A colleague invited me to dinner last night with her and two of her girl friends (she’s an 8/9). I accepted, I went, I DHV’d. Everything went well and the friends accepted me.

I followed MM advice and gave the friends my attention, brushed the target off with mild negs (I took a risk and called her a lazy bitch at one point; she responded perfectly!) And we all parted ways happily at the end of the night, the target and her friend offered to drive me home, i opted to walk (literally 5 min walk.) i didnt want to appear needy, but its an IOI?

Next step please? We work for the same company but very rarely see each other at work. However I will see her tonight at a company function… drinks and dancing (although I wont be drinking) Where do i take it now?

Thanks in advance!

Is she attracted to you? Did she kino you? Laugh at your not-so-funny jokes? Other IOIs?

Did you kino escalate? Hug, hand holding, hair smelling, other?

In MM it is important to know where you are if you want to follow it.
If she is already attracted to you then you are in A3 when you should qualify her to you for other reasons then her looks. Then do some C1, stories from childhood, CUBE (this is an awesome C1 routine, and the only one I use almost always)

Then go for the Kiss. Don't hesitate! Women hate it! It's far better to be rejected, than to be seen as a wussy - a man who doesn't know what he wants!

One word of advice. Women are very emotional. One day they can be ready to follow you to the end of the world and the other day they look like they don't even remember your name. Depends on their personality.
You may need to first raise her "temperature" when you meet her again. Use a playful NEG or two, say a funny story. And then she should be ready for your next move.

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Thank you for your reply Blind Watchmaker!

Zero Kino. lots of laughing + making fun of each other.
I've known this girl 2 weeks, contact has almost always been in a group situation.
Im unsure where exactly in MM i am...

Advice for tonight?

My guess is A2 (She is attracted to you.)


You must start kino, as soon as possible. Start with light touch on arm/hand. Then I usually do kind of side-hug with one arm while with the other hand showing/pointing to something "interesting in distance", this gives you good "excuse" to kino.
From there, hand holding/playing with her hand. Then kiss.

For tonight:
You should be in a fun, light mood. Don't make it too much pressure on yourself. Start joking around be social with as many people as possible (especially other women). This gives you ton of social proof and makes you more talkative. If she sees you having fun she will come to you herself. If not, just approach her. Then tease her, flirt, sexual innuendo, kino her and isolate her.

When in isolation first thing I usually do is the Style's Cube. It's gold for me cos' I'm having bit of a problem building rapport (I'm usually joking bit too much). All the time doing the Cube (last time took me 3 hours to finish!) kino escalate with her. And then you can do the Mysterys' Kiss Close. I usually just go for the kiss without any routine.

Again do not hesitate for too long with the Kiss. I also usually tell the girl at this point that I like her (not in a needy way!). If she asks why I like her, I just say I don't know, there's something about you I cannot figure out yet. This shows you as a man who knows what he wants. Again keep it light all the time and you'll be great.

Wish you good luck man.

PS: Don't rely on the routines and MM too rigidly. If unsure where you are, just follow your instincts! You are MAN! You are hardwired to be able seduce women!

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why wouldn't you let them drive you home. I'd say: Ok, but only if the target sits with me in the back." and you could kino there.