| HEY all you reptiles out there.
This is going to be a long explanation of how you get the girl to like you if you already know her.
I saw a post with 44 views that questioned how to get HB interested when you already know her. I don't want only about 10 more people to see this post so i just made it a topic.
The getting her to attracted process itself is divided up in 3 categories of act and another of standard attraction - taking care of yourself. It’s all very similar to everything else you could imagine when getting a girl. The difference is that you don’t have her attention right away which explains why we have to focus a lot on the first step.
I have no idea what to call these steps so I call them 1, 2 and 3 and 0 for standard attraction/ preparation and taking care of yourself.
Step 0- standard attraction and prep
-is very simple as well as the other steps.
The first thing you do is look good if you can. Look does matter - hit the gym. Shave your beard and/ or consider what looks better. Get some style to help yourself look more attractive. It’s a very simple way of peacocking. Style doesn’t mean you have a pair of cool jeans, shades and a cool shirt and some decent shoes. Get something that fits and have different pairs of shoes because all shoes don’t fit to all cool jeans in the world. (Note to self: don’t ever wear sport shoes and jeans at the same time). So style, get a professional style. Like a tux to wear everyday would look extremely professional. Also important as fuck, you HAVE to look comfortable in what you wear but still not ridiculous like a kid if that’s how you look comfortable.
Make sure she knows that you aren't a geek, don’t spend much time on pc or do if you want but don’t make her realize, make sure she knows you do things Friday nights, you are a fucking stud and so on.
If you have Facebook/ Myspace then make it right look good and attractive if you can. Remove the "single" shit so nobody can see if you are and they have to ask, get some cocky and mean shit about yourself like me: "hello ladies, i'm a selfish prick and totally illogical so run away little girl. seriously though, i probably dont care about you" you want to look DHV so have pics with you and other girls, never ever post gay ass statuses. i wanna give you a lame example i see sometimes:
"omw home from grannys I love you granny!!" - *Block*
We don't give a fuck about what you do whenever you do so. i know you already know this but couldn't resist showing some hate to those people.
Anyways, show DHV, have if you can comments and likes etc by girls mostly, but guys are better than nothing cause they show you are cool etc.
rarely post any comments or "like" shit around on the site. have your "wall" filled up with comments from other people no matter how old the comments are. The less you use the internet the cooler you get, the more DHV whether comments or not you show. The ultimate look is 90% comments from users on your Wall and a few comments here and there that you post. So 1 comment or 1 "like" and 9 comments on your profile.
INFO to have about oneself:
i have 3 inspiring people: johnny knoxville (jackass), sam endicott (the bravery lead singer), tom meighan (kasabian lead singer).
Under music I have: indie/alternative/rock/pop as well as the bands listed above. i don't want to have 500 different bands, but i still wanna look like i know what im talking about with description of genres .
enough with the internet shit (never been a fan of it)
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Step 1 – Flirt and recognition
You flirt her ass off and you do it right. I hope you know how to do such a simple thing as flirting though i lose nothing this beautiful Tuesday night by explaining some flirt anyways.
Flirt is extremely good because you soon realize whether she is into you or not. You can always tell by her reactions. If she likes you she does one of two things: nothing or flirts back. She doesn’t like you: backs off.
If she backs off, you reduce the amount of flirting you are doing at the current time and back a little off too. Remember attraction isn't a choice so please don't be a wuzz and give her presents or deeply explain what you think of her. It won't help you.
The way you flirt
Complement some acknowledgeable places like her hair. Say like "hey nice hair.... it looks pretty cute" NOT "hey nice ass" nor flirt teasing. FT is immature girls and guys at the age of 9. When girls do the FT i cannot stand it.
Don't get me wrong with the meaning of FT. My brother Jakob that got me into the game and is AFC, said he uses the FT a lot. Then he gave me an example with a funny combination of cocky funny and the disqulifier in one sentence as if it was FT. Nope the FT is way different. I'm talking about taking her cell phone once in a while, taking pictures when she sleeps, be TOO mean and so on.
Eye contact 24/7 is a key in flirting. You shouldn't care if she catches you 'looking at her', and if she does, look her right in the eyes for 5-30 seconds and then you can break it and continue but i wouldn't recommend doing so because you have nothing to lose. Try to always have a laughy face when you see her you look much better by doing so.
Don’t be a jerk but still be mean to a certain degree. Don’t be nice either like I never ever pay for a girl or hold a door. I'm not saying you shouldn't either, but I just never do that’s my policy after reading that The Game book.
I’m extremely random of a guy to be which makes me able to say odd shit around her like this line from The Game book I think: “If I wasn’t gay I’d totally go for you” and as my info on Facebook says I’m illogical which is a good thing whether texting or talking ≈ all the time.
(“Logic kills attraction. Being ILLOGICAL causes Attraction!” find it in forum under: Beliefs and Confidence Building, Self-Esteem, and General Inner Game, by; bandito69)
Now … you make sure that she knows that YOU are the goldprize. Be cool but not too cool. Don’t always do as she wants you to do. Do what you want to do whenever you can. Also flirt with other girls to not look like you have a one-itis.
Other important flirt reminders: Look like you have control and know what you are doing. Look like you are fully aware that you are hot. Look like you have a ton of girls around you. Look interested, be funny and make her feel like she’s worth a little. If she has feels good and confident around you, you are pretty much on the right track but she should also be somewhat nervous, because you have her attracted to you.
Step 2 – Hook her
You hook her attention up your ass. you can do this both verbally, emotionally and written.
Nothings out of the ordinary. Neg hit her (personal favorite: wow nice shirt, i saw a hot girl with the same 2 minutes ago, or another: wow i actually like your perfume, i think my mom has it too), do some push pull on her and so on. It shouldn’t be too hard and its very similar to the flirt part if not the same but more advanced.
I don’t suggest doing techniques and routines on her but it never hurts to try.
If on Facebook you can add a comment to her picture and if she replies then you reply 3 days later. I bust their asses because I’m mean by character when dealing with girls.
I bust them like this: "what’s with the top of your head is it pointy or something?" (Picture is cut off/ wearing a hat or whatever) or "holy shit that’s a lot much pink in the background" (express the fact that you do not like the color in the background in her room. Especially if you happen to come across a sexy picture.)
You can text her “29iskajwwujggjjjkk it’s a code, figure it out” (Style).
Other things: “SURPRISE”, “hey imp */nickname* I bet my weekend beats yours.”
And many other things. There are sites out there that gives you a bunch of good openers. But remember to wait a while with some replies. Like text her, text back right after and then wait like 15 minutes the third time or never reply at all... though:
Because I hate the texting game I often don’t reply them at all which both is good and bad. The effect is really different from girls personality. The less mature girls are gonna get mad or even think they did something wrong however the mature girls 20/25+ aren’t even gonna text you at all with the lame stupid messages that don’t deserve replies after all.
Step 3- Join company
Please let me tell you that this is also possible when doing steps 1 and 2, even really good if so but you still have to do it right.
Its time to hang out with the girl.
NOPE I did not tell you to go to a movie theater with her or dinner. Go somewhere cool as shit and original as shit that she’s hopefully never tried ever before. I’m talking about playing tennis with her, going to her house or your house to hangout, a friend’s game/ performance or whatever. Have a fun time where you laugh.
Not only fun because of what you tell her such as a joke over a dinner table and after that you don’t really listen to what she says because your AFC thought process tries to indicate whether her body language seems to be interested in you or not because she played with her hair and you think she’s totally into you now.
As I clearly expressed to you, you have to be original but still do something she wants in order to have a good time for both of you though I doubt you have fun if you know she isn’t. Not the hardest to figure out in the world.
How to be on a date is completely unexplainable but you can prepare for some fearsome moments such as: THE TERRIFYING AWKWARD SILENCE!!!!
I’d actually like you to go out on this date and get the most embarrassing moment of your dating career just to try it, we all love to look back at those moments.
If you choose no, then this is how you deal with it: Take advantage of the silence. Very very simple, you look her straight in her eyes and all of a sudden it gets all romantic. Eye contact is the savior whether you meet the awkward silence after a mall approach or on a date.
You can even go cocky when you get the silence. I especially like it when it’s the first time I see the girl- Say this:
“Hm okay listen. Right now my impression of you is that you have nothing more to say and that you’re a boring person. But NO!!! Prove me wrong and tell me a cool story story about yourself!”
Total owned by a verbal genious smackdown that makes you more awesome right away than she is.
Steps 1, 2, 3 and 0 are covered with enough information. Remember reading does nothing compared to acting. Write down what works for you and go do it more as well as sarging malls at the same time.
maybe internet too... its quite funny i realized yesterday.
I'm signing the fuck out.
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