LJBF or a shit test?



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PostPosted: Thu Jul 21, 2011 6:09 pm 
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Girl I've known for 5 months we work together both have had a crush on eachother. She was in a long relationship and broke up recently so she didnt want to get serious with me although she knows it would of been that was had her situation been different. I've been like her boyfriend on and off and in the past she has shown interest and disinterest and also wouldn't go on dates when I asked.

We had a long conversation last night about life but I did say to her "we should meet up, we get on and there is only so much we can build at work" she agreed but she told me before she was down because she was tired of being single. So I said to her we should meet up and chill, and I let her know I got alot fo love and care for her. She was giggling through some of what I was saying/ Then I get a random txt today saying "friends are like balloons. once u let them go, you cant get them back. So im gonna tie you to my wrist so ill never lose you. happy friendship day. send this to all your friends including me if you treat me as one. if you get four back, sumthing uve been waiting for a long time will happen xx"

I feel she migh of been annoyed with me last night because she said she was down and I mentioned how we get on and we should meet up and do things(she agreed we could do) but I've told her in the past I'm not rushing her...and I'm really not, we just treat eachother like bf/gf at work and only at work. Do you think it's a test? this girl plays ALOT of games.


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 22, 2011 2:37 am 
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Interesting.
Its kinda hard to tell what that text means, depends alot on the type of girl she is. I mean, would she be sending that thing around hoping to get the 4 replies just coz she likes that kinda thing? Or is she testing out your idea of friendship to her? Or is she saying you're first of all her friend?
If she just sends that kinda thing out and likes the responses then ignore it.
If shes testing your commitment to her send her something else back like "ha cute text, dont tie me down too tight though!" or something innocuous like that, you wont lose points but its better than sending that thing back to her haha (in my opinion anyway)
If she's LJBF'ing you i dont think youd need to ask... it doesnt quite seem like it to me. I think its probably a combination of her thinking you are a close friend because you had a deep chat the other night and just a general test as to how you'll react.

if i was you i'd try not to overthink it and just send back some sort of response similar to what i said above, i dont go in for that kind of message so i wouldnt pass it on or send it back to her, but i would make a point of acknowleging the message somehow, but being playful and reserved as to your status as a friend/potential lover.

hope that makes sense man. good luck


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PostPosted: Sat Jul 23, 2011 3:29 pm 
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Everything is a game with her she txt me at 4 am in the morning telling me she was wet with about 8 kisses and calling me baby etc. I got her on the phone and mentioned to her that we should link sometime and that it had been a long while since we kissed. I said to her "can u remember the taste I forgot because the last time we did I was drunk"

She got butthurt and goes "u dick" and says "u been kissing other girls" and puts the phone down. Something she does often anyway but still it's a bit lame since we are not even official. She loves causing problems between us it seems.


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PostPosted: Sat Jul 30, 2011 8:50 am 
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That text is just one of those mass forward things that I always effing get. Most annoying thing ever. I've noticed girls that are not my type in terms of intelligence send them almost every day. I wouldn't pay any mind to them.


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