Hi.
I am not a neard nor a popular guy in school, but this PUA stuff has helped me raise my social status. It's just that there is this one girl in my class who allways gets me low on confidence. She knows exacely what to say to make me feel sad, and when the rest of her friends notice it, they follow her. When other people are being mean/show dominance I usually go for negging. But in this case I just forget about all "game" stuff. Since the things she says is very hurtfull and sometimes embarasing.
It usually ends with that i hear them talk bad things about me and i go home and eat alot of food and sits by the computer the rest of the day...

also might add that I'm only 16 y.o

any suggestions what I should do when this kinda stuff happens?

Look into inner game.

Find out something she is self conscious about and in front of everyone say whatever it is e.g. - whats up with (those hair extensions, that fake tan, all the make up you must be covering up some serious shit, that mustache, those teeth) Smile and walk off before she has a chance to say anything.

Make sure it is obvious. Bring her down a peg or two, she will thank you later on in life...

[quote="Mytt8"]Find out something she is self conscious about and in front of everyone say whatever it is e.g. - whats up with (those hair extensions, that fake tan, all the make up you must be covering up some serious shit, that mustache, those teeth) Smile and walk off before she has a chance to say anything.

Make sure it is obvious. Bring her down a peg or two, she will thank you later on in life...[/quote]

thx i will try and go for the makeup neg, but... i have tried to neg her with alot of other negs but they just dont work on her...

wow that girl is horrible! maybe she likes you

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21 year old AFC
Still tryna get rid of my AA =(

I'd say she's into you... and trying to convince herself not to be by constantly negging you.

I reckon man up and give her the bird (or whatever rude gesture you see fit) while smiling, then walk away. Can even say F U with a smile, just make sure you walk and don't look back or respond. If walking away is not an option stare her down with the gesture and a don't give a fuck face, or a smile w/e you deem fit(one successful effective stare down will work wonders).

Bounce away from all her character attacks by ignoring, ignorance best way to invalidate something imo. If you have to even own it proudly and switch it back to her. say something like "But lets have a look at you"... cold read, neg (even ridiculous ones... you peed your pants, you have booger, I can see your pubes) etcetc see her explain herself.
Bottom line is, if she can dish it out she needs to take it.
Keep smiling.. keep attacking.

you seem like a decent guy, she seems like a bitch. neg her where it hurts, and walk off. seems like "bully party" to me.

she might be pretty, but she ain't worth your time just cuz she got lucky in the gene pool, if that's how she normally is, of course!

It's prolly mostly caused by the way you react to her.
People keep on *bullying* or *insulting* people when they know other people are watching or when you're always reactive and she finds it funny.
If you end it and sometimes ignore her when the situation is there that you could be distracted, always do it.

So just look at her with a raised eyebrow and think damn you're pathetic. Dont laugh.