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PostPosted: Tue Sep 06, 2011 11:34 pm 
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Should you be the first to give an ioi.. or her?



When she gives me a ioi.. do i give her an ioi half the time or what?

Or what if she gives you an iod?


I think this is where i mess up honestly girls give me ioi's but then i think they lose interest overtime in me because i'm not putting much interest back in them

I thought not showing an ioi to an ioi would come off as easy for women and they want a challenge.

I would love some feedback on this


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 06, 2011 11:54 pm 
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Well Cajun said that you should never show interest in a girl until she shows interest in you but with approaching it's probably best if you approach talk a bit look for ioi's if your getting them give a few back if your not leave


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Indifference is the key to success. What cajun says is correct and you should apply it. Gain her interest by remaining calm and composed and then you could (=/= should) give her some IOI's. Preferably no compliments but sometimes they do work. That quite depends from woman to woman. But it's less risk not to give any.

But the cooler you are entering, the more mysterious you look. She'll doubt whether you are into her so chances are greater she will qualify. When you go all out, she'll think 'bring it on' and the pressure's on you.


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Indifference is the key to success. What cajun says is correct and you should apply it. Gain her interest by remaining calm and composed and then you could (=/= should) give her some IOI's. Preferably no compliments but sometimes they do work. That quite depends from woman to woman. But it's less risk not to give any.

But the cooler you are entering, the more mysterious you look. She'll doubt whether you are into her so chances are greater she will qualify. When you go all out, she'll think 'bring it on' and the pressure's on you.
This is true.. when it applies to group but will it apply when you are approaching?


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PostPosted: Fri Sep 09, 2011 5:44 pm 
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Well Cajun said that you should never show interest in a girl until she shows interest in you
I think this severely limits your game. You can wait around all night and wait for a girl to show interest and go home alone or you can jump in and play the game and see if she wants to play too. A subtle IOI like long eye contact can spark something before you even say a word. In certain situations a strong compliment is very charming and effective. Flirting is an IOI you can start, hell, approaching is an IOI.

Feel free to show interest just don't do it AFC style with flowers, drinks and cheesy lines.


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