/Question here,

duno if anyone has had a similar problem, but i personally am enraged by the fact
that i can't close with a woman or find much comfort it pushing the sexuality of encounters if it isn't a woman who is my current partner, it feels to me as though im doing something totally unacceptable, which is ridiculous and irrational.

if it is an acquaintance
or a girl im casually dating ill make out with her feel her up maybe fool around abit but i can't be comfortable trying to seal the deal if nothings official with us and i cant imagine why i have a reasonable amount of game and the girls i spend time with are always receptive i just have some kind of mental block with this situation alone and i got friends who love to chew my up about it and offer little advice.

so this is my request for some advice seeing as its basically held me back
from getting laid the last three months as i have been with three different HB9's
and just never been able to take it the whole way, any ideas of how to change this mindset?

I might not be the best pua here or even close to it but i think i might be able to help a bit..ive been working a lot with NLP and working on my inner game. Seems to me you have some sort of limiting belief thats stopping you from doing what you want to do...I would suggest you try to reframe them and then try to push past the feelings that you have so that you can ingrain this new belief in your head. Btw, ur doing great with women, I cant even get close to where you are but im gonna keep trying and get over my limiting beliefs...Keep up the good work

yah the recommendation is welcome and i yesterday broke through this barrier i believe as i spent a wild night with my top choice girl. and the great news is she wants back into my bed for new years so perhaps from now on the anxiety and un warranted guilt wont hold me back.