So I went out last night and I am new to PU but I met this girl (kinda good looking, i would have kissed her anyway) and she spoke to me in one club, she said nice hat (it was a free fosters beer hat) and she took a picture of me and her together. I saw her again an hour later in another club she took another picture of me and her (i had ditched the hat by this point) and then took a picture of her and her friends and then another but told me to be in it with them...i obliged. then she told me to go and request a foo fighters song for her and i said i didnt know where to ask as the club had 3 floors and i hadnt been there before, she didnt hear me and i repeated it...she didnt hear me again and then again, it was definitely cos it was loud not pretending. Anyway i had to say doesn't matter and she walked off. How do I deal with someone not being able to hear me without repeating and standing there like a lemon, she liked me though right?

Couple things. For one, your not leading, she is. She is coming up to you, she is telling you to take pics with her and her friends, and shes having you do stuff for her (requesting a song). Reverse that role. As a man, its your job to be leading the interaction. Although the information in your post is limited, I get the feeling that you took a very passive role the whole night with her. You were just there and did what she said. Next time take an active role and lead.

Second, work on your voice projection. You herd her but she didn't hear you. That means you need to get closer to her (loud clubs make a great excuse to get in ver close to her and whisper in her ear).

And third, verbal game doesn't really matter much. You should have been getting PHYSICAL. Get PHYSICAL and ESCALATE. You do this right at the BEGINNING.

Anyways man, I hope ya had fun. Your new to this so your gonna make mistakes like last night, its not a big deal at all. Just keep what i've said in mind, go out and do the most important thing...have fun!

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If a girl approaches you and asks to take a picture, say "Yeah ok"

then take a picture of yourself (looking cool)

Then give her the camera back and tell he she doesnt have to pay for that one

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I went a step farther and wrote a guide to dealing with loud clubs: guide-to-gaming-loud-venues-vt86526.html

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