| Shes different, you like her, but is it worth it to give up what you believe in to please her?
Long Example:
First Semester/First Quarter:
I sat there in English Class. First day, socialized a bit with people and quickly made freinds. Amidst the active classroom, I notice her; a blonde Aphrodite with stunning blue eyes that made inner core shake with a range of emotions. Immediately making an excuse to talk to her, I did and became her freind. I added her on Facebook later that night; she accepted and initiated conversation. It was going well, I was putting alot into this because I hoped that it would work and I thought she was different, and maybe I should act accordingly so.
Second Quarter:
Things have going well, I have a handful of good friends in each class and attend parties. No matter how many girls I see or mess around with, she pops into my head, im confused why, she must be different, I hoped she felt different about me, I was putting alot into it to make it work. She tells me she likes gifts, although part of me thinks that she is playing the typical girl card to test what kind of guy I am, I offer to buy her drinks at the local bar, she says she'll think about it.
Second Semester:
We have great report texting and on Facebook. But she rarely finds time for me, she has a seemingly busy schedule yet is at home bored more than not. But its okay, because shes different and I like her. Although I am putting more into this relationship for it to work, I know shes different and needs time alone. I think im gaming her well.
Third Quarter:
We have talked about some deep things, and I really like her. We haven't hanged out much. Driving from class listening to the radio I think the song playing describes us perfectly. I should ask her out, but im afraid she might say no...more it might ruin my reputation with my freinds! But she might say yes, shes definately different, I can feel it with every essence of my being. Although I am not sure what i am feeling, is this love?
Fourth Quarter:
I haven't asked her out yet because I am confused. Does she like me or does she not? Why does she play these games with me? If she really liked me why wouldn't she hang out with me? She makes tons of excuses, its okay. Im going to ask her out and we will go out, it will be perfect. Ill treat her to dinner, its cool because shes different, ill treat her like a lady, like she dreams about. Im only treating her different because she tells me that is how she imagines it, and I gunna make it awesome for her.
Finals:
I talked to her on Facebook today, we talked about relationships and stuff, she definitely likes me. She says shes not really into sex and thinks virginity till marriage is the best option. Although usually id give my own philosophy on sex, I didnt, because she must be right, she is different. Ima pay for her dinner at a fancy restaurant when we go out.
Finals Night:
I just talked to her on Facebook and asked her out to lunch on there. I figure not dinner because im coming on too fast to her, shes an unique individual after all. She accepts and we go to lunch, I conform to my inner needs for her. I buy her flowers and chocolates, I treat her like a princess. She seems confused why I did all this, im screwing up, maybe I should treat her better. Im fucking up. Why am I so stupid?
3 Monthes Later:
Though we never officially went out I knew she liked me and felt something for me. Despite loosing my social status and invitations It was worth it, to spend time with her. She was different, I knew it, and responded so. She was fun to be around, and I made her smile. Although it was natural for me to lead the relationship and make decisions, I let her lead it, because I couldn't bare to see her sad. I loved her.
Summer's End:
Her smile fades with the summer. She was angry one day and I went over to console her, she screamed at me and told me off. She said Im not the one and everything I do pisses her off. I dont understand why, she was different, and I treated her so. I did soo much for her, I bought her things, was always there for her emotionally, and I didn't even mind her not rewarding my physically. Im depressed and confused.....why? Idk what to think.
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In the end, a relationship is all about compromise. If you find yourself changing too much for a girl, your gonna loose her. Sometimes, a girl doesn't actually mean what she says, she is just testing your character and if you mean what you say and say what you mean, or will simply conform to her views to make her "like you more".
Short Example:
Sil3nt: I love dogs
Girl: Haha eww I hate dogs they are smelly and dirty!
Sil3nt: Haha I know right! They are stupid anyway
vs
Sil3nt: I love dogs
Girl: Haha eww I hate dogs they are smelly and dirty!
Sil3nt: Smelly and Dirty? Thats why we give dog's bath
Girl: They are too much of a hassle....
Sil3nt: *Could Tease* or *Go into maturity/responsibility*
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-Sil3nt (I wrote the long story late at night and im half dead) _________________ ~California Love~!
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