I've realised what my most important word is when i'm gaming a girl. Its not "Suck." Its not "This". Its not even "NOW!" A simple word we all use but if used correctly, can give off just the right impression. The word is: "Actually."
Think about it. it makes everything seem like its just unfolding doesnt it?
"Actually, you girls need to give me your opinion on something"
"Actually, you'd love this game i know, we should talk about this over here"
"I thought you didn't have much of a sense of humour, but ACTUALLY"
I personally find if i don't say it, i don't do as well. I alternate this with similar phrases like, "as a matter of fact", "come to think of it" etc
It's important for my Columbo Technique anyway. columbo-technique-vt1288.html