Has anyone heard of schrodinger's cat?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IOYyCHGWJq4
Basically, it is a paradox describing a situation in which there is a cat in a box filled with explosives. The explosives are wired to have a 50/50 chance of exploding.
Meaning the cat is either going to be dead or alive, depending if the explosive went off... But because the cat is in the box you actually don't know if it is either dead or alive. The act of opening the box defines the cat's state. Before checking the box the cat is in BOTH a dead and alive state.
What's this got to do with Monkey Mind?
Well imagine something that no-one has thought off so far in the discussion. Imagine if the boy BOTH shoots the monkey and NOT shoots the monkey at EXACTLY the same point in time. But you don't actually know the outcome until a casual observer checks what he's done.
In other words both states exist... Your mother is both alive and dead and so is your father... Both alive and dead.
The only thing that matters here is checking what you did... Checking determined the outcome, much like taking action is really the only thing that matters here.
Do you shoot the monkey or don't shoot the monkey.
'This is all a load of baloney.' I hear you say. How can something exist in both states. It's purely hypothetical - NO in fact it's not.
Such a paradox exists in our real world and has been scientifically proven by experiment. It's called Quantum mechanics. An electron particle can be rotating BOTH clock-wise and counter clockwise at exactly the same point in time.
It's state is only determined upon checking... Mind-fuck or what?!