So, its been a little bit since I posted this topic, and a few weeks to go before this event. I am still really busy trying to work as much as I can so I will attend hot seat. For a free compilation of videos, checkout
www.alexanderhotseat.com. If I raise enough for hot seat, I'll do a separate review entirely, and share how much I learned, and what value I gained from it.
I have been watching a lot of Alex's videos on his youtube channel, both free tour or random blogs. I am really motivated by his infield montages. In the past two weeks, the biggest change has been my comfort level in applying what was taught in the physicality bonus video for free tour. If anyone is in the city during the dates, curious, seeking a wing, pm me, and we'll go, and wing after the event. It is shocking how many came to Jeffy free tour and how so few went out afterward making silly excuses instead. Oh well.
One tactic taught was to escalate physically in such a way, let's say you take her hand and get her to spin, you do push pull by ending with her arms around you. This is awesome since most guys are all push and no pull. It is so subtle and in the footage on the hotseat video, there is a clip of this. Frame control is shown to be very important coming from the perspective
You are more than enough.As I mentioned before, Alex kept saying, "it doesn't matter what moves you make. I matters that you are a guy that makes moves.". The natural instinct method is easy to personalize. You can do no wrong. He also includes the 4times rule where the first 3 approaches don't count. You can keep re opening the sane girl. There is a brand new Alex video on rsdnation.com or Alex's youtube channel. Check it out. He has really helped my game.