i think some people are confusing the meaning of "alpha".
not dominating everyone, it means LEADERSHIP. you don't become the leader of a group by bullying people, that's how you become a truck driver.
the main difference between the meaning of ALPHA in the animal kingdom and the human world.
animal kingdom, one wolf of a pack is the alpha because any wolf that challenged him failed. this means he is best suited to protect the group and his genes are more likely to ensure healthy offspring. if another wolf were to come along and physically dominate this wolf, he would be on his own and the females of the pack would follow the new alpha of the group. this is logical reasoning. all purely physical
so what is an ALPHA, in the human world?
human beings are a bit more evolved and complex than wolves. therefore, the whole idea of the ALPHA is more subtle and depends on the situation and field. it is not a question of pure physical supremacy. if it were so, our world would be run by a bunch of martial artists and boxers (although, at some level it also applies. think of the evolution of the classical “gangster” and the dominance of such groups in certain parts of the world).
physical health is still viewed as an attractive trait to have, but no longer completely vital to survival (think of all the hot women that are with some ugly and/or fat dudes, it underlines the fact that
mental fitness is more important than ever. whit, intelligence, leadership skills, social aptitude, value and adaptability – all the so-called “soft skills” have taken over as the core factors to human survival over physical domination. this can also be argued as being the main
foundation for the existence of “game” – a proof that you kept pace, and/or surpassed, the development of the human race). all the
shit tests, all the games females play with us, are a subconscious look and gauge at our ALPHANESS.
you are alpha when she and her group chooses you to lead them. this means you are high value to the group at this point. you cant self-proclaim yourself as the ALPHA of a group, it doesn’t work that way.
as an example, you might be the president (APLHA) of your chess club. this means people look up to you for advice and want to learn from you when it comes to chess. it does not mean all the girls around you are getting wet panties.
so where does that leave us as ladies’ men?
you display as many qualities that are identified and/or perceived as being alpha as possible. and you're doing this as quickly as possible. it does not matter if you have just a few minutes, you'll have to game faster.
LEADER, INTELLIGENT, advanced SOCIAL SKILLS, able to ADAPT to circumstances without loosing your calm (i.e. when she shit tests you), demonstrating HIGH VALUE, abundance of choices when it comes to females, being the "go-to guy", and being able to ensure the well-being and safety of a group are all inherently attractive traits.
we term this as being or displaying ALPHA. in the human race, the ultimate ALPHA no longer exists! and you can't really prove you are an "ALPHA" within the short time between when you met a girl and when you take her home, so she will test you. that underlines the importance of passing her shit tests and displaying these traits, that are hopefully your second nature (otherwise you are playing tricks on her and she will find out eventually. thus, you will have a hard time keeping her around. but that's a whole different convo.
luckily, if you're able to learn game, you're able to learn these traits, which means you are able to adapt, which is a human ALPHA trait. see where this is going?).
WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN ALPHA AND HIGH VALUE. HIGH VALUE IS AN ALPHA TRAIT. CONFIDENCE IS AN ALPHA TRAIT. IF YOU ARE ALPHA, YOU ARE HIGH VALUE. YOU ARE CONFIDENT. IT IS TO ALPHA WHAT A FAN BELT AND A CLUTCH IS TO AN ENGINE.
ARGUING ABOUT THE MEANING OF ALPHA IS NOT ALPHA, IT'S A SIGN OF INSECURITY. WE'RE ALL ON THE SAME SIDE HERE, GUYS 
CHAT
