Hi guys, I'm new to this forum and my english is not very good so I hope you will understand me.

I'm a college student and I studied a lot of pickup material from different authors and I also field tested it and so on .... but now I have a problem which has never happened to me before. I transfered to another college and here I met one girl, she was all shy (she was just hanging with only one friend ) but whenever i enter the classroom she always looks me and smiles to me, then she added me on facebook before we even spoke. So next time I took a seat next to her, talk to her a little bit (you know did some routines), then couple days later I called her becouse I needed to copy some notes and then I invited her to coffee. We really conected there, she also said that next time I can come to her place for notes....long story short....she keeps smiling to me, making those flirt eye contacts, i think this is so on but then she keeps reminding me that she is in a relationship. What is going on ????

Tnx, Matic

Hey, Im relatively new to this forum, but here is my take,

So first you are going to want to look for the typical IOIs, and if you dont see them naturally, try to create a situation in which they would come up, and that should give you your answer about the flirty eyes, etc.

Next in terms of her boyfriend, it is hard to tell just by your description whether she is baiting you with her boyfriend or using it as a wall.
Let me explain, if she is remind you that she has a boyfriend in a sort of regretful way, as in, "well my boyfriend is bringing me to this horror movie" and then goes on to say how much she dislikes horror movies, then that might be her way of saying "I dont really like my boyfriend, maybe we should get together on the side"

Alternatively, if she is saying that "oh my boyfriend is taking me out to lunch, i love him so much he knows just what I like!" (although i doubt she will say those exact words) then that is a wall, she most likely just wants to be friends,

From there you could either move in on her if the first situation applies, or if she is putting up a wall, use a BF destroyer (sorry I dont have any off hand right now) and after using that you could then go for her.

(Side note, if she has just the one friend, dont get on the bad side of her friend, it as been my experience that a girls best friend can be a game changer (they have a lot of influence on the girl)

Dont get discouraged by her Boyfriend, if you want her, go get her!

Hope I have helped!

-SG

Boyfriends mean nothing to me. I don't mean that it a bad way, like I'm trying to get a girl to cheat on him or anything. I just mean when i'm interesting in a girl that has a boyfriend or is talking to someone, i try not to let it change how i interact with them. One of the best things I think is that it's almost easier to get to know women when they have a bf or say they are talking to someone. I feel like they let their guard down. Plus, knowing that most relationships probably don't last too long, it's good to have alot of report with these girls so when they hit the market, they know what your all about. I'd keep talking to her and keep working on her. Continue to make her more comfortable and let her see what your about.

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"SodaGod" tnx man,great advices and i think that "just go for it " was all I needed to hear =)

"MILLS " tnx
I just don't want to be working on her for too long so that I don't get stuck in friendzone ... Or with the right plan I won't be ? Do you have any special suggestions?