I recently sought out the advice of more experienced PUA's over a case of one-itis that I am going through, I love the girl, but this post is not about that.


One bit of advice I received in particular was the following.



"Jealousy are normal emotions and must be metered in some way, if a girl you have strong feelings for is directly ****ing other guys it would take a super-human idiot not be jealous. You have a right to those feelings, those feelings are telling you something, basically that this isn't fair, that you're being wronged. This is not a paranoid-jealousy. This is the real deal."


So my first question would be, how do those of you out there who are more experienced than me, handle jealousy, how would I go about metering it and not letting it bury itself in my stomach and begin to let it deteriorate my otherwise healthy look on things?



Secondly, I find that, very rarely but it still happens, I develop a fear about not finding "her again". I know a lot of guys believe next one is "the one" too.
I was also told about this as well


If anything, work to meter also your "she's the one" feeling and be more self-questioning in those feelings.



Now at this present time, with my mindset and how I feel, I find it difficult to question a girl I have strong feelings for, so to the guys not experiencing that or even to those that have, how do I go about not getting the "she's the one" feeling and mindset?



Basically, it got to a point where I went from not being remotely bothered about any other guy because I told myself they had zero game, and I had the knowledge and support of forums, personal experience in the field etc.
Then I started to be more concerned about other guys, questioning what they had and I didn't so to speak. I do not know why.



Any information and personal experiences and what you did about it would be a great help to me in the future.


Many thanks, Spearmint.

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