This is an analysis of the video by TylerRSD, the PUA Hot seat 1/5, including what happened in the video and thought on them. It is structured by first writing down the touched subjects in the chronological order of the video and afterwards adressing the overarching mechanincs learned from the video. This analysis also shows what I've learned from this video and what I currently do not understand. It would be great if people gave input on these questions, or get their thoughts evoked by this post. Since I'm new to the scene, I don't know all of the terms yet, so excuse me for not being clear all the time and using some own lingo which is explained under the introduction. All input on both the post and resources I could use to immerge myself into the game are appreciated and encouraged!
As always, have a nice day!
Fc: Full combo/Fuck close/pull
Reatsu: personal output of influential pressure to the environment
SoC: Stream of Consciousness
??: I do not understand this at the moment and would like input or clarification
Hero: PUA in the setting
Makeup style meaning:
Bold: Overall mechanic or important realisation
italic: Topic of the alinea
Underlined: solution to a situation
Touched subjects in chronological order
- The reactions to Pickup attempts:
attraction no followup
attraction phone 50% Fc
- Peer group/jealous guy/friends /ccupied -> phonenumber
attraction sex 50% Fc
- often because best logistics most of the time
The idea behind pickups in general is to DGAF + Make it happen + have fun
Like to go in with Intent but remain free of outcome.
- Communicate through feel, not logic: nonsense can communicate feeling
- Girls responds to energy primarily: Good reiatsu
- DGAF makes you a source of validation (Flirty and playfull while providing the girl with a Challenge)
- DGAF is the opposite of Predictable, no mistery, no challenge, no emotion, which is a turnoff
- DGAF is rare, normal behavior is regular, so you stand out by DGAF
- Dont wait until you become yourbest self, not going to happen (already awesome to more awesome should be the main line of thought.)
- Leading should be normal, just a behavioral output, so why not do it.
- If you are the cause(instead of the effect??) of the effect of a lead scenario, this results in a sexual vibe
- Talking bullshit is letting go in order to communicate feeling, creating rapport, (feel out the situation and calibrate socially??) and comfort
- Disarm Obstacle friend or family through being fun and playfull
- More beautiful Girls(Read: more confident) can take more sexual tinted jokes: shows your more value, confident and unlike most people.
- Interact with the rest of the group to show lack of need
- Take to bar to lead again (not leading is showing that you don't have control and doubt yourself, shows that inside you are doubtful, and how you handle life:Weak behavior)(have a plan, lead and if it fails, apolgise and push again)
- Self qualifying -> DGAF = ?? (making a big deal out of a girl is creepy)
- With a Sassy/Cocky girl, you can make harder jokes (Social Calibration
- Female perspective of girl2 SoC: Why does he want me, challenge , How do I get validation (Why would this girl want validation??)
- Frame of Girl1 is: The other girls are ho's and sluts, while I'm special (All girls want or think they are special, or want to be made feeling special
- Line: Be real, don't be one of those Hollywood girls => Standard Hollywood girl response; all the other girls are bitches etc. (Gain of this line is rapport??/ feeling of understanding??/ you make her feel special??)
- Girl weak stop sign: "Dog tap" (During hug/kiss) Solution: takeaway at highpoint
> Feeling of loss (You have to lose something to truely appreciate it (life lesson tier)
)(Doesn't this show that her action makes you go away and subjecting yourself to her will??)
- Sexual comments/jokes is playfull/cocky (just one of the ways to be fun, not required)
- The stallion guy making the horse sounds made me cringe so hard I almost clicked the X on the video, do I need to get used to this unconfortableness or was that over the top unnatural shit?? Also, the mom being there is also making me uncomfortable (Need to DGAF more
- Recognise the person's wants at the moment and output that kind of behavior (just like you are a different person to different groups of people in your life), (Social Calibration
- Girls can change emotionally very rapidly by the alteration of the purpose of what you are saying(change not the subject, but the "direction" your talk is going(idk how to say this, like redirecting the aim of what you are saying, needs rephrasing??)) Learn how to evoke what emotion, How to change a emotion into a other emotion, and what the pros and cons of these emotions and emotional changes are.
- Talk to the family member to make girl1 want your attention.
- If you get !playfull! threats ("I'll hit you playfully etc.), its a shit-test: Solution: Don't flinch
> pass shit-test and be seen as "Real Man" (Learn when something is a shit test or when it's not and you gotta back off; Knowledge and basic human instinct should cover this for now
- Even if you know you are not gonna Fc, make effort to get a Solid Number instead of a Weak Number.
- Depending on the Confidence of the girl, you can make more confident statements/jokes(Social Calibration)
calibrate to match the wants of the girl, and solve the puzzle on her level of confidence.
- Stronger Reality Wins
: The person who shows that they think they are better, having more value and live in a Better Reality has control over the situation.
- Procastinating to stay : Passive IOI (girl1 invests time)
- Takeaway to show lack of need, but if the girl gives up (Thinking not needy, not gonna get him etc.), Solution: make up something to give her the opportunity to reinitiate the conversation (Joke/challenge).
- Know when to make it simple, and give in the frame you built up a bit (E.G. the plain ok I do want your number. It's not a big deal, and I am interested in you (shows Mutual interest and connection while giving validation and gaining the number. This also makes it feel like it is normal behaviour due to the otherwise exceptional feelings happening to her before. But watch out for dropping the Cat-string.))
- Learn microscale social nuances which show and dictate who is the "cool one (the one who the other person wants something from.)"
- Girls apparently give out a lot of fake numbers(might be a American thing or my amount of Cold IRL pickup attempts has not made this clear that this happens at every area).
- Being patient in pickup prevents being pushy, (makes you lead but not uncomfortably pushy) results to getting the close?? (I understand the general idea of pushy is uncomfortable for the girl but do not understand how to actively be patient, like I don't know when to do act and when not to act. Requires reevaluation and thought.??).
- Hint of where she is staying IOI Feeling attraction towards the Hero. (Girls use hints instead of direct communication, learn to pickup those hints.
Learned overarching Game mechanics
Open + Lead (Not leading is creepy : Humiliation of female(implying shes a slut)?? Not sure this is correct, not leading being implication of sluttyness seems kinda over the top)
Make the other person do something, make a choice, tell the other person to lead: put reiatsu on the other person to take an action or decision => what is the result of these kinds of actions beside not being creepy??
When whatching PUA video, or just analysing situations, think what the girl is experiencing(not thinking!)
(example given Female SoC: He's leading, He's fun, He's letting go, Validation, Emotional experience, YEEYAZ) :: All macro level Feelings during SoC
Underlying framework: The girl wants him because of how he evokes her emotions through:
- Humor of the Hero
- Creating a need within the girl to want validation
What to do in short:
Express yourself in a reverent, fun and confident way to create attraction within the target. Playful!
Every step should work towards Fc, If after feeling out you think it isn't going to Fc, settle with a Solid Number into followup or pivot.
Watchout not to ruin the vibe while pushing for the Fc.
It is important to work towards leveling up in both inner and outer game.
Thank you for reading, discussion is encouraged!
(If this is not the right place for this post, please guide me to the correct part of the forum.)
The Booted Cat