Ok so I've been working on being the alpha male. It's been working pretty good. Even at a restraunt or something I'll notice girls checking me out. There's one thing I can't get tho. And that it attention. How do I get people to come try to get my attention, and try to come talk to me, without seeming like I'm seeking their attention?

Getting random people on the street to come talk to you just because of appearance and confidence is hard. A good start is just projecting this very well so that IF they are lucky enough to be approached by you they will appreciate it a LOT. Other than that I'm still short of the skill you're seeking myself.

I'd say make eye contact and try get across a "Yeah, I just saw you do that" vibe... I personally think it is almost impossible to get someone swooning for your attention from just walking into a room, I mean yeah the way you hold yourself is important but the attention you seek is earned through being a memorable PERSON not just a memorable slab of meat!

If there's something I've read again and again in these forums it's "You are the prize", play on it man! The next time you see a girl checking you out, go and open immediately, be cheeky! If that's your thing that is..

Just have fun in yourself and i think you'll see attention is what you'll get.

At least thats my opinion hope it helps my good man! Happy hunting!

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That's Nelson!

I have found out a good way to do it in nightclubs and stuff.

What I do is the following.

1: I arrive early when there are not that many people there

2: Start conversations with random people. Most of the time I talk to the barman and some groups of Alfa males, in order to build social circle. Barman is good because if you talked to him etc he serves you faster. This is good social proof and also the reason you have to arrive early. If you arrive when there are lots of people they dont have time for conversations

3: Make fun the entire night. Women notice that you are having fun and all Alfa males like you, so the women look into your eyes and show other IOI and the Alpa males give you huge social proof by greating you everytime they pass you.

Through these 3 simple steps I do get a lot of attention. Though attention alone is not enough. The problem I have, is that I dont know how to build it on from here on out. Though that comes with experience I guess.

edit: Social circles and Social proof give you lots of attention. For more info you might want to read the Mystery Method.

And also, I always dress really good. Also gives lots of attention

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