I really like wearing suits, but I haven't worn one out yet, unless it was some sort of event.

Last year though, I went out to a bar after a wedding, and left my jacket in the car, but kept the tie on. I had a girl hanging all over me... "wow, you like nice...nobody dresses nice like that anymore... what do you do? Of course she was a sloppy drunk and I was afraid of getting vomitted on, but the outfit definitely drew her in.

I do try to dress on the nice side though...nice jeans with button down shirts that are on the fitted side, and sometimes dress shoes with that.

I'll rock a t-shirt and jeans during the summer, but only nice t-shirts, like stuff from Express. I like clothes that fit, not baggy stuff.

Or if it's not too hot out I'll rock a button down with the sleeves rolled up - I like hte militarty style shirts with the shaulder epaulets and the little tabs that keep the sleeves rolled up.

I've been meaning to suit up and go out to see what happens, and I also want to start wearing ties more often.

The one downside to this is depending on where you are or what people normally wear, people see a well dressed guy and think "gay". I've gotten that before.

I wear at least a blazer. You get respect form the guys and women. And so many girls come up to me and say that they wish more guys made the effort

Wearing a suit is, in a way, peacocking.

If you are out of place you will receive attention, a lot of it sometimes, but it matters more on how you deal with the pressure.

If you are socially inept or if you are not self confident, self assured, then I suggest you avoid peacocking with a suit in certain environments.

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To me a blazer is just dressing like everyone else(a lot of folks roll with that style), it makes no sense. Then their is the wearing a tie style, lots of fools roll with just a tie on over a shirt. I think a full on suit, from the pants to the coat to the tie to the slick as shit shirt is where it is at. If you got a vest and can work it toss it in there.

Personally while some people think oh that looks good with a blazer I think you get A LOT more love for wearing a true suit. You look tons classier and you stand out from the rest of the guys sporting a blazer, so many guys sport blazer in this day and age that it isn't even dressing up. That is what I love about suiting up, it is dressing with class and style. It is showing you are important and "the man" even before you open your mouth.

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I always wear a suit. I am 21 and i wear a full black suit minus the tie. I get a lot of compliments from guys and girls. My friends don't like it though but i'm not wearing it for them lol

Going to buy a 3 piece suit today...ha ha!

Except these looks are a little different:
When they see you in a suit they say wow he dress nice, he might be a valuable male specimen etc etc... and similar. And when they see you in clown hat they think a little different (not saying negative, but these are two different things)

If you wear a suit, make sure it fits really well. You'll look way better wearing jeans and a t-shirt than wearing an ill fitted suit. And, there's a lot of bad advice on the internet about buying suits. Almost all suits off the rack will require some alterations to look good

Wearing a suit to a night club is way to formal in my opinion.
You could, use a dress shirt, dress pants and dress shoes, then use a vest and a semi formal jacket on top, it gives you a semi formal look, without going to the extreme.

But then your back to square 1 and look the same as everyone else.

OP was talking about using the "formalness" to stand out. And it isn't standing out in a "wearing a fluffy hate and goggles" type of way. Not really pushing it that far either.

You're right, but wearing a full suit to a nightclub? You're either going to be confused by a waiter or bartender depending on the club, or a walk around magician xD ..
I just used a basic concept, but its up to you to decide what shirt exactly, and what kind of vest... I was thinking of something like a magician's shirt, which is like "shiny", and a vest that reflects some style, not just a simple vest... and by jacket I didn't mean the suit jacket, but more like a blazer of some unique design.

Straight up sporting a suit dude, I suppose at some clubs yes you could be seen as a waiter or bartender but I have never been to a bar where the bartenders wear suits. Suits are too restrictive, you need to reach high and low. Some clubs it is possible that the security and the host wears suits, but the suits are a certain color, shirt, and ties are normally black. So what does this mean? Choose different colors. Gain a style.

Screw the blazer style, you are trying to out dress the competition not fit in. I hate fitting in, it is overrated. When I go out, my goal isn't to pea cock, but it certainly isn't to dress to the standards of whatever place I'm going. It is to be me and to show myself off, not the fact that I can fit in everywhere fashionably. I fit in because of my people skills and my body language says I do everywhere.

Wear a suit, not a weak blazer or weak vest, get down, dress tight, sport smooth threads. That is the point, dress slick, don't dress fashionable, there is a huge difference.

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I love wearing suits out!! Barney Stinson is the man and no matter where you are you always look better than everybody else. I find it's perfect in a club because nobody is wearing a suit! So you stand out, and you look wealthy, respectable and straight up better than everyone else wearing jeans, vans and a t shirt! Also ties are a great prop to play with. You can give the tie to a girl to keep her running away from you- I like to use it as a Lasso like Indiana jones on the dance floor, works well. All in all I think wearing suit anywhere is a great idea, hasn't failed me yet.

i think a suit is okay, but dont make it your main attire.

a suit is a dhv that shows you are a man of (perhaps) wealth, i.e. middle or upper class.

However I would think its a bad idea to wear it every time you go to a bar, as it also conveys a sense of uptight-ness and conformity.

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I completely disagree. Our reality is really our beliefs. Which means it is nothing more then your belief of someone wearing a suit. When I sported a suit last night I wasn't at all considered uptight. In fact, if you seen me there around all the other people(I was there with a group but I only knew 4 people out of like 15) I was easily the loosest easiest going person. I did that with my body language and attitude. I was wearing a suit and I interacted with at least 25 people.

I got hit on by quite a few different girls, some girls with guys even. Suits are underrated. Who says "I'm sorry you look fresh tonight, you can't come in." The other nice thing is people tell you compliments all night, it adds to your confidence all night. "You look fresh." I heard 3 times last night. "Love the suit." I heard things along those lines several times. People make you more confident with all the compliments.

I went and chatted with one girl who said I noticed you guys right away, my buddy and I suited up. You attract positive and classy attention. Tons of people compliment you. While I agree some areas it maybe a bad idea, such as a beach bar, even then it won't be snobby looks. You make an impression on people with your body language, the suit can add or subtract from that. It's up to you to allow the rest of yourself to shine through.

I'm thinking it's time to purchase a 4th suit.

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