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PostPosted: Sun Jan 05, 2014 12:44 pm 
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Hi guys, I have been recently thinking about this and I think it's a topic worth discussing. I noticed that I feel much more better and determined when I don't masturbate for 5-6 days unlike when I masturbate almost every day. Does this happen to anyone else?


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 05, 2014 5:18 pm 
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This does not matter, it is a personal choice and does not affect most.

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Hi guys, I have been recently thinking about this and I think it's a topic worth discussing. I noticed that I feel much more better and determined when I don't masturbate for 5-6 days unlike when I masturbate almost every day. Does this happen to anyone else?
Masturbating lowers your testosterone, don't masturbate and you will feel more confident. Remember in high school how there was the cool group of kids? in my school I had to do a survey for my health class project and almost all of the "popular" alpha kids didn't masturbate regularly.


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 05, 2014 8:58 pm 
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This does not matter, it is a personal choice and does not affect most.
This is not true AT ALL. From the medical point of view it certainly DOES affect a man. The semen is a very important fluid of the mans body and as mentioned stop masturbating for a week or so will certainly do you good.
To say or explain it in a very simple way its like this:

When you stop masturbating your body recognizes it and goes like "damn we are not getting Sex and we are not making babies anymore, we need to do something" What happens is your body produces certain hormones that will make you more confident, willing to risk (approach) or basically anything to help you to get you to "keep making healthy babies" as soon as possible again = Sex


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 06, 2014 12:13 am 
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Stop masturbating, if possible.

http://gb.reddit.com/r/NoFap/

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PostPosted: Mon Jan 06, 2014 3:20 am 
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Just focus on convincing yourself. You dont need anyone elses opinion but your own. Ask yourself "do I want to have sex with girls". If the answer is yes, stop having sex with your hand. Any other objection from your head is just the addiction.

If the answer is no, dont give a fuck (litterally haha)

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PostPosted: Tue Jan 07, 2014 4:45 pm 
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Stop masturbating and as a huge bonus, stop watching porn. The only reason you should masturbate is to improve your stamina and that not until you've quit masturbating long enough to see the benefits, which in my experience is anywhere from 6 months to a year.

Check out my article on this :
http://www.quitporngetgirls.com/2012/11 ... d-to-quit/

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PostPosted: Tue Jan 07, 2014 7:37 pm 
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Masturbation may be up in the air, but I suggest completely cutting out porn.

I took the no fap challenge back in september and laid a girl that I was sure would have nothing to do with me.
After that, I felt like I had it in the bag and took up porn again. Guess who lost interest in me shortly after.

A couple months later I stumble on this video

check out - The Great Porn Experiment: Gary Wilson at TEDxGlasgow - on youtube.

I have been watching porn regularly maybe once a week sometimes more since I was 14/15.

It has seriously been a detriment to my life without me knowing.

I am done with porn after these realizations.

Its been about 15 days since I have last watched porn and I am feeling much more confident. I normally have approach anxiety but I feel now that I must approach. My sexual drive is guiding me instead of being let off easy with porn.

I suggest you check out the communities out there and all the people with stories of how their life has improved without it. Dramatic changes are common for long time users when they cut out the 2-D titties!

Best of luck to you!

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 08, 2014 3:44 am 
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Hi,

I'm very happy to find this thread. Thank you for sharing that video shinobidesu!


Regards,

Iahad


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 10, 2015 12:15 pm 
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I'm definitely giving up the porn.


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 10, 2015 1:41 pm 
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Yeah, porn sucks big time. It can make you get limp dick. Online porn has probably done more for viagra sales than anything else. Personally I need a release every week or so. I got really fucked up when I went for two weeks without an orgasm. I slept with a woman and thought I had gotten an std from her, I didn't. It was from a lack of orgasm. Some can go without, I can't.


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PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2015 6:56 am 
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Honestly for everyone this is different. I know people that get all kinds of tang and fap it a few times a day. I know people that do the same and havent touched a clit in 5 years. It's all your choice really man. Yea busting nuts does cause you to loose testosterone but I'm gonna tell you my personal opinion.

Do it in MODERATION and you should be fine man. From personal experience, I have run into trouble when I wacked off daily. I couldn't stay hard enough to penetrate. It sucked it was an incredibly painful and frustrating experience. Not to mention, the chick will wonder WTF is up and her bitching during sex never makes it easier :roll: But by the same token, I took the no fap challenge myself soon after this and I was about another week and a half in when I got the chance to have sex again. This time you wanna know what happened? It was too much! Just by making out with her and fingering her and kissing her neck, ect. I straight nutted IN MY PANTS without it even being touched! :shock: This time I was too aroused! This all happened with one girl. Extremely fucked situations. Eventually I found my sweet spot and got right to work under that hood with my tool. :mrgreen: I found that If I go Mon-Fri without it and then have a couple sesh's during the weekend. It's no biggie. Also if I know I'll be humpin and bumpin the next day. I'll rub one off the previous night. Just to make sure I don't precum....again.

The point is masturbation can be like salt. Too much of it will seriously screw you. But without any your fucked too.


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I've noticed a difference between male-female porn and lesbian porn in how it affects your mind.

In male-to-female porn, you are getting off on the intensity of the woman getting off...but you are removed from the scene, empathy-wise. You are wiring your brain to watching instead of being in it.

With lesbian porn (just cunnilingus), you are visualizing yourself penetrating instead with the pussy open to you in all its glory, and thus the sexual-emotional connection is still there between you and the pussy.

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 16, 2015 2:44 am 
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Definitely don't masturbate!

I think masturbation is unnatural. You don't see lions, dogs, horses doing it. When you do it you're tricking your body, sperm should always be released with a female.

When I'm masturbating to porn I feel extremely good but as soon I come my motivation for everything drops drastically. I don't feel like working, going out, work out, etc. After masturbating I just want eat junk food see some movies and then sleep. I start losing focus on my goals and feeling down.

Also if I masturbate regularly I can't come easily when having real sex (no problems in getting hard), which is kinda frustrating.

In conclusion, if you masturbate and still feel highly motivated, then there's no reason to stop it. On the other hand, if you lack general motivation in your life then there's a good reason why you should stop masturbating.


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 16, 2015 3:37 pm 
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I havent fapped in about 3 months. I dont watch porn either.

However, Ive had phone sex with a girl Ive already banged. But I guess thats pretty acceptable since its a way to improve my game and learn how to put a girl in a sexual mood through the phone.

Id say its not magic bullet, but definetly helps in some way. At least, Ive came to the point where I imagine myself in this "scene" ; Just finished fapping, with toilet paper around my dick and alone lookin like a fool. It definetly helps me to prevent me from masturbating.

Now my only mantra is; If I ejaculate, its because of a girl, not my hand (phone sex being the only exception)


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