| A2 or the 2nd stage in Attraction is based around female to male attraction. In this phase what you want to be doing are stacking DHV's (demonstrations of higher value) while simultaneously negging the target which consequently lowers her self esteem and makes you appear higher value in relation to her.
The point of A2 is to get 3 IOIs (indicators of interest) so that you can get into A3 and then C1. In order to do that, it is not necessary to just "sit there and stack DHV's," but instead you can DHV by being interesting to the group.
For example, lets say you want to trigger the "leader of men" switch. One way you can do this is by telling a story about how you said something, and then others followed.
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You can show that you are a leader of men by actually leading the men in the group. Do this by dominating the interaction; lead the conversation, put your arm around the men in the set (dominating move), befriend the men...by doing all of this you are DHVing and moving closer to A3.
The way you can interact with the group is by doing mixed set openers. One I like to use is this.
(Said loudly so that your target can hear you, but said to the men)
Me: Hey bro, I need a man's **stress "MANS"** opinion on something.
"Is it cool for me to date my ex's best friend?"
This will open the men (showing you are a leader), and will draw attention from the women. Most often the women will jump in and you can neg her (I wasnt talking to you, does she always do this, etc) and then get the mans opinion. I then get the opinion, say "Cool" then back turn and address the group, "SO! How do you all know each other."
Boom, you are in the set, talking to everyone, and getting closer to A3.
Hope this helps
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