| I went to my Love Systems boot camp in NYC a few months ago with Savoy, The Don, and Big Business. As with most boot camps for most people, it was an experience that drastically (and positively) altered my life trajectory in a few ways: (1) in terms of my interactions and successes with women, (2) in the way I interact with everyone else in my life, but most importantly, (3) it was the point from which I can trace a tremendous paradigm shift that has literally improved EVERY AREA OF MY LIFE and significantly increased my quality of life. The paradigm shift I experienced (and am still in the process of experiencing), if I had to boil it down to one element, was one from scarcity to one of abundance. I had read self-improvement literature before, and had some successes, but there was something about making the investment in the bootcamp, including the monetary cost and the time spent, that lit a fire under my ass. It took a good 2 months of consciously practicing improvement with women to allow me to see that this is about so much more than just women. For me, it's about doing your best to live at your edge all the time, and leaning over that edge as often as possible. In every area of my life, not just with women. That's how you grow - and that is success for me. Of course it's a challenge, but improvement only comes with constant effort and practice. And improvement does come: I am operating at a completely different level and experiencing a much higher quality of life now, as compared to before boot camp.
So why was the Love Systems boot camp so effective? I think one reason is that it gives you something tangible to focus on. You can actually measure your progress when you go out, and by tracking your progress, you can see the sometimes shocking leaps and bounds you make as weeks and months pass. You build competence, and as a result, self-confidence increases.
Now, why do I think that Love Systems, specifically, is so great? Beyond the fact that Love Systems offers a system that can be fitted to suit ANYONE as opposed to trying to fit what works for one guy onto everyone, it simply comes down to the people. Love Systems instructors are extremely knowledgeable about women, dating, and pick-up. Nothing new here. These are some of the most potent guys in the industry. But I am not exaggerating one bit when I say that the instructors on my bootcamp were some of the most non-judgmental, and sincerely helpful people I've encountered in my life. These guys were all former students, so they understand what it's like to be in your shoes. They are not concerned with always being "right," or going out of their way to show you how great they are, or to out-alpha everyone they meet. And from the reviews I've read of other instructors, as well as listening to the interview series, which has been a fantastic follow-on to boot camp, it seems to me that every single Love Systems instructor demonstrates humility with his students and has a genuine interest in developing others. And even though instructors likely get no less than a few hundred emails a week from students, LS instructors from my boot camp have taken the time to respond to my emails and offer their insights. Other companies may have instructors with these qualities too, and I'm sure some do, but I'm telling you first-hand that the LS instructors on my boot camp did, and it seems to me that every single LS instructor embodies them. This is why I believe Love Systems is so great.
If you are thinking about doing a boot camp, ask yourself how serious you are about improving your life. If you are willing to make the sacrifices, put in the work, and as a result change your trajectory, then do yourself a favor and don't wait any longer.
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