Alright All,

Just a quick one as I need to eliminate this douche...

HB is going away on a short break at the end of next week. The short-break just happens to be about 20 miles away from where her ex-BF (2-3 LTR until earlier this year) goes to Uni. I knew as soon as she told me her destination so asked her if her break was her summer holiday with friends and she said no, it is with her family (Brilliant - less open to contact with an Ex!)

But, as he lives so close and it wasn't too long ago that they broke up, he COULD try and get in there. The big question mark is that I don't know how they ended. I am thinking distance caused it (its about 400 miles from home). But anyway, my point is that I don't want to take any chances so any tactics for eliminating this douche?

I'm thinking:
- Continue as I have been
- Drop her a text a bit after she gets there (incorporate some DHV material about some seeds that have already been planted)
- Regularly (but not too regularly) keep in contact with her

Bump

Just want some simple advice here. I am fairly certain that this guy will bring me no problems, but just need some material to run to give him a bad impression in her mind and make me the main focus of her mind whilst she is possibly out with him

Tell her to go hang out with her ex if she gets bored

I don't think you need any material. If she is going with family she probably didn't chose the destination.

She may have a higher likelihood of needing company closer to her own age, though.

Remind her he lives close. Remind her why they broke up (by asking), and say if would be comfortable with it, she should call him. Then forget about it.

I'm terrible at jealousy but I expect honesty.

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