Ok, I've developed a little routine for my self.

I.) I'm walking and a girl is either sitting or walking.
A.) If sitting I say "hey" loudly and confidently to get their attention, once I have their attention I sit down right next to them sitting hip to hip and establish eye contact.
B.) If walking or standing I wave and then say "hey" loudly and confidently to get their attention and then stand directly in front of them to establish interest. I will stand extremely close to them to establish interest.

II.) Once in either situation I establish routine eye contact and say a few basics.
A.) Name
B.) That I noticed her and she was interesting
C.) Strike up a small and random topic based on situtation or chance

III.) Once I'm there and having a small conversation and established the eye contact I won't worry about the situation being awkward. I'll allow it to get that way if it happens. I will simply stare them in the eye and allow them to talk to me. If the situation warrants it at this level in the game I'll go for a kiss to see how receptive they are.

IV.) Listen to the girl and establish rapport while also escalating, especially if she makes references to sex, her body parts, or you looking nice, etc. Also sexualize things. (SFT) as it's called

A.) For example if a girl says my nipples are cold, gaze at her nipples, get close to her breast, slowly raise your hand towards her breast, and then rub her nipple. Again, if the situation warrants it go for another kiss. Don't be freaked out if a woman has a negative reaction. Mentally tell your self to stay calm and focus on the prize. Turn around the negativity into positivity. (The below isn't neccessarily in cronological order)

- Get Horny

- establish your intentions (aka sex).

- establish your frame (that you wanna have sex).

- This is the part of game where you establish your character. For example, during moments of sexual tension establish that you can keep secrets and that you like things to remain private.

- This is the part of game where you establish a woman's compliance.

- This is the part of game where you turn up the heat.

- Remember turn negative into positive. For example a if you rub a stomach and a girl says "you think I'm fat!?" in a condescending tone, don't get lost in that simply stare her down and maintain frame or reply with something short, simple, sweet and straight to the point. "No actually, I rub your belly because I feel warm and safe when I'm holding you." (I know weird reply), but it helps you to keep moving forward.

V.) Isolate or bring Closure, this simply means close how ever the situation permits. Always go for f-close at that very moment if possible. If not via resistance, bad location, or bad timing. Simply k-close (keep it simple like a little peck on the lips) and then number close. Don't be afraid to follow up that day. Set up a day 2 that you can follow up with her and then close later.

VI.) Day 2- If it goes this far simply repeat steps 1-5 and continue to do so until you bring closure to this encounter.

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K I've made a simple laundry list format of the above that I could keep in my wallet when I'm on the go.

Routine List

I.) Approach; greet clearly, audibly, and confidently; and establish close contact

II.) Establish eye contact and do the basics (exchange names, establish that she was interesting, strike up small conversation on a random topic)

III.) Maintain eye contact, the flow of the convo, and allow for the situation to get awkward if that occurs. Again, maintain eye contact and frame. If there is enough tension I'll go for a kiss to test compliance.

IV.) Build Rapport while escalation (SFT) (Get horny; establish intent, frame (sexualize the conversation), tension, character, compliance; turn up the heat; and turn negative into positive)

V.) Isolate or Close (Always go for the f-close, if not possible do a simple k&n- close follow up and setup a day two and repeat the process)

VI.) Day 2 (if required)- If it goes to the day two simply repeat steps 1-5 and continue to do so until you bring closure to this encounter.

K, last but not least. I've printed out three lists:

1.) The Challenge List I just created

2.) The Routine List I just created

3.) The Escalation Ladder

Having these with me in my pocket at all times will help me to stay focus and stay on task. Plus I can cross out when I achieve an objective and move onto the next one. This is a great strategy for me staying focused on the task at hand.

The Escalation Ladder (List)

I.) Eye to Eye Contact

II.) Overt Class 1

A.) Holding hands/ Rubbing hands
B.) Arm in Arm escorting

III.) Overt Class 2

A.) Frontal Hugging (done best a positive reaction to her compliance)
B.) Escorting her with your hand on her lower back
C.) Sitting next to her and placing her leg over yours
D.) Holding her abdomen on the side while sitting down talking
E.) Placing her hand on your thigh

IV.) Overt Class 3

A.) Placing her head to rest on your shoulder
B.) Moving your face into her neck and or smelling her hair
C.) Lightly stroking her face with your finger, close in looking into her eyes
D.) Running your fingers through her hair, close in looking into her yes
E.) Holding her behind the neck with your palm to the side of her neck, looking into her eyes

V.) Kissing

VI.) Kissing her Neck

VII.) Touching the bare skin of her back

VIII.) Stomach to stomach

IX.) Kissing her body

X.) Playing around the vagina

XI.) Directly playing with the vagina

XII.) Sex




K, I know I'm doing a lot of posting, but I'm basically making a laudry list of what I plan to do. This is the escalation list I'm going to follow. I took out all the incidental classes because they are useless and makes you focus on trivial things. I'll only pay attention to overt escalation until I've done it enough times that I understand and comprehend how it works. Well guys, the next step is to use this stuff!!!

Well I haven't used my opener yet but forgetting my pocket sized lists did not prevent me from going in and gaming today. Today was an interesting day, it was simply one of those days where I sinked back into old habits a bit. I guess I was a little scared yesterday after nearly choking to death on some water that went down the wrong pipe. I kinda've caved in and did an old habit "porn" 3 times yesterday, though I've managed to get it under control today.

Old habits die hard, but I didn't used my slight mistakes or scare as a reason not to approach, but it did affect my game. Today I only got in 3 approaches but I made them all worth while. The first interaction went very well. The following two just felt incredible awkward and I could tell each of the women involved weren't attracted to me, at least not the second girl. The third person was a woman and I was a little too passive with her. I sat far away, and had very long pauses in between each line as if I were trying to think of what to say. Which may have partially been the case.

Well I'll start with the first girl I had a conversation today. Usually on Mondays around 9:00am I look to talk to this one girl that I talked to previously from a small town roughly 40 minutes from mine. We would talk etc., but recently I haven't been able to find her, so I didn't stress my self out about the situation I just marked it as an oppurtunity to talk to other people. When I found a girl that looked a little similar to the one that I was talking to from a distance I slowly walked over there only to find out that it was not her at all. I didn't use that as an excuse. I used the same old tired old line that people use "haven't I seen you before, aren't you that girl from such and such?" And it turns out she wasn't, but we had an interesting conversation. The first couple parts of the conversation were mundane, us exchanging basics like where we went to highschool etc.

After a couple of minutes though the conversation became marked by a conversation about the science of sex appeal. I talked and she more of listened. I didn't purposely talk the entire time but she spoke little. At any rate, I was glad that I opened her and that we were talking about sex. I won't focus too much on the negatives of the encounter, but I did notice that through out today that I didn't sit very close to the women I spoke to. I didn't at all maintain eye contact very long or often, and generally the conversations were a little less than fulfilling.

For example, the second girl we just sat in silence for the vast majority of the time and she said very few things. I didn't take that as being bad, just waiting for her to speak. She was waiting for me to leave, she even called her friends to come and break up the interaction. She said, "could you guys please hurry up this is worse than that other time." I could tell she was talking about me, I was flattered lol. When her friends arrived I could tell the crowd she hung out with wasn't the same crowd I hung out with. I usually would never stoop as low to say that race played a factor in the interaction but seeing as her guy friends were straight red necks who wouldn't even talk to me or acknowledge me, I knew what I was dealing with and peacefully withdrawed from the conversation.

And last but not least, I talked to an older black woman on the bus. She looks cute for her age, but I could tell she was a little older. I had known who she was before hand but I had never really formally introduced my self to her. So I tried to have a conversation with her a few times and there were extremely long pauses in between remarks. I did the other thing of sitting far away from her a few times as well, as well as waiting too long maintain conversational contact. The conversation would dry out very fast and hell I would do little to keep it up. I didn't get her to that comforitable spot where she conducted all the talking and I just listened. I've noticed that about the women I've talked to. I've rarely gotten women to that place where they will do a lot of the talking and I will just listen.

Anyways, I got off the bus feeling accomplished today because I still did 3 interactions and learned 3 times today. So it was by no means a waste of time. I just know I could've done a lot better but I won't beat my self up over the ordeal. I'm staying focused and I'm moving forward with determination. I didn't carry my little script and opener to help me practice. And I don't know if it's bad that I sometimes still feel like jumping out of my seat when approaching a woman, but today I did. I felt like hoping out of my seat; I was scared, no lie. But I keep mentally repeating to my self "This is just another woman, another time, nothing special about this time or the next time. Things happen, just go." And I attribute so much of that to my recent success. Although I might not be acheiving at the level I wish to acheive I am still moving forward in the right direction. And I feel that I am very close.

After I accumulate 30 conversations I feel that it will be time to move forward to the next part of my game. From now on I will have 5-6 interactions a day and journal those down. Over time I will build up a compository of knowledge and insight which I will use as a next step to get to the next step.

Day 21:

Well I did a few things today that I'm proud of. I blew out a set. That Italian girl, which I was planning to kiss finally, didn't work out, but hey, always more fish in the sea. Another thing was I actually got some hw done. I had a lengthy conversation with some school friends in my social circle. I talked to two more girls, and I watched a bull’s game with my best buddy. So I had a pretty full, exciting, and accomplishing day today.

But I'm not here to talk about how the Bulls put the Knicks to sleep, I'm here to talk about how my interactions went . Today I finally brought my list of things and while I looked over it, I barely used it. Today my original goal was to talk to 5 different sets, but that goal got cut a little short by homework, friends, and having to exercise. But I didn't make any excuses, I went out and did what I had to do and had fun doing it.

The first girl was one who I met at the fitness center. It wasn't anything sexual directly, but it was an exercise in being more outgoing and talkative. The interaction initially started out very slow. I can honestly admit that I was god scared when I initially talked to her. I tried to say hello lol, and what initially came out was air. Lol, I tried a second time and air came out. And finally the 3rd time my mind told me, "D" don't think just say. So in my loudest voice I said hello. She said hi back in a polite but not interested way, but that was cool. I was just trying to start up a conversation. We talked for a few minutes about exercise and then she and I both left to work out. The conversation consisted mostly of me asking her what exercises are you planning to do?

For example, this is very close to my conversation:

Me: Hey
Her: Hey
Me: So you workin' out?
Her: Yeah
Me: Oh you plannin' to do fitness or cardio?
Her: Cardio for a bit
Me: Oh Ok, that's cool
Her: Yeah



As you can see the conversation was very one-sided with her doing mostly one word answers, but the point was that I had enough courage to open up the girl and talk to her for a bit. I was extremely happy with my self and I went onto work out. Once I got finished, I saw the girl I blew out with in the cafeteria. I didn't wanna see her after blowing out, I felt a bit like a stalker, but thinking back, maybe I just tried too much to make her feel comfortable. It shouldn't even matter I've moved on, it's on to the next one. I got my sandwich and ran to catch the bus.

While I was standing at the bus stop, a conversation started naturally. It was really cool. Down to Earth working class girl that I can honestly admit had some cool qualities and was really worth chilling with. It all started when I saw her licking or sucking on a ring pop (which ever), and I yelled out "They still make those?" She replied "yeah you can get them at (insert random Middle American grocery store)."

Me: "Oh Coo, that's wassup. I haven't had one of those in like 10 years. I thought they were gone."

Her: "*Laughs*, no they sell them at (this store for cheap). I would know I work at that (store)."

Me: "Man I might have to get me one of those, no lie."

And for a few moments it was a little silent. I didn't panic; I stuck to my guns and chilled out. I knew it was more to learn from this interaction. Then finally she broke the silence.

Her: "I'm so cold."

Me: "You Look pretty warm in that coat you got on."

Her: "Yeah I know it looks warm but it's not."

Me: "Yeah I'm really gonna hate this I gotta walk home in this cold weather and I forgot my hat."

Her: "Wow, I'm sorry! *Giggles*"

Then some random weird person entered the conversation, but I let them get their two seconds of fame and directed the conversation back towards me. The Bus finally arrives and swirls around the parking lot. So we all get our cash out, pay and then get on the bus. When I first entered the bus I noticed that she had put her bookbag in the seat. I don't know if that was significant or not, but I really didn't care. I had a conversation I wanted to finish. I was determined to find out more about her. So I walked up and kinda tugged the back and she put it down. I like the bus because it easily establishes close contact.

We talked and basically while I was talking to her she told me her major, that she was in psychology. I asked her why she was passionate about psychology because I've heard about a million people say they want to do psychology. When she responded and told me because she had dealt with addiction problems and overcame them I started really digging this girl. Here she was a fighter and had a real purpose in life. There is nothing more attractive then a motivated woman with a purpose. She went on to say that she wanted to be a university professor, and that she eventually wants to teach psychology. I noticed that she said phrases like, "it was spoken over me," which I knew indicated that she was kinda religious, but hey I'm still diggin' it.

At any rate we had an extremely fun interaction, and I noticed that her body language was still a little defensive etc., but it was really cool talking to this girl. Near the end I might have killed off the conversation by forcing "the name" (when you ask a girl formally for her name). But I personally don't care because I feel that I ended the conversation on an extremely good note. She's one of the few girls I hope I get to see again because meeting her did seriously enrich my life a little more, but as always never fall too hard for one prize. As my guy Z-K said "you always gotta have your roster full, and at the top will always be your all-star players." So while she's not my only focus she definitely is moving up the top of the list. I was solely attracted to this girl by her qualities +1.

At any rate, as I was walking home I felt extremely confident, not just because of this one interaction but that my life is moving in a generally good direction. I spent great time with my friends, I can tell that one of the girls in my social circle digs me, and hey I'm going places. So I told my mind to do one thing, "stopping forcing interactions on your self. Have the vision in your head of what your ultimate goal is and just achieve it. Stop worrying about all the small details, your subconscious mind will take care of those."

And on that note, I think I'll end the Journal.

Good Night Folks,

Taos

• • • • Day 22/23: Da' Pick-Up Card Saga

Well I've got a total of 5 interactions to write about which brings my conversational total to around 15 sets. I'm really proud of my self that I've been going out and doing and actually trying what I've said I would try. I've been focused and I've learned a ton of things over these last few days that I will keep in mind for future reference.

I originally started out these past couple of days thinking that they would be another set of approachless days, but the opposite was true. The significance and meaning behind each of these days bring me closer to my goal of tasting a woman and fulfilling my deepest sexual desires. After working hard, being persistent and studious the universe had unlocked secrets to my conscious mind in ways in which I had never interpreted these phenomenons before. I know I'm getting the hang of approaching and having conversations.

The series of approaches began as any other, in the fitness center. The first people I converse with were some random mixed set of friends or a couple, which ever. I asked them if they were ready for the semester to be over and for the summer to start. They said yeah, I tried talking to them a little more, but they had gone back to their business of talking. I figured they were busy training for something, they looked like athletes. I left them to their work. The guy nodded his head, and I took that as a sign that I'll just pick back up later.

All of a sudden a girl that I have already slightly known before named "T" (for the sake of this article) showed up. She said, "I came to mess you with Dave, you know this." I really do think this girl likes me, or is at the very least sexually attracted to me. She hovers around, asked what we are going to do; she even insists that I touch her when we stretch together. And the way her eyes peer into mine. It is a look with such sexual intensity that I am just a not used to it yet. I almost felt like throwing up a bit because I know what is going to happen with this girl if I continue. I am so nervous. I'm confused on whether or not to go in. I know where this will lead me... One of these days I will reciprocate to her advances, better sooner than later.

I'm so nervous about what she would tell her friends, or what will happen. I must admit that I've had a thousand thoughts around this girl. I guess when you know what could happen that makes you hellah tense.

Afterward I went to workout and thought nothing of it, or at least I kept telling my self that. She kept staring and laughing. Her eyes focused on me. I felt them, so much sexual tension in the air. If it doesn't happen with this girl I know that this feeling of tension will happen again. The universe repeats it self, you just have to relax enough to listen to it. I must get used to this feeling of being nervous. I must admit that it was a little nerve wrecking.

After working out I continued my day expecting for those to be my only interactions for the day. But for once I was happy that I missed the bus ride home. Because it was those after hours that I learned some critical lessons on interaction. In the honors lounge I picked up a pair of 52 pick-up lines and tried them out on some random girls in the lounge for fun. I figured that I would get a few laughs out of the deal and have fun with it.

So I picked up the cards and went out to the front of the lounge. There I met this girl who was also a member of the honors program. I used the pick up cards on her for a bit. I had fun. I think the one I used on her was "I just lost my teddy bear can I borrow you?" She responded "Awww." and our conversation took off from there.

While talking we slowly sifted through the stack of pick-up cards to find out which ones sounded creepy, which ones sounded douchey, and which ones actually might work. Every time she said "awww" I chuckled a little. I wonder if the girls would've said awww if I weren't so handsome .

She said some of them sounded creepy. I told her a few stories about me and how I've been talking to women for the past few months and how I my self used to be considered "creepy". She said "no way". I said way, and then I made up something about learning to "touch women is when a guy is most creepy." And then I told her the story about Spanish class and made up when it happen lol. She looked flabbergasted, but after that I told her she had to hand me over a story since I gave her one.

She then told me one of the creepiest stories that I've personally heard in a long while. She told me about a time she was at a house party and the guy who she was talking to was intially cool but then he started to ask her to go to his house after a few minutes, etc. My guess about the guy was a lack of calibration on his part. I give him props for trying though. Anyway, the guy continues to talk to her and asks for her phone number. She rejects him, and later that night he came back to her and said, "You should've just gave me your number see, I got it anyway." Yeah for a girl I could imagine how creepy that would be. We went on and had a conversation about how you can tell the difference between new guys and "veteran creeps".

I had fun just making up stuff, but being creepy is just a lack of calibration. After chatting it up for about 20 minutes I left out of the honors lounge with the cards with the intent to use them again. I had a little bit of a nervous streak, then I went out and I used the cards. When I was walking down stairs I saw just the girl I wanted to talk to. I don't know why but this approach was something that was special, it was different. It was one of the first times that I approached a woman and felt truly confident, and I could tell by the pace of the interaction. I dominated the conversation and steered it to where I wanted it to go. I didn't have but an ounce of fear while talking to her.

My heart didn't thump or anything, it felt completely natural. I sat down and of course I used the pick up cards. She laughed a little and we had a decent conversation.

She too had stories about some guy who tried to pick her up at campus during night. I remember the guy; he must be in the same boat as I. He does card tricks and stuff. I remember him doing that with the cards. She called him creepy, but I was sure that some girl I had met before was calling me creepy as we spoke, so I took her words with a grain of salt. No matter though I did what I did and fun doing it. I think one lesson I learned from this is to be prepared with a few lines of interest and to have fun while doing it.

I left campus that night learning a valuable lesson. Every time I approach a girl I will remember that feeling of confidence from this one interaction. It felt natural and unforced. I will simply have something to say, have fun, and don't think about the approach.

The next day I continued with the pick-up cards and did two more sets with the cards. I approached more people, but I only actually opened two more sets. The first set I approached was of two attractive looking girls. I used the cards and I again I had fun. I asked "do you believe in love at first sight or should I just keep walking?" She said keep walking, I chuckled a bit and kept approaching people with the cards. I noticed one thing though, its better to approach people when you’re having fun and less when your so uptight. The pick-up cards had yet again taught me a valuable lesson.

I finished up with the cards and sat back down with the set. I tried talking to them for a bit and they generally blew me off. I then asked them which cards worked and which cards didn't. They responded and again I generally felt comfortable in this set as well. I noticed that I felt comfortable in the set and didn't bail at the slightest inconvenience. After awhile I could tell they weren't interested, at least from my current understanding of game, so I left.

After awhile I went to the cafeteria to find some friends. I find a girl I already knew and used the cards on her, she laughed. After that I approached a new set of girls and used the cards again. This time I used the pick-up line "which pick-up lines work on you?" She responded "hello." Haha that was a very logical response. But I had fun with these cards over the past two days and I took that as a time to rest and reflect on the lessons learned for a bit.

As for the lessons I've learned I believe I can categorize them in six steps:

1.) When approaching remember the successful and fear free approaches and conversations. So from now on I will "remember the interaction with Dy" and "have a few words to say." As an extension focus on success not failures, and view missed success as an opportunity, not a disaster.

2.) Worry less about getting laid and focus more on doing. I know I will receive as long as I stay focused and do.

3.) Screen for traits that you like in a woman.

4.) Focus on girls like the pain I had in my stomach Thursday night from that bad Chinese Food I ate.

5.) Have Fun doing it, it makes it easier.

6.) Remember that feeling of sexual tension with T. It will be duplicated again.

All in all, I've learned a crap load over the past month and I know that I'm only getting better. Once this all comes together in one cohesive and smoothly flowing formula I know my shit will be tight.

Well this is more of a status update. I went out last night to the big chi-town, had stupid fun last night!!! Man, I already miss Chicago haha. Anyway, I'm going to change up how I do my journals a bit. I apologize for having a big indecipherable blob of text that makes it difficult to sift through and comment. From now on, I will seperate the interactions I've had by name and do less rolling translations from one girl to the next. This should help people comment a little bit more on my journal.

Also I've had 8 full blown conversations/interactions last night brings my total conversation total to 23, only 7 more to go till I'm finished with one of my objectives!

Oh and last night I went for two k-closes for the first time!!! So a big step has been made for me lol. Haha, I had lots of fun. But I'll write all about it as soon as I write it in my physical field report journal.

Day 24: Division Lane Part 1

Welly my game is really starting to manifest it self. I did a lot of bold moves that I wouldn't've made before. And me and the two guys I was with had fun, well at least I did. I did 8 full blow interactions though I'll go into detail only about a few. So I have only a few more conversations till I reach my goal of 30 conversations/ interactions as I've mentioned previously.

Story Start

We'll My story starts on a stormy spring night, a night to truly remember. I was a little late because a family member had prior arrangements with the vehicle. So I was stuck out in the burbs for a bit. I was a little upset at first, but then I convinced my host to be patient and wait for me, because I planned to get him a drink. He never asked for it come to think of it. So my host agreed to wait which was cool. I was a little nervous, this was my first time strolling out to the chi in quite awhile. I cruised down the express way listening to energetic music.

I got off the highway and merged knowing tha ttonight was going to be fun. I had to try and experiment. I knew I was going to make the most of the night. I met up with my Host whom I'd met from this site and his bro, then we set off to the Train station where the fun began.

Bloo' Lyin'

When we were walking toward the train stations I attempted to open a few sets by saying hello. A few replied back, but most just kept walking. Finally we arrivated at the train station and my hosts nodded their heads toward a set that had just hopped onto the train. These women looked a little bit older, I can tell that they had just got off work and they continued their chatter.

I didn't make up any excuses, I just went and tried opened them. I said hello really loud and clearly about 4 or 5 times. The other woman on the further left talked louder over me . I tried a few more times and still no reply so I left the sett and moved on. It was an awesome way to start out the night though. So I went back and chilled with my hosts feeling prepped and ready for the night. Once we hopped off the train the fun began.

Ana Set (Name Changed)

We headed down the road and stumbled across an open air bar. We went in ready and prepped. My host pointed to a three set and sort've nudged me. I admit I was a little reluctant haha. You gotta get used to approaching when your being pushed.

So I eased my way into the set and I remembered the things I had learned from a couple days ago with Dy. "Just remember that confidence, the fun you had, and your success," I told my self.

So I started off the conversation by saying "hi". I kissed each of their hands, my kisses were so wet , I could feel them as I caressed each of their hands. Then we sort've exchanged professions and I told them I wanted to become a lawyer and move to New York. We talked and exchanged questions and I found out a lot about them. I noticed that my conversational and transitional skills have gotten quite good.

After awhile I found it appropriate to escalate so instead of standing I sat right next to the target. I continued conversing, but I noticed that she had got up. I then moved in and said, " I couldn't help but notice that you were the best one here." She replied "Why thank you." Her friends had actually left to the other end of the bar. And like a sucker haha I believed her little excuse about her not wanting to block up the bar for passers-by. I shouldn't known better, but tonight was more a lesson in interaction I told my self.

I noticed one positive constant throughout the night, my positive energy and conversational skills. I know this will get me far.

She was the first set of the night so it was no big deal for me. I moved on and looked for my hosts. As the night went on more adventures unraveled.

Blonde Kiss Attempt

I'm not sure which one came first me walking down the street to other bards or me coming to this bar, but hey I came to this bar. There I ran into my hosts, and one of them just said they got two k-closes. This motivated me to try and go in for a few kisses. I wanted to try out the 20 K-Challenge but I was too bogged down in a few interactions. I went for 4 k-closes and only really remember two.

At any rate, we came to this 2nd bar and I was still pumped from the first. So we went to the back after some short scanning and spotted a set. Again, with a little nudging from one of my hosts I got into the set, and again I broke up a 3 set.

I opened with hello of course, did the friendly name exchange and kicked off the convo. I asked if they were friends etc., and why they were here. She replied her friend's bf's b-day party. I replied "cool, where's you twos boy friends they need to get here fast?" "We don't have them," she said.

"Oh really," I replied. And from that point I remember trying to go in for a k-close. I went in about 20 times. I ten said, "c'mon how about a cheek kiss and after about 5 times I got one of those." Then I tried stepping it back up and said "c'mon one kiss for the road and I'll beat off." After trying quite a few times I rolled out and went to another set which wasn't very far away.

Bar Stool Set

Right Next to the previous set I and opened my host had opened a new set. Nice looking woman sitting at the bar with her friend. My host was making it happen and attempting the k-close. He was a little aggressive, but blunt which I admired. She was curled up or whatever and I saw her friend scanning the bar and peering around.

She was isolated at that point, so I figured I'd approach since her friend was occupied by my host.

I walked up and said "you seemed preoccupied, why not talk to me." We have a brief conversation and I can't remember exactly but she ended up saying "I needed a drink." I ended up tugging on her a few times and after her repeating "I need a drink" 5 times, I figured it was time to move on.

After that we left the bar and went to another one within a few minutes of the last one.

Small Bar Set

It was the teeniest Smallest bar ever! It was cramped. But we entered there in order to chill and open a few more sets.

There my host opened up some set by saying "hey who are?!" And they replied and what not. I think originally the set was impressed by my hosts, but I forget what happened but one of the women turned from happy to pissed.

I found my self interjecting "don't mind my friends, my names Dave" and again I kissed each of the women’s' hands and they introduced me to themselves and their bf's. Once my hosts left they were talking a little bad about them. I found my self trying to avoid the topic altogether. I just responded "They're cool guys once you get to know."

They told me I had such energy, charisma, etc. Hehe, it was intoxicating hearing that for a bit. I then made a beginner’s mistake and ratted my self out about how I had never been kissed and this is my first time out and what not. Haha, I'll keep in mind not to do this again. But they were cool people.

One of the women ended up pointing out which of her friends was single. I could've moved further but I left after that and went onto a few more areas. After that I went back to the bar where I had my previous two sets and there I met another.

Sorry for not finishing up my post sooner than later. I was hellah busy with college projects and had to give game a little rest for a bit. I'm still in the same situation, but I've finally gained enough time to catch my breath and finish my field report from last week.

A general Update, I have talked to well over 30 people, but I've had 2 or 3 more interactions directly related to game putting me in the 25-26 range. I definately will attempt the K-close challenge either this week or next week depending on my schedule. My success has even mounted to the point where my friend's gf has set me up on a date yesterday, though the girl who was supposed to be my date wasn't exactly my type... So I just decided to be her friend and I moved on from there and still had a great time. I am moving forward tremendously and I'm really starting to get a handle over my masturbation and eating habits. I notice that I have more discipline and focus than I have ever had before.


Enough of all that jibber-jabber, time for a story.

Day 24: Division Lane Part 2

The Fiery Red Head Set (Kiss Attempt)

Well we entered back into the bar we were at from my previous k-close attempt because it started to rain heavily. As we re-entered the bar the sound of funk music on loud thumping speakers could be heard in the background.

My hosts sat back in the cut and chilled. Me, well I personally started to dance and have some fun to some funk music ! And then "Give it to Me Baby" (posted below) came on.



Hahahahahaha. This memory is so funny. And then from no where I started dancing and some older woman came out of the blue and started to dance with me. He-he, I had so much fun. I could tell she was older because she knew how to step (a popular old school dance that not many people under 30 know how to do). We were dancing for a bit and she grinded on me a bit. I had spanked myself quite a few times that weekend (a habit that I've kicked). So at any rate the song went off I escorted her to sit down but the rain had soaked the sets, we both agreed that we'd get wet.

So we all ended up talking, me, her, and her friend. Her friend was telling me she and her friend were out of towners too. She was staying in a hotel room and her friend was new to Chicago.

Anyway the woman was brisk with drinks. I can tell she was a little softened by the drinks she wanted more drinks but her friend insisted she didn't. I and my host screamed "Yeah!" . And she and I hugged and I slowly started to rub her sides a bit.

As I was doing that my host took my hand and placed it squarely on her butt cheek. Before I had simply grazed her butt a little with my hand and rubbed her side. She turned around and got a little violent with him. I knew I had to be easy and relax. All of a sudden that feeling I got with "T" came back, that sexual tension. I was a little nervous, no lie.

Her friend saw where things were headed. She said, "I have a class at 9 am in the morning. We both are busy tomorrow." (It was already 12:30am). And I kept saying "no, no you two should stay and have some fun." And she replied "no, no, no I have to leave." Finally the friend left and with that the woman I was talking to took that as her queue to leave as well.

But before she left I tried for a kiss attempt several times. She said "I can't." I went in for another kiss "I really can't," she replied. And then I went for another and she said "I really, really can't." Every time I moved in for the kiss she like the last woman offered her cheek and with that they found each other, a cab, and left the scene.

I don't know why, I often avoid speculating but I had a very deep feeling that I could've slept with her had this interaction continued. Alas, I moved on to the next set which was close by.

Dancing Set

Right next to the set I just did, I opened a mixed set because of proximity and hell they were dancing too. I figured I'd join them. I went up and had nothing to lose; the only thing I could gain is more experience. So I went up and tried something different. I opened one of the guys instead of the women. We danced together for like 5 minutes ha-ha. I showed him my trade mark shoulder move. I then moved on after a minute or two and asked if they were friends. Guy told me what was up and I pretty much moved on from there because most of the people there were married. Dancing with them was fun.

Da' Ville Set

After that me and my hosts headed back to the first bar we started at during that night and my host opened a set of girls who didn't live too far away from where I stayed. I used this to my advantage to open them up. My host wasn't very fond of the set. They were the type of girls that you had to ease in after a few hours of conversation. He told me "they're bitches". So I decided to go talk to them and find out. I thought they were cool.

I asked them do you think its fair that if guys have a lot of sex they become heroes, but if women do the same they're called out. And they said yeah to my amazement, which I'm not sure if it was because they were uncomfortable with me or what else. They went on the spiel about how they can't have sex with guys they don't love etc. I didn't believe them much. I basically took that as my queue to leave. These girls require time and patience, at least in my case. I wasn't looking for girls that I'd have to game over time, just ones that wanted to kick it then and now. I was looking for fast results.

Lez Bon Set

When we were headed back to the train station after visiting a cheap club that my hosts didn't feel like going into , I saw a set of girls frolicking and playing. I figured I'd close the night with a little more experience. I saw that they had gone into one of the open hallways of a building. I decided to go and just open them for the heck of it.

When I first said "hello, who are you two?" The dominant one responded "My name is (blank) and this is my "girl"." It took me a while to register that she was talking about that being her actual girlfriend. At first I didn't believe them but then they showed me pictures of their new house and their dog. Ha-ha, so with that I left the bit city happy and excited. I am definitely yearning to go out again and learn more!

Well I've made a few new openings over the last few days. However, I've slowed down because I've discovered a new book, "Conquer Your Campus." I bought it a few days ago after hearing about it. And since the place where I game the most is my uni, I figured that it couldn't hurt to try something different with my social circle. There'd always be a bar to try out 60 YOC if need be. So I'm about a third done with the book and so far I've implemented many of the ideas and concepts that the book says is good to have in a social setting.

At any rate, I came here to say that something profound happened to me today. For the first time in ever my brain just shut off. It completely stopped thinking. I don't know if that's good or not, but all those racing thoughts stopped for those brief moments. It honestly scared the living hell out of me. I'm so used to having so much go on in my mind, but to have it quiet it self. I then remember that I had been training my mind to be here in the present and focus on the now.

That had scared me, but then I learned that I had been training my mind to do this all along. At any rate, I think I'm beginning to unlock the next level of game that I've been hoping to unlock since I've rejoined the website. This is definitely an exciting chapter in my life. And big news, I think I'm getting a job!! I'm not too sure yet, but I'm fairly confident that I am getting a new job very soon. So this is a big step in the right direction of getting the car that I need.

Well that's it for now.

Well I went to the mall today and had lots of fun. I went out and tried the 20 kiss challenge. Though that was cut short because for whatever reason there were tons of kids. Anyway, I still had fun trying to kiss 5 women who worked at stores. Finally I decided to leave after I got what I wanted. I definately will pick up were I left off. I have well over 30 interactions now. So one part of my list is finished. I now know I can move on.

Well I went to the mall again today, and today my only goal was to have some fun. I went up to some more store clerks and asked them, "Would you get fired if we kissed?" Haha, I think I'm getting a little too goofy, but I think that may be a nice way to open with a follow up that is a little bit more mature and serious.

Assessment:

Generally over the past month I have become an extremely outgoing and persistent guy. I have become positive, and full of energy. However, I am not witnessing the desired results. I believe one issue is with the quantity of women that I talk to, and secondly the quality of my interactions. I believe that I'm much better than I was but that there are certain areas of the conversation that could use improvement, mostly the middle section of the conversation and or rapport building time. So I've resolved that during the month of June, I will begin to analyze how my interactions go. I will only look for the positives in each interaction and simply duplicate those results across the board. I will spend roughly a month on this.

However, may is another time for me. May is the month of "DO". It is the month where I go out and test pilot my self, push my limits beyond what I have been doing. I still want to legitimately try out the 20 kiss challenge. I have done approaching 30 women, and talking to 30 sets. Which is a success in it self. But now with school being nearly finished, its time to go out to socially neutral venues and start to get a little aggressive.

My goal is to complete all of my escalation challenges at the end of May. Pushing my self will give me additional confidence and will help further me. So this is what I plan to do with my may. I will not wait last minute to do the 20 kiss challenge. I will do it on the earlier half of the month. Preferably this Friday or the next one.

So to re-cap my challenges:

1.) Approach 30 women directly and in front of them with confidence (done)

2.) 30 Conversations with random people (done)

3.) Escalate with women by holding their hands rub them, and stare them in the eyes, do this with 10 women (in progress)

4.) Give 10 women frontal hugs (in progress)

5.) Have conservations with 10 different women about sex (in progress)

6.) The 20 Kiss Challenge (currently in progress)

None of these challenges have to be done in any particular order. I want to get my self on film with the 20 kiss challenge. I'll see if one of my boys is cool with filming me.

Well gentlemen, I can mark another challenge off of my list. Last night I must've gotten a huge dose of testosterone (not likely). I started off the frontal hugging challenge last night. It was on my college campus and I hugged about 6 or 7 random women last night, and then today was very awesome. I basically went up to about 20 random women and hugged them. Some of them I put a twist on the situation, I made a paper clip engagement ring and then kneeled on one knee and did a proposal. He-he it was funny. I even went for a kiss 5 or 6 times. It was really fun.

The format generally went: I went up to the girl for a hug I'd hug them I'd hold them make some random statement about being in love with them then bowing on one knee and attempting to marry. Then I tried to consummate the marriage with a kiss .

I haven't consummated any marriages . But I did have fun and a hellah boost in confidence. I now know that I can definitely achieve the things I want to achieve. I will definitely step up to the hand holding challenge.

However, I did get a warning from campus security.

Oh well, I will do this final challenge on campus and do the 20 kiss challenge elsewhere, preferably the mall or even a club.