Wow thats fucked up
Same reason why we see guys at the Relationship Section ask for help. But before anybody thinks that this occurs in 100% of the population. It does not. Depending on which study you're looking at, it occurs in less than 10% of married couples studied. Then again, there's always a question on the accuracy and reliability of the methodology. It could be less. It could be more.
For some PUAs though, the odds are higher that they are going to bang women who are cheating on their husbands or boyfriends. In here, we are taught to look for DTF signs and escalate aggressively so we won't waste time. With this line of thinking, we are more likely to get exposed to cuckoldry.
Am I 100% sure that these two pregnant women whom I banged had boyfriends before I banged them? No. Despite the obvious signs that they were still in relationships, I just went ahead for the f-close because somehow, they lied. ("I'm single." "I don't have a Valentine's date." "No one is going to get jealous if someone sees us together.")
The best insight that I got from this experience though is that to get a loyal and faithful woman, all I need to do is do the opposite of everything taught here and compete with +90% of men using standard courtship behavior AND screen OUT all DTF women.
Another lesson is to spend less and only on what's necessary in isolation dates; NOT to be considered a tightwad but to make sure there is enough for a long and drawnout search for that caring, submissive, loyal and faithful woman.
Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate
Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money: