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PostPosted: Fri Aug 21, 2015 7:58 pm 
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Hello everyone, the community looks really good so far, looking forward to being a part of it, since im new! Well lets get to it 8) . Im quite young,16 so far i ve never kissed a girl. Im fine with that, its just not that big a deal, the thing is in my case i find it strange. Im a very sociably person, quite outgoing, i have lots of friends, both male and female. I have no problem at all talking to girls, im actually funny and stuff, but whats more weird, is that im actually quite good looking.Im 6 feet tall (which for my country is more than average), a nice face, brown hair, and im thin (not skinny,nor bulked up, just normal thin). I ve been told by several people im really good looking, yet i dont get any girls hahaha :lol: . Like any normal guy of course i think "damn it, why arent they more straight forward like we do and just say it", because of that, im led to think that what im lacking is flirting. I might talk to them, but not flirt with them. Any tips? How should i start flirting? How should i act, so as to get them or myself closer to me/her (what i mean is not to be at first 5 feet way from her, and then suddenly be at 1cm apart, how can it be done smoothly, any excuses to get closer or something?) And of course the kissing part afterwards shouldnt be that hard haha.
Thanks to everyone people, cheers

PostPosted: Fri Aug 21, 2015 8:23 pm 
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Such a baby. Welcome.

Really it's just a simple case of googling "how to talk to girls" and go from there. Then post up when you come across an actual sticking point then we can help with feedback

Good luck


PostPosted: Fri Aug 21, 2015 9:10 pm 
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A big part of flirting revolves around you being confident enough to communicate you intentions, whether indirectly (through body language) or directly (verbally).

I find that the majority of guys that do not do well with women, don't do well because they're afraid to get in tune with their sexuality. Sex isn't even on their mind when it comes to real women. Sex is reserved for things like porn. Real women are for cuddling - to them.

So do you actually want to have sex with women or are you just looking to get your first kiss?

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