could hear her call me a Bitch out loud! LOL

My goal this night was to run game from A to B not just approach. And again, my game was a bit sloppy later but early on I think I did well.

So we get to the first bar and me and my wing man already know what to do to remove obsticals and who gets dibs on who ever opens the set.

We both walk in and get a drink and start talking to a few of the guys and the guy that runs the Meet Ups for the PUB crawl walks up and remember's me and say hi. So we fluff talk a bit and I decide to look around for the women and I see a four set. I walk over and introduce my self and ask are you guys with the meet up? (This is a meetup group from meetup.com that has different goups you can meet up with, find a local group, its great)

They all said yes of course and I immeadiatly move in for my target. Ive decied not to use the HB1 - 10 method of description since my HB9 could be your HB7. I found that this woman was cute and I wanted to start my game.

I asked all of their names and noticed a unique bracelet on my target and gave her a compliment. She was a short hispanic looking woman that was very cute. So she mentioned it was from Turkey. Now this is a method I have used in the past to continue a conversation where you hook on to something. I then asked about Turkey and her visit there and what she did for fun in Turkey. My wing then had conversation with the others in the group which allowed me to stand next to my target and converse.

We had some good fluff talk and I decided to do something I like to do that is semi qualification and cocky funny. I used this all night with great success.

I asked her "So what do you like to do for fun when you are not talking to cute guys at bars?" I seem to always get a laugh and smile with this one.

All she said was "pool". She was not a great conversationalist but thats okay because I can be the man (alpha) and lead.

Me: Thats cool, so you like to chill at the pool, do a few laps, work on your tan. Who doesnt like to be at the pool in this weather (its hot as hell in houston,TX).

Me: So what fun and interesting stuff do you like to do?

Her: Tennis.

Me: Cool, I have never played Tennis before. I bet if we played you would kick my ass.

Her: Laughter and big smiles - No I just started, im learning.

Me: Awesome! So you like to try new things! I like that about you.

I'll call this girl "J" becasue I have one more interaction with her later that night where I should have closed or kiss closed.

So the fluff talk goes on and I eject to find my wing man who is talking to everyone. And some women. He looked like he was doing well so I didnt bother him on his set.

We began the pub crawl and are walking out side and around the corner to the next Pub. As we are walking I loose my wing and see this girl walking by her self next to me and I say "Hi, are you with the group?"

Her: Yes.

Me: Of course you are! Unless you just like walking next to cute guys and chatting with them.

She smiles and we fluff talk about beer and I notice she is cute, kind of chubby but I wouldnt have a problem hooking up with this one. For me a little chubby is not that bad if they are really cute. She had dimples.

We actually talked a lot about beer, I caught a hook point on something she mentioned about different types of beer which is easy for me to talk about. I like different kinds of beer and I have tasted freshly brewed beer so its a good talk. Until now though I realize I didnt use any attraction with this girl and all I did was build rapport, which im good at. (Now I know why I used to end up in the friend zone so much). At then next bar we both went up and got a unique beer and hung out a little then I looked for my wing man and found him getting rowdy with a two set and I jumped in for a sec in the conversation and mentioned "you should trust this guy, I know him well!".

I spotted "J" sitting outside and decided to sit next to her and chat her up some more.

Me: Hey there! I know you! .... I think...

Her: Smiles - Hey! "says my name"

So I sit down and have a little more fluff talk. I wont go into detail but let me explain I am just pretty good at catching hook points and continuing a conversation. I kept talking to her friend as well that sat next to her to bring her into the conversation. Then I decided to focus my attention on the target.

During our talk I kept doing light kino. Just a tap on the shoulder while we chatted and I forget what I said but I jokingly at one point tell her ahhh your my best friend and gave her a side way hug and then I let go and even sat a little bit at a distance from her (push pull). This seemed to work well.

During our conversation she started asking me questions about what I do and what side of town I stay on. (clear IOI's) and even turned to face me and twice put her hands on my should or knee. I was excited because I knew I built attraction at this point. I was just about done with my drink so I decide to go get up and get another one. I wasnt drunk but felt I could still run game with where I was at. I didnt notice some AFC's (about four of them) sat on both sides of the two set....

As I approached the bar I saw (Dimples) and told her to find me a beer because they had so many at this place to choose from. It was a short chat and she suggested like two different beers that they were out of. We fluff talked but nothing special and I didnt even think of any techniques to use with her but I knew I had to do something. We both went different directions and then I saw the organizer of the meet up talking to this cute girl and walked up to him and said hi as he was talking to her and then moved in on the target and the organizer walked away so I didnt even have to isolate the target.

Once again I fluff talked and it was good. I built rapport because she was going to classes to be a teacher and I told her my sister was a teacher and told her I thought it was cool that she did that. So the fluff talk went on and I noticed she didnt have a beer so I said "hey why dont we get a beer?"

We walked to the bar chatted a little and nothing happened. I walked around and noticed my wing man getting along well with some thick tattooed woman with blond and pink hair dressed kind of Goth. He seemed to be having a good time.

I came back outside to see "J" and she was surrounded by chodes. I was like damn. I could see they were getting bored by the conversation and the guys around them werent talking. Just staring at everyone. I joined the conversation a little and ejected. I figured I could get with her later.

Soon after I found out I let my phone battery die and realized I couldnt get any numbers I realized I had a major fail! At this moment I was buzzing a little and didnt think to look for paper and a pen. I decided "Fuck it!" I am approaching my ass off and running some game. I dont care if I get a number or not.

So I left this venue and walked down the street with the group and walked with my wing man and some one said something about migration jokingly and I am mexican and my wing wing is Columbia and I said "What immigration!" Run... we both ran for like half a block jocking and everyone was laughing. We were talking and cracking people up left and right.

I had about 5 more random approaches that I cant remember the details of but they were all in good fun. I knew I couldnt get a number but didnt care.

I have to talk about this blow out though that cracked me up. So were at this place called Bronx Bar and a 5 set of girls from india it looked like approached the bar. One was kind of cute so I try to talk to her. She kept turning her shoulder to me and shit testing me. I looked at my wing and he was like "dont stop". I was buzzed and like fuck it....

So I found this technique works to disarm the bitch shield. I told this one girl at a previous bar "Awww thats cute, you remind me of my little sister, always with something clever to say. I like that about you!" But this girl looked straight ahead turned to the side and waived as to "shoo" me away. I was like "Geeze, I was just trying to be social. You aint gotta be rude!" . Keep in mind it was very loud with the music but I heard her loud and clear. She actually yelled at the top of her lungs - "You aint got to be a bitch!" I was like "whoa!" and I laughed and walked towards the dance floor and it was crowded but fun.

After getting in the middle of this dance floor some tall hot asian girl was dancing close to me and it was clear she was really fucked up on something. I put my arm around her waist and she was close to me. I guess she felt the need to get close because she pulled me close and grabbed my shell necklace and told me "this shit looks fucking gay, why are you wearing it?!" keep in mind her lips touched the side of my face while she talked to me. I was about to try and kiss her and tell her why dont you find out. She backed a way a little and then stumbled dancing her way off the dance floor.

LOL what an experience. This did not stop me from approaching just to let you know.

I'll just go over one last approach because I think it was funny what happened to me.

So this place was another bar that had a bunch of beers and I approached two girls that were drinking some kind of blonde beer so I asked them what kind it was and started a good conversation with them and sat on the stool next too them to get a beer. As I pull up on these really high chairs I had a horrible cramp in my calf muscle. One of the girls were talking to me and I know I made a weird face and tried to pretend that the excruciating pain in my calf muscle was not affecting me but I kept looking down at my foot trying hard to stretch it out. Talk about trying to maintain frame.

I just could not keep their attention when trying to talk to this last set. Let me describe the set before I finish. One was a hefty girl dressed kind of hipster with dyed black hair and glasses with the thick black rim and the other was dressed similar with very short hair very cute but not wearing any make up.

It took me a minute but then I realize, these girls are gay. Not because they didnt pay attention to me but because they were giving each other IOI's...

I laughed in my head and thought. What a great night!

I ended the night with that blow out but somewhere in between this I got dimples to text me so I would have here number and told her I would see her at the next meet up. I knew I couldn't get a day 2 with her due to not building attraction but I figured one number close is better than none but all the experiences were worth more than anything.

Thanks man. I realized I have used these all the time when I was in my 20's. I used to go to clubs every weekend. I didnt pull or know what I know now so lets so how good I can get once I get rolling. I actually dont see anything wrong with scripted material. I plan on using an indirect opener next weekend with my guys when we go out. I'll report how it goes.

Haha, yup im working on it. Not much going on this weekend coming up because I have my kids, but next weekend its on. A happy hour and a wing man meet up and a planned night of sarging in the same area.

7/26

First attempt at Bus game:

Just a very cool interaction with a woman on the bus. I would call the a semi approach because I didnt actually open her.


So I am at the bus stop like I am every day but im in a very good mood because I have developed a good habit of chatting up my neighbors in the cubicles around me in the office and on occasion we have a really good laugh. As I was at the bus stop I notice this guy at the bus stop with a vest on dressed very nice. He asks me if I have a solid dollar for some change and I say yes. He needed it to add money to his bus card so I gave him a one dollar bill. I asked him where he got his vest because I thought it was cool and we chatted about stores and where you could get cheap clothing and vests. I think I want to add a little more style to my wardrobe so I figured why not ask. We chatted a little bit and I was just being social as we got on the bus and the chat slowed down and across from us (the seats were facing the isle on the bus) there was this girl with a nice pair kind of cute but dressed down in some sweats and no make up. But she still looked cute.

I tried to think of an opener but was stumped. So I didnt say anything. The guy I was chatting with opened her with:

Him: Excuse me? Where did you get your tattoo from?

Her: Oh its an Indian art and represents the divine one.... or something divine....it comes off, its not a tattoo.

So I just join the conversation and ask her questions about the tattoo and she explains a lot of crazy spiritual stuff about the meta physical, meditation, and spiritual energy.

We go back and forth a little about it as I took over the conversation with her. The whole time I kept looking for IOI's but got nothing. At one point the other guy that opened her got off the bus and it was just me and her.

She talked very low so I had to lean over to hear her. I didnt like my body language so I leaned back while talking to her but I still couldnt hear her. I attempted to match her tonality and breathing but it was from a distance and the way she sat was very stiff and distant. At one point she made very good eye contact and I got her name and shook her hand. I had a very difficult time reading her body language but she was very fascinating and I was going to ask her for her number but before I could she got up and got off the bus, and said good bye, looked at me and looked at her phone. She got off not far from my stop and I think I should have just got off and talked to her a little bit or tried to number close quicker.

She was kind of strange but fascinating. Im not sure what it was that attracted me to her but all that spiritual stuff kind of hooked me. I can see why the palm reading and cube work so well.

I learned a lot from this. This will help me to approach on the bus.

You should try to find a wingman and participate in the "GO" game. I am finding this game to be extremely effective at getting rid of approach anxiety. I have been adamantly searching for wingmen in the area to play this game with. All of the approaches at the mall I would struggle to do alone, I am being pushed by wingmen to make. A consistent wingman is important because otherwise I feel like it would be similar to expensive bootcamps where you pay money and they make you do twenty approaches and number close, but once the bootcamp ends the approach anxiety reappears.

Awesome, we actually played the GO game not to long ago. I met up with a bunch PUA guys here in my city. We are working on building a lair. I approached a few sets last night. I dont feel too much AA at night for some reason. Its getting a hell of a lot better. I even number closed some brunette at one of the bars we were at. I'll post that NC later. I want to see what I can do tonight with my wingmen. These guys are bad ass. We got an NLP expert, a licensed Hypnotist, and some young guys eager to get going.

I got a crap load of approaches in last week. I cant say im a 100% over AA but I approach now with a good mind set. I would say I am about 85% over AA but still get a little nervous on women in the 8-10 range, again, I hate to use this scale but I just want to give you an idea of what my sticking points are to help me in my journey and to help anyone else out there.

Approach! Approach! Approach!

You can read all the freakin books you want on pick up. If you are not getting out there and practicing then you will never get good!!!

8/2

So on 8/1 I was on the phone with a co-worker who is around an 8 or 9ish that said she wanted to do a happy hour with me. I said there is one going on tomorrow so you should show up. She said she would but flaked out...

The night began at a local bar that just opened up and one of the company's top dogs were there and he paid for everything so I got a very good buzz going at this place. At one point I got up and walked out side to look for targets but didnt see any so I went back to the table and flirted with the waitress a bit.

Hired guns just arent my thing. I talked to her a bit it seemed to be going well and right when I thought I could number close, it eneded with a pat on my back and I got a boyfriend. The pat on the back was one of the LJBF / AMOG type of pats that kind of left me speechless. If she wouldnt have done the pat on my back I think I could have responded several ways but I was just thrown off by it.

Note to self: Work on hired gun game....

So we have a couple of drinks and they mention going to a pizzaria / bar for more drinks.

So we have more drinks and coworkers are hanging out and one of my managers buys me a beer. Right in front of about 5 of my coworkers a beatiful woman walks by (about a 9) and I approach direct and tell her she is the most beautiful woman at the bar and she tells me thank you that her husband is sitting at the end of the bar. The coolest thing about this is that all my co-workers high fived me and gave me credit for walking up to the attractive woman. (My drinks were hooked up for the rest of the night). It was great social proof.

Pt 2 of this comming up since im at work writing this. I will add more later tonight.

Pt 2.

So i did like only 5 or six approaches the whole night but it was a learning experience.

I will only talk about the ones that mattered the most.

So there is this nice looking hispanic girl I approach and said hi to her and fluff talked with her a bit and told her I would talk to her later. When I went back to her, we fluff talked some more and I tried to qualify her but didnt get a very good response, and then she bust out with "Are you going to buy us shots?" I was like really.... so what makes you so special that I should buy you shots.

She was dead quite. I said "really... nothing.... " Then I walked away.

I realized I didnt build attraction but she wasnt really interested anyway.
Next target!!!!

A slim cute girl walked in. Probably a B-cup but nice.

So I sit down at the bar next to her and start chatting. I cant really remember what I said becasuase I was buzzing pretty good, but my openers are usually direct and are "Hi, my name is ....".

I did my normal talk with her and it seemed to be going well. I then decided to do Styles "EV" (Eliciting Values) and some palm reading.

Now I dont think this stuff is bad I think it was just bad excecution on my part. I was pretty much drunk at this point and did a horrible palm reading. She mentioned she already had a plam reading before and I compared it with mine and I remember something stupid I said that came off like bragging...

I looked at my heart line and told her where it seperates means I have choices.... lol

I had built rapport but I knew there was no attraction. I could kind of sense it. She was being friendly. I knew there was some attraction in the beginning but I think I screwed up in two parts.

I told her I like to try new things and tried this drink that she was drinking and bought her one and then the stupid palm reading thing....

At first I actually disqualified her and it seemed to work. I wish I could remember what I said. But it was MM style and I was at the edge of the bar and turned completly away from her (sort of giving her the cold shoulder) and said jokingly that I could not talk to her while sitting in my bar stool. She kept talking to me to get my attention so I turned around to reward her.

I should have kept that up. It was working.

I still went for the number close but she told me to give her mine and I said no, that doesnt work for me. I didnt push the action further so I ejected with it was nice meeting you.

Only other interaction worth noting is that I negged the shit out of some triple D girl that continued talking to me. She was a platinum blonde that looked like she had some major implants. When it got to what do you do for a living she said she worked from home.....all I could think of was... yeah (im sure that web cam business is doing well for you) im certain I gave this look to her with body language at this part of the conversation.

This was fun and good social proof. I worked a crowed but way too drunk to run "good" game.

The next day I went into work still drunk and then threw up twice and went home. I couldnt stay at work so I went home. I know, maybe TMI, but I want you to understand even though I was sick, I still sarged some more later that night.

Later that night I met up with my new H-Town wings! These guys are bad ass!

8/3

So as I have mentioned before that I was placed into a position to be a "event organizer" for a Meetup group in a Houston lair. I am one of three lead wingmen / event organizer's.

I decide that since I ride the bus that I would create a meet up at a bar near where I live for few drinks so we can hang out and talk shop.

I didnt expect everyone to show up but they all did one by one. A good eight or nine of us. I was really excited. I told them about most of my experiences that I have shared with you guys on here and I was told I have learned fairly quickly. It was great to meet the different personalities and cool guys. I opened a set next to me with not much success. I think they heard me talk about my lays and approaches. Also, I can admit I wasnt dressed to game. I woke up late and still hung over and just tossed on my wife beater, rolled up sleeves button down white shirt and some plaid shorts. I was really bummy and just wanted to hang.

So we decide to go to a different bar that was a lot cooler to hang out and we just end up owning a whole section in one end of the bar with some big leather chairs and talking to people around us. So my friend "Hatter" opened a seet of this cute but young looking girl sipping a margarita with her friend that was kind of cute but not super hot.

I jumped in to wing my boy and started talking to the cute girls friend and we were getting along really well. My boy ejected but I wont dissect his game. Since I was already working the obstacle I realized she was kind of cute so I pushed it forward, with some playful talk and teasing. I could see I was building attraction so I jumped into some qualification with "so besides talking to cute guys at bars, what else do you like to do for fun?"

I have been using this a lot with great success but only after she is smiling and giving me some IOI's. She mentioned gun range and paintball. So we talked and the whole time I am playfully doing some light kino. A sideways hug and high fives. I could see the conversation winding down a little so I number closed because I knew I had did my job from point A to point B on this interaction.

If I can do this with a girl that is a 6 I really think I can work it on a 8 or 9. I feel im just progressing and working some bugs out. Im really starting see some things. I just need to aim higher.

So after this interaction I walk over to my bro "Hatter" talking to a really hot blonde and I see some other guy talking to her in his set so I walk up to him to remove the obstacle and the girl walked away. He didnt talk to her... so then this other cute tattooed girl walks up and is doing karate kicks and I tell her its cute she reminds me of a little sister and she just looks at me wierd..... hey, I know its old but it worked for me 4 out of 6 times....

Any way, we talk to some guys that met up with our group that have been PUA's for a couple of years. I get dissed a bit for using the old line but I dont care. It woked so meh....

So these guys are supposedly really good and we end up going to hang out at a place called Avenue with them. A really nice club with a bunch of hot women. I change clothes and look really good and then we meet up with the new guys and they are already with women. I was like damn they are good! But later I find out they already knew the girls that they met up with. So they AMOG me a bit becasue I look so much different from my bummy outfit at the bar and one of them is with a really hot blonde that comes up to me and tells me I look nice, like 4 times. She then walks up to me and high fives me. She continues talking to me while one of the guys that was AMOGing me is buying her a shot that she is not taking. She tells me she is from Germany and she is only in town for tonight. I was like omg... would it be wrong for me to game this dudes... chick. I was going to but I figured it would be better if I didnt. I was told we should watch how these guys work so I kind of backed away from her and talked to the other guys. I wanted to see these guys in action but I didnt see anything impressive. One of them followed his date inside (she led him) and the other sat down with the Blonde girl all up on him. They didnt approach any sets. I wanted to see some action but didnt. Im not saying they didnt have game but I wasnt really impressed. I didnt see anything besides the fact that they had dates. They didnt share much info either but I guess i'll find out more later.

I direct approached one girl before I left but she said she had a boyfriend and then I said I had a dog....lol

I give credit to a great NLP pua guy that I hang out with on that one.

She actually laughed and said that her boyfriend doesnt roll like that.

I learned a lot from my NC. And I learned a lot about the cool wingmen in the group. Good night overall.

8/4

This is a cool meet up because the guys came out again and at least three other new guys came and hung out. We all talked shop for a little bit and drank a few and waited for everyone to show up.

So we kind of paired up to wing each other with guys that had the most expierience and guys that had the least. I had two guys with me that were very new.

I kind of felt like a coach, and it was awesome seeing them take my advice and do fairly well.

We played the "GO" game and I dont think they thought I would walk up to sets and start talking but I did. My first set was at the bar and I opened them with "have you been here before??" We talked a little bit about the band and the bar and I said I would talk to them later, and I went back with my wing man this time. He had the "rings routine" going and I sat back and watch him work. He was doing great until his routine was over. He didnt know what else to say so he acted like he got a text and ejected. I started talking to the target about her ring that was on her "marraige" finger and she told me that her father gave her that ring and that was why she wore it. I mentioned that I was raised by a single mother and I know what it means to be close to family. (Building rapport) I was really getting into it with her and then my wing pulled away... damn... I left reluctanctly but I see how you can pull strings on a girl with rapport and connecting skipping things like cocky funny and DHV routines.

Although, talking about how I was raised by a single mother and how I am always around women seems to be something I say a lot. It seems to build comfort. I might have to save that for later in the conversation and then seduce.


We then go across the street to the club. So my second approach was a compliment to a woman on her necklace to open the two set that seemed almost annoyed that I approached them. I tried to talk to them and joke around a little bit but I couldnt get them hooked. They both didnt look that hot IMO so I think it was hard for me to really game them. One of the guys were with joined the set but didnt add much to the conversation so I ejected when I felt it wasnt going anywhere.

I decided to warm the place up by talking to almost everyone around me. Bartenders, waitresses, and random guys just sitting around. Then I would go back to my group of guys and talk a little bit.

This is something I learned from Adam Lyons stuff and Gamblers Natural Game book.

I sent one of my wings to a pretty hot looking set and I could see he was in trouble at the start and jumped in his set. I started talking to the girls about the bar and asked when it gets good (it was kind of dead) and they said its a hit or miss usually. In the conversation I said "you girls are cool, I dont care what anybody says" and they looked at me and kind of laughed. I high fived one and faked out the other one. I said awwww.... you fell for that. She turned away almost ashamed but smiling. I stuck out my arm out gesturing for a hug and told her I was totally messing with her and she put her arm around me and hugged me. I didnt think it would be that easy to go for a hug.....


I have a few more approaches to add but I will post them later...

I cant believe I forgot to post my kiss close.

I cant remember my last few approaches in detail so I will just go over the KC I got.

So this girl was not super hot or anything, but I just went into it to see if I could. When I was 21 - 25 I had great dance floor game. I would almost always end up with two girls grinding on the dance floor. So we were kind of board and the club wasnt packed but had a few HB's. Nothing to get excited about. So one girl started grinding up on me and would stop. She started gettting really freaky and grinding hard so I just went with it.

There was no converstation, just hardcore kino. I figured if she wanted to get that intimate with my crotch then a kiss should be no problem.

In the past I would never do this, I think I have made out at clubs like once or two or three times... never contiously trying though.


I noticed she started facing and looking into my eyes. I leaned over and said in to her ear, "Im trying so hard not to kiss you" I think its style's kc but I think I could have just gone in. I had to say it twice but the second time she looked at me and said "Why?". I took that as a yes so I kissed her slowley and backed off and she came to me and put arms on my shoulder. I was thinking to myself.... now if I can do this to a slightly below average girl then I can do it to a hotttie!. We made out on the dance floor then I got her number and when I left she pulled me close to her for a kiss. They guys saw the girl wasnt that hot but it was fun and cool that I got a KC.

Nothing to brag about but I learned a lot about body language and calibration. This was a very good experience.

Your journal is very enjoyable and inspirational. I just finished reading it, now I really want to get my ass out the house and into the club and start approaching and maybe even start my own journal.

Your making great progress and have some great momentum which will undoubtedly lead to a lot more closes from you.

Keep up the good work bro!

Im glad I inspire you! I definitely suggest that everyone write a journal after you sarge. It makes you think deeply about every interaction and allows you to plan for the next sarge. I have been told I inspired a couple of people with my journal and that actually inspires me to go out more and improve! If I can go out and do well, I know anyone can.

Game on man!