First of all excuse me for my English, I'll try to be clear.

Some time ago I have tried using subliminal messaging software for a couple of months. Didn't even purchase it, just downloaded and used 7 days trial version again and again I first used it to quit smoking, it did help, so I decided that it works. I started experiments, and was using it for a while to build my self-confidence with women. It helped too, now I can approach women without being stressed so much.

Well, I guess it worked because I was using direct affirmations, like "I am self-confident" or "I'm cool", so my subconscious mind had just accepted them- and such "primitive" commands like "I don't want to smoke" or "I am confident" are very simple and clear to the subconscious.

But now I think about charisma. It is more complex thing than just "I am confident", as it involves many factors, such as gestures, mimics, being able to communicate better than other people. It also involves intelligence, i.e. conscious mind, not subconscious. Anyway, I believe that our conscious mind is directed by subconscious stimuli. But I have no idea, what "basic" subconscious patterns may help me to be more charismatic.

Any ideas? I have asked this question on a specialized psychological forum, but there were no ideas about that. So I decided to ask it here, as I suppose some of pick up artists may "feel" this better from their inner state, as they are practitioners in areas related to personal development

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I recommend you check out Marcus Oakey's website and free e-book if you haven't already: http://www.yourcharismacoach.com/

He has the best lessons on charisma that I've ever found. He's also got a newsletter, and I remember in one of his e-mails, there was a short formula for charisma. It was 2 rules:

1 - Forgive
2 - Reward generously

What this means is that you accept people completely just the way they are, and you make everyone feel good by being positive.

Thank you for the link, will try it out But still thinking about the subliminals, as it was really easy to do everything with their help

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Here's my report for those who may be interested in the topic- I was just using a simple affirmation "I'm charismatic" for a couple of weeks, and now I see significant progress, girls are laughing much more often when I'm trying to joke

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Yes affirmations have helped me greatly. Just got into sublinanals and isochronic sounds and have noticed an effect in a short time. But you are like listening to a subliminal tape while stating your affirmations is what you are saying?

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