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PostPosted: Sun Feb 26, 2012 3:53 am 
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I can't stick with anything for more than a year. I don't know why. But NOTHING stays with me for more than a year. For instance I was into basketball and everyone was saying I was going D1 for college and then I stopped when I had to try out for a new school's basketball team. Now I'm doing crew and I want to stop after about a month. At first I thought this was just because people weren't giving me attention but I don't think it's an attention issue because I don't use people to get attention. Like lying and such. But then I thought more about it and I went through a phase where I basically convinced a teacher and everyone that I was a surfer and that I just hadn't surfed yet since my parents couldn't drive me (which was true). But then I went into a poetic phase. Throughout the past 3 years I haven't been very happy deeply... I'll be in euphoric states but never in an actual happy view of the world. I also skated, and then my mom made me stop in like 5th grade (way back) because I got a concussion. But style wise ... personality wise.... sports wise... academical interest wise. I can't stick with anything. And my point I guess... for the relevance to the pick up artist field is that ... A) I don't have any "hobbies" because I can't stick with them and B) I get bored with girls also... 3 months is the longest I've been into a girlfriend before getting completely bored. (except for my oneitis.... which has been a while but we dated for avery short time....)


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PostPosted: Sun Feb 26, 2012 7:14 am 
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Interesting, this is the same for myself. My longest relationship was one month, then I became bored and broke up with her, same with most girls I only find somewhat attractive, as soon as I actually sleep with them it's boring and I don't care much any more, but the build up to it is the only thing that keeps me engaged.

Also the same in regards to most sports, basketball I was good but became bored, hence why I started martial arts as I'm always improving..
I'm interested to see what some of the replies to this are :)


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PostPosted: Sun Feb 26, 2012 7:33 am 
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just like your oneitis, you just have to keep getting out there and trying new things, eventually you will find something that you are truly passionate about and with time tastes change, once you get bored of that, find something else, there will always be things that you find boring and things that really draw you in, just like girls, some are all shiny and draw you in from the outside, but as soon as you get to know them and sleep with them, they are dull and boring and the thought of being in a relationship with them is un-appealing no matter how good looking they are when they are not fun to be around


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