Girl I'm seeing we work together have known her for 5 months we are not official bf/gf and have not had many dates. Well she told me to call her in the evening and she was out with friends and then I did and she was all nice and we were having a great conversation after about 5 minutes I said I was on my way home and then she told me to call her and then when I did she said she just left and that she was with her friends out and a bout and this guy was in the backround trying to talk to her then she told me to call her back in 2 minutes.

When I called her back she was weird giggling "I have to go.....I gotta go this guy is trying to talk to me so I have to speak to him, talk to you in a minute" giggling

I understand she is a very good looking girl and this happens alot, but I don't get why she asked me to call her back and then tell me she had to go. I was going to call her again because I didnt want to feel like I let him take her from me but then I thought she might not even pick up.

3 hours later she txts me"ring me im in trouble" so I ring and the phone is switched of or on another line so I start to wonder and worry what could be going on. 10 minutes later it rings no answer, I ring again and no answer. I felt like she just txt me to get me to ring her back.

Dude seriously ... I don't wanna be rude or anything but you're not her fucking dog. Fuck her and her wanting to be called all day, YOU'RE TOO BUSY having fun.

What went wrong:

- You were too available
- You were her dog
- You were DLVing
- There is no attraction at all
- You were a doormat

STOP it, no girl is worth this and you shouldn't let her treat you like that in the first place. Now it seems like you:

1. Do everything she wants
2. Have no social value since you're always available
3. Clingy
4. You're not fun since you got nothing better to do than call her

Step your game up soldier! You're not a toy, you're an alpha male.

Good luck in the future.

I know what you are saying, but what if there was a serious problem?

I do care about her, so I want to know how she is. I called earlier on just to see what she was up too. When I called when she was out yeah I did feel like a lap dog. I didn't like the fact she was giggling around some guy while on the phone to me it just made me wonder what she is really like. I'm not sure how to change things right now, I've showed quite a bit of AFC behavior in the past and it really isn't congruent with how I am and my appearance. I'm kind of introverted and I don't approach or kiss peoples asses and I'm a big guy. I just get protective over girls who I have had something with.

She's a big girl, she can have other guys in her life. You're the alpha, and you aren't threatened by other guys, they can't come close to you. If that shit happens again, any situation where she doesn't respect your time, neg harshly. Be less available!

FREEZEOUT

If she calls ....your always busy...say ull call her back in few minutes.....never do

Take that advice and use it. You don't give a fuck about other guys she only wants you but her having other guys in her life is basic even the HB1's have more than one guy in their lives those are just the basics. But IMHO you'll really have to drop a fucking bomb on her in order for her to respect you again.

Let's hope she'll ask you to call her again. text her " I'll call you in X minutes, I'm busy SPAM." and never call. That's the kind of bomb you want to drop. I suggest not to contact her until this or something similar happens.

Yeah I just hate playing games though that is why I can never pull of things like this. I either call or I don't call, depending on my mood. If she txts me to call and I feel it might be important than I do. I still don't know wtf was so important that she had to txt me she was in trouble...or was it just a shit test to get me to chase her?

Yes.

shes pretty dumb ....remember the boy who cried wolf

and yes....twas a shit test

Dude, she's totally playing you! Back in my AFC days, i had an almost identical situation, and I found out later that she had used it as a "look, guys don't leave me alone" to DHV herself to some guy she met, or a "rescue me from this creepy stalker guy and feel sorry for me" move. She was working you over, os that she could get with another guy. At least that's what had happened to me, and it sounds like the same thing here.

Yes of course, he shouldn't have let her walk all over him. It would have been absolutely gorgeous if you would have said " No, i'm busy " goddamn I would have laughed my ass off to be honest. It's a shame that girls do this but yeah, girls will be girls.

I know but she is mad one. 30 minutes before that she was all talking to me like I was her bf. "You miss me?, hows work, call me when you get home let me know ur safe"

All that shit. So when she is hot I am, and give her a bit of attention, otherwise I'm usually distant.

Fucking HB10s, too much trouble.

I don't like her

You miss me = shit test
Call me when you get home = the same shit we discussed before she's using u as social proof.