Hey "ohforsure". it really sounds as though you have a lot going for you. you just need to get some successes under your belt, to make you more confident. in your first field report you say how you went off the girl, but be honest...you actually lacked the confidence to make a move , so are you telling yourself that your not bothered?!

she was giving you lots of signs, and you knew it. So lesson learned, next time just make the move. I usually just look at a girl, place my hand on the side of their face and say "Hey"...they look at you and you go in for the kiss. if you don't try to kiss her 100% of the time YOU WILL NOT GET THE KISS. if you got it wrong and she doesn't want to kiss you, so what...but at least you tried. The fat dwarf guy probably repulsed her and when she looked round to see if you were listening it was most likely because she didn't want you to hear and misunderstand the situation, and think she was interested in him. You also missed a huge chance, when she said "apparently were finishing the night by having a party at your's" that was your cue to say "DAMN RIGHT WE ARE", take her hand, lead her outside and get a taxi to yours! now i wasn't there, but im pretty damn certain that night you coulda fucked her! you definitely coulda kissed her.

As for your wing man, he is a huge AFC PUSSY that is scared and he's trying to branwash you into thinking this wont work. this is cos he is scared to try it and wants to see YOU fail. fuck him off, dump him! if he was a mate he would help you.

YOU ARE DOING WELL! it takes time and practice. i am far from perfect, in honest i'm going through a bit of a lull at the minute BUT PUA changed my life! since i read up on it i have slept with more women and gotten 100% better at talking to women, getting numbers and being happy. Oh and i might be in a lull, but i have 2 dates this weekend! so imagine what i'm like when im on form!

PS: NEVER use the phrases "chillax" and "Sup bro" again.....:p

Happy New Year.
No, I thought you came to your senses and was busy fucking Halo girl from that party since you stopped posting field reports Glad to see you're back and still determined to kick (pick up) ass

BTW, if your wings decide to AFC it up and fuck up your game, just get rid of them. Gaming solo is better than dragging boring people along. Also, somehow you tend to be more approached by girls when you're alone than when you're hanging out with guys. Maybe it's because it makes them think of a pack of wolves Last time I went out, I went with an old friend. We weren't there to pick up chicks, just to have a good time and screw around. Eventually, though, this brunette (7/10) comes up and starts talking to us. Which is cool, except she's obviously into him and starts claiming all his attention. So much for guy's night out.

So, instead of sitting there like a motherfucking third wheel, I decide to go downstairs (sort of a big place, with a bar at the ground flood and a club in the basement) to see what's going on there. First thing that happens is that a random chick grabs my junk while she's walking buy (no - it's not a strip club ). I don't even have time to react. "Well. That's new", and I go get a drink. I sit down, and within a minute, this cute little 7/10 blonde kitten pie sits down next to me. She doesn't open me, but she finds it ridiculously necessary to sit so close to me that she keeps bumping her elbow into me while texting or doing some stuff on her phone (obviously wanting me to open her). So I do, and we chat for a bit. It's pretty early in the evening, so when I finish my drink I go back up to see if my friend has got rid of the brunette thing (she probably ran off when she found out he had a girlfriend )

Okay, I'm done ranting. Just a little anecdote to argue that you don't _need_ wings every time you go out to meet girls (or people in general).

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Hahaha! The night I went out and got simply jacked up drunk I actually considered gaming alone because the guy I was with was being a total mug and was getting dragged all over the shop by some chubby chick who was spending most of the time talking to other dudes lol. I was so fricken battered I had to sit down and just relaxed for a while, which was pretty cool. A group of girls were dancing in front of me, I was pretending to text and one girl looked over at me 3-4 times. I didn't have my game face on that night, as I said I went out to get smashed, so just sat there. There are a lot of fools out there and I can honestly admit that I am often one of them when it comes to this sphere of my life, as you guys can obviously see. I've not pulled the trigger yet because I've not got the damn confidence in doing that. My family upbringing is such that I've never witnessed anyone in my household showing love - it's some stupid shit but that's how it was back in the days of my living with my parents. I'm out there now and I will bring myself up to speed. Being around these guys who're negative doesn't help, but for now I will deal with it and arrange to be out this weekend. It will take a LOT of getting into the right mindset, but I will try and mentally prepare myself to consider pulling the trigger. Plans will be made and posted here when they arise, two of my housemates are out at the mo and the other has a girl round (lol asshole ) but I will seek to go out, open, and if there is something in the cosmos which has been privy to my suffering for the last 21 years, if they can lend a hand on this one occasion I will be very happy!

Once I've done it once I think I will be OK to continue. Otherwise I will strongly consider going to Amsterdam before my 22nd birthday and losing my virginity to a prostitute because it's getting a bit ridiculous now. I've got an open day at a big London Law Firm on Wednesday and the fact that I could potentially be living that lifestyle in a few years while a damn virgin is pissing me off! Hahah

Peace and love.
PS. I will try and keep the sup bros to a minimum but I'm not promising anything

but until you just "pull the trigger" your gonna be held back. there is no piece of "zen" like info i can give you other than to say "just do it" whats the worst thing that can happen!

I played in bands for years. My first ever gig was a SOLO acoustic gig in front of lots of people. I remember standing in the dressing room trying to think of all these things that would help me get the confidence to go on stage and place. it was terrifying! and in the end a few little words popped into my head, they wern't magic or positive psychology. i just told myself "JUST FUCKING DO IT"!

I hear you dude. I understand.

Been trying to get out recently but its fucking impossible. 2/4 housemates have girlfriends, so they cba, and the other one is the unsupportive guy from before who's too much of a chump to want to go out unless there's girls with us. Have messaged guys off here, particularly one interesting dude who coaches guys like moi. Am still awaiting replies.

Went to join Judo today but met an old friend and was with him for a while. There is a session on Friday so I will join then. Also joined a student business society which has all sorts of projects and met a few cool people from that, which hopefully will become more interesting over time but we shall see.

Sooo need to get out. Will keep on top of it, am doing the best I can but I really am never thrown a bone lol.

Another development:

There is a really pretty girl in one of my classes who looks at me quite a lot. I think she's cool and would like to get to know her. I want to approach her and say hello. I will get a chance to do this on Friday as she is in one of my classes that day. I know she likes me, and this makes me a bit apprehensive about going about this. But I think I will gut it up and just say hi!

Problems arise if she likes me. She's beautiful (seriously) and I'll no doubt lose her pretty swiftly because I'll be fucking useless in bed from being a virgin. Wouldn't even know how to kiss her. I need to get some experience in. Once I have my wings I will be OK to move on to more meaningful things...

Ahh guys I am just frustrated. I'm motivated as ever and I really am trying to change but it is hard.

Thanks as always for reading, and have a great week.
R

Should be going out tonight and expect to be put through my paces.

Will report back.



Peace & love,
R

Said person did not get back to me, however it was incredibly snowy yesterday so I can understand it may have not been the best of nights to be out. Nonetheless, I believe this person could be a great teacher. He was actually very interesting, from speaking to him once he did make me feel immediately as ease, so I'd like to become part of this gentleman's crew.

I will continue to message them, and if they let me work with them, then expect an interesting field report soon because I'm on this guys.

Thanks,
R

First proper sarge! Day game at that! Woohoo!

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Was done on the 20th of Jan 2013. Today I have stopped about 5 people and just made small talk, also got the facebook of a guy from my class. I can really feel my brain digesting what Jackal told me.

Very happy. Tomorrow night, will do some night game in a club. Then Fri or Sat, will do night game with Jackal and crew.

Head very much in the game now guys! Lets fucking do it.

If anyone is in the West Midlands, experiences or newbie, you need to hook up with Jackal. This guy is legit.

Peace and love,
R

Just been working on being a lot more socialble. Got the phone number of a girl I'm friends with, she has a BF so whatever. Whenever I sit by her in class she twirls her hair for ages, I'm sure she finds me very attractive.

Club game later tonight! Gonna approach as much as possible. Then day game tomorrow. Good times.

R

Opened 5 sets. First two went shit, second two went awesome. I'm very, very frustrated today because I went out with a new group of people (they're fucking soo cool, glad I met them) and they all kissed 4-5 girls each. Some of these girls were the hottest ones there. The guy who got the hottest chick is short and pretty funny looking. They weren't even talking, they just went directly for the kiss. I was running day game type shit lol. Also, all said guys were drunk as fuck.

Next time I go out, just gonna get wasted and try and kiss as many women as possible. Worst part is, seeing how easy it was for these guys to kiss these girls put me off my crush, as I bet she could be as easily roped in.

On the upside, at least I opened.

Ah fuck it.

No sleep today also. Got in at half 3, up at half 5. Gotta sarge with Jackal at 12, and want to ask my crush out later. Wish me luck lol....

Thanks,
R

FR from that nightgame & a good bit of day game

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Had a fucking awesome night last night with Jackal, got two number closes and a date for next week lol. Oh yeah! Feeling pretty damn great right now.

I truly learned lessons last night. FR will follow.

Peace and love,
R

Day gamed today, was running a bit late & then Jackal was teaching for some of the time, but when we sarged I got 3 numbers in 30 minutes! One of them was a 9/10 - beautiful Latvian girl, gorgeous body (some of the best legs/bum I've seen in a while), awesome style (fashion student), she really stood out for me so I approached unprompted. Closed pretty easy after a short conversation and told her I'd text her to meet her for coffee next week - I also gave her a hug. Now need to learn text game! Basically, I've learned some great foundational game from the master, The Jackal. Jackal is the best teacher you will ever meet. He is changing my life. He's an incredible and charismatic leader who inspires and instills confidence, as well as a savvy technician who is able to impart upon you theoretical abstractions and psychology that really works. I am in there for the long run as these are the skills which will take me to success in my career.

In The Game We Trust.

FR will be posted soon brothers.
R

Night game with Jackal's Crew from Friday.

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2 number closes.

Also got invited to a house party which is on later in the week. Gonna have to close some chicks there. May be clubbing on Wednesday, if not, day game Thursday and then night game Friday. We're making things happen. Your boy is starting to turn it around.

Going to text some girls tomorrow. Woop.

Peace & Love,
R

Nice to see you're doing well. A question: are Jackal lessons for free?