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| MikeOxebig | PostPosted: Fri Nov 09, 2012 6:11 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Nov 09, 2012 6:03 am Posts: 3 Location: New England | | I have had Pandora's Box for a while now, and I've been trying to get some help with it. Does anyone here know somebody who understands Pandora's Box and can help me with a few confusing details? I just need a few private chats with someone so I can put everything it's teaching me to good use. _________________ doesthiscountasasignature?
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| liltookie | PostPosted: Fri Dec 07, 2012 9:33 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Fri Apr 27, 2012 1:31 am Posts: 75 | | does anyone have a copy of the product they could share
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| waveson | PostPosted: Mon Dec 10, 2012 8:41 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Aug 12, 2012 6:18 pm Posts: 8 | | Okay. Pandora's box is actually very useful.
So basically here's what I observed in the product.
I am able to identify which types of girls I like most and which types of girls I absolutely don't want to deal with.
Here's my two cent.
Types I hate most
Avoid IDR (investor-denier-realist) These girls are so boring I don't want to talk to them at all. They never stop talking about school and work it basically drives me crazy. These girls are so goal-oriented they are pretty much all turnoffs. Not to mention, once you get close with them, they become control freaks. They are needy. I'm generally very accepting for girls being needy, but not when they need me to talk about works with them gosh. It wasted so much of my time.
Avoid IJR (investor-justifier-realist) if you are not interested in older woman. They are all uhhh.. so old... and
Types I like most are:
TDI (tester-denier-idealist) and TJI (tester-justifer-idealist): They are generally the coolest girls to hang out with even if it's just hanging out. They don't ever talk about works (sorry I hate the IDR so much it makes me obsessed with TDI and TJI). Be sure not to spend too much money on these girls because they have other guys spending money on them so don't be one of those guys.
Types I'm neutral with:
TDR (tester-denier-realist) and TJR (tester-justifier-realist). Basically all tester girls are the best to hang out with. Realist tends to talk more about work and tend to be more modern, but with the tester and realist combination, it pretty much neutralizes the turnoffs because they have themselves pre-occupied and they know how to hold intelligent conversation. These are the girls I would love them to stay within my friendzone because when you are down, they will be the first one to give you a friendly hug. But avoid starting a serious relationship with these girls because they are somewhat of gold-diggers.
Avoid IDI or IJI (investor-denier-realist and investor-justifier-idealist) if you are not looking for a long term relationship. If you are a good guy, they can guilt-trip you into getting serious with them. If you like monogamous relationship, they make the perfect girlfriend ever however because they are generally very understanding with feelings. But sometimes, they can trap themselves in emotional trauma, and you will have to spend a while to comfort them.
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| MikeOxebig | PostPosted: Wed Dec 12, 2012 12:52 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Nov 09, 2012 6:03 am Posts: 3 Location: New England | | That's very interesting waveson, but I was just hoping I could get a little help with a few things. First of all, I'm not very good at talking to Testers. Even though I prefer iNvestors because I'm a bit of one myself, I want to be able to make conversation with both. It's really hard for me to pick something from the environment and comment about it, especially when I talk to girls at work where the same things are happening everyday. I'm much better at talking about the person I'm talking to like an iNvestor does. The other thing is, I'm also having trouble identifying a woman's type, particularly her timeline. Both of my difficulties go hand-in-hand, because you have to try both styles of conversation openers to identify a woman's timeline, and it's difficult to gauge her reaction to one if I can't do the other very well. This is a very basic step in the program, so it's kind of important. Once I get a grip on this I'll get rolling with all the other stuff. I just need a few tips. _________________ doesthiscountasasignature?
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| waveson | PostPosted: Wed Dec 12, 2012 12:17 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Aug 12, 2012 6:18 pm Posts: 8 | | Well~ my suggestion is not to be obsessed with the pandora's box because these are not inner games. It's just some cold-reading techniques.
Basically the reason why you can only talk with investors is because they take time or actually would try hard to understand you and be patient with you. Quality of conversation is very essential talking to testers. They like conversations that can HIGHLY spark their emotion (no bathroom jokes even if its very funny). Tester-idealists like a lot of role playing and Tester-realists are fine with jokes that are work and life-related (never bathroom still)~ and when they laugh or when you compliment them, you will have to kino them and touch them on the shoulder or whatever right away because if you don't, you will end up in friendzone... they won't give you a grace period for warm ups.
But keep that in mind, the pandora's box is only useful in teachin you how to hold only quality conversations with woman, not much about approaching them. This is more of a mid-game material. So there aren't anything like openers. You need to build a lot of attraction before you start moving on to mid game. The pandora's box only help you to build rapport and closing. So if you are looking for openings, pandora's box will disappoint you. You should look into the tao of badass or related materials that teaches you how to banter and how to warm up conversations.
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