I've had my fun with this. Just tell me what you think of it and ask any questions if you have to.

Everyone is playing YOUR game, by YOUR rules, be playful with it.

Install this belief and see what happens, here's a little explanation on the parts:

Everyone is playing YOUR game.
You don't go by what they have to say, what they think or whatever bullshit they could pose. Same with girls, you're in charge if they get you, not them. They're coming FOR YOU and not vice versa.

By YOUR rules.
You lead the game and your frame to it. (You could see my previous post "Fixed my inner game, YEAH.") Part of this is already explained by the first part of the belief.

Be playful with it.
You'll enjoy life ALOT more if you're playful, be careless and just play. It's also an Alpha trait to be playful and enjoy life, which girls REALLY like in guys. I've had trouble inducing playfulness myself so here are a few tips:
1. Mimic peoples emotions.
2. Be serious only if you REALLY have to (e.g. talking about a death of someone or a broken heart.), the rest of the time is PLAY PLAY PLAY.
3. Discard what anyone says, like you just don't care.
4. Act like you're not paying attention.
5. Do random funny stuff. (Saying something out of context is funny, e.g. complimenting someones lips while talking about cars.)
6. Say "Yay, I'm chicken" and once you get that feeling capture it. It's like acting stupid, but not really being that way.

WARNING:
If you act stupid and get out of the IN CONTROL frame you risk of showing low value, ALWAYS remember to be IN CONTROL and don't push the stupid. Like really you don't want to do anything stupid, you just want to act and have fun with it.

I hope I made sense here, lol.

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That lip complement is the kind of thing I am looking for. (:
You are right. Though in a relationship I believe you must be serious about guys hitting on your girl no?


Nice post.

Cya

Slyzer,

If a guy's hitting on your girl you just eye-communicate with the girl that he's a loser, it's that e-z. Then you can laugh at him later. p;

And I think you missed posts there.
What lip compliment? o;

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Excellent post! If only MORE guys could live this way. It's so much more fun when people have to play by YOUR rules.

I know I'm loving life! : D

AND, never be too self-conscious to make fun of yourself when required.

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What would happen if more people did live in this mindset so you ended up in a room where there are 10 people all believing everyone is playing by their rules? Would it lead to fun or lots of fights?

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Fun if they're smart enough...
But it really doesn't matter, if someone doesn't go by your rules he/she loses you, you're not gonna fight for something or someone you don't need.

If the people are primitive, however, it might get bloody. p;

The main thing I ment was, if you want me - play by my rules, else I can just leave and find someone else, better than you.

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