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I am actually reading the books again and taking notes to see what I missed out on it. I probably missed something without noticing. Also my look is definitely not the problem. I tend to be a little metro at times and spend way too much time on fashion and grooming and all that stuff.
The main problem I find is the conversation. Not sure what I should be talking about.
All right, let's see. . .
1) Open-ended questions (questions that require more than "yes" or "no") rear the longest responses.
2) Women love to talk about themselves (any given person is the center of their own universe; unless you're a monastic monk or something).
3) Women (and some men such as yourself), spend ample amounts of time on appearance. Cosmetics, fashion.
Putting these together, we have the ultimate rule for keeping a girl talking:
Ask an open-ended question that has something to do with her clothing or hair.
And when she's finished answering the question, parrot back a couple of words she said so that she'll elaborate.
For example. . .
HER: "I keep my hair short in the summer so I can swim and jog and stuff like that, but I grow it out later in the year."
YOU: "Swim and jog?"
HER: "Yeah," [etc.]