Let me hit you with this. Confidence, we all want it, we all need it. Its not physical, its made up actually, if you want to display confidence you can.. easily. Its a choice, you have a brain, do you want to turn right, do you want to turn left?

I have read many posts on this forum about Confidence, and I agree fully with one persons post on confidence (Meatloaf)

"Everyone has the POTENTIAL to be amazing, but most people focus so much on outward appearance. Confidence doesn't come from a magic pill that everyone thinks by reading a book or learning a skillset. People who have confidence issues due to bad experiences, appearance, undeveloped social skills have the opportunity to become the best people in the entire world.


Confidence is EARNED, Never ever GIVEN.

After all is said and done, you will have a rock solid confidence. a real confidence. because you EARNED IT. You fucking fought HARD and WORKED for it. You built it up from scratch and no one can ever take it from you. You'll hold your head high, walk into a room, proud of yourself for how far youve come, and the hottest girl in there will have to prove to YOU that shes worth YOUR time. Shell have to work hard for your attention because youve worked hard to become who YOU are."

Good one right?
Now lets do this.

Think about this, Can you touch confidence? Its not even physical and yet we want confidence so badly we want to touch it.

I use to be unconfident, acutally I was insecure, but appeared confident, it was a cover. I think to be confident you need to be in the right Environment, that for me is the first. Being an Englishman in America, I am different, and I matter...

When you feel wanted you act like they want you.

Never make excuses, just do it, do what you gotta do to turn the negatives to positives.

Everyone can "have" confidence. Its a choice.

Make that choice

i agree to some point, confidence itself cant be learned but rather be built up by experience, but there are things you can do physicly to feel and convey your confident, and best thing is your not faking to be something your not, the key is body language... the saying is your mind follows your body and your body follows your mind... if your feeling sad is your first instinct to smile... no its to frown look down and shut off from everyone... when your happy you smile ect.. well it also applies in the reverse sense, if your feeling sad or depressed and you put on a smile.. even if its super cheesey and fake your sub concious will fall into a happy state of mind and itl be hard to think of those bad thoughts.. same with confidence if you stand up straight, smile and walk with a heel to toe stride smiling with your eyes and maintaining eye contact youl fall into a confident mindset and will feel and ultimatley feel confident.

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to succeed you must learn, to learn you must first fail

Id rather be the one in a relationship instead of some guy id pretend to be...