| We all have our ideas about what an alpha male is. Let me share my view on the topic.
Starting with the common view:
AFCs view: The alpha male is that guy that comes up and just starts talking with the girls Im with. The guy who says all those stupid things that I dont dare to say and I hate because the girls giggle. He is just a very pumped up piece of muscle without a brain who thinks that he is cool. And now while I have been sitting here in silence he went off with that girl I had a crush on since highschool.
PUAs view: The alpha male is the guy who doesnt take shit from anybody. He has complete control and if someone comes up to challenge him, he will emerge victorious. The alpha male is the strong leader and he is not afraid of girls. He has a bodylanguage like whatever and smiles like in Top Gun. He is the center of attention and he always have a witty comeback to whatever it is that people throw at him. Nobody makes fun of him. He never apologizes and he never gives up his power. He is a badguy!
Ezos view: Those guys are not alphas, they are betas. What you refer to is a very high betamale. They are fighting over the top rank positions to see who is the stronger leader. The alpha male does not let shit like that concern him. This is the key point, he does not have to care about that kind of things. If people challenge him they have to like beat him over the head in order for him to even bother. Let the children play, Im still the alpha male. An alpha male is not a bad guy. He doesnt have to be. He can afford to be nice to people. The difference between the PUAs aplpha and mine is that the PUAs alpha sits there drinking champagne while the others drink beer. My alpha drinks champagne and if people are nice they will have their share. Because he has an entire cellar full of the champagne from the confidence district. He has enough to spare.
This is true for power, no need to fight over a position that is yours by right.
This is true for humiliation and ridicule. So the PUAs alpha dont let anyone make fun of him, they have a witty comeback. My alpha does not do that, he is confident enough to take a joke. Ha ha, thats a good one, and brush it off. Why would he even care, nothing can hurt his position.
To finish it off, I would like to tell you what I told a good friend of mine (a girl) who was upset that the guy she was dating wasnt strong enough and couldnt take the shit she threw at him. "You need to find a man who feels like a man all the time, even when you challenge him. In fact a real man should wear a pink dress and still be able to feel like a man."
That is so true, a real alpha could AMOG anyone wearing a pink dress, lipstick and GAY tattooed on his forehead.
Nothing bothers him!
Ezo
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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.
bbardot: you just reminded me about porn
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