I wasn't really sure if I should even talk about it, but this forum might be the only place where I can.
First things first. I'm 25, was virgin until 23. First time ended within a minute. Last year I met my (now) ex-girlfriend, for the first few weeks I couldn't last more than a minute, after that I managed to get 4-6 minutes each time and make my partner come. Relationship ended after few months, we tried again last winter, each encounter ended under a minute. She admitted that even when I'm not finishing quickly I'm simply bad in bed. Didn't say how exactly.
It really got to my head. I'm thinking that if don't do something about it now, while I'm single, I might lose another relationship in a future. I got really subconscious about my performance to the point that if I were to hook up with someone, I would probably run away. And that's where idea for escort came from. I would book a session (probably few) with one of those available in my area so she could help me improve my control and technique.
What do you think? In my position would you consider getting genuine sex lessons?
Are you rich? A good escort is going to be at least $400/hr. Girls offering lower prices don't really bother with "customer service." They'll just show up, spread their legs and leave when you're done. Also, at least in my mind, they tend to be less safe and are more likely being forced into it by a pimp or doing it for drug money.
A good independent escort might help, but you need lots of practice and at $400/hr that'll add up real quick...
You're probably better off trying to get a fuckbuddy or getting into another relationship, but you need to actually work on it while in the relationship. Also your ex sucked, she should have given constructive criticism on how you could improve rather than just tearing you down like that.
In either case even if you're only lasting a few minutes, spend more time on foreplay.