Over the past few days I've been experimenting with body language, watching figures of authority, movies like fight club, and generally studying every alpha example I can find and applying it to myself.

A few interesting yet profound things have happened. When you walk with confidence, people can tell. Oddly enough, the best illustration of my results are on a typical walk to class:

1. Women. When you stand up straight, head high, strutting with confidence, women notice. Instead of being the first one to look, I look last. Instead of looking away (like you would if you got caught cheating on a test) when they make eye contact; I wait until they look at me, then I catch them and smile back(usually they reciprocate with some kind of IOI, if not they just look straight forward and go on with their day). The solution isn't holding eye contact when they catch you, that's just creepy. The solution is beating them to the punch, like a game.
A bit of advice with this: make sure you aren't creeping from a mile a way. You can see them, and their sexy body in your peripheral vision. If you get caught looking first, you're just being greedy. Don't look until the last second, the hottest girls aren't used to you not giving them attention; catch them when they look to see if you're giving them attention. If they look down and to the side, you've probably thrown them off a bit. If they smile, that's awesome. Take the confidence and fuel your day with it.

2. Other guys. The reaction of other guys on campus was almost as interesting as the girls; when you walk with confidence they generally move so that they won't be in your path. They avoid eye contact, and act like beta males. Occasionally, you'll get another alpha; either hold your ground or break, it doesn't matter as long as you don't make it awkward.

The point of this is that EVERYTHING you do, even the way you stand communicates your attractiveness to women. It DOES have an effect. They don't want the guy slouched over looking down, walking like his cat just died. What's your guy's opinion on this? Do you have any similar experience? Anything to add? I strongly recommend reading the stickied post about the 24 characteristics of an alpha male, it was the inspiration for this post.

As a side note, I plan on trying triangular gazing later this week, I'll post the results.

Cheers,
Noah

agree with both things you say here....except i find it no problem being the first to make eye contact with the girl...as a matter of fact i walk around campus with a glow in my face and make eye contact with every single girl i possibly can.

also noticed the same exact thing with other dudes recently....whenever im walking on the sidewalk or whatever and a group of dudes is approaching me and im alone i just keep my head up as always and look at the group....stay my course...its funny watching them trip over each other to get the fuck outta my way! and im only 5'6!

Hey Noah, this is one of the first things I did when I found game.

You done exactly the same as me and I had the same results. It's empowering and gives you confidence in the moment doesn't it!

Mostly I also prefer to give eye contact back to a girl who loks at you, instead of initiating the eye contact. It makes you feel more confidence.

I think eye contact and body language is not focused on enough by new pua's. Strong body language gives you the confidence to approach and eye contact can let you know what girls are already interested to get to know you.

I was at this gallery over the weekend and this amazingly beautiful young woman apparently owned it. She was standing right at the door with tons of people coming in and out of this small gallery. I struck up a conversation with her, told her I was an artist, found out she was a model, and was just shooting the shit basically. I felt very in the zone that night and my body language reflected it. I was standing in the doorway with my foot crossed over the other one, leaning into the door jam onto my shoulder. This allowed for my head to be at the same height as hers since I'm super tall. Made it easier to hear her. I wasn't facing her, but more facing the same direction she was facing. I was totally leaning back and relaxed looking and talking to one of the hottest girls out there that night. That's how it should be done!

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I think body language is more important than people realize. A UCLA study showed that up to 93% of communication is nonverbal. If you're going to start demonstrating your confidence as an alpha male, I think body language is the first place to start. Conversation skills will come.

I suggest trying this to any new pua, it definitely helps build confidence. It's circular, too. The more confident you are, the more positive reactions you get. The more positive reaction you get, the more confident you become.

Even in pickup conversation, your conversation is generally fluff. Unless you're sexually escalating(with your body language), you're going to go no where. I plan on milking body language for all it can give me, then I'll move on to more complex topics. Until I've got some experience and confidence, this is a good place to start.

Totally agree with this. I have done this naturally. At first it felt good, but then I started realizing o women love me guys are all here to help my alpha presence with their beta presences.

Unfortunately it got cold here......and weather just changes everything

As an update, I said I'd post about the triangular gazing. I've found it doesn't work very well in this setting; the eye contact doesn't hold long enough for them to notice your eyes drifting. The triangular gazing is best kept to seduction during conversations.

With the cold weather, I definitely agree with you! I put my hands in my pockets because they get cold, but that closes my body language. Generally, when it's cold out we all close up our body language and look less confident.

And when it is cold out and our body language closed, we can feel less confident. Uou have work harder to keep yourself in the right mind frame.

Agreed with most of this. I tend to find it's a sort of circle - I pick up my body language and then feel more confident on the inside, which in turn reflects in my body language by making me look even more comfortable and relaxed.

I think it's an effect that quite a few 'outside' things can have on your inner game - it could be kicking your body language into 'alpha mode', it could be having a new kickass hair cut, or a piece of clothing that makes you feel a million dollars - all of those things have that same cyclical effect of making you feel better, so then you appear even better than that.