Hi, I'm new to this forum although I've been reading up for a couple of weeks. Lot's of helpful material here.

I had a few GF's in the past but felt that I needed to increase my skill to attract women, because, like most of you I want to get laid more often.

Opening is no longer a problem, however I'm having trouble with my mid-game. I tend to overdo kino and end up being more clingy, usually pushing girls away on the dancefloor (as an example). Can you guys point me in the right direction? What signs do I look for? I usually make my way to touching neck/hair and fail right before eye contakt k-close. I have no idea how to phaseshift into the more sensual part.

Thanks

you're creeping them out. there is nothing girls hate more than guys coming from behind who starts holding their waist or overkino in some other way. that's just creepy. you can read vincent dicarlo escalation ladder where he talks about natural kino escalation. that should give you some insight on kino.

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I have to return some videotapes...

Yes, I fully understand that I creeped her out. I was becoming a little desperate, which ofcourse is very bad for my game if she picks it up - they are very good at this. From what I've read before (vindicarlo) next step would be sitting down and k-close, however that was not an option at that time, so I should probably waited it out till the oportunity arised?

More field-practice I guess.. At least I'm not afraid to try.