I told my best friend I wanted to be with her (as couples) because at the end I was afraid to one when she finish her master degree. I know we can still be friends and see each other every 2 months prolly but that's not the point. I have been with all the group for like 4 years in same building. Now they all will be far from me doing their lives while I finish my last semester then will be even farther.

I've always been good at the game, very self-confident, successful with my job and woman. But now I feel alone and can't assimilate that we are still going to be friends and that I can pick up any woman out there. It's very frustrating and I laugh at myself for this. Still, can't get the feeling out of it or be careless again.

*She told me just be friends (I though she really liked me).
*Think I might have problem with self-esteem.

Would appreciate guidance guys...

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In the game, no pain, no gain.

Let me translate this female language for you:

"I want to be friends, but I still like you." = I don't want to put in the effort to making this work with you.

If she was in fact into you, she would WANT to make it work right? Well, she obviously isn't prepared to put in the time and work for you. Move on.

She's over you, now is your turn to get over her. The confidence hit is normal so don't take it very seriously, just continue to keep yourself busy and hang out with different girls. Everything will be fine man, don't worry.