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 Post subject: Bachelor Pad 101
PostPosted: Tue Jan 27, 2015 6:17 pm 
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Congratulations, a woman is at your place. You sexy stud muffin, all of that work learning seduction is about to pay off. All of that practice, all of the reading has led you to the threshold of paradise. You give yourself a giddy pat on the back thinking of how smoothly you opened. All that teasing, flirting, and building her attraction has led you to this beautiful moment. Here she is, back at your house, apartment, crib, pad, abode, or whatever it is that you call it.

Now is she going to be comfortable? Let’s face it, you’re probably strange enough. You were certainly charming and clever enough to get her to your place in the first place, but she really doesn’t know you very well. To some extent she’s still forming her opinion of you.

First of all, you definitely want her to form a positive opinion of your place and by extension furthering her positive opinion of you. Secondly, from a strategic stand point your place can be a tool to help you accomplish your mission.

Now before anyone gets all worked up about not having some amazing place to bounce women back to, I have good news. The good news is you can have a killer bachelor pad on a budget.

Here are some basic principles to spruce up your casa. Let’s consider the aesthetics first.

Style Tip 1: Keep it Clean


The first thing she’ll notice about your place is, is it clean? Not only is it the first thing but it’s also the most important thing. Guys are little more than hairless apes, women are delicate creatures made of sugar, spice and everything nice. It’s very unlikely she’s going to let you play in her sugar or spice if she’s worried about the catching flesh eating bacteria from the combination of pizza boxes and dirty socks piled up on your couch. Nor is she going to feel comfortable eating in disgusting kitchen with mold growing on the dishes. She’s likely not going to want to drink anything in that environment either. The less comfortable she is, the less likely you are to close the deal buddy.

Style Tip 2: Pick a Theme and or Color Palette

Some guys have tons of money to buy the coolest gear, if you’re that guy, good for you. Fortunately, if you’re not that guy you can compete. The idea is to show your style and creativity through the pieces that you choose. It might be time to put away the comic con memorabilia if you’re looking to bed sophisticated women. Though, if you’re looking to bag gamer chick, go for it.

Otherwise, if you find yourself somewhere in the middle pick a solid cohesive theme that reflects who you are as an individual. My personal theme was Architecture. I had paintings of skyscrapers, an Eiffel Tower clock, a limited edition photo plate of the Golden Gate Bridge and a wall size Brooklyn Bridge poster in addition to several other accent pieces that kept to the theme. Even thought my apartment wasn’t in and of itself amazing, women were always very impressed.

Women are very intuitive creatures and they draw many clues about a man in the way he presents himself. Your place is a huge clue as to what type of guy you are.

Obviously aesthetics is a huge factor but there is a bit of strategy to consider as well.
Strategy Tip 1: Set the Mood

We have covered cleanliness and we have covered style. That’s only half the battle. Your place should be comfortable and it should be inviting. It’s your responsibility to be prepared with a few basics.

Music is definitely number one. Have your music player on the ready as soon as possible. Music makes people feel comfortable and you can turn on instant party mode or seduction mode at the press of a button.

Alcohol is a close second. You were just at the club having a great time. The club had music and booze so your job is to keep the party going at your place. A few choice bottles, some beers and everything will work out just fine. If you happen to have some sick bartending skills then go with a more elaborate set up and show off your skills.

Food is next on our list. Lack of food can derail your night so fast your head will spin. What does every group of drunken women have in the group? There is always a hungry chick. Coincidentaly, she without fail is always the drunkest, loudest, and most obnoxious. She will insist on being taken for breakfast and will suck up two hours of your life, while everyone becomes tired and you’re trying to not to lose your mind.

Instead of letting Hungry Sally be your worst enemy, make her your best friend. “I have the best (eggrolls, nachos, rolled tacos) at my place, Hungry Sally you’re going to love these things.” Her mission to acquire food just led her and her hot friends back to your place.

Strategy Tip 2: Condoms, Condoms, Condoms

You should have condoms stashed everywhere. How many wanna-be seducers have failed because they had to run to the other side of the place to grab a condom? Women as you know are state driven creatures. When it comes to sexual intercourse oftentimes her mental state is volatile at best. Maybe she really wants to sleep with you, but then again she doesn’t want to seem easy. While you’re touching and kissing and she’s hot and bothered she’s only going to be thinking about her amorous desires. That’s good. As soon as you skip off to wherever your condom stash is, she’s considering numerous other things. That’s bad.

Some guys are aware of how bad a state break can be and will decide not to risk losing the moment. The basically decide to forgo the condom. I don’t even need to begin to explain the potential negatives of this decision, but you are all aware you can end up with way more than a piece of tail.

So what’s a clever and responsible seducer to do? It’s simple, stash condoms everywhere, under the edge of your bed, between your couch cushions, under your lamps, anywhere that is in arms reach of where you might end up with a naked woman.

So, now you have an idea of how to set up your bachelor pad and factor in your guest, your image, and a closing strategy in mind.

Here's a video putting it all together:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=p ... 1422327029

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 Post subject: Re: Bachelor Pad 101
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I like this post alot. Guys really overlook these kinds of things sometimes. One thing I can add is mood lighting works! Back at my old place I had a blue bulb inside the lamp in the living room next to the couch. Late at night when your back at your place and haven't closed yet it sets a perfect mood.

Another thing I did was install a ceiling fan in my room with a dimmable light remote control. Before leaving the house I always set it to the perfect lighting so if I brought a girl back it was ready to go. Full on lights are too intense late at night but pitch black isn't easy to escalate either.

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 Post subject: Re: Bachelor Pad 101
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Great post.

I have a 3d wall projector in my living room, and a massage chair in the bedroom. Props are nice.

Anyway, I want to add to the mood portion of your post. At the mall they have this place that has scented candles. I pride myself on smell. I've had many dogs in my life and their little habits wore off on me. I have various scented candles. The one I'm most fond of smell like some sort of pumpkin desert. Not pumpkin pie specifically. It says pumpkin cinnamon on the glass. I also have watermelon lemonade. A couple others.

Instead of turning on the lights. I light the candle. Having a place that smells good will do wonders. I usually will let it a burn for an hour before the date then put it out and light it when I get her back.

Just make sure not to use too much smell good stuff like you are trying to mask odors. I always clean my place up before I bring a woman back. I also make the bed. It's important. Some classy women told me they would never get into the unmade bed of a guy they just met.

I also have a fish aquarium. It's another cool prop.

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 Post subject: Re: Bachelor Pad 101
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I looked at this post, looked at your "post number" and thought, this information will get ALOT of hate...then i read it and thought....wow this is golden....you remind me alot of myself lol when i first joined i made multiple post giving golden information

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 Post subject: Re: Bachelor Pad 101
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i have a bachelor "room" btw.....since i have a roommate and such...he even brings his few girls in my room to impress them...I hate talking about this stuff because in some ways it does sound feminine BUT here's something that will blow her mind

1) get one of those scented wax things....get a manly wood, bourbon or leather smell and soften it up with lavender or vanilla...TRUST ME girls go crazy when they smell that...plus if you have the actual candles, it makes a perfect mood setter

2) I have an amazing home theater system in my room (for a budget ofcourse) a 55 inch Plasma TV i got for like $499 (high quality shit, 4 1/2 stars out of 5 with 6000 reviews) and an Onkyo 7:1 surround sound system for $499 also (weird i know)...it comes with a 12 inch Sub that blows girls AWAY and the surround sound makes them feel like they're in a movie theater....i didn't buy it to impress women i just like movies but EVERY girl who has seen it has begged to come back over to watch a movie (amoung other things :))
BTW you can get a cheap surround sound system (decent quality) for as low as $99 dollars....nowhere near as strong but anything's better than regular speakers

3) A place where you can make drinks...A small mini bar with a blender, chilled cups, and different things to use as garnishes make you look really good...I believe every man should be able to make atleast 5 cocktails. I mean you just look and feel cool making it...the "old fashioned" in "crazy Stupid Love" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPI6TlCEVdk Not only looks complicated (which girls like) taste manly AF and Smell Manly AF, and will not get her sloppy drunk but will put her in a calmer mood. (never roofie girls)

4) Like you said Food, Girls especially nowadays are ALWAYS FUCKING HUNGRY...You don't have to be a 5 star chef but atleast be able to cook ONE thing to perfection...I've learned maybe 25 recipes to perfection and i surprise my dates all the time with delicious foods

5) always have some kind of massage oils around, Personally i like for the girls i talk to to tell their friends "Trey was the greatest guy ever" "I miss Trey, no Guy has ever treated be as well" "Trey has the golden hands of Apollo" or something.. SO every girl i invite to my house or apartment, usually gets a massage....and not one of those man (idk WTF im doing massages) but a Deep sensual, romantic, "please fuck me" massages...I actually got my license BUT here are some videos that i approve lol https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gWZ2hBNE3W8 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EpDZ-jT0QuA

6)Have fun but be cool, if you're a cool enough guy you can even make your "world of warcraft" toys sexy. Im a Big gamer and i have posters of my favorite games on my wall, it adds SPAM and personality, BUT here's the thing you can't just have them in way, you ahev to make them look atleast sorta sool.....basically what im saying is, don't try to impress girls while destroying what makes you you. Express yourself in a way that invites her to ask questions (but not be grossed out)

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 Post subject: Re: Bachelor Pad 101
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I have a batchelor house - a 3 bed semi, one bed with an en-suite. I chose the wall colours, the blinds, the carpet colours.

In the lounge I don't have a TV but I do have a portable DVD player with a 13" screen. I have a nice corner sofa with a couple of throws which match the wall colours. I also have an incense burner (I love incense sticks).


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Anyone that thinks they have an awesome space should definitely throw up a photo or two


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 Post subject: Re: Bachelor Pad 101
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Good post OP.

For music if you're one on one with the girl and you want a relaxed SPAM; chill - style music is best imo.


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Yeah, music is great!

To the candle guy. I don't know if the manly smells will make them more or less in the mood. I find just good smells in general help. Smells related to food are most effective.

Here is a nice playlist I use.

It makes the girls horny. The funny thing is, I discovered this guy while I was watching this really beautiful webcam girl doing her thing back in my porn addiction days. I heard the guy singing in the background and was like who the fuck is that?

Now I have part of one of his songs as the ringtone I get when women text me. My ring tone says:

Girl voice: "I want you!"
The Weeknd: "I know, yes I know, yes I know, yes I knooooow"
Girl voice: "Baby I want you."


That's some ego stroking shit, but it feels great hearing that come from my phone.

Anyway, here is the playlist starting off with the song the webcam chick started with.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o9PuAm7 ... J5pXrD8kgN

The song with my ringtone in it is "Next". I'm familiar with female psychology, this will heat up one shick and turn another type off. Reserve this for club chicks.

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 Post subject: Re: Bachelor Pad 101
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Great post! Thank you!

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