Overcome Approach Anxiety at the Gym; Facing Amog Pressure



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PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2014 10:29 pm 
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Well, I approached and 8 at the gym, yesterday; went into her office, as another (male) staffer asked me if I wanted help. I chatted my target up, for ten,fifteen minutes, got her to giggle a bit at my rendition of lines almost verbatim from an old VeggieTales video, and then asked for a date, basically, which she politely declined.

I was talking to her while was working, which was a bad sign, or at least of my inability, or lack of imagination, or boldness, to get her full attention; I also didn't kino while talking.

After about five ten minutes later, when I was back working out, a was told by another male staffer back there because there were money and security cameras in in it. Don't buy that amog excuse, but under the circumstances, gaming that girl in the presence of surrounding amogs, that felt much better than the fear I've faced.

That last approach seemed different. I wasn't feeling like an AFC, and if my skill was low, my confidence was rising, but I've never faced amog pressure before. That girl, the rest of the day, was avoiding me. It could be that I turned her down, but I think the prime reason that guy telling me to stay out of her office. I didn't creep her out, so I don't think she asked to be protected, but she didn't decline it, either, if I'm guessing well.

This SPAM par for the course, pretty much? PUAs are taught just to approach, and pretty much ignore everything else, within reason.

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