Before I got into a long term relationship, I was so flirty I had girls hitting my line wanting to talk to me and fuck me, but I ended up getting into this relationship with this crazy girl who I dated for 2 years on and off and some how I just lost myself.. Now i'm single (for good) I can't talk to people like I want too, I am not as funny as I use to be, I have no girls after me. When people talk to me they get this vibe of a nerdy cute kid (a girl describe me at work this way) or When I am at a party and the attention gets on me I freeze up and my voice cracks . What happen to me ?

I want to have more of a natural game I want women chasing after me, I want to be the alpha male. The problem is I don't know how? I'm 5'7 and I have a weak voice and people always ask me to speak up or never hear me. I do work out 3 times a week and have a very attractive body, and I dress decent and I get compliments on how I dress at least once a week.But still I don't have girls wanting me. I Have some questions for guys.

1. Where is a good places to start learning natural game?

2. How do I get rid of that nerdy cute kid vibe and get to a sexy man vibe ?

3. How do I get a more commanding Voice, something that lets people know I am Alpha?

4. When a girl comes to my room, what are things I do to entertain her ?


Thank you guys I would appreciate the help it means a lot my brothers!

1+2+3= do a course of rhetorics. Speaking skills. How to be a great orator. Worth the investment! Learn to speak for groups (political or educational situations for instance).

4: watch movie, give massage, play video games or maybe oldschool board game, cook together, ask her help with something practical. Even building an Ikea furniture could work to break the ice and set her up for a plot to come visit you.

Remember women are about plots. They want to have a story to tell themselves afterwards why they followed you. Not "i was horny and got aroused by the thought of him banging me." This means you must set up a plot acceptable to their selfimage.

Hey man,

Just like everything else in life, having that mindset and attitude women are naturally attracted to like a magnet is a skill.

When you got into your relationship, you got out of the "game" and two years is a long time. When you don't use a skill set, you lose it and you don't use the same type of skills in a relationship as you do when you're doing the single guy thing.

It's shitty, we've all been there (skills worsen due to not using them for whatever reason) but you sound like you have potential.

Get out there and throw yourself back into the fire.

That's always the best way, just put yourself through hell to get back to where you want.

After you come out of hell, you'll be on fire.

Peace,

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thanks man I needed that.. I'm going to try and get out there!

No problem man.

Let me know if you need anything else/have any other questions.

I'm happy to help!

Peace,

UA

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1. read gambler's book natural seduction - its pretty good and has exercises that will help you

2. subscribe to Art Of Manliness on Youtube. there are a bunch of ways

3. Art of Manliness has a video that helped me big time - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z4SW_xMueXU

4. play some chill music playing and have sex with her
i have 3 specific playlists that lead to sex depending on the scenario, it is already set up for when i come home.
*dubstep, and rave music to sex (pulling from a dubstep club)
*hiphop, and rap to sex (pulling from hiphop clubs)
*just stripper music playlist (girl is obviously DTF/FWB/GF )

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